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Nairaland General › Re: But Why Are Guys Like This?? by Oahray: 2:03pm On Jan 29, 2013
lalaosky: i read your post very well...i'm not looking for any loop holes in your posts cos i know there are loop holes there.that aint my buisness.i just thought that the best name to give your thread is what i mentioned earlier.stop misunderstanding me please.this is about me and not my friends.check my earlier post and remove the log of wood in your eyes first.in my earlier posts, i quoted itsmodella for saying that your post made sense.

Your post makes sense just a lil loop holes which shows you're only human.it's your thread and you can call it whatever you want, i just said that if it had been me, i wouldn't have made it gender specific


thanks
I wanted to like this post, but you are too polite at times! tongue
Nairaland General › Re: But Why Are Guys Like This?? by Oahray: 2:00pm On Jan 29, 2013
Lol... Its funny how this girl paints a big bulls-eye on herself and afterwards blames any Robinhood wannabe for taking a shot.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:55pm On Jan 29, 2013
Hi mama Trustee smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:54pm On Jan 29, 2013
Idowuogbo: wot? grin grin grin
Nothing... I just dey look as men wey sabi dey make digits fall out. tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:50pm On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=gree-die]hehehe... wats jurisprudence?? im talking igbo metaphysics mehn.
i know wat u think u know but im methodicaly ignorant of it. tongue tongue

give her a knock for me.. u know who, u know why grin[/quote]Nice way to deny your course tongue and no, I don't know the 'her' you are talking about. Mrs lastApostle?
Nairaland General › Re: But Why Are Guys Like This?? by Oahray: 1:41pm On Jan 29, 2013
Idowuogbo: berra!
lolzzzz... grin
Nairaland General › Re: But Why Are Guys Like This?? by Oahray: 1:40pm On Jan 29, 2013
Sweetlemon: There's a difference between arrogance and a healthy self-esteem. Arrogant people insult and look down on others while confident people say things clearly and precisely without insulting but the confident way they do it often intimidates people with self esteem issues of their own, thereby making the the ones with lower confidence hate their guts.
Like I said earlier, try to read my posts like it were written by any other NLer so that you won't allow sentiments becloud your better judgement.
Anyway, very soon, I will have to stop being regular here. I'm just sharing what I have to others who might find them useful.
while still trying to get the sense of the bold part, lemme quickly add these:

(1) there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. In an attempt to look or sound confident, people easily turn arrogant, without realizing it. Just as one cannot see his/her ears without a mirror, there are certain things about our person we cannot see without some help from others. The reaction of others is a mirror on your attitude. Would you criticize every mirror that brings up an ugly reflection of your face? Would you not take steps to make corrections?

(2) I think you are like any other NLer and read your posts like any other post. Thanks for the directive but flatter yourself no more dear. Only difference is the ease with which you try to defend yourself even when no one is attacking you.

(3) NL is a minature form of the society. One advantage is that you have the opportunity to get into people's minds, since its easier to say what we think in a faceless forum. This does not mean that the people in reality who keep smiling at you have blank slates or a garden of sweet-smelling roses as minds, they just would not express their every opinion of you as they would on a forum such as this.
Nairaland General › Re: But Why Are Guys Like This?? by Oahray: 12:47pm On Jan 29, 2013
Sweetlemon: @ Oahray, if you follow my threads @ all as you say you will see that I NEVER NEVER insult or get rude to anyone except that person draws the sword first.
Never!
These people have (repeatedly) called me every name under the sun. For reasons I just cannot fathom. Yet you honestly expect me not to react to the insults? Did I ever tell you that I'm super humanhuh
I apologized because I hate having serious quarrels with people whether or not I'm at fault.
It doesn't matter who draws the sword first, bottom line, you did throw insults at all. Inasmuch as I do not fancy the incessant manner in which you keep getting attacked, I cannot truthfully say you did not deserve at least some of it.

I never said, directly or by implication, that you should not react. On the contrary, I think reaction is a natural law. I'm a bit surprised you have been so polite of recent, and I think its a good thing.

Looks like you are a nice person, but don't be too hasty to tell others all the time how much they don't understand you. It could only mean two things: either you have an issue with communicating or others have a problem with understanding.
The context of your words points to the latter. It has an air of arrogance to it. You should limit how often you say it.

I understand you sweetlemon, believe me, I do.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:25pm On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=gree-die]u no well sef.... me wey study igbo language for uni.

abt d siggy, i ll change it ltr jare.[/quote]seriously? You studied igbo as part of.... Jurisprudence? shocked *screaming* people make una come hear oooooooo! shocked
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:20pm On Jan 29, 2013
lalaosky: many things bros..lol..your way with words is amazing.i learnt the words "dreamy sigh" from you and you always stand your ground , you're not the wavering kind.you know how to argue logically.

plus, your gorgon medussa face that turned mondi cheeks to stone
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

lwkmd
lmao... I am beginning to think you have a note where you write down stuff you see on Nairaland. Either that or the film in your photographic memory is infinite.

