Celebrities › Re: Kehinde AdamsDoesn't Know The Meaning Of 'Atheist' (Video) by obinna58(m): 3:37pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
DSC7: A fool says in his heart:There is no GOD..  Terrorist says in his heart "there is God" |
Romance › Re: My Friend's Wife: Does She Needs To Be Cautioned? by obinna58(m): 9:04pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
Spanishmilf: Asper na u help your friend find wife give am. Matured reasonable demands respect, take rudeness out of it cos that's not my type of person. A friendly discussion to put her in her position with confidence. |
Romance › Re: My Friend's Wife: Does She Needs To Be Cautioned? by obinna58(m): 8:08pm On Aug 27, 2022 |
If she's really not feeling well then that's a valid excuse except she's half sick which I think it's the situation
Na this kind thing I dey like, I go question am in front of everyone make we hear her reasons. |
Romance › Re: Most Married Women are not faithful Again.. My Experience. by obinna58(m): 8:05pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
She wants you to do her so she can carry her problems and put on your neck Be wise those gender are very selfish and manipulative
Resist her like a gentleman with value. |
Crime › Re: Why I Killed My Step Mum – 25-year-old Suspect { Photo } by obinna58(m): 1:02pm On Aug 26, 2022 |
Lies |
Romance › Re: What Do Men Need When They Are Angry? - Photo by obinna58(m): 10:40pm On Aug 25, 2022*. Modified: 11:29am On Aug 26, 2022 |
Time alone |
Family › Re: . by obinna58(m): 10:18pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Damn |
Romance › Re: Lady 'Tackles' Other Ladies That Say They Cant Date Broke Men (Video) by obinna58(m): 9:48pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
Relationship don cast already so no need for this. Wise men knows forming love me I love you with a woman is a very stupid game |
Romance › Re: My Wife Cheated And Is Now Pregnant by obinna58(m): 8:18pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
LoveUdie: My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have a son who is 4 years old. She confessed to me that she has been having an affair for “about a year” with a guy from church and is around 6 weeks pregnant based off when she had her last period. The last time we had sex was yesterday, before that the last time was maybe 4 months ago. She told me that she pretty much only had sex with me because she thought maybe she could make it seem like the baby is mine.
From what I understand, she hasn’t told her affair partner that she is pregnant. She showed me the last texts between them (it looked like there were some that were deleted). He asked her to call him when she could, and he replied with she needed some space from him and to not contact her anymore. She told me she will end it officially with him and was crying begging me to forgive her. I told her that I needed space and went into our bedroom and locked the door (which is where I am now). I could hear her sobbing a little while ago but it sounds like she’s stopped.
I posted on relationship_advice and a lot of the replies were validating but not helpful for the kind of advice I need right now. I’m going to have to face her tomorrow morning and our son will be there. I don’t know what to say to her. I know he’s only 4 and I don’t know how much of this he will remember but I never want him to see me speak to his mother with anything except respect. I grew up with divorced parents who hated each other and I don’t want that for him. I don’t know how I feel about her right now, I’m too angry but I’m pretty sure things aren’t salvageable. Thunder strike your left yansh |
Politics › Re: Court Seizes Andy Uba’s Vehicles Over N50 Million Debt Owed Oranto Petroleum by obinna58(m): 6:01pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Conrod: Just imagind if this uba had won in the anambra guber election,....na God save ndi anambra from an apc premeditated treasury looting. The one in might even have more debt than him |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Liverpool (2 - 1) On 22nd August 2022 by obinna58(m): 9:39pm On Aug 22, 2022 |
Goal |
Family › Re: Man Commits Suicide After Sending A Disturbing Video To His Family (video /pix) by obinna58(m): 12:29pm On Aug 22, 2022 |
Well suicide may be the best option anyway considering this economy, there's no purpose of living and suffering |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Love Bad Guys That Will Eventually Use And Dump Them by obinna58(m): 8:37pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
It's simple Bad gus are for fun Good guys are for marriage |
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Family › Re: Single Life Is A Scam!! by obinna58(m): 9:06pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
If you think marriage will comfort you and make your already difficult life better then you’re about to kill yourself Those pressuring you then will laugh at you, na straight to your grave. I’ve seen many men end up this way.
Level up first before thinking of women and children |
Family › Re: Single Life Is A Scam!! by obinna58(m): 8:47pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
Hahahahahahahahaha mumu
A mumu man
You’re a mumu man |
Family › Re: Today Is The Worst Day Of My Life by obinna58(m): 8:23pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
It’s a terrible life for average Nigerians out there |
Romance › Re: The Worst Pill I Had To Swallow As An Attractive Man by obinna58(m): 3:10pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
It's vice versa, even if the most prettiest girl approach me now for relationship, I'll say no but thanks. Money is what you need. Money+handsomeness+redpill = unstoppable |
Nairaland General › Re: PHCN Strike: Do You Have Light In Your Area? by obinna58(m): 2:26pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
No light since January, I've gotten use to gen and powerbanks but the government still get power to swindle me yearly for little properties
Thunder fire Nigerian government |
Romance › Re: 35 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Girlfriend Unless You Want To Get Stabbed by obinna58(m): 3:48am On Aug 18, 2022 |
All this lessons just for a woman
Better open university |
Family › Re: Am Just Tired Of Life by obinna58(m): 4:05pm On Aug 17, 2022 |
Everyone is suffering bro |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Brentford Vs Manchester United (4 - 0) On 13th August 2022 by obinna58(m): 6:07pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
What the hell!!!
