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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 7:05pm On Mar 01, 2017
distilledwalex:

Leave the doctor out of this.. Every one had the right to be stupid... Its you that wil stand ur ground to say no.. Men are flirty in nature. .. The few cautious ones do so as a result of religion, public eyes and other factors... Remove all those and i bet all men are the same.. The fault lies with her for actingike a kid even when it seems youre an adult.
Oga leave talk....men are flirty in nature u say??....kudos....maybe when the husband will go after another woman u will defend just cos he is a man.....bunch of hypocrites

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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 7:02pm On Mar 01, 2017
[quote author=inno1love post=54177190][/quote]I said if the husband was displeased by what she did ,he should have just told her so and next time she will act differently not for him to start acting up and ignoring all her apologies for days....who does that? certainly not a mature husband

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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 5:23pm On Mar 01, 2017
AZeD1:

Bros one bottle for you. I can't believe the trash i have been reading since.
my dear u don see am oo....na so some of our men deh think.....very silly set of humans....I see no issue here that should make the man react that way except he has a skeleton in his cupboard.... the op should be careful of her man....next time if she greets a guy outside her hubby won't allow her to enter the house or stop talking to her for a week....pathetic

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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 5:09pm On Mar 01, 2017
Snow5:


Okay.....u would expect your husband to laugh over it that you gave a man your attention talk more of giving a number out? Just forget the fact that she gave out the wrong number cos I see dat as a justification on her part...


Visualise this scene....

Your husband was talking with a lady.. And to the extend he gave her his number.... And when you came home... he was telling you he gave a lady the wrong number today cos she was into him and with all shinning smile on his face..
Would you laugh it off too?

Or you would tell your husband what he did was disrespectful and he shouldn't even pass through that spot he gave the lady the number again...

Tell me the truth... Which one u go do? Laugh or vex
like I said earlier ,individuals are diff....I definitely will laugh at it most esp when I know who I married and the fact that I trust him enough to accept to be his wife.....and if for any reason I do not find it funny,I will make it clear to him that what he did didn't go down well with me....as a loving spouse he will apologize and that will be the end of it...I won't hang on it all day not to talk of close to 3days,that's rubbish....bottom line is 'know who u are with and trust them enough to be with them'....there is absolutely no point in marrying someone u can't leave at home and travel and still have peace of mind,no way

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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 5:01pm On Mar 01, 2017
obyrich:
This is the only sensible comment I have read so far! For crying out loud what's wrong with giving someone your number? The fact that she gave him a wrong number forecloses any chance of further communication with him as well makes it clear she was not interested in such. Only a deeply insecure man will make case out of this scenario.
@OP, I strongly believe there are underlying issues which triggered this reaction from your hubby that you need to iron out with him. Yes there are trust issues and you have to check yourself well.

Marriage does not confer an asocial status on one.
thank u.....u just nailed it
Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 4:59pm On Mar 01, 2017
thornapple:
Sincerely you did nothing wrong but why do i think your husband sucks?.
he sucks big time......can't be with such a person.....just for him to open up and correct her he can't ....what a husband..

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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 4:53pm On Mar 01, 2017
fm7070:
Men don't have to be an extremist in marriage.
If you wanted to cheat on him without him knowing, you could do it
he should appreciate the fact that you were open enough to tell him the whole story
all he has to do is to caution you if he doesn't like your approach
lack of trust on either side is capable of pushing married women/men to cheat
simple.....not boiling and ignoring like as if she killed someone.... smh for some husbands

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Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 4:49pm On Mar 01, 2017
athaliya:


Abeg make we hear word.
Egoistic men like you are the reason marriages are scattering. This is obviously the first time she is learning that it's a sin/crime to give out numbers.

Whatever happened to correcting in love?

I really hope you're still a teenager cus you have alot of growing up to do.
don't mind them.....this is where they display their stupid strength.....her hubby should have just told her not to give it out again,fake or not to avoid problems or cos he doesn't like it and she will take corrections ...end of story, instead of boiling like water....rubbish
Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 4:45pm On Mar 01, 2017
AZeD1:

What's the big deal in a number? It's something that can be gotten anywhere.

