BonPatrick:
Good afternoon guys please my girlfriend of 4 months old dating doesn't want sex till marriage whenever she is Hot she ask for headjob( I should suck her pussy) and I am not happy about it. When I am in need of sex she gave me Mouth Action. I am not happy I can't wait till marriage I need to feel my woman but she is not letting me in. Should I sex else where?

Lesbians self

Now that you are still young faaji all you want and let her fight for your love .
Don’t let her move in with you shebi she be graduate you dun try make she go find work

Op this one long sha
I’m coming back
if you don’t have money nobody go call you beg you na because them see potential in you so you better use your head and stop acting like the lady in that relationship
Imagine your Barney friends Dey call you Dey beg you like say them no no..
No relationship is perfect if you don’t man up or if you keep on being the good guy she will keep on cheating because you go still forgive am

jacoik:
BIAFRA - Perfect illustration. By Chief Patrick Chidolue

We kill our selves to protest what others are doing against us. In 1967 good Igbo leaders begged Ojukwu not to declare Biafra, to avoid war, he declared Biafra and we lost 3 million people and all our wealth, including our leadership position in Nigeria. Our youths, our girls, our culture and heritage. All were lost because of that war, which started as a result of declaration of Biafra.

Ojukwu went into exile. Igbos were defeated, humiliated and made second class citizens. Their properties seized as abandoned. All their money were seized and their children abused and brutalized.
In humiliation and humility they started with nothing and from no where to rebuild themselves.

Ojukwu was told that all these may happen if he declares Biafra. His father specifically begged him to wait at least let us find a strong country that can support us before he can declare, if he must.
He called all the advisers saboteurs and claimed that his father was selling out because of his wealth that was scattered all over Nigeria.

Three years after, by 1970 all was lost. Three million well trained and our best all wasted.

By 1983 when Ojukwu came back from exile he declared that Biafra was no longer fashionable. He joined a national political party and contested for an elective office in Nigeria. At this time all have been lost. Igbos have lost power, properties, political leadership, values, good men and respect. Yet we hail Ojukwu as our hero.

Compare it to now. We have managed somehow to rebuild part of what we lost in the Biafra war.

Now a new agitation for Biafra was started again by MASSOB, which is now followed by IPOB. By creating insecurity in igbo land alone, every developed human person in that zone will be on the run. Education will suffer set back as well as every other thing.

We are crucifying our selves to shame our oppressors.
Like in 1967 they have started calling Igbo leaders saboteurs again. Unfortunately we don’t have the likes of Zik any more to plead our case within the international comnunity, to beg Nigeria to allow relief food in order to reduce 28000 dying children per day. We don’t have Zik to come and negotiate our surrender in order to have no victor no vanquished. Our opponents are already regretting that, they should have taken the remnant of Biafra as slaves and war booty.

The questions are.
1. Why must we fight a losing battle to lose everything?
2. What do we want to achieve in Biafra that we can’t achieve in Nigeria politically?
3. Who will lead Biafra when we eventually get it and where will he come from?
4. How do one convince an Anambra man and Enugu man to let Ebonyi man lead him?
5. Where can we get the leaders from? The stock of existing Governors or manufactured by IPOB?
6. What will constitute the mean economic drive for our development within Biafra? Etc.

Federalism as we have it today in Nigeria, makes every state a country. A quasi sovereignty. That is why we have state courts, states can make their own laws. States can make their budgets and own their properties etc. Governors like Wike have already started applying true federalism by collecting VAT in his state. Let other states go to Supreme Court and ask for powers to secure their people by licensing gun carriers and state police. Also by using available gas in their state to power turbine and provide electricity to their industrial parks in order to employ their work force. Etc

The Biafra we are asking for we already have it in our hand but we don’t know what to do with it. Those who are at the forefront of Biafra agitation today, should know that when the real Biafra emerges, they will not be in a position to determine its leadership. It will be chaos. By then it will be too late to have an opportunity like Nigeria today.
Nigeria is ours to be taken. All we need is to get involved in politics and protect our political interests.

Please stop blaming others for protecting their own political interest. We have all it takes to win in Nigeria.
1. We have the largest population and we are united.
2. Our people are scattered all over Nigeria and beyond.
3. Our political interest is merit, Justic and Rule of law. Which is easy to sell to other good men.
4. We have people in diaspora to support our case.
5. We have commerce to back up our pursuit.
6. Our Nigeria Political leadership will bring development to everyone.

Even if we get Biafra. It will be too small to withstand the pressure from the vast poor and uncontrollable North. Therefore, let’s hold a meeting with all the parties and discuss what we need before we make more mistakes.

The meeting should have representations of,
1. IPOB,
2. Ohanaeze
3. Political leadership
4. Traditional leadership
5. Academicians
6. Business leaders
7. State representatives.
8. Diaspora representatives.
9. Religious institutions
10. Women representatives
This conference will determine what we need to develop as a people.

