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As told by Enwongo C. Cleopas.

I remember a colleague bragging once how he slept with a girl and immediately she lost her respect before him. I was honestly confused and I thought there was something wrong with him. I asked him, 'what about your own respect?' Overtime, from football centres, to visiting barbing salons and from being around guys, I have come to see that some men really think this way.

Both of us have 'sex' and I am the one that loses respect? Amazing! Throw such stories away. If any respect will be lost, then it's going to be mutual. That popular belief of a girl losing respect from having sex is nonsense. Oh wait? The guy will be decorated with medals and a uniform? Of course not! Both respect will go and find their square root.
If you sleep with a prostitute, you're a brostitude/prostitute. Ain't no one gonna wonna claim sanctimonious. Gone are those days I believed hypocritical teachings that come cloaked as 'a one sided virtue' in the name of religion or culture. Be gone small satan.

You teach your daughters to close their legs, also teach your sons to zip their pants. There is no free pass for anyone. Both should take responsibility for their sexual lives and choices.

Before you shame a woman for having sex with you, I am going to shame you first. Shame shame shame, shame!

"O boy, you people should come see o, this girl is so cheap, after one month she had sex with me". Heard this at the barbers and I laughed seriously. Are you daft? You're the cheap one. You're so cheap that you tie your worth to your sexual experiences and you project it on others. It is so unfortunate that your entire worth lies between your legs.

If a woman becomes dirty after you touch her, the problem is with your hands and not her. You're the dirty one. You soiled her. If a woman loses respect after sleeping with you, you're the one with the problem. You had no respect at all for her or yourself. Go fix your self! I don't think that anyone who has self worth will lose respect for a person after sex. The reason you're saying you lost respect for her is because you never respected her to begin with. Infact you have no respect for people. You just wanted to get laid and go. Oya, take a bow. Your excuse or attempt at shaming her speaks to something inside you. It has nothing to do with the other person.

Isn't it sad that you think so poorly of yourself that any person who has contact with you loses their value/respect?
In fact, I think it is immaturity and yeyeciousness that will make a person attempt at shaming another for an act they too were a part of. ‎

Your penis does not dictate the value of the vagina. Vice versa. Both are body parts, not a measuring or value meter. Both are answerable to the pleasure they sought.

In the words of my mentor, 'did I ask you to place any value between my legs? Was I there when you kept respect in my thighs?' is you okay? That politics of respectability and virtue selectivity has no place around me. No, sex isn't ugly, you're the one.‎ And shaming people for something so beautiful and natural is beyond me. If your faith frowns at pre-marital sex, honestly stick with abstinence. It starts and ends with you. Don't project it on others. And if your faith or personal beliefs doesn't, take responsibility for your actions alone.

Ta ta yo yo se Facebook mi. Ta ta yo yo se ufokabasi ko. ke ukpono Deacon Monday, please don't try to preach here. This is not that time. Remain blessed and have a wonderful weekend. ‎

noble2faith:
I can see ur foolishness is A-graded. Ur pussy is gonna suffer or is even suffering greatly for ur foolishness.

You are a big fool because that is the only thing you can say! Just like those of all your female relatives right?? Useless son of a LovePeddler!! Your own dick is already suffering from from weak erection. When men speak,this slowpoke would also claim he is one. God punish you there!

mypassions:
O ta la ra BYE!!!

Ga gbuo onwe gi! Quote me again like the fool you are. How many times will you say bye?? You are so hopeless I swear

noble2faith:
Did I tag u wit any derogatory word in my previous post?
Lol. Its obvious u re a frustrated fellow. Frustration could lead to depression and depression, sometimes, could lead one to commit suicide.

Just get lost! Broke ass fool! You are already dead and gone! So fuc.k off my mentions. Bloody illiterate!

mypassions:
Live with the pain forever but remember to treat your STD and always be proud of your ugly face.

And he is still showcasing his stupidity and empty head!!
Ugly yahooyahoo boy,how market??
You don't even have anything to say so just shut up and continue your stealing before EFCC go locate you oh!