This coach should be sacked with immediate effect |
Politics › Re: Dave Umahi's Son 'osborn' Graduates From University Of Surrey, UK. by obinna58(m): 7:27pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
Our money doing wonders |
Romance › Re: Guys: Marry Her & Get $1 Billion & A U.S Green Passport, Yes Or No? by obinna58(m): 10:35pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Marry her and give her 5yrs if she's not a goner then you do it yourself |
Romance › Re: I Am Depressed Right Now by obinna58(m): 7:16pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Vagina gender keep scaring us on daily basis |
Romance › Re: Daily Free Game Here - Hop In And Cashout by obinna58(m): 4:38pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Soccernews247: First game starts by 18:30 Here's my own game too, play and cashout
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Romance › Re: I Am Devastated. My Kid Sis Who Went To Lagos To Work Has Given Birth by obinna58(m): 4:07pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
seanwilliam: why must you find a way to blame the op here? Since the girl doesn’t fear her own mom, do you still expect the op to handle her with levity hands?
Is she not an adult that’s supposed to know her left from right ? There are girls with no parents non siblings , yet they manage themselves and scale through all hurdles. She’s just irresponsible.
I just feel bad for the op, all his efforts on her have wasted. You shouldn't handle people you love with iron hand, fear teaches nothing, don't do this because you have to fear me instead of telling the blunt truth and consequences of their actions, now he's not there to put that fears in her she saw it as an opportunity to be free and do what she likes without knowing where it'll lead her. Check all this people handle with fear factor they always turn out worse except those those who curtail and want to think for themselves |
Family › Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by obinna58(m): 1:04pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Man is weak due to Nigerian economy |
Romance › Re: I Am Devastated. My Kid Sis Who Went To Lagos To Work Has Given Birth by obinna58(m): 12:55pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Jarod247: I am so distraught right now. 3 years ago, my kid sister who is now 24 years went to Lagos to work. Well, we spoke to the woman who she was supposed to work with and we all have our consent to it. Let just say this girl has been an issue . She is the last kid . She is very stubborn but fears me Alot. I couldn't bring her over to stay with me cos I was in school trying to lift my head up. So her leaving to go fend for herself was a relief to me so my mum can rest from her wahala. That woman is suffering and it pains me so much.
While in Lagos,I keep tabs on her and she was doing well . Depsite that she works and earn money, I keep sending her monthly allowance. As of last month, I sent her some money and we also spoke on phone .
My elder sister called me yesterday that my kid sister called and told her that she gave birth. That sound like a joke to me cos How?
Well, from the information gathered she actually gave birth to a baby girl all alone at Home. The guy responsible has absconded.
I am battered emotionally with this news . Pregnant for nine months , didn't tell anyone till she has given Birth. What if something has happened to her .
This girl has hurt me walahi. I warned her seriously about getting pregnant. This her action is a threat to my effort to rise financially cos how are we even going to take care of that baby. The money I earned isn't enough to take care of myself and mum. I know Alot of stuff I have given up just to make sure my mum and siblings are a bit okay including getting married . I am 34 years. I was even planning on sending her to Uni next year. Her next destination is going back to the village to stay with my mum, this will put more burden on that woman. I am yet to speak with her cos I am so angry with her. My elder sister said I shouldn't talk to her angrily hence I trigger a toxic hormone that will affect the baby.
I don't know what to do. Seriously I am devastated. This girl want to kill me . Can't even think straight She's very stubborn but fears me alot that's where the problem start. Due to the fear factor she became stubborn and then more problems. Human beings should be doing things with reasons not due to fear. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Japan: Hirosima Marks 77th Anniversary Of The First Atomic Bomb Attack by obinna58(m): 10:06am On Aug 10, 2022 |
omoyankee3: The most outstanding thing in all these is that Japan could still forgive US A case of those who do not know pain will never understand true peace The worst days of peace is better than the best days of war |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Japan: Hirosima Marks 77th Anniversary Of The First Atomic Bomb Attack by obinna58(m): 9:58am On Aug 10, 2022*. Modified: 12:36pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
USA has always been the terror nation I've searched for justification of mass murder everywhere on the internet but I couldn't find, theirs is not different, there's no justification for civilian mass murder
A country choose to own a nukes and fight others from even thinking of it. Took over the media and painted some countries evil, even executing their leaders.
Today usa or Russia has the power to wipe out every human on earth with just one click.
Germany will get there France will get there China will get there North Korea will get there More countries will be able to do this in the nearest future and believe me if Africa countries start having this power it's a game over. |