If we want Biafra, let it be a collective decision. However, if we want Biafra, there are simple and less dangerous ways to go about it.
1. The South East and South South Congress men could sponsor a bill to that effect and call for a referendum. A survey will be conducted to determine the demography and topography. Then referendum will be conducted and on a certain date we will seize to be Nigerians and instead become Biafrans. However, where that is being frustrated by the Northern lead national assembly, a petition an be sent to UN committee in-charge of state creation, who will bring it to the UN assembly. Nigeria as a party, will state their case after which the Assembly will hear the other sides and vote on it. If the vote is in favour of a referendum, it will be conducted and if majority says yes, Biafra will be created as a new member state of the United Nations.

This idea of killing people, burning houses and destroying properties does not in any way address the issues of secession. Instead it gives room for the people to be addressed as criminals and killed.

Who will convene the Confrence of Eastern Nigeria?
Ohanaeze!
May God help us.
Chief Patrick Chidolue

This question are very dumb

Fafesot:
While growing up, my attitude was solely based on what people think about me or my actions. When I was in my teen, it got worse bcus it was already affecting me psychologically, and my views about life were products of others' thought, opinion or imagination. I'm from a polygamous family, as a young man, I must stand firm to maintain my position in the family. But this I could not do because I was becoming timid already. I was the type that over-think. So after sometime, I gained admission to the university, I thought it would get better but it was the opposite. My second year was almost as the first. The thing has bereft me of any iota of confidence, I walked facing down and all. If I greeted someone and the person didn't answer well, I might think about this for two days and sometimes would always want impress others so they can think good about me.
The turnaround: When I moved to the next level in the university (part 3), the situation was changing gradually, I was becoming gradually confident... I sat down one day, I called my self by my name and asked my self; have you stolen before, I answered "No". Have you done something ignominious before; I answered No. Then why are you scared of everyone?, why do you give a Bleep about what people think about you? . That moment, I became confident, I started to talk boldly and also started to stand firmly on my opinion, I increased the level of conversation with people, I looked lecturers in the face and tell them whatever the case may be.

The result: I started observing that people began to respect me more, my friends on campus and even...just everyone,both old and young.
When I went back home for holiday, let me quickly add this, I had also always believed witches and evil people can kill me and it was one of the reasons for my timidity. I stopped the belief and began to have faith in whatever I think and the God I serve. I give no f*vk about them. Then later, I also observed they began to respect me, even my dad. I talking intellectually and express my opinions buoyantly and brilliantly. Everything about my life just changed and I began to have rest of mind. I perform better in everything I do and started to trust in myself. I now walk confidently and also do little workout. I now look fit and more hands..

Share yours.

This was me because of where I grew up
Trust me people will ride you if they see that you are not confident
I simply realized that when I try to please people I’m never happy
I changed my mentality right now I have just a friend the rest dun run because I no do obioma again

Capalot66:
Hello everyone
I’m having an issue that’s bothering me so much
I don’t know how to say no to people whenever they ask things or money from me most times and this is killing me big time.. Anytime they ask me for something , even if it’s the last that’s with me I’ll still give out to them and it’s affecting me. To make matters worse, I don’t know how to ask people for things or money even asking from my family, I don’t do that.. Today now, one of my guy asks me for money, I sent him the last 1k with me fully knowing well that I don’t have any money on me again or any hope to see money, I still went ahead to give me. Now I don’t have any money on me, I’m using freebasics sef here on nairaland. How can I stop this ?

Say no it’s simple
You’re scared of what people will say
Not that your character is bad but in this part of our world it is

You should be his support instead of break him more
I remember when I finished uni at 22 I carry load go house my mama pursue me
Igbo women

sonmvayina:


The joke enter....lol

Sense in every nonsense
West Africa is the birthplace of spirituality

fkj950ax:


A found out B can sing
A got C interested in hearing B sing. C got prepared and they went looking for B.
They found B, had a conversation with B, turned on a camera and played a beat sample.

Where is the script in all of this?

Big script
If you know you know
But make she blow sha Na him be the main thing

sonmvayina:


I have been following your post, if I may ask. What is Allah? As a novice that is coming into islam; how would you describe or pitch Allah for me..

The earth goddess
Islam more like isi ala
That’s why they are more practice
Abeg na joke oo

When Einstein gave lectures at U.S. universities, the question students asked him most was: Do you believe in God? And he always answered: I believe in the God of Spinoza.