[[s]quote author=mypassions post=56451942]Jealousy is a terrible disease, ugly women are always bitter. I have been here since 2008, I have never had any argument with people but I think I tried dealing with your silly ass. Sorry, live with the pain. There is always difference between a woman and a bit$h. I respect women but give poo to bit$h just as I did to you. I was trained to bow for queen not bitches. I know jealous people like you that tag successful men Yahoo or Ritualist, if it's a successful woman, they will tag her olosho or too proud. Imagine how you see abroad as something very important, this show the level of your mentality. Abroad that people go to like pure water these days, I never knew there is still people like you. You need cover your face with long size towel, so backward. Poverty is really a terrible disease. I have advice for you, too much of dido affect the brain. Tell the Army officer to find trace to the reason why your life is so miserable at this stage.Omo Oju Ori Ola Ri.... You need exposure please, you really lacking this. My last reply to your ugly face, stop spreading STD and make sure you treat so it won't affect your lesbian partner. BYE FOREVER![/quote][/s]
The same thing again? Better go and die because it seems you have already gone bunkers!
That weed you are taking is driving you insane. Why are you lacking words all of a sudden??
Educated illiterate!!
Come and talk na!! Bastard idiot!!!
Simple grammar you can't construct!! Olodo rabata!! Isi aki,dullard.inho,dunce,coconut head!

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mypassions:
Jealousy is a terrible disease, ugly women are always bitter. I have been here since 2008, I have never had any argument with people but I think I tried dealing with your silly ass. Sorry, live with the pain. There is always difference between a woman and a bitch. I respect women but give shit to bitch just as I did to you. I was trained to bow for queen not bitches. I know jealous people like you that tag successful men Yahoo or Ritualist, if it's a successful woman, they will tag her olosho or too proud. Imagine how you see abroad as something very important, this show the level of your mentality. Abroad that people go to like pure water these days, I never knew there is still people like you. You need cover your face with long size towel, so backward. Poverty is really a terrible disease. I have advice for you, too much of dido affect the brain. Omo Oju Ori Ola Ri.... You need exposure please, you really lacking this. My last reply to your ugly face. BYE FOREVER!

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Why you dey run na? The fear of EFCC is the beginning of wisdom for a yahooyahoo boy oh!!
Come and talk useless bastard!! I thought you know how to talk,after men like this idiot would say women have bad mouth when his own stinks to high heavens! You deserve to be raped to death through your asshole or beaten up by real men because you are a useless foolish weak idiot who only exchange words online with women because he can't face his fellow men outside in real life!
Pathetic broke piece of shit?!
Come back and talk trash again or have you given up so soon??
Look at your dirty stinking mouth, I pity any woman who would end up with this God forsaken piece of dirt!! You are even more useless than the word 'useless'! Hopeless anumanu!
Agwo tagbukwa gi ebe ahu,thunder gbagbukwe amu gi ebe ahu,oku kpokwa gi,devilish son of a bitch!!

[[s]quote author=mypassions post=56446826]Somebody feel so pain here because we no bow for them like some weak men. I proud of my skin, my look, my tribe and my country. My profile says it all. You are ugly this is why you can't upload your picture, you know this and everybody on here knew this. I saw your picture at first but when I called you ugly, you remove it immediately. This is one of the reason why I said I doubt you ever been in to USA at all if not you will know authentic watch when you see one. For your information that's a pure Rolex that cost fortune that you can never afford. I have receive message from people telling me they enjoy and love how I deal with your silly ass. In our mind, we know who the ugly is Even the make up no help you self. We no travel abroad go snap picture or go do copy copy feminist or go lick white ass (I must be an American By force). We go only on shopping and business only, no no WEAKNESS!!! [/quote][/s]
Keep giving your useless life hope foolish idiot!
I have already dealt with your pathetic ass!
Bastard son of a lunatic father!!
Bleached out fool!! Shameless yahooyahoo ritualist!
That is all your tribe is known for!!Agbero local tout like you!!
Keep looking for white cocks to suck till you die of frustration. Thought you said you won't quote me again. You have proven you are a bastard and I have also gotten messages from people who said I should keep bashing your stupid ass!
Lying useless pig!! Foolish idiot who has not even crossed Lagos borders!!
Keep forming what you are not and stealing from others to live a fake life. Like I said one day you shall be caught and thrown into jail where you belong.
Quote me again. Only a yahooyahoo boy can have all the time in the world to exchange words online. Responsible men don't have such time because they are busy working hard to earn a decent living.
Fool of the highest order!!
The fool has removed his bleached and ugly face oh!! Chai! See this stupid hypocrite!! I have exposed you!! Don't worry soon those in the force(Army and the rest) online here would soon trace you to that hole you are hiding in the slums of Lagos and arrest your broke sorry ass!!

