₦airaland Forum

Michelle55:
Be 100% present in your child's life, it's either that or nothing.
The woman can't do all the work and watch you waltz back in to claim it just because you are the father or you contributed sperm and a little finance to their upbringing.
Be there every step of the way, be accessible and let your kids acknowledge your presence every day of their lives that way no one would tell them otherwise.
If not, na OYO!!

Brainbox0806:
Good day to you all, I'm on the verge of buying a house for a close family, I bare the responsibility of making payment and verifying that the property is genuine because I'm the one that introduced him to the agent.

I'm trying to be careful because of some clauses that involves the originality of the seller. Mr. A built the house from the ground, lived in it for like seven months then relocated abroad, he appointed a representative ( I think his brother) to sell the property, Mr. B ( also from abroad ) contacted a company to buy the property on his behalf, the property was inspected buy consultant C ( A company ), payment was made and the house was taken over by consultant C but Mr B never occupied the said house since Inception of the purchase, after 15 months of procurement Mr B decided to sell the property through same consultant C.

The neighbour can't ascertain the relationship between Mr A and consultant C , but Mr A has been informed by a neighbour about the presence of consultant C in the house and he confirmed that the house has been sold off . Consultant C do visit the house periodically but the house remains under lock.

The problem now is that consultant C want me to pay directly to him, refusing to give me Mr B. phone number for verification, sighting that the consent letter given to him by Mr B is enough proof. I suspect he's hiding the real price from the owner but I don't want to go ahead without verifying the identity of Mr B ( the current seller). The intending buyer is so in love with the house and cant wait to make payment but I'm hellbent of hearing from Mr B

Kindly advise.

onlyboyson:
Get a nice lawyer with a good chamber history

Not charge and bail lawyer that drive 504 pegeut

Fantazy:
Those people are indirectly doing runs (illegal business).

Any way, I don borrow from 3 different apps amounting to about 15k in total combined.
You know what? I AM NOT PAYING ANY OF THEM A DIME. Let them come and meet me in my house.

Matix222:
You day sleep atttol? All around the clock you are on NL

SalamRushdie:
So he should keep quiet and be labelled a gigolo which he is not?

OlaWise001:
Good day. I am by name Arowolo Olalekan Abraham a student of The federal Polytechnic Bida Niger State. I'm a final year student. I need finally assistant as I'm rounding over my project. I sponsored myself to school right from the HND1 that is in 2019 because help was not coming. Though my parents are alive but old and retired. I need to settle my project fee very soon and I have no where to turn to at the moment that's why I'm reaching out for help on social media.

Please in whatsoever capacity you can assist me I'll be grateful.
The entire project costs #200k in total. I've been doing extra jobs but it hasn't been sufficient. I can send my ID card for identification and authenticity of this message.
Please help a soul

This is my account number
2102425614
UBA
Olalekan Arowolo Abraham
Thank you and God bless you

talented321:
Samantha124 '' samantha124 ''
It is well'' i like the way you express yourself'' something many of my sisters here can't''
Hmmm'' all i will say is you tried because as for me i hardly lose opportunities like that, if i have the zeal to knack the woman'' because deep down i know you are also feeling the vibe'' i think the man was not smart enough because in situations like that you don't need to make it long'' just sharp sharp,

Persephone1:
Your grandma probably bear a personal vendetta against the 3 tribes, it's personal not a general thing.

Prettygirl200:
Abeg make I hear word ohhh, women this women that, inside marriage na who cheat pass, shey no be men? Because it's in marriage that most men spreads their wings and feel they can do whatever dey like but while dating they will be forming saint. Awon women cheat more ni,awon ko.

koladata:
99 percent of women will cheat 10years after marriage.

Leggodeals:
But who has noticed that the men who do this are always very black

Honestly, you guys have to do better. Stop insulting people with very dark skin. They always react this way when they make it-looking for the extreme opposite of themselves.

