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Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 4:42am On Mar 27, 2009

@DaPhoenix and @stillwater and @sistawoman,

Yes i know some guys can be jackasses sometimes, u just have to understand in as much as some ladies have crushes on certain men, likewise does some men have crushes on certain ladies, hence the reason for some irrational behaviour by certain men towards certain women during chatting or conversation, those guys can#t help themselves , so please try and be gentle with them even as u exert ur authority of rejecting their advances.

I support quickly being upfront with the guy in a way that he would know that u are not interested no matter what, and also let the guy know that any further discussion about issues of love and/ romance is not welcomed hence that u don't want such from him in any form or manner.

Please also realise that the persistence of your own men , is probably what made u say yes to them in the long run, so don't crucify every man for being attracted to you, men are just being men,

The difference however is those men that know when to stop chasing once you ladies clearly tell them u are not interested in anything,

Romance › I Love my Negroid 'black Sisters' more than Caucasian 'white Sisters' by No2Atheism(op): 4:34am On Mar 27, 2009

1. Yes [/b]I like tall and slender light complexioned '[b]black women' with an above average boobs and long legs, i have always had a thing for them for quite a while now.

However what i don't understand is that what is it that some black guys find in white women, cus apart from the thrill factor indoctrination created by exposure to pornograpy and mass media indoctrination, I frankly consider black women to be more beautiful than white women both in the short and long term definitions of beauty and also from the natural angle. To understand where I am coming from, ask yourself whether or not you would want to be caught dead with either Kelly Rowland (without make-up) or Kate Moss (without make-up). You can check their pictures below.

2. I am not a racist, even though i know some people would think this a racist post.

3. I can't date nor marry a white woman because they are simply not to my taste, nevertheless that does not stop me from being friends with them.

4. I believe well groomed black women have the best skins on the planet.

5. White women tend to age/get old and lose their beauty much faster, hence partly the reason why plastic surgery is much more rampant amongst white women as they get older.

6. Black women age better and more gracefully, in fact sometimes its tempting to say that its seems black women get more beautiful with age,

7. White women are not naturally blessed with 'backside' and 'frontside' hence their need for all the fake boob jobs and butt enhancements.

8. Common Sense seems to be easier to find amongst black women than amongst white women.

9. White women are high maintenance as a result of issues raised in points 5, 6, 7.

10. Even the fashion trends of tanning corroborate that fact the black skin is a beauty to behold.

11. Black Women have full luscious lips, something being copied by white women with the various lip enhancement surgeries,

12. Finally here are my choices amongst black women

Fat - Hell No

Skinny and short - No
Skinny and Tall - Yes

Hourglass and short - No
Hourglass and Tall - Yes

Curvy and short - No
Curvy and Tall - Yes

White ladies - Hell No
Ebony ladies - Yes

Black Lady or White Lady with any hint of cosmetic surgery - Hell No
Black Lady with natural attributes - Yes

I love my Black Sisters , its not my fault, I WILL TAKE THEM OVER ANY WHITE WOMAN ANY TIME ANY DAY,

Infact am still hurting from the fact that 'Toyosi20' is already in a relationship hence no hope for me ,

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 4:15am On Mar 27, 2009

stillwater:
Erhmm are we going around in circles?

Extreme conditions--- such as the lingering pests hanging around sistawoman.

The mad side is often suppressed, but comes in handy in situations like this.

okay now it is clearer,

But on a more serious note do u realise that sometimes what happens is that the man is completely head over heels for the woman so much so that he simply can't take it even if the woman says no,

remember , 'when a man loves a woman', he's bound to do stupid and irritating things, those things become more irritating if the woman does not love the man back or if the woman is already in a relationship (in which case the love becomes lust leading to adultery)

My advise is just that you ladies should just be as truthful with the guys as much as possible so that they would know from the word go that u are not interested,

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 4:01am On Mar 27, 2009

stillwater:
Extreme conditions also unleash the mad side of me.

is that so,

2. which extreme condition

3. which mad side

Romance › Re: What Does It Mean To Be Romantic? by No2Atheism(m): 1:53am On Mar 27, 2009

Being romantic will really depend on your girl. For me the small things matter the most such as:

