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madprophet:
That should be lastchild
If am not mistaken

Exactly.

Nice one bro

apiski:
nnamdiosu please quote me.

Bro I'll try to search it because I think he deactivated his account. But when and if I do, I'll mention you

A true prophet doesn't use the word may in his prophecy.

This is more like naija bet prediction.

If you are sure you heard from God, then say it .

Let's be guided

joywendy:
Hey.

I am just seeing this. I haven't been here for a while. Pardon me. Search for me Wendzy.

No I didn't go to Delsu. Why you asking?

Ok will do

Meet a very good female chess player with the same name as yours Years back

Kaykay999:
Omo this world is full of mysteries.

Nah to settle the spirit wife or husband
My friend always settle his spirit wife every month at the river and she listens to him.
Material things,wealth,progress in any field and protection etc all these she will give to you,if only you will be loyal and avoid girls,sex

Sometimes some native doctors will break the bond with your spirit wife or husband but is very dangerous !! Don’t do it.
Settlement/peace talk will make them give you way to enjoy life
They will cease fire and understand that you need to enjoy life.Then no wahala for ur relationship
Steady sex lol
Girls will fall for you like mad !!!

No offense meant bro but...
In other words, you are saying that one should appease the devil and he will bless you and allow you live a normal life right?

If the spirit wife is not from God, then she is from the devil.

If the above is true, (which we know it is), then she serves the devil and collect instructions directly or indirectly from him.

If the above is also true, then ultimately, you are indirectly trying to appease devil.(which we all know is impossible).

We should grow above the theory/fallacy of good witches, good devil, good obanje, good spirit wife etc, and see that anything that doesn't come from God, comes from the devil which is evil.

Yes its true that temporarily, the spirit spouse blesses his/her spouse in return for faithfulness...but at the end, they cut short the spouse's joy.

There used to be a guy on Nl (can't remember his moniker) that suffered a lot in the hands of his SW and opened a diary of his interactions here. And inside I wept for him, because he really suffered. Let's pray for Gods mercy and deliverance .

Let's pray for Gods protection.
You can't make peace with a sworn generational enemy that fought your ancestors and swore to fight your successors/generation.

Peace doesn't exisit in the spirit realm for now. Always remember that.

Peace.

Explorers:
Nice seeing u around again, Hugs......


mimzyy

Hello bro, sent you a pm. Kindly reply sir

WuzzyTech:
Nigeria uses dynamic IP....... Zero effect

True...that's why I said till work to an extent.

NNFORUM:
What techniques can I use on my website to prevent one user from opening multiple accounts from the same machine (phone/PC)?

Get the IP address of the device used when registering. Then check for it whenever any user wants to register on the site.
Not 100% effective but at least to an extent.

Thanks again for this bro

My first post guys, after eduring years of torture from you all...especially cococandy

White rice and gizdodo. Tears of joy streamed down my face as I ate it. I was like...Jesus you love Me too much o

Good food is good

Vyvyanvyvy:
He will be 12 years in August , my daughter is 6 years, I have one daughter for my husband she is 2 years and I’m pregnant with another one. Their father is not in Nigeria and I don’t have his contact or his siblings. Yes I have a grocery shop I foot 70% bills in my house

Madam also, please stop stating everywhere that you foot the bill, you foot the bill. Let's use maturity and wisdom in this matter.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I foot 70% of the bills , I pay my daughter school fee including my first child with my husband I pay half of her school fee ,all my son need is a place to stay, my husband won’t be the one paying his school fee

Madam congrats, but all this info is totally unnecessary. Tomorrow, the financial table may turn, and your husband might be the one paying 100% of the bills sef, so let's keep this information about you laying the bills separately.


So back to the issue, you should understand by now that its not an issue of the bills, its the fact that there is a 90% chance your son might be a bad egg and influence his siblings if he comes. I know its hard and painful to accept (because you're a good mother and your seeing with the eyes of love and emotion, but.....your husband is seeing with the eyes of logic and facts).

