Skywalker5:

Spot on. The only technology embraced is mobile phones and laptops. companies are not investing in backend infrastructures

to make matters worse, even if a company wanted to buy an ehr, due to inferiority complex they wont pick an indeginous vendor because they believe they dont know what they are doing.

They will go and buy from UK, USA or Canada.

In short the industry is held back by mindset issues.

nigeria and nigerians hate progress and advancement. crreate an electronic health record application and no one wants to use it, they prefer file and pen. Create anything, no one wants to adopt it. technology adoption rate is low because the people hate progress.

There is no market for IT product/ service consumption because people and companies are okay where they are.

Nothing to do with govt or electricity.

thats just how they are.

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They r not being criticised. Its just been ops observations. These ppl have been taught incorrectly and need to loosen up.

this is why i go for young girls that are still naive and attend deeper life. forget all these girls were don tear eye!

if the man is not committed now they will threaten him with judeo christian hell.

walk down the streets of london or any US city in summer and see girls. Who wants to waste time with original poster.

these girls r well behaved in character, learning & everything...

chimkaire:
...the guy is blinded by "rov" or our dear Sprinkles' is an Oscar winner
When you leave this guy, your eyes go clear
Then you will understand "there are men and there are men"

Word! the real men hv spirituality behind their swag.

but its true now. even the beautiful ones are not yet born. most men fall into the trap of getting married then wanting out due to the plethora of other women out there. how can men curb this tendency?

the original poster is suffering from what i call modern day distortion. i just opened up a new thread advising ppl to marry anybody. u marry whoever and grow in love. do u think the man does not have options of ppl way prettier than u and more well behaved? he is probably obeying christianity... i think most who obey christianity regret it in this regard. the church encourages men to treat women with respect, one man to one woman etc - women hate these things at least modern day women. we get stuck with useless women who dont have the same principles.

its ur decision. just know its hard to find interested men depending on ur age.

Wat im saying is a man is a man and a woman is a woman. Like someone? Just marry them. Yes there may be prettier, richer etc ppl out there but just get with a partner & be content. thats my point.

this is my philosophy. mark urself to market and rest. Why or why not?

the indecision in mate selection is responsible for high rates of infidelity.

im now fully convinced the country is cursed...

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Brugo:
They want to rock their single life.

but its a wrong mentality because there is nothing really to 'rock'. all sleeping around breeds is emptiness... so is it fair to say that the girls are misinformed?

icebot:
Why the rush into marriage when it is not a competition? Acquiring a BSc at the age of 22 or less does not automatically makes a lady ready for marriage.

this is the problem. that means sexually speaking its more rewarding to just hv a bf/gf. so wen will she be ready for marriage @ 32?

there is nothing to be ready about. wen u start living with ur husband, u will evolve & adapt.

its foolish to 'wait till ur ready'

we wanna hear from the ladies!

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Discuss.

lets get this straight. there is a diff between sexual attactiveness and marriage.

Men are primally interested in the former ONLY.

What is the legal age of consent in Nigeria.

Over 50 yrs ago, girls got married at 18-22 in nigeria.

What is happening now is girls do shakara until they are past due, the men then do a marriage of situation/ convenience to these overdue women but their eyes are still set on the young. so they get married then cheat with students.

the onus is on the young girls to get steady boyfriends at their young age and set out their hearts to marry them later.

cococandy:
what would she gain from staying married to such a person?
Someone that is sleeping with his own kid's possible age mate?

shut the f up!

kandiikane:


Because whether the girl carried her two legs seduce the grown ass married man should have known better.

and what if the wife isnt satisfying the guy, he should keep suffering?

his wife was probably late 20s when he married her. he wanted fresh goods... a super sweet 16.

the blame falls on the girls for refusing to marry earlier. 23 max.

nma24:
please tell them oo... It should be spontaneous. Anywhere Anytime

this spontaneity is hindered by religious indoctrination, they will soon say it is "unclean".

Where r all the no sex before marriage hypocrites? This man probably married at 35 with no prior sex for 35 years probably just wanking away and asking forgiveness due to religion.

Now in the marriage now no blow jobs no sex.

So the guy must be sexually unhappy his whole life to'make heaven'?

Well as for me based on current dating market conditions I'm taking the poly love approach. If they send me to hell there will be billions more like me there.

searching4love:



You're really boiling with facts. Thanks. Points picked

How does this solve the issue of konji..
Sound advice if there was no konji...

as ive said before the numerous boyfriends of these young girls are the main benefactors of their bodies. In almost every nigerian marriage you are marrying old cargo that is anything upward of 26. these ppl are experienced and have been around numerous guys. at such age they not even fresh again. the first and second year university boyfriends got the goods fresh.
then men keep waiting for the ideal person to get married to... wasting time...

this mentality is so wrong in fact too wrong. pls wat type of people did u move with wen in school?

how is it wrong? disprove it then.

i have thought about these issues for a while.

As for me, i am going in with a promiscuity mindset with girls and be pleasantly suprised to find one very good woman than to go into a faithfulness mindset only to be disappointed time and time again.

Adaezeagu:

Talk is cheap.keep spewing......

Is it not true. You wait till ur 35 and the girl is 30 to get married after theyve been round numerous guys. whereas the 2nd year boyfriend got her young and fresh. If i were to choose I would rather be be the 2 nd year boyfriend that didnt marry her abeg than the 35 year old suitor that met her when she was older.

Guys opinions? No hypocrites pls.

as ive said before the numerous boyfriends of these young girls are the main benefactors of their bodies. In almost every nigerian marriage you are marrying old cargo that is anything upward of 26. these ppl are experienced and have been around numerous guys. at such age they not even fresh again. the first and second year university boyfriends got the goods fresh.

then men keep waiting for the ideal person to get married to... wasting time...

only the boyfriends that chop these young girls when they really young wins!!!

All of u marrying older girls and wishing you had younger girls... its really a tough call.

the bad girls of youth repackage themselves for marriage. u r basically buying a used product.

me i need tear rubber oh.

at the nigerian marriage age, the girls are no longer vital or very desirable which is why guys will marry them then cheat.

all you young girls out there, do ur selves a favor and redevelop the early marriage mentality. it pays.

If u have nothing meaningful to add please shut the Bleep up