NB: turning mondi_cheeks to stone is still an ongoing project smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:14pm On Jan 29, 2013
chronique: Yimu! You obviously didn't get me. I mean: if your eyes fall off,they'd replace it with goat eyes. So dont roll it till it falls off.
I got you tongue I thought you were talking from experience. No? tongue tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:54am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=gree-die]lol.... oya make i change am na na[/quote]you gree change am? Who is wearing lastApostle's ring? tongue

[quote author=gree-die]dat and d fact dat i can barely understand wat he is writing. d tin be lyk isialangwa ibo jor[/quote]lol. When the village drunkard staggers, he says its the ground that is shaking.
Just say you no sabi igbo jawe tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:48am On Jan 29, 2013
chronique: Better dont allow the eyes fall off. Goat eyes aint sexy you know?
yeah yeah... How come the ladies say they look good on you? tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:47am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I slept well thanks[/quote]nice! So where did we stop? grin
Nairaland General › Re: But Why Are Guys Like This?? by Oahray: 11:34am On Jan 29, 2013
Ehya... See e-bullying. Not nice. Sweetlemon opens very entertaining threads, we should give her some credit regardless of the truthfulness of its content.

The first time (the thread where she asked for advice on how to please mr bedguy), it was funny cos she was rude and got served.

After raining ancestor curses in the following thread (he invited me to spend a weekend) she repented, and since then she has been so polite even in the face of insults. How many of us can do that?

There is still some sense in her post, though she has a lil problem with effective communication. Even if she flaunts her bedguy (real or not) in your faces, kini big deal?

I think we should stop living in her past threads and give her a break too. Punishing someone twice or more times for the same offense is pure injustice!
Crime › Re: Couple Killed By Bus While Being Intimate Along A Busy Highway by Oahray:
Ehyaaaaaaaaa.... Sausage gymnastics grin grin grin
Culture › Re: Kenyan Ladies by Oahray: 10:55am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=@kenyattaMoore]Smh!!![/quote]Don't shake your head, correct her without making her feel worthless.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:47am On Jan 29, 2013
chronique: @ Idowuogbo. Just sent you a pm. Kindly reply soon wiv digits. Thanks.
hmmmm... *rolling eyes in the deep with adele*
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:45am On Jan 29, 2013
ItsModella: Nope, you better start talking..
lol what I meant was em ...was that... igbo boys know how to keep their cool under provocation. Plus they are almost always light skinned. cheesy
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:18am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=~vicky~]lol good Oahray, how was ur 9t?[/quote]My night? Well, I sort of fell asleep so I did not take note sad
ItsModella: Shut up, you don't get a lawyer until you clarify your point.
Ok, can I exercise my right to remain silent then? smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:07am On Jan 29, 2013
ItsModella: wait, what's your point? that Igbo guys are albino monkeys?
waaaat! shocked Are you trying to frame me up? I want my lawyer.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:03am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=~vicky~]good morning derailers kiss[/quote]good morning omoge! sempe kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 10:02am On Jan 29, 2013
ItsModella: grin grin grin grin grin

what do you mean tho? don't you know he's Igbo?
yes I'v always know that since the first time someone called him albino monkey grin

good morning
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 9:57am On Jan 29, 2013
Am I the only one who finds sexkillz chatting here in igbo pretty awkward?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 9:56am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=uj_sizzle]hello, good morning[/quote]Good morning ma'am, welcome to the derailers' thread. I'm Oahray and these other people here are... em... just people.
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]good morning[/quote]a good good morning to you miss mondi_cheeks *stress on cheeks* how was your night?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 9:51am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=gree-die]make mynd no hear u o tongue
morning oahray. how r u?[/quote]abeg e. A wife wears her husband's ring. Its a signature. Looking at ur signature, well.... *awkward silence*

Good morning
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 8:52am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=gree-die]morning guys[/quote]good morning mrs lastApostle grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 8:19am On Jan 29, 2013
lalaosky: i've learnt so much on here...from modella, oahray,idowu, ike, binger...mehn the list is endless
ha! He added my name grin bros what did you learn from Oahray?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 8:17am On Jan 29, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]under a tree[/quote]under a tree? Hehehehehehe... grin grin grin grin grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 8:16am On Jan 29, 2013
tchidi: Really? I think u r having fun...with ur harem undecided undecided undecided
not true sad sad
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 7:14pm On Jan 28, 2013
Idowuogbo: Hen hen? She portable o! Dat geh go sabi flex wella for bedmatics. See as she set her murano. grin
*pretending to understand* grin grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 7:13pm On Jan 28, 2013
Redmosquito bail up! angry

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