Let's say the doctor got her number from her hospital card, what will the husband do? Ban her from using a phone?
ask them oo....for her to give him a wrong no means she just wanna make fun of him and laugh over it with her hubby but it seems the hubby is too tight.....can't be with such a person
Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 4:43pm On Mar 01, 2017
Memyselfu2009:
NO OR AM MARRIED WOULD HAVE BEEN THE BEST THING TO SAY BUT AS FOR YOUR HUSBAND HE IS JUST BEEN JEALOUS ITS WAS RIGHT YOU TOLD HIM, I REALLY WONDER WHY HE HIS BOILING LIKE HOT WATER.... AND IF YOU GO THRU HIS PHONE HE FIT GET SIDE CHICKS OR HIM TO NO THEY GIVE GIRLS HIM NUMBER OR ASK FOR THERE NUMBER.... AS LONG AS THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU AND THE DOCTOR I NO SEE REASONS TO BE ANGRY AFTER ALL NA ONE DAY PERSON THEY MAKE FRIENDS... WE WERE NOT BORN WITH FRIENDS WE WERE ALL STRANGERS AT ONE POINT.
I wonder oo....I dont know y he should be that angry with her.....she should check the hubby wella cos na them they pretend pass....nonsense
Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by nma4god(f): 4:38pm On Mar 01, 2017
DMeanMan:


I thought only ladies had the notion that "every man" that ask for their number has an hidden not-so-hidden anymore motive.

That you now have a husband doesn't mean you're forbidden from talking to every man out there.


I really don't know what relationships are like, but I feel these are stuffs couples should laugh over not fight over.
my dear...I thought same thing.....I'm surprised at how everyone wanna chew the woman raw.....@ op....just dont give out ya no next time to avoid troubles....i would as well expect my hubby to laugh with me should such a thing occur but since individuals are diff,just learn who ur hubby is and steer clear for ya own peace of mind.....dont mind these people here blasting u unnecessarily...u know yasef and ya worth and not what some of them term u to be....

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Family / Re: It's Stupidity To Divorce Your Wife Because She Cheats On You - Nigerian Lady by nma4god(f): 7:56pm On Jan 25, 2017
fpeter:
To my fellow women, this lady's post is called Sarcasm and the Irony of life.
She simply switched roles here, we have been taught from the onset that
cheating is a man's way of life. That it is expected that a man would cheat
so the woman has to bear it.

She is switching the roles here, to see how it would taste in a man's mouth.
The same way it hurts a man to see his woman cheating is just the way it is
expected to hurt the woman. What is good for the goose is also good for the
gander...Think beyond the write up, read between the lines here ladies. STOP
ACCEPTING MEDIOCRITY.
thanks sis....u just nailed it....pls help them to understand it

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Family / Re: It's Stupidity To Divorce Your Wife Because She Cheats On You - Nigerian Lady by nma4god(f): 7:46pm On Jan 25, 2017
PaperLace:
If you missed the sarcasm in her post, just deactivate your NL account. grin

Heck!
See how angry them boys are...I am loving this reaction. Get used to it, we're all 'polygamous' in nature. tongue
spot on.....they should choke on their own vomit.....me like it

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Family / Re: It's Stupidity To Divorce Your Wife Because She Cheats On You - Nigerian Lady by nma4god(f): 7:00pm On Jan 25, 2017
dominique:
Sarcasm on point grin

She simply turned the table, gave the same silly excuses philandering men use to validate their shameless habits yet these same men are foaming in the mouth because it is coming from a woman.

Truth of the matter, infidelity is wrong but the way men are going about it, you'd think it's their birthright. Worst thing, they expect their wives to accept their crazy lifestyle, remain submissive and love them unconditionally. Can they do the same if reverse was the case? Hypocrisy and double standards everywhere
my dear u are so on point....see how mad the guys got!....u would think that they will have better sense to understand exactly what she meant but no,they can't get it cos its just their exact line of stupid excuses she used.....what a world!!.....I really enjoyed this write up

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Photos: The World In 2016. by nma4god(f): 3:56pm On Dec 24, 2016
Explorers:
A Kenyan riot police officer stomps on a protester in downtown Nairobi on May 16.