Random notes left where I will find them
The touch in the small of my back when I am in the kitchen cooking
Opening the door for me
Showing up unexpected at work with lunch
Leaving a greeting card on the bed for me to find when I get home
Rubbing my feet after a long day at work
Holding my hair when I am sick and vomiting
Rubbing my back or stomach when I have cramps
Calling me or texting me when I am sick inquiring about my health
Giving me that loving stare from across a crowded room
Whispering little nothings in my ear
Picking me up something for my favorite hobby
Carrying me to bed
Kissing me passionately
Telling me how much you love me and need me in your life
Cooking a meal for me
Helping me in the kitchen while I cook a meal
Teaching me how to prepare your favorite meal
Jazz concerts (the free ones are the best)
A walk in the park
A long ride for no reason other than to talk
Taking a ride in the mountains as the leaves start to change
Going away for the weekend w/o the kids, cell phones or other distractions

I could go for days but this should get you started. The spontaneity sometimes is often very romantic.

1. wow all of a sudden i am jealous of ur husband

2. We the singles shall also soon be there,

Giving me that loving stare from across a crowded room

3. much love and many other things is said and shared just by staring at each other oblivious to the outside world.

4. that is one simple test to use to find if two people are really in love, public show of affection just with the eyes in a crowded area (so romantic)

,

All of a sudden, the fact dat Toyosi20 is already in a relationship becomes more painful,

WHY, WHY, WHY, WHY me

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 1:20am On Mar 27, 2009

@bluespice

dearie when u see the word unavailable on a
job ad do u still tender ur application?

@bluespice

again n2a u see wat i was talking about?

1. I think @iice is using the principle i mentioned cus she's straight forward, sincere and blunt.

2. she is not practising what u were talking about.

@sistawoman

why is that Nigerian men think that since I am an American I can some how help them get from Nigeria to America?

And when I tell them I dont know any agencies recruiting overseas, I dont know how to get you from Nigeria to America other than to board a plane and come here, I dont know how to get you a student visa, I dont know how to get you a work visa, do they not believe me?

1. hahahahahahhaha,

2. I don't blame them, they are trying to get the best of both worlds (good looking woman and free passage to America), at least dem no be Mexicans who dey try snick back into America.

3. Nigerian situation makes honest people desperate to get out of the country, becus its sincerely very difficult for an honest person to make ends meet in the country. A substantial number of successfull nigerians are corrupt, yet they still don't mind their own business instead they do everything possible to make life more difficult for honest others such that those honest people are ultimately pushed to the wall enough to want to leave the country by any means possible.

@stillwater

As soon as they appear dense, discard them like a piece of rubbish. It's not rocket science.

I've never had such problems on NL . I'll beat myself if I did.

1. Do u have to be that harsh,

2. Mind u, extreme conditions sometimes turn reasonable men into desperate ninjas,

Food › Re: Do You Eat The Skin Of A Mango!?!? by No2Atheism(m): 8:11pm On Mar 26, 2009

cibilola:
u guys re exchanging details for dating? na wa oooo!

1. No, it is not for dating.

2. She's already taken (i.e she's in a relationship meaning she is now labelled with 'thou shalt not touch')

3. No, it is not an exchange, it is a request to Toyosi20, which means she at liberty to deny the request.

4. Yes, I also dislike the natural mango fruit (too messy) , i prefer the packed mango drink

Christianity Etc › Re: Why The Redeemed Church Needed A Jet by No2Atheism(m): 6:24pm On Mar 26, 2009

dayokanu:
NotoAtheism,

Haha whats your problem. This stalking na wa o

, hahaha, no be my fault its a necessity to get those information.

But seriously now that i now she's taken, i no longer making any unusual moves. My current request is simply platonic in nature.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Emergency. How Do I Contact Toyosi20 by No2Atheism(op): 5:46pm On Mar 26, 2009

Pepeye:
This public out cry will not help you
Man, behave. . wake up and smell the coffee, you ain’t gonna get her thru this means
Toyosi sounds reasonable and no reasonable girl will fall for a guy who is making a fool out of himself over her publicly

1. point taken, cus na woman give da advise,
2. I am already too late sef, she's already taken says her friend

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 5:36pm On Mar 26, 2009

DaPhoenix:
@eldee, No2Atheism, mrCrackles and follypimp, thanks so much for posting guys.

Special thanks to Directors of the Railway Company, bluespice, EbonySilk and Moonstone for successfully derailing this thread in under 2 hours of my exit lol

I can't help myself , grin

Music/Radio › Re: What Are You Listening To Right Now? by No2Atheism(m): 5:07am On Mar 26, 2009

@toyosi20,

@Ebony-silk gave me the main lowdown about u.

