₦airaland Forum

Guidette: Let me ask you a question. Can you get with a chick that is super beautiful and sexy and is everything you want except that she has been sampled by everyone you know?

well.. it depends.. I believe the ppl you regard as gentlemen are ppl whose past has not been explored..

we all have a past.. some which are ugly..

if this girl can let her past become past and is ready to thread a new path.. why not?

Guidette: You know the funny thing is that I have only had one real boyfriend and he was just what I wanted. We broke up because of other reasons. I am just saying that if a guy meets my criteria and we are attracted to each other, GAME ON! If not stand in the corner.

Good.. but then, you've gotta be a Lil flexible.. there's always a chance you'd find someone close but not exactly..

GentleMimi: Whaaaaaaaat? Mould wetin? Have u been to marriage counselling? They will tell u NEVER to assume u can reform ur spouse! Never! If there are traits in the individual u cannot cope wif,simply find ur way! But if u feel u can deal wif such,then remain in the relationship and ''work'' towards ''reforming'' ur spouse with the help of God's wisdom.
It is left for us to put our faith in God.But an unfaithful and violent man is one i cannot deal wif. If i see a hint of such in him,i'm out.No time for reformation oooo!

well, in as much as you can't change those independent variables of a person like temperament, you can actually influence the dependent variables like "being God fearing".

it all boils down to attitude.. or do you sincerely believe guys are incapable of being faithful?

Guidette: This is so weird!! So a man that doesnt sleep around and fears God is a perfect human being? Haba, coming from a woman even makes it worse. I accept that all human's have flaws, but asking for those 2 things means I am asking for too much?
Dude.... our generation is doomed!

there are men who don't sleep around.. a lot Of them... and I'm sure when you were still into "ashawo" Men you pushed a lot of these "guys that don't sleep around to the friendzone"

go look for them and hope they haven't changed..

cos pushing these good guys to the friendzone end up changing them. and I'm sure most guys have been there once or twice.

that it's difficult to find guys who don't sleep around is actually adaptation or rather "evolution" if you wish

Guidette: smh AIDS is real...

and condom is real too

Guidette: Not true. I like calm guys who respect themselves and other people. Just this weekend, I was talking to a guy I thought was a good candidate to be my next bf and then he text me this rubbish: When am I going to 'see' you?
Imagine! I am done with ashawo men!

and you interpreted "see" as se.x I presume.. you need to get out of your head.. you're thinking Too much..

spontaneity is the key

Harbosede02: Op,nt all guys are crazy,nt all guys flirt,nt all guys r dumb lyk some guys on Nl,bt "all" guys aren't perfect,infact no 1 is,so if u are luking 4 mr perfect u go old b4 u marry,if u av intrest in a guy and u see dat hez charactar/way of living isn't making u comfortable,try getting close 2 im 2 knw wat abt brought abt it,i knw dat in one way or d other u can change 1 or 2 tinz u don't lyk abt im.and dat wud make im ur own mr perfect!

I didn't know you can be this articulate.. most of your post used to be jabs and jokes.. well I'm impressed..

to the topic,

to add to what my lady Harbosede said.. op.. find your man.. no matter how unrefined and crude he is.. no matter how flirty he is and tame him. mould him into the man you want him to be and you'll be happy you did..

Nobody is perfect

morning house.. May the peace of the lord be with you all..

Happy Sunday

divydaniel: I had dat ideology in my head b4 buh nw........nw i kno what i wnt and dat is to become a renowned medical doctor.
Its nt evrybody dat aplies 4 medcine actually makes it to the top.
So if u realy wnt to b a doctor den be a doctor cause amist a million stars dere stil ones dat shine brighter

your right bro.. it's all about your convictions..

when I wanted to fill my jamb from then, pops was gingering medicine.. I look am with one eyes.. come ask myself if na em go read all those big boring medical books for me.. I just kukuma put my engineering for there..

life is too short to do something you don't really wanna do

Rosysea2088: lol, dat is what scared me frm medicine... Too many applicants

lol.... congrats once again jare. you deserve it

Mallamai: Well @Obayaya nobody said anyfin on certificate to year.....evry1 jst kpt mute lik d predegree no dey exist,na wa oo

normally, basic admission list comes out before certificate's.. so a lil wait won't hurt

Rosysea2088: Wanted to do medicine, but i lost interest in the course@ obayaya

it's a good thing you lost that interest o.. the rate at which everybody Is applying for medicine these days is scary...

if everybody becomes a doctor, who'll they now treat?

Op, for starters, your write up is poorly constructed and can't possibly convince anybody..

to the topic,

Ngige's handlers messed up big time during his campaign and the run up to the elections. but party affiliation is not the major reason why Ngige lost the elections..

let's be honest, Ngige did all he did as governor because of the pressure the fall out with the Uba Family heaped on him.. All he did was to gain legitimacy and support of the masses.

people don't actually Buy into what you do and how you do it.. they Buy into why you do things you do?

Now the question is why is Ngige in politics? why did he become governor in 2003? why did he enter into that unholy Marriage with the ubas? be honest With. yourself while answering this questions you'll discover that the only feasible answer is greed and personal gain..

