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Mature advice needed!!!!
Married for 10 years now, have an adopted daughter due to fertility issues.
Everything was going on well until I needed to get a maid to assist with house chores temporarily due to my change of work schedules which warranted longer tedious hours outside the home. Moreover I needed someone to help look after my child when she returns from nursery class when I'm not around during the day.

In March 2016, I got a maid but my husband called me aside one day & said he observed how I shield the maid from getting close to him in the house & that he as the man of the house is not 'free' in his own house. He went further to say, my actions prove I'm suspecting he will want to have something to do with the maid.

For the 1st time in my marriage of 8 years then, my husband & I had a very heated argument that he threatened me by saying if I decide to send her away, I must also leave.
I replied him that if I should leave, I will go with at least half of what I brought into this marriage, not all o! So that people won't say I'm a bad person, so I'll go with at least half.
I had met him earning 6k monthly in 2002 & I introduced my business idea to him which we now run jointly as a family business. By the Grace of God, we earn comfortably that he has now become the bread winner in his own family. His Siblings look up to him constantly for financial help.
My inheritances gotten on two occasions from my late grandparents & parents, were used to buy & build our first property in the outskirts of Lagos. I went further to sell my first car to Roof the building because I realised he is not a futuristic person & he is not financially empowered enough to get a property so I felt since we are husband & wife, why not I assist financially to ensure his head is lifted up continually. Between last year December & today, I gave him another 7 figures to purchase a building in his hometown so that we can have a place to retire to. Then the first building in Lagos will be put up for rent.

When he realised I was serious with my counter-threat on the maid issue, he relaxed & travelled the next day to see his Mom.
While in his hometown, he called me & said his Mom's Pastor gave his Mom a revelation that I (her Son's wife) should stop all medical interventions for now & wait for God's time to give us one biological child.

I foolishly (well, submissively) accepted. Only for him to come back from the trip & cajoled me to accept him to have s.x with the maid so that she can give us a biological child.
Readers, my life started falling into pieces from that day.

After some weeks, he begged me to go lodge in a hotel to spend the night there so that he can have his way with the maid in our home. Ha!!!! I refused but he blackmailed me by saying, I do know he has been treated & certified medically OK so I am the one with the issue that has caused delays for years. Also, the revelation that I should stop all medical interventions ( we've done sooooo many medical interventions in these years of waiting, all to no avail).

I accepted to go to the hotel, which he paid for. This happened on 3 different occasions within the space of 1 month plus.
A day to the day I'll go to the hotel to stay, I'll be sooo moody & irritated that he will say (why am I blocking his chances of having his biological child after I've wasted many years of his life childless. Our adopted child is from is his late relative, so he still needs his own direct blood.

I would go for business meetings & sometimes take bike (okada) to journey Long distances so as to meet up to close deals, only for me to come back into the house to meet him & the maid alone in the house while my daughter will be playing with her mates in the neighbor's apartment.
He would return home before noon & they'll spend the day together. I forgot something at home one day & decided to go back to pick it up, by the time I left the house & them inside, I was devastated that day, I was depressed, I became almost insane & emotionally imbalanced. I didn't know I was talking to myself on my way out on the road, a neighbour tapped my shoulder from behind & I was jolted back to realise I was on the road trekking a wrong direction to my office.

After about 5 months, I started chatting daily with someone I met via social media, we started out as having same investment orientation, from there we became close on phone via WhatsApp, we would discuss family issues, marital issues, financial issues & all sorts. I realised he was someone I could talk to easily & pour out my heart to. I was also his phone companion. We didn't meet physically until 4 months after. We met & had s.x in 2017 after so much togetherness on phone.

I felt guilty because I never had s.x with any other man aside my husband for over 9 years +. My husband had been suspecting me & confronted me with proofs of my infidelity. He reported me to my Aunt. I told my Aunt (in his presence) what I went thru in his hands during the maid issues, she blamed both of us & kinda settled the issues.

