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Loool abeg no he the same abroad couples are still living?

If going abroad breaks up a marriage, the marriage already had issues in Nigeria .
Na patch patch marriage Una carry go abroad and it burst when you got there, the environment can help amplify it.

We bought 9500 that year and that particular gen is still in existence .

Lool so they think if nysc wants to punish this girl they won't?

What she did is against NYSC rules simple

What's all the huffing and puffing about gan. Everyone who has ever passed through nysc knows what she did is against the nysc rules.

If there's a penalty for it, if they want to they can penalize her.

Whether she is saying the truth or not is another thing entirely point is she broke the rules.

She now came to social media to say it ,

I watched the movie.

As a landlord I can never allow my tenants install solar on the roof, as a tenant I can't even think about installing solar on our roof.

Loool Reno omokri,

You guys will just go and look for his trouble.

It's like people don't know how much women are harrased in this country.

They will try to toast you then tell them you are married with children they will say it doesn't matter nau.

Some men in these country are a special breed.

Not to now talk of men with power and plenty cash to spare around, they will feel the world is for them

Hahaha for the first time nobody blamed Lola.

Why are people talking as if they are not aware married men make advances at married women everyday. Is it today politicians sleep with one another?


The only difference here is they are both senators and the senate will be dragged into theatter

With the level of nonsense that goes around these days, casual sex up and down.

If she now drops proof nko.

Abeg make una rest joor

Sadly she has a point.

Especially if in a good private hospital.

Possibly she's using the hospital she works as a price guage.

These things always sound like joke until when it happens,
There was a woman didn't progress they said baby's head was down or it hung there couldn't finally descend or something like that already and she was recommended for emergency CS, from around 2pm till 8 this woman was still in pains husband was running around for money for the stuffs, for blood for this one for pack. The nurses were like shey this woman no get family ni can't she call her own people. They actually said they were very worried for the child because it was like they will have to pull the child out in the theathre

That woman was in terrible pains for hours. It was like her vulva was even swollen again sef.

I dont think money was up to 150k-200k at least for the surgery to be done. Because CS fee was 130k excluding other side expenses itwas a govt hospital. Laslas they wheeled her in around 8

If she had some funds she would have paid it herself with the amount of agony that woman was in.

Now if it is a private hospital your account has to be very fat.

Any damn thing can go wrong during delivery intending parents should be prepared.

I recommend preparing physically, prayerfully and financially.

What is wrong with Sahara reporters, what kind of article is this.

Who told them she didn't seek medical attention. These people will say anything sha.
Nawa o. Just because she has a misistry now they are saying these nonsense.

Then bringing in the traveling with the husband ish too.

Sounds more like gossiping

Most schools teach phonics these days , correct pronunciation of the sounds.

E get some way my children will pronounce something I will just say hmm thank God we went to school




But this one be like British accent.

Acidosis:
Your opinion is not bad at all. Imagine seeing Pastor Adeboye or Bishop Oyedepo in a mama put in Obalende or Oshodi market, gulping amala and okro soup just because "he is human" and then posting same on Twitter and Instagram.

This is not about idolising people. It is about recognising that there is a higher calling on the lives of leaders, and their actions should reflect the dignity of their position. 1 Timothy 3:2 reminds us that an overseer must be above reproach. Their role demands a higher standard that points others to Christ not physical fitness or how to look fit, and their actions should exemplify that.

If your Christianity as a leader will point people to arguing or debating the correctness of your dress code or public display of fitness, muscles and steeze, then something is wrong with your Christianity. This is why leadership as we know it is reserved for people of certain age groups in some denominations. You won't find the Catholic pope for example gulping amala or visiting the latest gyms in town because they want to be human or relate with people like Nigerian politicians.

On point.

Sadly the OP is right

Any other random person no qualms.

He is a spiritual leader,. No no no not him.

Lots of terrible commenter's on first page.

God has helped you madam. Ignore nay slayers.

You married after being a baby mama and even married well they can't fathom such.

Make them quench.

Go to the court in kaduna they will give an order or so and ballifs will come break the door shikena.

One happened here in was 3 years. Seemed the man had died strangely enough some family members showed up for the Properties.

Babe is claiming sexual harassment in her statement.

Thank God there's video evidence.

'In learning and character' she deserves an expulsion.

And I salute the self control of the baba, some would have given her slaps in retaliation for the bite.

Mannerless peeps everywhere.

Parents should be intentional in raising their kids o.

Incidentally I was passing by a mosque on Friday and I picked this sharia talk in the preaching.

It seems they had a family meeting.

Politicizing the matter is terrible though, fingers crossed.

Lots of Yoruba Benin rep peeps who work in Naija have Naija docs.