I understand and accept my fate for coming into the picture far far far too late in time.

I requested ur facebook and yahoo id from her but she said i should ask u directly.

I am now asking : can i kindly have ur facebook and yahoo id pls .

Food › Re: Traditional Meal On Good Friday by No2Atheism(m): 5:07am On Mar 26, 2009

Food › Re: Do You Eat The Skin Of A Mango!?!? by No2Atheism(m): 5:04am On Mar 26, 2009

Christianity Etc › Re: Why The Redeemed Church Needed A Jet by No2Atheism(m): 5:00am On Mar 26, 2009

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 3:31am On Mar 26, 2009

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=248761.msg3643520#msg3643520 date=1238034187]Dude, you know you don't need to follow me around.

When you TOYOSI online, ask her

[/quote]my apologizes, won't disturb u no more,

Politics › Re: Re: Rebranding Nigeria's National Anthem by No2Atheism(m): 3:29am On Mar 26, 2009

sincerely, its was an innocent and naive request.

1. I accept my fate based on what u said was her relationship status.

2. Yes i understand ur instinct and her instinct as a woman not to want to trust my request based on my attraction towards her.

3. Nothing i say or do would be enough to proof to you or her that my request is not sinister.

4. Okay send just ur own,

5. Remember i said i don't usually frequent the romance thread, hence i might not be able to know when she's going to be on nairaland since i originally spend most of my time on another thread. Hence logic says that u are the only means of getting the information for now. I don't want a situation in which she would start thinking that i am still stalking her, hence why it makes sense to get it now and get it over with.

6. Advise me how to go about getting the facebook and yahoo id apart from the way i have suggested considering that i now just asking for it on an innocent and platonic level, no hidden agenda.

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 3:18am On Mar 26, 2009

@Ebony-silk,

1. Yes I accept i came too late for Toyosi20, i accept my fate. My intentions are now platonic now that i know the 'lowdown'.

2. At least now that we (u, Toyosi and I) are acquictances, we cannot 'undo' getting to know each other.

3. So can kindly send me u and Toyosi's yahoo and facebook identity to my gmail email account (chk my nairaland profile for it). Once I receive the id's in my gmail account (indicating ur consent to giv me the ids), I would likewise then send u and Toyosi my own yahoo and facebook ids through ur own email addresses. Once the mutual private exchange of ids is completed then I can try to request ur friendship on both facebook and yahoo messenger.

Hope u are okay with this arrangement,

Politics › Re: Re: Rebranding Nigeria's National Anthem by No2Atheism(m): 3:15am On Mar 26, 2009

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 1:27am On Mar 26, 2009

, am basically tongue tied right now ,

Is there a time machine to use to go back in time when she was single,

, men I am still completely numb,

one on hand my heart tells me to still try to get her contact info from you (Ebony-silk) so that i should at least maintain a level of platonic contact/friendship , on another hand my head tells me its dangerous for me to have her contact info because I am basically completely attracted to her (hence it would imply going against my principle of keeping my distance from women am attracted to, but who unfortunately are in a relationship).

I am turn apart right now ,

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 1:10am On Mar 26, 2009

@Ebony-silk,

As per Toyosi

1. Please define ur meaning of the word taken

2. Do u mean taken as in 'she's in a relationship' or taken as in 'u are keeping her for someone else, '

please clarify,

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 1:04am On Mar 26, 2009

As TOYOSI's friend, she's taken.

Am numb,

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 12:59am On Mar 26, 2009

@Ebony-silk, its seems u are enjoying what u are doing to this dude , its not like am like a walking talking terrorist or something undecided

. Help me stop following u around nairaland.

For starters , i just need to ask a few questions, how do i ask the questions if i don't have access to the person,

its not like am telepathic or something,

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 12:50am On Mar 26, 2009

bluespice:
am not interested is too long
unavailable is better

, sounds you enjoy the drama of 'messing' with the mind of the guy,

1. unavailable means u are 'probably' not available because u are in a relationship or something.

2. Guy 'cannot' read ur mind , hence women have to try to lessen the mental gymnastic on guys,

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 12:42am On Mar 26, 2009

you don't need to classify anything as single but not searching, cus that still gives the signal that u might change ur mind since u are still single.

Simply saying 'am not interested' is very straight forward and clear.