He proved that again at the Senate by just sitting there doing nothing.. why did he go to the Senate? not because of the masses.. but because he wants to remain politically relevant so as to relaunch a bid to occupy zik house.

if anambra gubernatorial elections calendar wasn't different from senatorial, will Ngige be at the Senate?

And for you to say Obi didn't do anything in anambra is a display of your poor analytical skills. Is there any completed government project in that your village? if yes, was it there before Obi came onboard?

I've always supported Obi since he won his mandate from the court because his actions has always showed a clear why? why he wants to govern anambra.. and his how is impressive-- ANIDS and what he's doing is evident.

I wish I can talk about okorocha but I don't have much details to make an informed comment on him.. but going by what I'm hearing.. he it doesn't sound good

Rosysea2088: ya, just like Ben Carson

lol.. Ben Carson indeed.. but you're not a med Student na :p

Rosysea2088: yep, thanks

Thank God for you.. now your book of lamentation will turn to the book Of joy

Mallamai: Sir otokx any news on the admission list on certificate programme 2 degree?

certificate to Year one should be out soon since basic is out

kingoflag: Yes, a restaurant in every airport in Nigeria will create 10million jobs within the time frame announced... you're exactly the type of dummy they prepared this sham announcement for. smh

And who says I give two hoots about APC? U guys are clowns and so unsophisticated. APC hasn't put forth their representatives yet ppl like u have already made up their minds to hate them.

Bro, don't let ur bigotry be the death of u.

what are you bragging about? the post I read says 100 billion naira revenue annually and 10 million jobs in the first 2 years..

now flow with me.. how many labourers, builders, suppliers, Food vendors, transporters will be involved directly or indirectly in building such micro cities in the 5 international airports in the country? 10 million might be an exaggeration but the potential is huge depending on the size of the aerotropolis

100 billion revenue annually? How much do you think companies Will pay for an office space or packaging facility in an international airport? 100 Billion might be an exaggeration as well but it's only an estimate.

I don't see the reason for all these pessimistic complaints

Rosysea2088: thanks dear.... Xo i should pay before signing up?

congrats dear.. so you finally got the admission?

Op.. I'm no builder.. but I'd advice you to seek out Oga spyder.. he's a builder of repute that have Done incredible jobs for nairalanders at cutthroat budgets.. he'll give you a reasonable and honest estimate

here's one of his works for a nairalander

www.nairaland.com/1474917/building-elegant-5-bedroom-duplex

rhazur: I rep #FUTMINNA

it's all good..


Uniport here bruv

rhazur: Same thing happened in my school also and i still wonder how and why?

which school?

1st minute.. First goal

HYBREED: I can dare say I have more information about christianity than pastor okotie does. If he knows how the catholic have been the custodian of what he now rely on to preach...he wouldn't make such utterances about catholic. Though a muslim,but I know to some extent about how constantinople collated the bible.

and they'll keep shouting my bible tells me whenever they wanna disprove something that isn't in line with their doctrines but will neglect every others..

hypocrites

nyabingi: Im not fronting for Pastor Christ, I believe that we must always exhibit love when we want to correct others, the pastor went the xtreem way, but i advice nairalanders especialy youths who are in the catholic church to get down with their bibles and suncerely ask the Holy Spirit for inspirations and insights, thry'd understand why they urgently need to leave the church. Its just the grace of God thats still working in the church, that same grace that alows the rain to fall and sun to shine so that both the wicked and rightous ones eat their daily bread.

Here are some facts some catholics dont know:

The knite of Mulumba is a cult (attend the burial of a member then come back and thank me)
Most money ritualiist and ocult members especially from Igbo land hide under the church
The Papalcy is political and they do a lot of things the "jolly go lucky" catholics dont have a clue of
Most of ur reverend fathers have kids and are established business men (pls watch The Bogias...google pls)
In latin America there's different kinds of anual rituals done to honour madona (mary) sometimes involving the spil of human blood (pls google)

very soon you'll tell me that Mary Magdalen was pregnant for Jesus because you watched da Vinci code

shallow human being

nyabingi: Im not fronting for Pastor Christ, I believe that we must always exhibit love when we want to correct others, the pastor went the xtreem way, but i advice nairalanders especialy youths who are in the catholic church to get down with their bibles and suncerely ask the Holy Spirit for inspirations and insights, thry'd understand why they urgently need to leave the church. Its just the grace of God thats still working in the church, that same grace that alows the rain to fall and sun to shine so that both the wicked and rightous ones eat their daily bread.

Here are some facts some catholics dont know:

The knite of Mulumba is a cult (attend the burial of a member then come back and thank me)
Most money ritualiist and ocult members especially from Igbo land hide under the church
The Papalcy is political and they do a lot of things the "jolly go lucky" catholics dont have a clue of
Most of ur reverend fathers have kids and are established business men (pls watch The Bogias...google pls)
In latin America there's different kinds of anual rituals done to honour madona (mary) sometimes involving the spil of human blood (pls google)

please shut up.. the borgias is a series set in the 15th century.. it reflected the times.. read my earlier Post on the dark ages Of the church...

the Catholic Church has moved on from that times.

and you see why you won't make a good researcher.. after seeing the burial parade of the knights of St. mulumba, did you make additional research on it.. google is your friend brother..

just like the knights of Old fight in defence of their kings and the kingdom, the knights in the church are men who will fight for the Church