[[s]quote author=mypassions post=56445377]Your <sub>baseless points proved you are one of those Ladies with no life experience, all you have in your brain was acquired from Nairaland. Had it been I knew you were this local and senseless, I wouldn't have gone into argument with you in the first place. I doubt you really in the USA or ever been there because you lack american women charisma, intelligence and have no class at all. What we talking here is about us not tribe. only the cowards that hide under the umbrella of a tribe because of their insecurities. You knew deep down you that you are very ugly, that's why you went straight with the tribal insult which I will never go into with you. I'm more expose to go into tribal argument but I am sure of one thing all tribe have beautiful women and being light skin doesn't automatically mean a woman is beautiful. In as much as I knew igbos have many beautiful women and same time they have many ugly ones too which you are one of them. Plus, marrying a handsome husband or beautiful wife doesn't guarantee someone of having cute babies. I'm married to a Yoruba woman with two kids(Boys), I can bet my life that you can never have a cute kids as mine. I would have post their pictures here but I respect their privacy. I can't count how many times from different places people from your tribe look and admire them, some even goes as far as asking if they were born here. Some will ask me a question I hate so much if I am igbo because of my kids cuteness, which I always correct them politely that is really a bad orientation to feel any person looking good is igbo.

The idiot Funmi Iyda that said that rubbish is a product of prostitution, she was telling the world about her mother cheating and how are father never care about it since he met her mother in a brothel. Funmi is a faluire to Africa, Yoruba tribe and to herself. A woman that fu$k dido all through her life, a woman passed her menopause, a woman that comes out marriage with F9. She was so frustrated and angry her tribesmen never look her side till she passed her menopause stage. I feel so sorry for her, many years of konji is not easy. So what do you expect from a woman of such?

I need to buttress this fact to you that living abroad is not an achievement and not everybody living in Nigeria wish to travel. I also want you to know that some Nigerians here are living a comfortable life with no stress at all. Not too long I realize I have been having argument with a dunce with a toddler mindset, the argument started looking childish to me when you start going tribal. Just as they say 'Never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.'

I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it. I wish I realize earlier I was arguing with an idiot and a pig, I wouldn't have replied you at all. Don't even bother to reply because I won't reply you anymore. Go for a therapy so they can find solution to your sickeness( Feminism Fever ) that you think it was feminism. Let me summarize your own life in a brief: MANY HEARTBREAKS - LONELINESS - DEPRESSION - HATE - FEMINISM - LESBIANISM [/quote]</sub>[/s]
Rubbish stupid useless trash! Keep on dreaming by the time you wake up it must have been too late! Just take a map and drive straight to hell,when you get there tell the devil how hopeless and frustrated you are before burning forever in the abyss!
You are so pathetic!! Who dash monkey banana? Look at his ugly and bleached face with fake jewellery everywhere!
Ole barawo!! Olee buruku!! Ode you no get shame!!
Ranting like a mad dog in heat period!!
Go and die!! Frustrated old gay lord who sucks white dicks for a living!!
Yahooyahoo boy that used his family for rituals!!
You are a disgrace to your family!!
If you know all this is true,quote me again like the bastard that I know!! Gullible fool

noble2faith:
Y ur blood dey hot na? Na so u dey lash wit one guy on a thread about cooking on first date!