Kenyan police have tear gassed and beaten opposition supporters demanding the disbandment of the electoral authority over alleged bias and corruption.
what a horrible world
Foreign Affairs / Re: Photos: The World In 2016. by nma4god(f): 3:55pm On Dec 24, 2016
Explorers:
Infant Udai Faisal is hospitalized for acute malnutrition the Al-Sabeen Hospital in Sanaa, Yemen, on March 22. Udai died on March 24.

Hunger has been the most horrific consequence of Yemen’s conflict and has spiraled since Saudi Arabia and its allies, backed by the U.S., launched a campaign of airstrikes and a naval blockade a year ago.
very sad
Travel / Re: 2016: MS Harmony Of The Seas, World's Largest Cruise Ship In Fascinating Photos. by nma4god(f): 3:28pm On Dec 24, 2016
this is really amazing!!....woooow!....I must make it ooo so that I can take myself on exploits

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Literature / Re: Almost Perfect#nlwriters by nma4god(f): 3:50pm On Dec 22, 2016
triplemmm3:
Must you quote the whole update because of this?
sorry I had to....don't get offended biko
Literature / Re: Almost Perfect#nlwriters by nma4god(f): 2:07am On Dec 21, 2016
bibijay123:
Epilogue

Dupe

I removed the dark glasses I wore and stared at the sky. It is amazing how we take so much for granted, the sky looked so beautiful, the air smelled so fresh and the evening breeze caressed my skin gently. I took a deep breath before getting into the car, Uche looked at me and gave me a wide smile. I smiled too, happy.


Our chauffeur, Annie turned around and beamed at us. I reached out and took her hand in mine. She was more than a friend, she was family now.


“Hey guys, this is your captain speaking. Fasten your seat belts! Its time!” Annie said.


“It’s time to go home Dupe,” Uche said.


“Home” I said. I was finally back home, beside my husband. “Where my heart belonged. “Home is wherever you are Uche,”



“Awwn, that’s sweet.” Annie said, “Oh you guys! You make me want to cry!” And she started bawling.



“Oh Annie,” I said.


She got down from the car and got into the back with us. She pulled Uche and I into her arms, in a big hug.
**************************
Sylvester


“I have enough evidence to put you away forever.” I said. “You won’t go scot free this time around.” I said. “I won’t let you ruin the life of another young boy again.”


He laughed evilly and sneered.” You can’t imprison the wind.”


I laughed too and he started laughing as well until I stopped abruptly. “Two of your boys are also behind bars and they are ready to talk so they can have lesser jail terms. And oh, I have convinced them to lay all the blame on you.”



“My boys are very loyal to me, they will never betray me like you did!” Ognoni76 said, scratching his bald head.



“You mean they won’t talk? They already talked! We also know that you forced them to rape and kill a pregnant woman as a form of initiation into your evil cult”



He looked perplexed for a second. “Who told you that?” he growled.



“They are in special unit. They are being protected.” I said. “They talked, a lot.”



“Why are you doing this?” he asked.



“This is for Nonye.” I said, “And the countless innocent lives you have destroyed.’’


“Who is Nonye?”



“You will find out soon enough” I said and turned to leave.


“Wait! Remember we were once in this together! Remember you made your money through drugs! I had to change tactics when you left me! I was broke and almost homeless and the law was on my heels. I had to find a way to get back to my feet. I delved into Yahoo, something I thought was for little boys, so I recruited Dubem to be in charge of that but he duped me! All I did was to give you lot a meaningful life! See, we can still make it work again!”


“I think you are going senile because I have never met you before. I am a well-known reputable lawyer, what have I got to do with the likes of you?” I quipped.


He laughed and slapped his bulgy stomach. “I have trapped you little boy. The evidence is on your arm, you were once my protégée.” He lifted up his polo to reveal his bull head tattoo. “You have this tattoo too! Let me see how you will explain that to the judge, lawyer boy!”


I opened the buttons on my shirt while he looked on, wondering what was going on. I showed him both of my arms and he gasped. “What tattoo?” I sneered.


“Where…..where….how….” he stuttered. “ You….you…”


“See you in court” I said and sauntered away while he rattled the irons bars holding him prisoner.
*********

During the drive to the Airport, my parents huddled close to each other. They talked, held hands, whispered and giggled like school children in love. When their flight was announced, they both pulled me into their arms at the same time and gave me a fierce hug.


“Are you sure you don’t want us to go with our grandson?” Mama said in Ewe.