Men with this type of skin, you are okay, you don't have to look for your exact opposite to live normal. You are beautiful. We love you

davodyguy:
I was recently calle by some group of that they would be giving me award.

After that I was told that I need to appreciate 5he group.

Since then I know awards are not free and actually purchased

yarimo:
Build anyhow in abuja and see anyhow

dopedan:
Please how can she get her cash back

AwokenVawulence:
Most Nigerian girls can only go for finished products

isan:
IGBO AMAKA

Brownshoe:
what about the rest ma,was he given?

LyfeJennings:
ANY MILITARY MAN THAT HAS PARTICIPATED IN THIS LASTMA BEATING SINCE IT HAS STARTED. KINDLY PM ME ON A DEAD THREAD WITH EVIDENCE. I PROMISE WITH ALL I HAVE TO CREDIT U. EVEN IF U NEVER DO AM AND U DEY TRY DO, JUST HAVE ANY FORM OF EVIDENCE. U WILL BE CREDITED WITHIN 5MINS OF NOTIFICATION
NIGERIAN MILITARY, GOD BLESS U
IF NOT FOR ANYTHING BUT THIS VERY ONE, ANY LASTMA ESPECIALLY AROUND OBALENDE, ADENIJI ADELE, THE ENTIRE STRETCH OF IKORODU ROAD, GBAGADA, COSTAIN, SHOULD NOT BE BEATEN BUT STRUCK WITH TERRIBLE HANDS. THESE GUYS ARE WICKEDDDD, THEY ARE THE MOST WICKED ARM OF GOVT EVER KNOWN
THERE IS A PARTICULAR LADY CALLED IRON LADY AFOUND OBA AKRAN AXIS, IF U CAN BEAT THAT WOMAN, I PROMISE AN ALERT OF 100K...

Johnnynash:
Hello nairalanders, I need candid opinion on how to deal with this relationship. There is this lady I am dating she is 26 while I am 46. We started in December 2022 with good vibes, love, care and romance. She was very helpful in helping me settle down again after the demise of my wife and I have her all the attention, care and love I can. I honestly wanted to marry her but she said the age limit is too much, even if she agrees, her siblings and parents will not. Ok fast forward to May 2023 she just started with attitude and eventually said she is not interested again.
I tried to persuade her but it all fell on her deaf ears. We still remain friends and still vibe well but no more relationship.

Before the relationship started I noticed there is this guy that calls her almost everyday but she keep saying they are just friends from nysc.

Immediately she broke up with me she paid the guy a visit somewhere in Osun State, I got to know all these when my phone had issues and I had to collect the phone I bought for her when her own had issues too.

When I reinstall the WhatsApp on the phone hmmm all I saw was that she had been keeping this same guy all these years and when she eventually visited him they had sex that she even contacted urinary tract disease from the guys toilet. Till now she dies not know I had seen all their chat history.

What is really baffling me with this lady is that before we started the relationship there's another guy in her office she confessed to me that they had a quickie and I said I will not judge her with this let her take it as a mistake and move on.

Right now as we speak, she is still claiming she is not dating anyone considering the fact that she had gone to visit the other guy, even did masturbation and nude video with him.

There is another guy again I saw on her chat history she confessed to him she had a crush on him and they are working in the same office with the one she had quickie with.

Summary of the whole story is that this lady is on the verge of sleeping with three guys working in the same office within the space of one year she started working there (this including me but I have since resigned from the establishment). And she already slept with the other guy in Osun State and still claiming they are not dating.

Meanwhile she still has numerous guys approaching her for either relationship or sex including her ex (s).

Now to the issue, how exactly do I deal with this kind of lady because I know she really need help not castigating.

Though I know she has been fooling me all along but this time I refused to be fooled. I want to end it all with her but not without making her realise all she had done in the past while I was dating her and how this would surely affect her marital future.

She is also a type of person that doesn't mind talking to her ex. Though very useful domestically.

Pls forgive my long write up I need candid opinion. Thanks