The truth is, that he is married to you, doesn't mandate him to automatically share in all your baggages, BUT WITH LOVE HE CAN. But you need to also understand from his own point. Stop seeing it only with yours. Keeping malice with him don't solve the issue. You need solutions

1. Your son himself needs help. That's the key point here. Not even your husband. I sense lack of a loving home and loving parents pushed him this far. You need to strategize on pouring love to him. Any child in his shoes will feel his parents hate him, or are ashamed of him. How do we find a solution to this. (Note I said we, because I'm sincerely concerned abt this child with you ma)


2. You shouldn't have immediately opted out for an instant reunification with the child into you and your husband's home. It has to be gradual. A weekend visit, space, a week, space, a month, space, school holidays space etc.

3. Now, the reason I said this above, is because we need to prove to hubby that your child isnt altogether bad and all. Now, you have to talk facts to your child. Apologise to him for not being involved in his life...(this looks unnecessary but the mind of kids are funny, he might even be silently angry with you) advise him that his best shot at staying with you now, is his good behaviour and turning of a new leaf. Appeal to his emotional side to change.
Off course it won't be instant, but gradually.


4. Point out his good sides and expected behavioural change to hubby. Slowly and surely Hubby's mind will change. You too calm down, dont be angry or spoil things.

I'm with you on this. If you need my help or further advise, please feel free to pm me. Together, it will be all right.
Amen

Davash222:
Your siblings that are your relatives doesn't want the boy but you want your husband that is not your relative to accept the boy
You should learn to attend to your responsibilities and mistakes. Don't drag your mistakes to that innocent man. He has done more than enough for you.

Marrying a Nigerian girl with two children(not even one) is not what every man can do. That man deserves peace and respect from you.

Deep wisdom

Whizbuzz:
It was at IGBOBI COLLEGE YABA,I was in jss 3 and our ever popular principal ,M O OJUTIKU of the bournvita brain match anchor of those year's house inside the school was burning in real flames...I don't know what got into me...I was among the boys that jumped out of the window of my class and went to his story building even when the fire was razing so fast to quench it...some other colleagues got scarred by the fire but I wasn't...i was naive to do what I did...but I was glad I helped out but all in all it was a very dangerous situation... UP I.C.Y

Wow...up IC, say say say.
I remember that incident, way back in 2001. I think it was near his poultry farm.
Chai...those days, nostalgia feelings. Sighs...

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.

There is something you dont know. Something is fishy, that's all I'll say.

Born2Breed:
Imagine the Sokoto capliphate and kano emirship that are less than 200yrs is holding ground with Attack of Igala that more than 500yrs.

The same kingdom the jihadist could not conquer when Dan fodio was going mad.

Deep.

richeso:
i still need this. anyone can do this ?

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Mizwisdom:
If someone works for you will you just send him away without a reward? your Wife is threatening divorce because she knows her work load will increase in her mother's absence, her mum may also be giving her emotional support which is missing from you. Before you send her away, give her something tangible to live on for a while and promise to assist her financially if needed. She will leave asap. Good luck

1. What do u mean by workload? Is there any marriage without workload?

2. On the altar when they were being joined ad husband and wife, did the covenant include the mil? The moment he married her, the two became one

3. How can a man be threatened in his own house? It's just not right...

Anyway @OP, the above story shows the man is no longer the man if the house, and it'd so painful.
For a wife to threaten divorce for a matter like this shows the marriage has broken down since.



Solution
1. Immediately get the elders in the family to intervene. This matter is beyond the man. For this threat to be issued shows mother and daughter meeting has convened severally against you.

2. The man and wife need counselling. Serious one.

3. Prayers are also needed because I smell a ' like mother, like daughter syndrome' . i foresee see a wrestling tag team of 2 against you. May God help you , because this is truly a one chance vehicle.

Its well.

Exhibit911:
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I do. Pm me

mekzyjoe:
Pls reminder too..pls DNT delay

you gat mail sir

LagosBoi2:
Thank you Pavore, my Agric mentor over the years

Bro you really are blessed. I tell people everyday, there are and will always remain good women. not perfect, but good, the closest to perfection.
May God bless and keep you guys love for ever amen. The wicked one(s) won't see you guys amen

On behalf of me and my family, please collect one cold pack of hollandia and barbecue chicken for madam.
I'll pay when I come back from work next week please.

mekzyjoe:
Pls reminder too..pls DNT delay

I will bro.

joywendy:
It's saying username not available add me Wendzy

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Hi Wendy...I'll love to play you. Kindly explain the way to go about it on chess.com please. Also did you go to delsu?