Shutup that stinking mouth of yours! Why won't I lash the fool? Is it your lashing? Better mind your stupid business!! Rubbish

mypassions:
You spoiled the whole thing by trying to be tribal here, this show how uncultured you are. It pain you so well because you knew I was saying the truth about you being a lesbian, a Yoruba man won't even date an ugly woman like you. I still ask Jide what he liked about a ugly woman like you. I know what you want, I shouldn't reply so you will be happy right? You just mess with the wrong Nigga! You have been creating public nuisance all over Nairaland without nobody given you the respond you deserve, that's why you feel you can be rude to anybody. You talking about making money instead of advising your broke ass, I will feed your broke ass for good 10yrs. Let this be your last time in this life you will ever call yourself a woman, you have no attributes of a woman. I don't respect women like you, I see them as shit. Most rude women are ugly because they always want to past their frustration on people, I think that's why jide dump your silly ass. You know in your heart how ugly you look, that's why you refuse to put your real picture on your profile and even your Facebook. I will be watching you from now on, let me see you abuse anybody on this forum, I will mess you up big time. AMERICA GORILLA!!!

You are a useless fool of a drunk father and whorish mother. Look at this stupid liar oh! Keep on disgracing yourself and your useless generation if you even have any. Who the hell is Jide? Boor and broke bastards like yourself with prostitutes as sisters who move around sleeping with anything on skirt or has enough money to pay for their broke ass. Nigga you eat shit for a living. One again you a broke gay ass fool.
You better shut that hole you call a mouth,bastard idiotic animal.
See how moronic and stupid you are. Your mates are busy hustling and trying to make themselves better the only thing you know how to do is run around with different dirty whores and infecting yourself and others with diseases.
Useless ugly afonjastic bastard. No wonder your women say you guys allow them to cheat on your pathetic ass. Broke ass foolish waste of sperm!
Coward imbelistic goat. When you are a coward,how won't your woman cheat on you. Its niggas like you who marry their dead ancestors just to secure a green card. Useless village champion selling off your father's properties just to come over to the same America you are insulting.
You shall die a pauper you devil!!
Ugly idiots always trying to marry Igbo women just to help their bloodline!! Ugliness is ingrained in your useless tribe,even your useless sister and mother and yourself aren't even up to half of the ugliest Igbo woman. Piece of moronic shit!!
Kiss my ass and burn in hell,pathetic loser.
You had better give up now because I work online and I am ready to serve your stupid chauvinistic ass with as many insults as I can get. I won't blame any woman who kills you because you are already useless to everyone including your pathetic self!! Bring it on!! You go die here today!! You haven't seen anything yet!!
Even from this fool's profile it is obvious he is a thief and yahooyahoo boy who steals from people and resell the items online!! One day your cup would be full and EFCC would throw you into kirikiri like others!!

mypassions:
Haha....Yes! You have many heartbreaks, this lead you turning lesbian. I have your full low down from your ex boyfriend Jide, he has been laughing so hard about your pained ass. You know I was saying the truth about you been a lesbian, all you could come up with is label me a gay. He even told me how he contact STD from your wide smelling veejay. You know what? He told me how ugly looking you are that's why you have refuse to upload your real picture. AMERICA MONKEY!

Who the gods want to kill,they first make him mad! Oga abeg stop disgracing yourself here! Its obvious you lack class and manners,how can you act like a tout and expect people to respect you??
I just feel pity for your jobless and broke ass because truth is men who have better things to do like making money do not come online to exchange words with women.
You are so shameless and useless. I would never date a Yoruba man for any reason,when everyone knows you guys are demons. There are many responsible guys from my tribe and other tribes close to us that are willing to be in serious relationships. You really need to get a job and stop acting like an immature kid online. How old are you by the way?
It would be a shame for your junior to be advicing you don't you think??
Use your sense small na and be a man,stop ranting like a woman on her period abeg!!