The maid got pregnant & it had a complication because according to the doctor, she took some substances to abort the pregnancy. I had mixed feelings when she lost the pregnancy. Sad, that I had lost the opportunity to finally make my husband a father. She left after the evacuation & never returned.
My husband became sober & scared all thru the pregnancy complication issues because he was worried she could die & the law will be after him. I had to help him make sure she was well taken care of in a good clinic & prayed & fasted for everything to end well.

I got another maid because my clients were giving me more contracts to work on & this time, this new maid herself decided to leave on the grounds that my husband threatened to kill her if she doesn't have s x with him. She had to call the agent that brought her to come take her away, next day. My husband denied all allegations even till today.

I decided, no more maids.

Just two days ago, I refused him s.x because he accused me of still cheating. He says anytime he sees me 'holding my phone', he will have a recall of my infidelity episode & he'll get terribly infuriated. He will say I have gone to do it with someone else so I don't want him. He has beaten me on several occasions & I have told him that I have severed the relationship & communication between I and the guy. I have also proven this to him but he wouldn't understand. I get his point but his insecurity feelings is toooo much. He would threaten me & beat me. In 2017, I had to write to Ministry of Women Affairs in Alausa but I told them not to take action yet because he later apologized. I gave him a copy of the letter I wrote to Alausa. The ministry called to check up on me & u assured them all us well now. Ever since I dropped the letter, he never beats me again but he would threaten me emotionally & psychologically.

When he realised I was going to leave the marriage, he begged & begged me. Saying I should know that he can never carry out his threat, that we've been together since 2001 as friends before marriage so I should be able to tell what he's capable of.

He also indirectly said if I leave, the business will crumble but at that point, I didn't care anymore about the family business that gives us 7 figures + monthly. He knows that the business is my idea. I learnt it for 7 years before we started. Till date, I bring in the biggest chunk of the income because he handles some clients while I handle some. My clients are the biggest. I believe this is his greatest fear.

Yesterday night, he made me listen to Lionel Richie (I'll rather spend bad times with you, than spend good times with someone else).

If I leave this marriage, I don't see myself getting married again. Highest, I do surrogacy or adoption to have a child. I loved this man with my whole existence before the cookie started to crumble. I won't allow any man make me his ATM.

Right now, I'm in a mess & I need words from matured married Nairalanders.

Thank you in advance

Hello ma. Its OK...everything is gonna be fine.
Truth is...the solution or advise to be given concerning this issue are too much. They can't be said at once because from my experience, there are a lot of things to be said that I'm sure u didn't say (becos of time).

I'll break down my advice from my small bank of experience...

1. Funny as it may sounds...your husband still loves you.

2. You still love him and want to do every and anything to rectify the issue. And that's courageous of you.

3. You were 100% percent as wrong as your husband was concerning the maid issue, that was the opening of this issues. You should never have consented to the issue with the maid. Unknown to you...you encourage and supporter his adultery.

4. Despite all...I detect a very caring, devote and nice mother in you.....(note I said mother not wife. Cos if toy are patient, you will bear your own child by Gods grace). You have a good heart. But you allowed him to play on your submissiveness.

5. Despite all...God can still repair your marriage. Its going to be difficult. But its possible if both of you are ready. But even if you are ready alone sef, it can be repaired (but it will be more harder)

6. Something is definitely wrong somewhere. There are still many questions I'll like to ask...to fully understand this
Would you like to anonymously chat with me?
But if you don't want to...its still fine. You and your husband will need to go for counselling. From someone you both respect and look up too. Maybe a father figure......or pastor. Etc
Don't despair. Its going to be all right OK? Many had worse than this and it came out well. Yours can too.

2morogobeta:
my mother died of cancer

im ashamed

please dont judge me

im ashamed because of the following reasons...