They have Yoruba names so it's easy for them.

Same will be applicable to Niger peeps.

Whatever you do do not touch anyone in the name of fight or argument..

You can shout all you want if you feel aggrieved.

If you are not privy to music business no chook mouth for their mata.

Statements, counter statements from both of them are too much. Let the courts decide o jare.

Nobody should sha drag the church into their matter that's my own.

People can dig anything o

Over 20years matter and peeps have not forgotten

Private schools hmm the tori long oo.

My own advise is if you don't get a job with all these standard private schools that pays well with good benefits or a good state govt teaching job like Lagos state that is fair to teachers please run. Or be doing all these tutorials for IGCSE Sat etc etc. Or find a particular niche that is in demand and teach it partime. I know someone who teaches Yoruba in my area, he teaches part time in schools around. The funny part is he studied another thing entirely , it was when he started he enrolled for partime Yoruba and graduated and Lasg made languagues compulsory. Good thing lots of teachers are doing tutorials and online teaching.

Most of these schools are pure slavery.


I taught for like a year after NYSC while waiting for masters admission and job hunting I wbvas paid 18k which was fair considering it was more than 11 years ago, no Tfare but I was always borrowing money from my mum.
She was always saying thins kind work you are doing but always borrowing money, you never see work o.

Once I enter transport to other sides of lagos few times in a month money has gone down. I was wondering how the married people there cope Did it for 1 term I. E 3rd term then I got a better one for 25k Did it for 1st and 2nd term, by then admission list came out and I did all Report cards and every marking and all.

So the term ended and I was supposed to get my salary and this woman said she had a feeling I won't be available the next term I told her I got admission but I have concluded for the term, this woman paid me 10k, honestly I cried. . My self and mum still talked about the issue recently and we laughed so hard.


The one I got to hear recently I know both teacher and proprietress, she said she will pay the teacher half salary in January because school resumed 13th January and half salary in April because her school will vacate on the 7th April.

And guess what the salary is 12k not that either of them told me how much but because the woman said the propeitor even removes Tithe from her salary and gives her 10800, that's how I could deduce the money was 12k. I never hear that one before oo. But the woman has a ministry.

Now it's that 12k they want to pay half in January and April.

And they are all christains.

cococandy:
I heard that too. Heard it’s actually both of them who run the drugs but she’s the one who’s using. All rumors obviously.

I personally would have to be on drugs to deal with a man like Tuface. There’s no way I’m raw dogging that kind of reality. I look at women who put up with such situations and I try to imagine the shape of handbag, the color, make or model of car and the type of access to “high to society” that would make me accept such behavior . And the only reasonable answer would be drugs.

If she’s on drugs I understand . I hope she gets help and gets better. Addiction is such a terrible disease.

You see the bolded ehn spot on, I just can't deal, one would definitely need to be high on something to deal with the trauma and mask the pain. Everyday trauma, olorun ma je.

May God see her through amen.

Nairaland ehn, so ahnie is no longer the moral standard of virtuous woman.
She's now the devil SMH

Aye le oo

I remember when they got married we no hear word of how she was the chosen one bleh bleh bleh.

How on earth will someone marry tuface and not have emotional trauma.

Women learn oo.

Loool, Nigerians ehn.

Ishilove:
Exactly. Imagine saying no to the Ooni and Oba of Ado-Ekiti. That will be the very height of disrespect

Yeah.

Ishilove:
Did those commenting on the first page read the article at all? The spiritual head of the Yoruba kingdom in Nigeria intervened, that is why he withdrew the case. Afe was respecting the the Ooni's authority as a royal father. Something you online bandits and armchair warriors don't understand.

Woo leave those ones they can't understand.

As a Yoruba person there are sometimes some categories of people will intervene you won't have a choice but to succumb.

Thats when they will start saying omo ale LA nbe ti ki n gba

MO fi ori ade be yin.

E dey pain me wella

In this case now it's different Obas how will you say you won't agree.

If not ehn they should have dealt with that man with the full wrath of the law.

No

Family matters are generally complicated especially since the Dad is late. You really don't know the reason why they are avoiding some relatives.

These things are deep, you are not in any position to tell her or her mum to mend with the Dad's family. You let them sort their family issues themselves.


You also did bad by hanging up on the mum it's disrespectful.

It's okay if you do not want to marry again, you have a right to that.

Family, wife and inlaw issues are not always black and white. A very high percentage of families don't have the 'unity' you are talking about, if you see it a lot of it is fake.

What lots do is to fake it and get the event done for the sake of their daughter which they should have done by the way. Those same uncles can also frustrate the intending husband.

Hmmm.

This one is a life or death situation not couples quarell.

One single mistake while beating her and it will be the end.

A life is involved, life first.