And some useless misogynists and chauvinists would soon come here to insult their female relatives all in a bid to get back at Nigerian women! Educated illiterates!

mypassions:
Haha... I can't stop laughing at your level of stupidity. Yes Feminism as come to stay in your Lesbian world, you sound so pain. That guy that mess your life this way must be somewhere enjoying himself but you are there living with the pains. Wish you good luck on your Lesbian journey. I can bet everything that you are over 32, you are so pain all men use and dump you. Sorry be your name Anty Feminist. If you make me vex, I will Ban all dido for market, so konji go finish your life. AMERICA EMBECILE!!!



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That is only what you can say! Compound fool! You just concluded on someone you have never seen what does that make you?? After calling me a lesbian, yet you say guys use and dump me! Do you know you have already ran mad?? Useless old gay lord!! Bastard gay who hates women! Even at 50 years you are not ashamed that your arsehole has been widened by dicks of different colors and sizes. Its people like you that whites use as gay slaves and Bleep their assholes daily!!
Useless piece of shit!! Like I said earlier go and die!! You are totally hopeless!!

mypassions:
Feminism pains me? Haha... You such a dunce I swear. Yoruba people will say " Ose mi, ara e lo se " Your feminism ideology affect me in no way, so why will I feel pained about it. I can see you with her, I wonder how you knew they were living happily. I swear you are nothing but a waste of sperm! Useless lesbian that has nothing to offer so she embrace feminism. Omo jati jati

You are the worst dumb ass nigga I have ever come across in my entire life. So because a woman is bold enough to know she deserves better from fools like yourself who feel because your archaic and cave-mentality African culture deny women their God-given rights as humanbeings they can do whatever they please!
You are so pained that you are still quoting me.
Better just jump into the lagoon because feminism is here to stay and would only grow stronger. This isn't the stone age where you treat women anyhow and get away with it!!
You are a gay fool who hates women and claims he has a girlfriend. Ode ni e,ko kan mi! Aboriyin ti gbale! Chineke kpogbu gi n'oku!! Dambrokoba!!
Shege Dan banza!! Onye apari!
You are a perfect definition of a bastard. Product of a Leaking Condom(PLC).

As for me any fool who calls himself a man(who is not my father) can never lay his hands on me for any reason! I don't even make friends with hot-tempered people(both men and women) talk more of marrying one. There must be something I can use to defend myself, if I must sustain any injuries,he must also sustain injuries.
If i use my mouth,he should better use his mouth back!! Later we can settle scores! Rubbish!!

mypassions:
You such a big fool, it was a typo which I corrected before you replied. I expected you to come at me more rude, I wish I know you very well, so I can check on you next 20yrs to ask you how far you have gone with your stupid feminist game. GLORIFIED AMERICA SLAVE!

You have finally shown how stupid and foolish you are. You are a retarded scum bag because I never insulted you first but your ignorance and stupidity beclouded your sense of judgement as usual. Take it or leave it. I already gave you an example of what feminism stands for. The like of Chimamanda and others who are married and living happily with their husbands. So you can go and kill yourself if it pains you. Useless nicompoop!! Ode!

delishpot:
The girl did not even regard him as a parent. She did not even call him dad.

Which means he must have committed a big offence then.

michaelandre:
comments like this is one of the reasons I asked a girl what she can do for a man. to be honest most girls are totally useless to a man except sex (which she always need) there is no value they add to a guys life. but they chop d guys money, collect the guys gift, goes to eatery with him, demand for things from him and latter disrespect him, insult him and disgrace him. and still expect him to be happy. thank God for my life it has never happened to me befor because of how I disipline myself not to take rubish

You must be very mad I swear to quote me with this trash! Do i look like those cheap sluts you chase around?? Or is it me who sent you to meet cheap dependent girls who don't have any decent source of income??
It is your sisters and female relatives that are only useful for sex. Useless bastard. Quote me again!

mypassions:
Come on don't be rude, I never insulted you. I was only given you instances why it mean nothing, you are the one saying thing off point here because of your madness(Slavery) I can see you are live in the USA, here comes one of those america slave, I hope the slave master have given you your green card to proof you are a glorified slave, the fool call it freedom. Don't dare try me, I will mess you up here. I have seen your comment how you have been talking to people rudely from one post to another. I knew you have been heart broken many times, I know your type, Feminism won't heal your broken heart.