1. i was a born again christian always talking about God / and always so focused on my future.. those who were atheists / were not serious back then.. are now doing better than me, whilst me who was a christian has a destroyed life including dead mother

2. HEAR ME OUT FIRST! in the year 2012... I did mock some people who had a dead parent (when i was a teen)
example :

a. a girl who was supposed to be my friend when we were in school but started to bully me... so in anger i wrote her a message and in the message i did write that her dead father would be ashamed of her for that behaviour

b. a boy who started to maltreat me because i did not give into his sexual wishes i said to him in anger that it is good that his dad is dead so he doesnt have to see what type of horrible son he has

c. a girl who was supposed to be my friend started to bully me.. so in anger i told her she will die of that her illness and God hates her

d. finally, when i had a mental break down/ so mentally unwell i went to a psychiatric hospital, i tweeted to rihanna that it is good her grandmother is dead, and i also told another celebrity that i did not like that her mother will die young


... i have not done such since then and i never will..

but i feel as though is this my bad karma?

im so ashamed.

No.its nor karma. Pls stop blaming yourself OK.
Its going to be all right. Tomorrow is going to be better OK? I sent u a message on ur email.
Please reply me. In case you want to talk ..I'm here for u.
Its going to be fine. Promise

If I may add to what other people has said....
1. I use Gtb. With Gtb, with Gtb, there is a type of account called target account. Its like another account inside your normal account. Any money shipped there can't be transfered to another account, withdrawn or seen from an ATM etc. It virtually doesn't exist. So what I do it...I move money to it and only money I need in a specific period e.g 2 days to it.

2. No matter the millions in your account, if you ever meet those big bros in the boss DON'T EVER WITHHOLD ANY INFORMATION FROM them. GIVE THEM YOUR PINS TO ALL CARDS ON YOU.

ITS WELL. OP Pele.

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If snakes are now swallowing money....isn't it normal to expect the gods (that recession has equally enter their realm) to swallow money too?

The truth is the mindset of Nigerians needs to seriously be worked on before we as a nation can prosper....either financially, spiritually or economically.
For Gods sake, any marriage can fail. Any marriage can be successfully.
Yes, granted that inter tribal marriages has its own peculiar challenges, it doesn't mean that people who sincerely enter it won't succeed. For Gods sake, intra tribal marriages also fail too. So what are we not saying?

Marriages from people of different tribes will prosper and can prosper if both parties do their best to stay the best. Its God that keeps a home standing....not money or same tribe or same language.
Wisdom is profitable to direct

Shebi even in the illustration, its oyibo children that are they're bah? So no need for me to talk. Till I see mummy shakirat and shakirat in the illustration.....then I'll know you're referring to us.

Frankicent:
Good morning all I just woke up now . I don't know if anyone have the gift of interpretation of dreams. @CharlyG1 and others if you can help me out.

Normally would use my real account for this. must had too.. Am facing a downfall in my academic aspects it's really affecting to a point I was ask to charge to another department of continue if I can. My parent suggested I shouldn't that I can still make it.
I yield to there advice and didn't change. Now a new session is on now. I saw my result to my surprise my GP is even degrading the more. I was ashamed cause of carryovers and my inability to cope. I intentionally picked this department cause, of my love for technology. Unaware it will punish me later. Now I have decided to change the main problem is I"ll have to go back to 200Level...
Am not that much of a strong Christian I must confess. Sometimes I get angry and deprive my self of faith cause, of frustration.

Yesterday night I prayed and ask God to help me maybe I should switch department to survive the war... Most of my Friend's don't want me to change. Only few suggest I change so my Go will be solid. After praying yesterday, I asked for forgiveness and slept off... I woke up few min's from now.. maybe 9:40am or so..

