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Would have loved to be born in Australia or United Kingdom but here I am in Nigeria
Nature why

Qpid5:
Hi... Have you successfully withdrew your fund??

Money that I have finished spending

Look at how this fuulish man is sounding as if you are doing her a favor by being her husband

If the tables were turned and she's the one who treated you so badly would you think twice before showing her pepper now that you have a better pay check??

If I were to be your wife I'd divorce your silly proud and stingy ass with the amount I'm currently earning. You won't be missed one bit. You can make your bloated ego your new wife when I leave..

Ghoxt:
Happy birthday day NovesaTillie

Your wishes are coming soon lil fav

. Thank you hon

dodoatirice:
Jim jam
Action plenty
Like sunglasses

Oh he removed his signature shades

Not entirely, he's holding it
The snake never moves without its poison.

Your husband got what he wanted. If he see free vagina won't he fvck?

AG baby is everybody's baby

Happy birthday though.

The lion himself

I love my space and privacy too much.. Not only do I walk around my apartment nakid most times but I enjoy my own company a lot and that has helped me in not getting into trouble by not keeping wicked and pretentious people as friends. When my acquitances from work offer to visit I tell them I have a training to attend meanwhile I'm in my bed, nakid and free

Mariangeles:
NovesaTillie, go find your own man!
There are other good men out there. Why him?
That man was never and will never be yours!
As long as he married your sister, he'll always be her husband before God Almighty, till death parts them.

Put yourself in my shoes. I'm almost 30, this man is really nice,my mom has given her consent. His marriage with my sister didn't work because she was always career minded and never cared about having children too.
I'm just a little confused

VocalViolet:
If I could reverse time, I wouldn't have dated my first boyfriend in the university because that relationship singlehandedly led to my downfall and destruction in life. I dated him for nine years during which I lost my virginity, met other guys through a bad girl he introduced to me and never graduated or served due to psychological issues stemming from the relationship. In fact my mother dreamt of me falling into a gutter the day I submitted myself to him sexually.

If you could reverse time, what time would you go back to, and what would you change?

Sorry about your experience.
You will come out stronger than ever.

Yes she's my blood sister.

Noblex2011:
What is wrong with you? So, out of the guys that are available in this world, it is your sister husband you now want to accept his proposal for marriage. Op, you must be joking. Are you sure that woman you called your sister is your real sister?I mean blood sister. If it is , please don't try it.

NetValueFX:
Don't ever in your life try that. In fact, if anything happen to your sister you will be the first suspect.

You are right. I have been having deep thoughts

Funkymode:
Never you accept such a proposal, even though he's good, your sister is at fault, still doesn't warrant you to accept such proposal, there are other guys out there, dying to have you but maybe your attitude or your sister's husband has money and you feel he's the one that can take care of your needs, you're either a material lady or not a shame type, is your family struggling to feed? Or he pays your family bills, that you now feel, you should go with him despite you knowing he's your sister husband, you must have been having an affair with him, if not, he would not have that mind to say such to you. In fact you're a wayward person, you can't be trusted been with another woman husband

Hmmm. I am not getting any younger

blessStar:
NovesaTillie .

Give your life to Christ.

The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.

If you are a Christian you wouldn't be asking :
"Should I accept his proposal? "

Repent now before it's late for you.

If you are a true child of God , you would be binding every principality and power that they as a couple /their marriage is wrestling against not to be here asking such abominable question.

Don't let the wrath of The Most High God come upon you.

Note: whoever reads this; never do this kind of thing to someone's marriage , never scatter a marriage.

And those of you giving her bad advice , you better repent , ...if she carries your bad advice out , you could share in the punishment , if there is any punishment.

And those of you that come on nairaland posting; sinful things, posts leading others to sin , posts that are abomination/sin to The Lord God , questions you are to ask God only (God is a jealous God) ; you come here and be seeking advice from people , among which will mislead you, posting posts inline with thanking people (when you haven't thanked God first)/giving glory to people, thing, social media platform ::: you better repent. Repent and give your life to Christ, turn from your evil ways and give your life to Christ.

Important Note :whoever is reading this ; make sure you have surrendered your life to Jesus and you are His true child. (A true child of God , will never ever come on nairaland to post such post; but will instead go to God and submit the case to Him alone and pray for them)

Okay. Thank you

brightalo1010:
My advice is that you're mad .

You are also mad.

xperiencelove:
Abort that mission.

Okay. Thank you

Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Do you have money?
Like are you rich?

Maybe you should go make good money
I've never seen a shy or timid wealthy man.
What they can't say, their money spells it out.

I trust only myself.
As Much as I will love my partner I will always sleep with one eye open.

If Peter could betray Our Savior Jesus Christ who then is your girlfriend or boyfriend.

Ghoxt:
You're kidding right?

Real

Wanna stop dating single guys.
Married men are my target now.
They know how to be discreet and also spend money on a lady

jaytii:
So after reading through NovesaTillie's thread https://www.nairaland.com/6909608/celebrating-one-year-abstinence-sugary#108790773
Two weeks ago, I decided to go on the same journey starting this year.

For this reason, I consumed more than my usual weekly dose of Coca-Cola and Pepsi (maximum of 4) no thanks to the festive season free drinks here and there.

Unfortunately, thirty five minutes (01/01/2022 12:35am) into the new year after screaming happy new year and saying hello to few friends and family over the phone, I was already downing a very cold bottle of Pepsi to cool my head before I realized I just broke my major resolution for this year.


Mr Dj please play Timaya "I can't kill myself"


Lalatisclala, mynd44 and the rest of the Nairaland family Happy New Year. I hope I am not the only one in this situation.

Sorry about that sis.
It's still possible to go with your new resolution..
One bottle of Pepsi won't stop you..
I'm rooting for you..
I used to experience a very bad waist pain and when I urinate, ants will feast on it. Ever since I stopped taking it, I feel like a new baby.
So I'm behind you.

Lastmankc:
I am passing through this shit now,my gf have been staying in my house for a year now.I have even left the house for her.

That means you perfectly understand what I'm going through.
Even if I want to marry this guy, not this way.

AutoChick4U:
Thats their modi operandi in Abuja. When things gets better for him, he will dump u. Hope he's at least contributing to d affairs of d house?

He's been helpful in chores and Other stuff

You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

Owiii:
Since you started dating, have you visited him in his house? Or you've being meeting in joints and lounge for hangouts. If he is reluctant in taking you to his house, it means he is squatting with some friends and that's why he isn't taking you there. He may not be committed in the relationship and don't want you to know his house. You should be one visiting not him coming I stay at your place for this long. That's the way for some of these Abuja f*ck boys. Be wise so you don't regret later. Insist you go to his house and then update us.

I have visited his house twice.
The second time I slept over.