“He just became a father, let him enjoy his son for a while.” Dad replied. “Let him visit us as soon as he starts walking.”


I stared at the both of them. It had been ages since I heard them speak Ewe. I couldn’t believe they were speaking the once forbidden language in broad daylight. A dark skinned petite girl in Angelina blouse and short skirt walked by and called out greetings to us in Ewe.


Mama Laughed. “Did you hear that Sylvester?”


“I heard Mama,” I finally replied and they both hugged me close again.


“We love you Sly,” they both chorused. “Don’t forget to bring your son home as often as you can.”


“I promise” I said and pulled them into my arms.

****
“Hey” Annie said, walking into my living room.


“Hey” I replied, pouring her a glass.


“How’s Tom?” She asked.


“I just put him down for his nap and I am still hunting for a nanny.” I said.


“Look no more.” She said. “I will care for him.”


“Umm… Annie…. I was thinking you might be more than that. I want you to be his surrogate mom.”



“Oh really?” She said, excitedly. “Thank you Shar…Sly.”



“But there’s a tiny problem.”


“What’s the problem?” She asked.


“When he gets older, he will realize his friends have two parents living under the same roof but he only has one and that might traumatize him. So …. Well…”


“Are you asking me to move in?”


“What?” I laughed and looked shocked.” No…. I wouldn’t dare to…”


“Yes” She said. “I have always wanted to be a mother and Tom is such an adorable baby. Henceforth, no more cuss words, late nights, heavy music and we must go to church every Sunday.”


“Why?” I asked.


“We have to be model parents. We will bring him up in the way of the lord.” She replied.


“Oh” I said in surprise. “But you are a Muslim.”


“I converted.”


“When?” I asked.


“Few minutes ago. We have to get books on parenting as well and ….”


“I want to show you something.” I said and opened my shirt. “This” I pointed to my bare arm where the tattoo was.
“Oh” She said, “Well I am glad you removed it. We wouldn’t want our son thinking it’s good to have tattoos” She brought out her phone and started flipping through it.


“Annie what are you doing?” I asked.


“I want to call the movers.” She said. “We have to change some things because right now this place still looks like a bachelor’s house and we have to make it more conducive for our baby. Right?”


“Right?” I agreed.
******
Mabel

“What is the baby’s name?” I asked, looking at the sweet looking thing.


“Annie.” Dupe replied.


“Oh that’s a sweet name.” I said.


“We named her after our own Annie.”


“Yea she’s my name sake” Annie beamed.


Dupe and her Husband, Annie and the lawyer came to see us because Tade would be discharged any moment from now and we would be heading for the Airport immediately.


The doctor walked in. “he can go home now.”


“Thank you” I said happily.


The doctor walked out once again. Annie brought out a camera and waved her hand.


“Photo time.” She cried out, “Who will snap us?”


“I will.” Sylvester said.


“No, no, you get to be in the photographs too. Go get one of those starchy nurses.” Annie replied.


He sighed and walked out of the room.


“Thank you all for coming. This means so much to me” I said. “I can’t believe we are finally going back home.”


“Bell, we are going to the states.” Tade reminded me.


“That is still home. My parents and Serwa are there and they have decorated the whole house in anticipation of our coming.” I said, beaming.



“Well that’s still home.” Annie seconded. “You will be coming back when the trial starts, right?”



“Cecilia’s?” I asked. “Yes. Can I…. can I hold Tom?”


“Yes.” She said gleefully. “He might not let you hold him for long because he’s used to his mommy’s hands already. Isn’t he such a cutie?” She placed him in my arms.


I held him close to my bosoms, looking into his handsome face. He looked neither like Tade nor Funmi. He looked like himself and that pleased me. No questions will trail him later in life, looking at the lawyer and Annie you wouldn’t know he wasn’t theirs biologically.


Sylvester walked in with a young pretty nurse tucked into the crook of his arms, it was obvious he had charmed her as the poor thing was blushing and giggling.



“Uche, Dubem sent me a text. He has gone back to Malaysia.” Sylvester announced.



“Typical of him.” Uche replied.



“How did he get the money to go back?” Dupe asked and we all stared at him.



“What?” he asked. “Okay, I might have helped him a little.”