In the dream I was in a rush sweating I left the school to bank outside school. Just like we are to pay school fees or pay the late registration fees... You know how students will rush to pay. So I rush to town so I"ll pay for something. which I don't know. Immediately I got to the bank I saw my friend he wasn't from my dept.. A sport mate. I smiled at him and ask if he was to pay the fee too... I don't know what fee... So I checked my time in dream I was at midnight maybe 1-4am .. I asked him way are there so much guys waiting to pay this fee by this time.. including myself. He cause, if they wait till tomorrow morning the multitude will be unbelievable. So night banking will ease there chances.
I said OK no wonder... So I went to a sit. I sat next to a girl maybe my peer mate or bit other ...Maximum 27 year's. She collected my phone was checking pictures or something. I dont what she was checking.

immediately, the security man came and ask me to stand I asked why. He said everyone am seeing here. There names are pen down so there wouldn't be cheat or so... He meant.. The number of person's sitting and waiting will be the once to pay there due today. That I should come tomorrow morning.

Immediately I became again and told him never after I was Tfare in a hurry coming to this bank am not going no where. We started struggling.. It was a big commotion ooo... He insisted I go and come the following morning. I refuse to get my chance of listing my name on the book.. I had to bribe and beg the man.. He still refused. I became helpless. I thought to my self. Saying how can I come to the bank by this time at mid morning and was asked to go and come back the following morning... When the next day will be to late. So hid myself sat down. The security guard came again. This time forcing me to go ... He created an scene. I said am not going everyone where looking at us. Then I saw that my sport mate . With anger I vexed at him and told him why didn't he notify him he was coming here.. Now they want to throw me out forcefully it got to a point the manager had to come and force me outside. I felt defended and changed my mind to go.
So I went to that girl I gave my phone and told her am going she gave me that sad I want you to stay look.. As I was about going something change my mind immediately my leg was about closing the gate. Just like that I went back bank and confronted the security guard who chase.
He said sometimes which I don't remember. So we dr
Stylishly I befriended him since fighting him wasn't helping... I notice he was giving up his stubbornness but still want me to Good. i don't know what happened I saw the guard, manager and those workers who wanted me to go... They all left the company.. Maybe there time for that day has finish.. I worked outside the gate and saw it's dawn... Maybe 8pm..

So I went to the bank and check the logbook surprisedly, I saw my name on number 35 maybe 39 . I know it's between 35-39... So I went to sit where I was before.. I saw the girl I sitting with preparing to good... A small girl maybe 5-8 years came and said " Momi are we going " She didn't reply she look all sad. Me didn't mind her. I just went to a different section and saw my course mates... My junior and mate.. Some where smiling and calling my name...Maybe I was going the wrong direction. I heard 1 voice and went to him/her... I saw them preparing maybe reading for an exam... I just smile and work closer to them. Immediately I woke up... Seems like a movies scene to me I didn't understand. Right now I"ll be going to school to start my processing of changing department.

That's all...

Modify ur post pls...to many errors to understand. Thanks

Talk2nanro:
. First of all, let me start by saying that The verse you mentioned " Esau i have hated and Jacob i have loved" does not mean personal love for the individual but the character. God already knows everyones action before you were even conceived, have you read this verse " I am God , i know the beginning from the end and the end from the beginning "? Have you heard about the book of Jasher which was mentioned severally in the bible? (Jasher 26 vs 17 )" And the boys grew up to their fifteenth year and they came among the society of men, Esau was a designing and deceitful man and an expert hunter in the field, and Jacob was a man perfect and wise dwelling in tents, feeding flocks and learning the instructions of the LORD and the command of his parents". So from this verse it already disproves the fact that Esau was without sin. After reading this book, you will change your opinion immediately about Esau. Now what is this birthright? is was a piece of land purchased by Abraham for burial ground which Abraham gave to Isaac, and Isaac to Esau as the firstborn. But after Esau killed king Nimrod, he was pursued by his guard and came back wasted and about dying , he asked Jacob for food and he would give him the food on the account of him selling the land to him. Now look at Jacob, he was a shepherd of sheeps and that represents the ways God through Jesus( The Shepherd ) and we the children of God (the sheeps) God has and will always be a God of signs. Now note that birthright represents spiritual birthright( the isreal of God: Christians) and not physical. If you have more questions or confused about something , feel free to ask. Am not very good at explaining things online.

