₦airaland Forum

UjSizzle: Oh fvck you all jare Why can't powerful Thor be a woman? In fact I don vex biko. Thor must be a woman!

Uju is a girl, has always been a girl. Can she wake up one day as a guy? Maybe. If she doesn't mind, what of friends and family?

Thor is a man, has been a man. Turning him to a woman is an insult on fan intelligence. Why not create more female superheroes instead of messing up with the ones people already know?

Ridiculous! Thor cannot just become a woman. The feminist craze. Marvel has finally lost it.

@op, the biggest step in the solution to most problems is a removal of the cause. As long as she believes she'd burn in hell for making up (even if to look attractive to you), she wouldn't really listen to anything you say if you are not supporting the motion.

Try to use the same Bible. Good news is, it doesn't truly condemn those things. That teaching is just misapplied scriptures quoted out of context. However you need to be conversant with what the Bible says and be skillful in reasoning from it, to stand a chance.

You could either try to convince her yourself (with the Bible or you'd just sound selfish and she'd even start praying for your ignorance to be cured), or get someone she respects (religion-wise) to do it. I'd advice you do it yourself. That would mean actually believing the and doing research though. I could help you with verses if you want.

Choose your words wisely, as women get hurt by words (even if it's the truth) more than many realise. Be patient with her, and don't lose your temper if you don't see quick results. You might also need to show her examples of religiously devout women who have not abandoned their appearance.

Whatever you do, don't cheat! There's simply no excuse for that.

donmarshia: Nigerians like to dey form James Bond. Love and attraction are two different things. OP no mind dem. Of course you should not cheat but her appearance is a red flag as men are moved by appearance when it comes to sex. A man could love his wife but if she becomes dirty and unkempt, then he would lose any form of physical attraction but wud still love her.
The OP is scared of losing the attraction he has for his wife and has laid a valid complaint. Bashing him won't help, no man wud accept this situation without raising an eye brow.
Op pls appeal to ur wife and tell her that ur attraction to her is physical and cud affect ur sexual desire for her if she continues like this but pls do this with understanding and respect.
Let her know u still love her and will always do.

King Marshia

no mind them. They claim to be able to read between the lines, whereas they can't. Lots of ignorant and self-righteous comments up there.

The fact that marriage is for better or worse does no give any partner the right to give the mate 'worse' without any regard for his/views.

Some people here can lie o

Cheeun: *yimu* na una go breastfeed the infant abi? You people had better get ur lazya*s to work now. See dem lol

is breastfeeding all there is to parenting? So far tomorrow you no complain say husband no dey get your time (or the children). Old habits die hard.

6 months is too damn long by the way. Relatives do most of the work. All many new mothers do is eat, breastfeed, eat, get fat, eat, breastfeed... Why should the government pay for that?

egopersonified: Please ohh after six months, can we have another six months of working half day, and bring the kid to work for this extra six months ohh, so the child can just start sch at a year old. For the ten days, its too much now, all they need is three days max. Pls fashola, consider my appeal.

ten days is too much for fathers?

See why some women should just be dumped in the hospital to give birth when she likes? Maybe after giving birth, the man can look for time to come pick them up. If there is no time, since his work is more important, and he doesn't need to spend time with his family, they can find their way home.

Nice. Many people have no idea the stress loving husbands go through during the period their wives go into labour. More time to spend with the family. Bonding truly begins from birth with fathers.

Vikky014: Dey fink wtout dem we can't survive,dey fink it is a must 4 us to marry dem,dey always ask dis silly questn(do u fink any man will marry u wt dis type of character?)Add urs#Winks#

of course you ladies can't do without us.

Br3nd4...

*deep sigh*

*sniffs*

I... I miss...

*chokes*

*sighs again*

Neldrizzy: oga face ur front.. Naa only her you see

she dey my front na

Kulkatty, we are eagerly waiting for your pics

Ogorkojo, you make brain

Toks2008: Who is this? Is it that you never went to school or you lost your decorum? why this unwarranted sarcasm? When has it become a crime to air one's views on a public fora.

I will inform Seun to do some psychological evaluation in the mode of answering some psychological questions before people register on nairaland. This display of immaturity is getting out of hand.

lol. Roll into the nearest gutter. That's where you belong.

kulkatty: *spreads mat* #teamObserving

upload na. Give your fans eye candy

Jerrick: Ugly girls all over! None has been impressive so far!

lol. You need yeast. It's great for eyesight. You no happy say dem even upload at all?

Toks2008: This is a very dry thread and i can see that most ladies have very low self esteem or maybe they are not just poised for social media or probably ashamed of their looks,

If this happens to be an American forum im so sure many ladies will upload their pics just for the fun of it.Thumbs up for those few who uploaded theirs.

Most Nigerian ladies are so dry and hypocritical.

abeg drop superstory. Na by force to upload? Some uploaded, did you even acknowledge them? No. You'd rather focus on those who didn't. Useless negative mentality.

Some people like their privacy. Deal with it or get off the thread.

Hmmm... Fine girls dey NL, but they are few

Romanciela, mimiejacobz, kiwigal, sweedypie... You girls rock. Nice eye candy.

@ claireshan, a girl didn't take her pic down fast enough and a man saw. A man wonders why a girl is shy

BRAV0O: just fake your id and enter the place !

hahahahahahahaha... Anything I can write with fake id, I can write with this.

I dey come sha. Grand entry things on lock down.

It's now 18+? These people go spuel me o.

Everyone (normal) acts better (and at times preen) around good-looking persons of the opposite sex than around ugly ones. At times, we might not even realise it. It's nature.

fnep2smooth: keep hating bro. Am so far gone am 3D bro.

bwahahahahahaha! Hating on you? So far gone? Lol. Ok o. Just stop using wrong words like 'humble' in a haughty post.

Judas2013: You wouldn't understand the word written on the door if the were written in German. Probably it might mean DANGER!

true. But it takes a literate person to realise it's not english but german and source for the meaning. I know some german words though I've never been there.

Bottom line is, literacy can make up for little exposure.

A certain sheila (the 221st of her name) is spying too

pweedyuz: Do i know u

should I greet only those who know me?

@ pweedyuz, greetings your royal shyness.

ebullientV: Dubai's things are frigging expensive mehn.. Even dat guy when dey find babes go run if i pull dem stunts..

you mean me? *tapping black card slowly*

BRAV0O: they're coming! Between let share the goat meat na

for that good news, ok. *passes the big steaming plate of peppersoup*

ebullientV: Mehn u badt! Pepper soup without the Goat meat? I'd rather drink water .

As per 'importing babes', I only knw how to import 4rm China... And u knw what they say 'bout Chinese products ...

I don't discriminate

ebullientV: All for you alone? You've got to share some oo

ok... You can have the peppersoup without the goat meat

Meanwhile, make una import babes come na I like having alot of options...

lynpetra: Na illiteracy o.What of I finally fund my sef with a sophisticated man?If my spoon kon fall down for 5 star restaurant,I fit disgrace myself."Sir,please can you fork me down?".

hahahahahahahaha

BRAV0O: brother do u prefer soda water ?, them don share the kunu finish welcome on board bro

em... I'd like fresh palm wine, and goat meat pepper soup... and a lady to admire while sentencing the food to death.