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 11:22pm On Mar 25, 2009

bluespice:
ill use myself for this example
im very much single doesnt mean im looking for anyone now
when people ask and i say im single
before im given the opportunity to say "but not available/but not looking", they launch a full scale attack on me
my point is its better to go with unavailable than single but not looking
once guys hear the single bit, they tune off immediately not bothering to listen to the remaining story

true but not all guys, hence the need to make things less confusing for the serious and sensible ones,

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 11:05pm On Mar 25, 2009

bluespice:
that a woman says she's unavailable doesnt mean she's in a relationship
i know thats beside the point
but then why dont these guys try to imagine for a split second if what the lady says is actually the truth?

unfortunately saying she's unavailable is still an ambigous answer for the simple reason that it can mean two things:

1. in relationship

2. not in a relationship but still not interested,

A simple 'not interested' statement would go a long way to solve the problem,

Romance › Re: Need Some Help Here by No2Atheism(m): 10:15pm On Mar 25, 2009

ahhh those ones

my experience with them is to just ignore them
no matter how many times u say no or tell them how married(in ur case) or unavailable
or how plain dumb and demeaning such a request is, they never seem to translate that

best to do, ignore or block

1. Men would always be men, born hunters, women are born defenders/diplomats.

2. Women sometimes don't help matters, i.e. that case of women meaning yes when they say no and vice versa

3. Hence some men 'sometimes think' some women are merely playing hard to get (when they use excuse of marriage or relationship), that's why they never seem to want to take no for an answer from other sincere women.

4. @Sistawoman, @bluspice, well the same reason ur man did not give up on you when u were still playing hard to get is the same reason that those current guys chatting you up are likewise pestering you right now.

5. As for me sha, any woman am attracted to, 'immediately' becomes a 'no go area' once she gives me the any slight impression that she's either married or in a relationship (do unto others what you want others to do to you kind of principle). As such its the loss of any woman (am attracted to) if it turns out she was merely using the facade of being married or being in a relationship as a means of playing hard to get, as my own personal principle simply turns her into a no go area.

6. Women who deceptively use that facade of being married or in a relationship when they are not, are the ones confusing certain types of men, such that those types of men end up not believing other women who claim to be in relationships or marriages, since those men realise they had been lied to earlier by women who used the same technique.

Food › Re: Solid Food by No2Atheism(m): 10:03pm On Mar 25, 2009

@yellow jelly like food poster, as a man i must say that the above pictured food is a little bit nausiating, (no offense, am brutally honest)

@Ebony-silk,

Abeg am kneeling down electronically right now, help out a brother with needed info,

Romance › Re: How Would You Feel? (Woman's Disobedience) by No2Atheism(m): 9:53pm On Mar 25, 2009

sistawoman:
It not like the hole in the middle of the toliet is not big enough. For some reason they can aim and shoot. Pee on the back of the toliet. Do you hear me now screaming "who was last in here, come clean this pee up"

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=251047.msg3642713#msg3642713 date=1238014050]LOL!
I just get mad and scream "who used the toilet last? Come and clean it u. I'm tired of blah blah blah".
But everyday it's the same thing angry

Lol, they never listen.
You can't even try it.
Make sure you don't marry a naija woman because we won't tolerate that kinda thing angry

[/quote]1. What's with all the charcoal, toilet, day and night washing and all that, are we sure we are still talking about the normal toilet or something else,

2. There is a time for everything , there is a time to aim and a time not to aim,

2. Unless off course u ladies can take the priviledge to pay for the guys to start taking 'target practise' for toilet urination/usage

Romance › Re: How Would You Feel? (Woman's Disobedience) by No2Atheism(m): 9:49pm On Mar 25, 2009

toyosi, toyosi, toyosi, where are u i've got some work to do now, blah blah , blah

@Ebony-silk , its not fair this one that u have already started to burn my candles even before i find the matches ,

HABA HELP OUT THIS DUDE.

Romance › Re: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by No2Atheism(m): 9:42pm On Mar 25, 2009

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=248761.msg3642691#msg3642691 date=1238013665]@N2A
Wait o. . . .I'll post it in a minute.
Just you wait

[/quote],

, y do i have a feeling am being posted like this,

HELP A BROTHER IN NEED

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Emergency. How Do I Contact Toyosi20 by No2Atheism(op): 9:16pm On Mar 25, 2009

MrCrackles:
Na wa oo!
The kind desperation craze sweeping through NL lately is baffling!

, determination and desperation can both have a fuzzy similarity under certain circumstances, don't u think so,

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