Oga you have a serious problem. So just because I said the fact you are now looking for other ways to get back at me.
Just point out where I insulted you; even your grammar shows you are an educated illiterate.
Heart broken ko,heart broken ni! Most men and women have been heart broken at least once in their lifetime and it never stopped then from trying again or carrying on with their lives!!
Not everyone even loves stupidly in the first place,so you had better be careful else I am the one that would mess you up!! Rubbish

mypassions:
I hope you understand she had known him for weeks and the date was held in the guy house instead of eatery, cinema... There is nothing there if she cook on first date. We will end up making terrible mistakes if we keep taking things too serious. I remember one day I was washing my car, so I decided to wash my friend car too since I am in the mood to work that moment (May be because it was raining ) but my other friend didn't like it because he see it as downgrading of which I see nothing there. I also remember one day I and my girl ate egusi, she mistakenly swallow stockfish bone . So the next day, she started having this pain around her anus region, she couldn't work well but she notice there is something hook in there. I guess when she pooing, it was had for the bone to find it way out so it has gotten to the extreme hole, this make her have pains when walking. It get to a point the pain was getting serious, I told her to open her hole, I use my left hand to bring out the bone at the edge of her anus. Does that in anyway downgrade me? No! I bet if you see me one on one, you will never believe I can do such but we need play the fool sometimes. What what you said, I can see your own feminist is like the white feminist which I see as the real feminist. Most black feminist are men-hating women fighting for women dominance over men. For years, I do believe the %100 of the white and black american men support feminism but later discovered I was wrong after reading many foreign comment abroad and also when I had conversation with them about feminism. That's when I knew about %80 of white and black american men don't support it. The %20 that support are most time men brought up by a single mother who have the feminist ideology or men that are gay.


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She said just two weeks,even if she has known him for a year,it is not her duty. She can do it if she wants.
As long as she is not his wife,it is never her duty to cook for him Oga. You can't force people to do what you want simply because you feel it is right!
Everyone is not the same. As for your friend and your girl,I didn't ask for all those stories as it doesn't relate to what this thread is saying!!

ibnakeem:
I am so sorry. I didn't know I was talking to people of lower self-esteem. What makes you think everything formal has to be done the Western way. The same dressing style you called the official style of dressing (i.e. Suits and Tie) is seen on the so-called Progressives at Parties but your own Danshiki or Agbada is an informal style of dressing and meant for just parties... Stop this thinking that everything has to be western to be called formal.

Will you shut that hole you call mouth? If you don't want to be formal why attend a formal(western) school or get formal education? Why not settle for your informal/traditional/sharia education?? You only know how to twist words when they suit you!!

I concur with the lady above me. Some parents don't deserve to be called parents at all!

Lightening:
You date only MEN that cook? From your confession, you have dated at least two men that cook. Please is dating one of your hobbies? If your school of thought is working, why hasn't one of those ''men that cook'' married you? Okay happy dating!

Same reason you have not wifed all the ladies that have cooked for you.

mypassions:
How far as your standard take you?
So by refuse to cook or wash is your own way of setting standard?