Hello bro. In as much as I understand that you are trying to prove a point that I believe u are right on....its not advisable to place your belief and trust in any book apart from the bible.
Also.....Jacob wasn't innocent or sinless per say....he was also a supplanter or a cunning person. A 419 and scammer too.
But its fine. Pls let's let this issue drop guys. Thanks

I sent u a pm. Maybe we can talk more later.
But very briefly....this is a very serious issue. In as much as your husband has his faults...I believe you also have yours (its a two way thing)

But short term solution. Never get into arguments with him. If u notice him boiling...just wake away. Ensure not to discuss on issues that bring arguments.

Are there people he respect back here in Nigeria? Not just anyone o...people he really respects and listen to. Maybe you have to call them and seek their help.

God is key. Marriage needs more of him. Take it to God.

Cant say much here. Maybe when u reply my pm we can talk. Its going to be fine ok? This is just a phase that will pass.

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hotgirl1000:
yes, it is I Farida

in real life I am strong

but here I come here and lament

I feel so down.

i miss her so much, i feel ashamed and sad.. and angry.

Hello dear....
I feel.your pain. U just need to grieve. Don't hold your emotions back. Express them out...then slowly you'll start getting better. I'm here if u need a shoulder to cry on or talk too OK.
Its gonna be all right

Arondizuogu:
I don't have that stellar relationship with God to ask him how I feel. I am a Lord's prayer and small prayer person who doesn't believe in speaking in tongues and Big powerful prayer. So I don't know how to, I haven't asked God to talk to me before, I just say my Lord's prayer and move.

On my third question which I asked earlier; I want to change congregation to Latter DAY Saints, but I'm so confused because of its different doctrine from the one I grew up in. Any insight?
Thanks and bless your Saturday.

Hello again bro..
The stellar relationship with God isn't really a big process. It just involves you talking to him everyday and keeping away from the things you feel he wouldn't like.
Now..for your third question....its tricky. I won't say yes or no. Instead I'll just explain one or two things to you and hope by God's grace you won't make the wrong decision.

The church of latter day saints is also the church of Mormon.
Mormon is a demon, the god of wealth.
Mormon is the guiding angel and patron of the church of later day saints.
Demons are evil and not to be interacted with under no circumstances.
Demons work against own own good.
Mormon is a demon.
Jesus said in the bible.....can a man serve both God and Mormon? Nay...but he can only choose one or the other...(paraphrased)

So based on this what do you think?
You can pm me privately if you want to talk or unburdern your mind.
Peace

Arondizuogu:
Exactly what you said is the problem. God cannot be questioned I know, but there are things in the Bible that gives me chills. After reading that passage again and again, it dawned on me that Esau had no sin and yet condemned. That means that some people are already condemned for no sin of theirs. Romans 20 downwards wrote about the powers of God, unquestionable and all powerful. It gives me chills that some individuals were created not to live their lives to the fullest but be vessels that would be destroyed later on.
The God of the old testament and the God of new testament seems different. Thanks though for the gracious input.

You welcome bro.

But it hurts me that it appears you didn't really get me.
Like I said before....no one should defend God. He can't also be explained. He can just be known, experienced, etc.

Why don't u ask him directly all this questions. Talk to him like you would your earthly best friend. Tell him all you just told me here, exactly how you feel about him.
He won't be angry. He won't dismiss you.
He understands you more than you understand yourself.
I know because I once talked to him about my confusion about him and life.
Although I admit I was waiting for one loud voice to boom and talk back to me...
But it didn't work that way for me (although it does for others)
But instead, he spoke to me through the best way he knew I, (an introvert) would understand better. Observation and contemplation.