We all burst into laughter. Annie gave the camera to the nurse and we clustered around Tade on the bed.


“Say Cheese” The nurse said.


“Cheese we all chorused.”
****

Tade and Mabel headed for the Airport, Annie, Sylvester and their son drove back to their home while Uche and Dupe went house hunting. They wanted a big house with a garden where little Annie and her siblings that are yet to come will play. When Little Annie is six months old, her parents would travel to India to check if there’s a chance for her father to see again. Whether he sees again or not, we all know that Dupe would be his eyes for the rest of their lives.



THE END




Thank you all for making this book a success. Special thanks goes to those awesome readers who have been arguing back and forth over each scene, through your rich points I have been able to develop the plot. I don’t know if I have been able to pass my message (the theme) across effectively, but I do believe we all have been entertained. Thanks once again, compliments of the season to you all! *kisses*

God bless u for this ....kudos

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boa:
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pls give me link to the PTC site
Literature / Re: Oluchi (birthday Special) by nma4god(f): 12:44am On Nov 07, 2016
woooow!!....ur stories are always mind blowing,I actually thought I was in for a long read but was surprised when I saw "The End"@ OLUCHI.....it was a delicious short story,ride on dear....u r so on point.....kudos
Literature / Re: Oluchi (birthday Special) by nma4god(f): 12:42am On Nov 07, 2016
smileyterrific
Literature / Re: Oluchi (birthday Special) by nma4god(f): 8:18pm On Nov 05, 2016
I also don't wanna be left out oo......wishing u many happy returns on ur happy birthday....pls do send the story to me too....ezichimelum44@gmail.com . .thanks
Literature / Re: Heartstrings by nma4god(f): 12:12pm On Nov 03, 2016
U write well....I enjoyed this story real good...kudos
Literature / Re: Allen Avenue ( Story Of A Call Worker) by nma4god(f): 6:31pm On Nov 01, 2016
yet another mind blowing story...girl where do u get all these delicious things from??....I'm so impressed ...reading is my best hobby and u are delivering it hot to me...u aren't disappointing, kudos

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Literature / Re: Twine (A Drama Series) by nma4god(f): 2:33pm On Oct 31, 2016
gosh!!!...this is more than good and beautiful ...I can't believe my ba3 is just 2% right now and am not even worried or bothered .....girl u nailed it real well....kudos
Education / Re: 10 Pictures You Will Relate To If You Ever Schooled In A Boarding School. by nma4god(f): 8:23am On Oct 15, 2016
cooldudeng:
Don't know about you guys o but the famine and thirst just one week to the holiday ( period when we must have finished exams and waiting for the teachers to mark and prepare results) na die!

The boreholes and wells will be so dry, all the fruits on trees are all gone. No garri, no money and sad enough no work to while away time. We will just wake up and starve waiting for the dining hall to come through.

Can never forget those days

#TeamBoardingHouse all the way
u are so on point.....but even in those very dry periods, u will still see some students with provisions they saved for the next term...people deh try shaaa

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Education / Re: 10 Pictures You Will Relate To If You Ever Schooled In A Boarding School. by nma4god(f): 8:20am On Oct 15, 2016
MissHatey:
we are here ooo.

I can relate to everything grin

Gone are those days oo
same here...it was both fun and horror
Celebrities / Re: Beauty Queen Yvette Meurer & Ebony Hair Ambassador Stuns In New Photos With Dogs by nma4god(f): 2:53pm On Oct 13, 2016
Marvel1206:


you think say na all those ticks infested local bingos abi grin
don't mind him...he obviously doesn't know wat it means to have pets
Pets / Re: Is Dog Breeding That Lucrative? by nma4god(f): 6:47pm On Mar 31, 2016
younghartz:

Wishing you the best....
Av bn in sch since....I went to the vet. clinic yesterday by 17:00 inside sch bt it was already closed.
I needed help on nicky she doesn't come on heat..maybe silent heat sad
chaaaaayyaaa....sorry abt dat.....i think everyone is on break now or u went late ....u should try going bfor 3pm n maybe someone will b around to attend to u...
Pets / Re: Is Dog Breeding That Lucrative? by nma4god(f): 9:52am On Mar 31, 2016
younghartz:
Lovely cheesy
thanks....just finished exams 2days ago....i tire oo

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