As far as I am concern, a woman can do those things and still have a standard. The most richest black woman (folunrusho alakija) cook and even wash his man undies despite her wealth. If ladies like you knows how many good lady is out there, you all will dump all these stupid ideology. There is one woman I know, she is very rich because her parent left her with so many properties. She live this same lifestyle as yours because she studied in America, she do jokingly call my mum PARIS and my mum do call her LOS ANGELES. She believe in all these feminist ideology, this made her marriage crashed, she had only one daughter. She tried another marriage but failed because it's hard to have a healthy marriage with such ideology. After some years, her daughter who happened to be her only child died but this woman was already 67yrs. She is very worried now who will take over all the properties and investment her parent left for her. I feel sorry for her but I am very sure she must have many regrets by now. There is nothing like gender equality, there can only be equity. There is a reason why a man stand to pee but a woman bend to pee. Even in sex, there is a reason the woman lay down for the man to climb on. While will a woman chose to be a feminist, that just stress to me because most feminist spent all their life on hating men, thinking and planning on how to overcome or manipulate men. The funniest part is that same man they hate don't even know they exist. So why will a feminist put herself in such stress? Live and enjoy life abeg.

Firstly,you do not know if Foluronsho Alakija cooked for her husband on the first date after they met. Stop using married people to compare two people who have known for just two weeks and have barely agreed to date each other.
Secondly,just because one woman happened to hate men and end up embittered and alone doesn't mean she is a feminist,Chimamanda is a feminist but she is happily married with a son. A man hater is just like a woman hater. They are not feminists.
Stop confusing yourself and others! I am a feminist and I believe in equal rights for men and women. I don't hate men because I love my dad,brothers and my other male friends.
As for the peeing positions,that has nothing to do with feminism or this thread for that matter. Yes women can pee while standing if they wear skirts or gowns and yes women can stay on top during sex and ride a guy. All that is up to the couple to decide mutually,it has nothing to do with equal rights.
Now I am done.

leofab:
today I have a lot of ffucks to give.. if is one sided and came to announce it to gain cheap sympathetic point... but this is Nigeria and I am not sorry for her. You don't expect that guy to enter the kitchen to cook for her and his friends. Haba..

It is a first date. She has not even agreed to be his girlfriend. Are they married? It is not even a girlfriend's duty to cook for her boyfriend unless she wants to do it. Jeez

leofab:
why didn't the girl make a move to buy herself the rice so the guy can support ? Go sleep Kate.. am a lady like you.

You are a lady like me and I am telling you the guy would have not bought her the rice. He did it because he wanted to. Abi na she force am to ask her out? It is not by force!

leofab:
Blovckhead and you didn't read where he wasted his fuel to pick her up and used his money to buy rice for her and she didn't refund him cos it's their first date.. nonsense nonsensical..

You are the blockhead because she didn't force him to do all that! If he says no,will she kill him??
Like someone said above, if she didn't want to cook on the first date,she should not have gone to his place! All this issues would have been avoided,I still support her though. The guy should have made the first move to cook and she would have assisted him.
There is no where in the Bible God states that it is a woman's duty to cook,if it is just quote me with that particular chapter or verse.
As long as she is not his wife,it is never her duty to cook for him. Boyfriend or not!! Unless he is ready to assume her financial responsibilies of course.
She can also do like me and date only men who cook. That would save you from all this hullabaloo!

Can a mod please ban this troll above me spamming this thread with nairabet pictures?

Some illiterates can't tell difference between didn't cook' and 'can't cook'. Yet they would claim they are educated!
Meanwhile thankGod I only date guys who can cook so that one devil won't beat me just because of food

ibnakeem:
Oga please stop ranting. Shaking hands isn't a sign of showing courtesy, it is simply a European style of greeting which was introduced to us by the British and it doesn't mean you can't show courtesy or greet someone without shaking hands. Shaking hands is the same as squatting in Arab culture when greeting and prostrating in Yoruba culture when greeting. So if he refuses to shake hands, it doesn't make him a radical person. Read wide and study other people's culture before ranting

Madam stop barking like a bulldog. We are talking about a formal gathering here not your tribal and religious gathering you do in your archaic villages!! All these bokoharam extremists sef

I won't be surprised if she escapes justice! Money answereth all. Just pay one mumu lawyer to say na self defence and grant her bail afterwards.