Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.

Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice.
This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him.
I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.

Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..

Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also.
Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him
We both stay in Abuja.

Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.

sisisioge:


Given the setting you described, biko no rush....take your time. By the way, you could also buy those tall brooms so you could stand and sweep to avoid feeling/seeing awkward

Unfriendly friends.

Killbillz:

Who be the person for ur profile pic?

Me. Is there a problem?

Hurray
I think it's worth celebrating my one year anniversary away from taking soft drinks and any kind of Sugary drinks especially because I was so addicted to the extent of drinking 5 bottles of soft drink everyday. It started like a movie and before I knew it, one plastic bottle of soft drink couldn't satisfy me anymore.

From substituting water with soft drink especially during the lock down whenever I had my meal or felt dehydrated to just drinking it for fun and I loved it chilled.
Each time I finished drinking it there was this burst of energy and happiness that follows .
I remember a particular weekend when I didn't have any cash on me I begged the neighborhood store to give me a pack of Coca-Cola drink to take me for the weekend till workday before I paid for it.

Then towards the last quarter of the year last year, I started noticing how yellowish my urine became and it dawned on me that I needed to cut down on the intake and so my journey began. It was a tough one because I was already used to taking 5-6 pet bottles daily. But I started by reducing by 1 bottle each week and replacing it with water. By December last year I firmly decided to put an end to what had become my addiction.
Now here I am today, healthier and happier.
No matter how chilled or iced, so far it's soft drink I won't take it. Even at work, when lunch is served I always consciously change my drink for water.
Then at home, whenever the urge came I replaced it with taking fresh fruits juices and smoothies which I make myself..

Where can I find a super rich and ugly man like this to take care of my needs and just pamper me
Nigerian single guys are full of stress and no money

Maybe her honeypot was too delicious he couldn't imagine sharing with anyone

Women need to know that when they marry a man, they also marry his family.
I really don't know the matter and why some girls don't like their mothers in law but one vow I've made to myself is to accept and tolerate my husband's family which includes his mother. You can't love everyone but you can try to tolerate.

Cowrywise is reliable.
My savings plan has been active for a year now and will mature by early January.
Onfe your savings mature you will be notified and you can withdraw everything to the last penny.

Sell the airtime. You can't reverse this type of transaction.

Indomie generation won't know how this Lady rocked Nollywood when they had premium content all they know now is Destiny Etiko with her oversized nyaxsh

Elegant lady.
Beautiful on Monday and every other day.

I remember when I used to have a crush on this guy because of his mororo head and bow legs so sexy

Beautiful girl

Where can I find a man as handsome as this guy?

AllahIsSatan:
Are you serious or is this a joke?

I am dead serious

Elitefosa:


How fail save proof is this remedy?

You actually did end your message with ... come let's try...

by the way I'd send a PM about a Post... if that's ok

I'm a traditional girl.
These are time tested working herbs.

I didn't get your PM

Elitefosa:


I want to ask you a question!

Go on!

Let me be your doctor for today.
Not every woman who menstruates, ovulates.
Not every sperm that looks watery is watery.

Go offline from Nairaland
Get guava leaves, buy what they called Bara (bitterguard) , Add ginger and garlic and turmeric then boil all together. Let you and your wife drink it starting this weekend.
Take it for like a week.
It will detoxify your system of all the previous infections and junks that you or your wife may have picked up before marriage.


Afterwards,
Go and buy banana
Buy Peanuts
Buy tin of milk
Blend it together
Don't add water,
Take it like that for at least 1 month.
Addyzoa (this is a drug that improves sperm) and plenty of Walnut.
Let your wife go on Garlic and okro water during her fertile window.

Then go to the Hospital and carry out tests if nothing happens or come let's try

When there is life, there is hope.
May your path continue to Shine brighter and brighter..
Merry Christmas

Draw those guys close but maintain adult boundaries . Invite them over for drinks with the young lady in attendance so that you can get to know them better.
If you keep being on the edge and looking at her like a wayward person those her guys will start seeing you as a threat and any day they plan to fall you, na small thing.
Remember that the best way to keep something safe is to give it to the thief to safe keep for you.

Those miscreants on the street are very useful. You never know when you or anyone you know may be in danger and you will need their intervention.

Yeyenairaland:


So u get sense like this

Zenith bank staff on a Gucci Polo

The best bank.
No SMS alert charges
No card maintenance charges
No AC allowance charges
Just you and rat and your money

Pharaoh4rin:



You sounds like a native sicilian

Maybe I am

qtguru:


You are the last person to advice anyone on marital issues after reading your post about seducing someone's husband besides Silent treatment is not a death sentence.

Thank you

Mille:


I hear you're considering polygamy

Yes you heard right

Her money is her money.
Your money is OUR money

I'm not that kind of woman.
My husband will be lucky to have me.