He showed me the way a father held his child lovingly to himself.
He showed me how a scientist spends time creating an invention and rejoiced over it greatly.
He showed me in the way my own father didn't give up on me when I had an extension in school again....
He showed me in the way a mother hen would lay down her life for her chicks..
Lastly, he showed me when he sent his beloved son to die for my sins.
I've look into the eyes on the son directly one day. And when I looked at the son, I saw the love the father had for me.......multiplied by the same love the son had for me.
The son smiled at me...he actually laughed at what I said to me. And when he laughed I knew that it was going to be all right. I knew that despite my sins...he still loved me.
I admit that there are still so many things I don't get...or even understand from God.
But I take solace in the fact that...when I held my god daughter in my arms as she wanted to cross the street, (because a car could come up and hit her)...I DID IT OUT OF LOVE FOR HER, EVEN THOUGH SHE DIDNT UNDERSTAND. EVEN THOUGH SHE CRIED AND WAS CONFUSED.
Life is full of sorrows. Everyone has their share. But one day its going to be all right. I know because. Ive felt what it feels like at the end of it all.
Its well.
Peace

Bro. Its well.
Firstly pls don't make the mistake of calling the guy to leave your wife alone etc. I
Secondly......you have to call a family matter into this issue. This issue is beyond you now.
I just hope what I'm thinking isn't the issue.
Lastly...for the same of your kids at least...please call her.
Lastly....it would have been good to specify her age. Is she also working or into trade? Its well. Amen

Arondizuogu:
Thank you for insight. But read Romans 9:11-13, you would see what the Bible wrote. I want you to read it and write it here.
The catholic church is called the Roman Catholic Church because of the Eastern Western schism.
Read this passage please and tell me about it, help a brother.

Hello bro. Thanks for the response

Romans 9:11-13 says....

For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth

12 It was said unto her, The elder shall serve the younger.

13 As it is written, Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.

That's it bro. However I understand your point. The above scriptures appear as if God favoured one of the twins above the other. But remember my earlier expression. I explained something to u concerning me and you watching a film (that I have watched before) together.
Now listen . I'll reexplain based on that same example. Whilst you and I are watching the film together.......we might see an actor that gives birth to two twins. Beautiful babies. Now because I've watched the film before , I know that one of the twins (let's say the first born, will decide to kill his father and mother when he grows up. Now, I KNOW THIS BECAUSE IVE WATCHED THE FILM TO THE END WHERE I SAW THE BEAUTIFUL TWINS GROW UP INTO ADULTS AND COMMIT DIFFERENT ACTIONS. Now, because of this knowledge I know (WHICH YOU DONT KNOW YET), I now tell you as we are watching the film together that, I HATE THIS ELDER TWIN, I PREFER HIS YOUNGER BROTHER TO HIM. BUT YOU DONT KNOW WHY.
EVENTUALLY, AS THE FILM PROGRESSES SOMEONE COMES INTO THE ROOM WHERE WE ARE WATCHING IT AND YOU TELL THE PERSON THAT I SAID I PREFER THE YOUNGER TWIN TO THE ELDER TWIN. THE PERSON NOW LOOKS AT ME AND SAYS IM PARTIAL BECAUSE ALL HE SEES ARE TWO YOUNG AND INNOCENT BEAUTIFUL BABIES. but what I see is the END FROM THE BEGINNING.

Now get this bro. IM NOT DEFENDING GOD. INFACT NO ONE SHOULD DEFEND GOD. GOD IS......GOD. HE DOES AS HE PLEASES. REGARDLESS OF WHAT HE DOES....EVERYTHING HE DOES IS PERFECT AND JUST.
The same scripture that u pointed out for me to read explains this too.
If you read verse 20 of the same scripture you pointed out....it says.....SHALL THE THING THAT WAS FORMED, OR CLAY IN THE HANDS OF A POTTER TELL THE POTTER....WHY DID U DO THIS?
I also want you to read from 20 downwards and post it here too for others to read and follow too.
EVEN EARTHLY KINGS, THAT ARE SOVEREIGN WILL DO AND UNDO AND NO ONE WILL QUESTION THEM. IS IT NOW THE CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH THAT WILL ACT AND MAN OR SPIRIT WILL QUESTION HIM?