According to Spinoza,
God would say:
“Stop praying. I want you to go out into the world and enjoy your life. I want you to sing, have fun and enjoy everything I've made for you."
“Stop going into those dark, cold temples that you built yourself and saying they are my house. My house is in the mountains, in the woods, rivers, lakes, beaches. That's where I live and there I express my love for you."
“Stop blaming me for your miserable life; I never told you there was anything wrong with you or that you were a sinner, or that your sexuality was a bad thing. Sex is a gift I have given you and with which you can express your love, your ecstasy, your joy. So don't blame me for everything that others made you believe."
“Stop reading alleged sacred scriptures that have nothing to do with me. If you can't read me in a sunrise, in a landscape, in the look of your friends, in your son's eyes—you will find me in no book!"
“Stop asking me, ‘Will you tell me how to do my job?’ Stop being so scared of me. I do not judge you or criticize you, nor get angry or bothered. I am pure love."
“Stop asking for forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive. If I made you, I filled you with passions, limitations, pleasures, feelings, needs, inconsistencies, and best of all, free will. Why would I blame you if you respond to something I put in you? How could I punish you for being the way you are, if I'm the one who made you? Do you think I could create a place to burn all my children who behave badly for the rest of eternity? What kind of god would do that?"
“Respect your peers, and don't give what you don't want for yourself. All I ask is that you pay attention in your life—alertness is your guide."
“My beloved, this life is not a test, not a step on the way, not a rehearsal, not a prelude to paradise. This life is the only thing here and now—and it is all you need."
“I have set you absolutely free, no prizes or punishments, no sins or virtues, no one carries a marker, no one keeps a record.
You are absolutely free to create in your life. It’s you who creates heaven or hell."
“Live as if there is nothing beyond this life, as if this is your only chance to enjoy, to love, to exist. Then you will have enjoyed the opportunity I gave you. And if there is an afterlife, rest assured that I won't ask if you behaved right or wrong, I'll ask, ‘Did you like it? Did you have fun? What did you enjoy the most? What did you learn?’
“Stop believing in me; believing is assuming, guessing, imagining. I don't want you to believe in me, I want you to believe in you. I want you to feel me in you when you kiss your beloved, when you tuck in your little girl, when you caress your dog, when you bathe in the sea."
“Stop praising me. What kind of egomaniac God do you think I am? I'm bored with being praised. I'm tired of being thanked. Feeling grateful? Prove it by taking care of yourself, your health, your relationships, the world. Express your joy! That's the way to praise me.
“Stop complicating things and repeating as a parrot what you've been taught about me. Why do you need more miracles? So many explanations?"
“The only thing for sure is that you are here, that you are alive, that this world is full of wonders.”

Baruch de Spinoza was a Dutch philosopher considered one of the great rationalists of 17th century philosophy, along with Descartes.

Og

C

B

Tell me one sector that is not 99% corrupt
Our parents generation wan kill us

No shaking drop out

OyigboUpdate:
You might have seen this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6764848/ugm-attack-checkpoint-oji-river

Everybody in the comment section were asking for pictures. Well as it has always been I will bring exclusive photos.

Below are the photos sent in this night

This is sad and devastating and anybody who supports this is mad
If it’s true

illicit:
We like unhealthy competition and our fathers married too many wives....

How many Igbos do we have and how many native germans and French do we have
Imagine France and Germans in a country how would it work
Now then pack us like sardine for one country and you want us to go forward

illicit:
We like unhealthy competition and our fathers married too many wives....

Your fathers were able to control them
But now we don’t have balls
Our forefathers were not fools

1Alex:


Why is the black man poor in the first place and the Whiteman is not? The answer is what the Op said.

Because they stole all everything meant for you for power and control

Showing your body is self pride
You no kill person if e enter another person eye make him do him own
Since everybody wan craze

Hookup

Why him no go live the longest.. him no get problem apart from find food
Human being problem no Dey finish

Shut up
It’s because of the poverty rate here
You dun see black man way get money Dey reason all this things?
No be say poverty go make your neighbor wan do you bad oo.... poverty is just the father of ignorance and an ignorant man would always think like a fool
Nobody is trying to bring your business down
Most people make small money and pride no go gree them think well again they become too comfortable and when it falls they blame village people
Nobody is looking at you or anybody if you are serious in this country you will have people supporting you definitely

Enternal life is the one you will transit to when you leave earth
The secret to it is to live a purposeful life
A purposeful life is one that when achieved your are full of consciousness or positive energy to go to the next phase
Meaning you are fit to go to the next phase
If not you keep on coming back till you learn and master yourself (oba)

Japa
No be only flee

Even person way Dey self-service go follow talk
If everybody deny am now
Where the statistics Dey come from?
Which man here fit go 6months no cum
Then come imagine people way no get Barney and money shey make them kill themselves?
I never hear say person use porn or masturbation or Bleep kill him neighbor way Dey on him own
Instead of being hypocritical and judgmental advice people to have safe sex more like a better option

Me

mafolayomi:
You sure say you need the work so?

Yes na.. na my condition be that
Them no Dey shout for me

Dtruthspeaker:
Nwchkwgz see

God gave them a test to know if they can differentiate between good and bad (what we call choice)
They did and God said man has become like us
God no need to come dey reason all this things
Wetin dem Dey teach una for this una church self

Flakky26:
The responsibilities are
1. cleaning and tidying up of the house.
2.washing the car
3. running errands /shopping
4. washing cloths
5. ocassional cooking

How much and location
I hope say them no Dey shout for person because I go shout back

2468iyajo:
The governor of CBN godwin efeanyi emefiele think say na abokifx website is the problem. How did you see the issue?

They shouldn’t point fingers because the joke is on them
AbokiFX self na criminal , make the owner come show me the least love