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loliapoopy2013:
Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.

I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused.
Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.

A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.

Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.

According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.

My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������

Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:

1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin.
2. HoMw can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him?
3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.

I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.

placeofallure:
OP, it's not a matter of one size fits all. There's no one here that can tell you for sure whether she'll come back to you or she will see another and fly away with him. You have to decide for yourself whether to do it and damn the consequences or not.

As far as experience goes, my bf then now husband, started dating me before I gained admission to the university. He spent money, adding to the money I got from home every semester. He bought things necessary to keep me comfortable in school, he paid visits: 5-hour journeys, even when I served the nation. After everything, I returned to him.

Now, I'm not your girlfriend, neither is she me. Meaning, YOU still have to make the call whether to go ahead or not. Many people here will talk as if they know her inside out, don't fall for it. You're the one who knows her and will single-handedly enjoy the gleeful moments or bear it when the cookie crumbles.

Bradford111:
I really love this girl don’t know what to do she even asked me for assistance just yesterday but I’m scared, she also do love me

Athemisia:
Finding it difficult to score goals.
Losing to bottom table clubs.
Got beaten 7-1 by Aston Villa.
Couldn't get to semi finals let alone win a trophy.
Needing Alisson to score in order to qualify for top 4.
That's indeed a struggle.

ukbrown20:
Di team lose form. No dey think say na because of Mane. Even if Mane dey di team now e no go change anything. Dias na good replacement for Mane no dey put di blame say dem let Mane go. Na fatigue of last season dey worry Liverpool,dem go pick their form back. Players come and go but Liverpool club still remains. Na people wey no bi Liverpool fans dey talk about Mane leaving Liverpool. Mane say e want new challenge make Liverpool force am stay? No bi because say Mane leave Liverpool naim make dem no dey perform, na because say di team lose form. How many goals Mane don score dis season? E don don score pass Firmino?

Borntosmoke:
Is it eatable??

Iliveforever:
I’m a Liverpool fan till death.

It’s disrespectful to say Mane is the engine room.
Previous seasons Was Mane Alison Becker the goal keeper who kept steady clean sheets?

Was he van dijk who was impassable?

Was he fabinho who was at his best?
Andy Robertson?
Trent Arnold?
Salah who has been back to back highest goal scorers?

Liverpool just lost it this season and it happens to every club in the world.

It’s disrespectful to acclaim everything to Mane

Athemisia:
Where was this same Mané two seasons ago when Liverpool struggled throughout??

udofia234:
bro I can't lie I'm really pained, this lady called me thrash, humiliated me ah!!! I feel a sharp pain in my heart anytime I remember what she did to me

Jovialjune1:
The mumus supporting Putin on this thread, here is an illustration;

How will you feel if China wakes up one day to take over Nigeria because of our continuous loan from them?

If the west decides to give us reliefs by telling us to join an organization for us to be debt free, the federal government agrees to join, but China insists on the take over, and China decides to fight us and bomb our country, you fools will be the first to cry because you are at the receiving end, seeing other countries supporting and cheering China simply because they hate the west, how will you feel?

Idiots.

udofia234:
I'm only doing this out of my concern for my brother, family , if a lady can do that to me she can do worse when she marries my cousin

Ola5TP:
She said i want to sleep by 9pm, good night. Dream of me o. 10minutes later u see her back online till 12am! U keep saying hello babe hello babe and she keeps ignorring ur hello till the dawn when she finally have ur time! Chai, that gender

Rozross:
I don't see any issues here, a man should always be ready to die for his family

Favvybillionz:
Just scrolling through my newsfeed this afternoon and i saw a post by a blogger whereby Brymo the musician was talking about how he masturbated almost all through his teens
And on going through the comments section i just couldn't believe so many, like so many people go through this same thing
Reading through the comments will make u feel so sorry for our generation, it's eaten so deep into this generation.
But the question is how can this be STOPPED?
Incase you want to visit the page and see for yourself, the pix below shows the name of the page

Slynation:
Nah, he already have 2 kids, and neglecting them for the sins of their Mom is not ideal, the best way is to ghost her, treat her like she never existed in that house...

-Never beg her for sex anymore...

-cook and eat your own food even if she cooks (trust me, she will one day eat what you prepared in a bit to get your reaction, but say nothing)

-Be more closer to your children than ever, take them outing let them have fun...

Then watch the transformation...

Ebenman:
This is precisely why I was talking about standard.

Ebenman:
We are both AA


Updated: I have received a lot of bashing.

I guess I didn't really explain the situation well, so a lot of people didn't really get my points.

This lady in particular mum is late. Her dad is battling with stroke.

I stay in a 3-bedroom flat as a bachelor in a high-income area while she, her dad, and 3 other siblings stay in a room and parlor in a low-income area. I fear that one day her family will tell her sis and bro to come and start staying with us if we end up together since they will feel we live in a 3-bedroom flat.

More so, her yearly income is always not up to my monthly income.

She is not the First Lady to show interest in me. I asked her why is she interested in me, and she said that I don't drink, smoke, gamble, or womanize. I am always focused.

In essence, I am also a standard.