I'll repeat what I said before. THE WAY OF GOD IS NOT THE WAY OF MAN.
peace bro. Thanks for the time shared in educating one another

Arondizuogu:
I feel that Esau was wrongly condemned. He was cheated, hated and condemned and yet his descendents were killed off. Too much of an ill faith for one man.
On Jacob, I don't know, he obviously didn't deserve the birthright to me.

Hello bro. Welcome again (with a different moniker)
I love people that have open mind esp towards spiritual things and want to learn.
Now point of correction sir, God didn't condemn Esau. God didn't praise Jacob. GOD SIMPLY TOLD HER THE OUTCOME OF WHAT THE TWO CHILDREN WILL DO WHEN THEY would HAVE BEEN BORN .

Its like I've watched a film yesterday from the beginning to the end. Then I rewind it again for you to watch. And while we are watching the film I now start telling what what will happen? Dies it mean I control the actors to do what i said? No. I'm merely telling you what will happen based on the fact THAT I KNOW.
Although most times it appears that God is partial. But that isn't true. I'll explain with another illustration.

There are some knowledge of people and events that makes God act in certain ways. Ways that we can't understand. Actually do u realize that when man sinned and God sent Jesus to die for man, it appeared as if God was partial because when the angels were deceived by Lucifer and sinned, God cast them out.
BUT THE WAY OF GOD IS NOT THE WAY OF MAN. GOD ACTS BECOS HE KNOWS ALL, IS IN ALL AND IS OUTSIDE ALL.

2. Concerning the issue of the pope that you raised earlier on.......the catholic church truly in all ramifications isn't practising Christianity... THAT IS why THEY ARE CALLED THE ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH. SIMPLE. THE ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH IN ENGLISH MEANS THE CATHOLIC CHURCH OF THE ROMANS.

NO MAN IS INFAILABLE OR MORE HOLY THAN OTHERS.
JESUS IS OUR meditator... Not Mary or pope etc
Reverencing statues and keeping the images in one corner of our house isn't biblical.
Baptism of babies isn't biblical.
Commanding men not to marry isn't biblical
HOW EVER THERE ARE STILL CHILDREN OF GOD THERE THAT GOD IS CALLING OUT DAILY. ALSO NO CHURCH (EVEN TRUE BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCHES ARE PERFECT EITHER, THERE ARE STILL SOME practices NOT biblical THAT THEY perform TOO)
Etc.I don't want to go in that but read the above asking the holy spirit to shed more light.

Peace.

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Classic explanation. OP u too much. Please go and collect one Bottle of malt from that shop down the road. Tell her that I'll pay when I come back from work.

Bro...its difficult to read code on a web page like this. Therefore simply state the problem you are having to make it easier to help you...or better still what u want to do so we can help you straight away.
Peace

This really touched me. Needed this . thanks sir. Ur a blessing.

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Etc...by the time you total....you getting up to 700k give or take

Tboy80:
Good day everyone. I need a quotation/estimate for how much it would cost to develop a website with features similar to "Google Classroom" ,where students can collaborate with their instructors and peers, share useful resources, update time table, etc.
Would be grateful if the web developers in the house can help me with an estimated budget as i would like to kick-off this project next month.

Hi bro,
There isn't any fixed price per say. It largely depends on the server and type of hosting you intend to use, e.g a dedicated server or vps (which is more ideal, is expensive and would add to the total cost).
But if you will start small and be scaling up with time (which is advisable) , 700k give or take will do.

We have a recruitment software called hr master for either sale or lease.
The features are...

1. Applicants can apply directly to the website and submit their CV and other personal details (no need to have them mass mail it to your email and block/fill up your email space).

2. Admins create online tests and set it up as current test. From the application, admin sends one email message that is sent to all applicants about the date, link and time of their test.

3. Applicants are then scheduled for an online test assessment (no need for paper work tests or for applicants to travel to the Venue). They can attempt it from anywhere in the world....even on their phones.

4. Applicants get their score and grade immediately they attempt the exam. Notification is sent via email or SMS to them and the admin.

5. After test, admin then sets cut off mark and immediately the application screens and gives him the applicants that passed based on the cutoff mark supplied.

6.list of successful applicants can even be exported directly to excel and printed out.

Application eliminates stress and saves time. Simple as ABC

In case you or anyone you know would require a working demo pls get in touch with us at info@libertydigitalsolution.com or visit http://hrmaster.libertydigitalsolution.com/adminlogin.php

Thanks

We have a recruitment software called hr master for either sale or lease.
The features are...

1. Applicants can apply directly to the website and submit their CV and other personal details (no need to have them mass mail it to your email and block/fill up your email space).

2. Admins create online tests and set it up as current test. From the application, admin sends one email message that is sent to all applicants about the date, link and time of their test.

3. Applicants are then scheduled for an online test assessment (no need for paper work tests or for applicants to travel to the Venue). They can attempt it from anywhere in the world....even on their phones.

4. Applicants get their score and grade immediately they attempt the exam. Notification is sent via email or SMS to them and the admin.

5. After test, admin then sets cut off mark and immediately the application screens and gives him the applicants that passed based on the cutoff mark supplied.

6.list of successful applicants can even be exported directly to excel and printed out.

Application eliminates stress and saves time. Simple as ABC

In case you or anyone you know would require a working demo pls get in touch with us at info@libertydigitalsolution.com or visit http://hrmaster.libertydigitalsolution.com/adminlogin.php

Thanks

We have a recruitment software called hr master for either sale or lease.
The features are...

1. Applicants can apply directly to the website and submit their CV and other personal details (no need to have them mass mail it to your email and block/fill up your email space).

2. Admins create online tests and set it up as current test. From the application, admin sends one email message that is sent to all applicants about the date, link and time of their test.

3. Applicants are then scheduled for an online test assessment (no need for paper work tests or for applicants to travel to the Venue). They can attempt it from anywhere in the world....even on their phones.

4. Applicants get their score and grade immediately they attempt the exam. Notification is sent via email or SMS to them and the admin.

5. After test, admin then sets cut off mark and immediately the application screens and gives him the applicants that passed based on the cutoff mark supplied.

6.list of successful applicants can even be exported directly to excel and printed out.

Application eliminates stress and saves time. Simple as ABC

In case you or anyone you know would require a working demo pls get in touch with us at info@libertydigitalsolution.com or visit http://hrmaster.libertydigitalsolution.com/adminlogin.php

Thanks

We have a recruitment software called hr master for either sale or lease.
The features are...

1. Applicants can apply directly to the website and submit their CV and other personal details (no need to have them mass mail it to your email and block/fill up your email space).

2. Admins create online tests and set it up as current test. From the application, admin sends one email message that is sent to all applicants about the date, link and time of their test.

3. Applicants are then scheduled for an online test assessment (no need for paper work tests or for applicants to travel to the Venue). They can attempt it from anywhere in the world....even on their phones.

4. Applicants get their score and grade immediately they attempt the exam. Notification is sent via email or SMS to them and the admin.

5. After test, admin then sets cut off mark and immediately the application screens and gives him the applicants that passed based on the cutoff mark supplied.

6.list of successful applicants can even be exported directly to excel and printed out.

Application eliminates stress and saves time. Simple as ABC

In case you or anyone you know would require a working demo pls get in touch with us at info@libertydigitalsolution.com or visit http://hrmaster.libertydigitalsolution.com/adminlogin.php

Thanks