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RomanceRe: MEN!! This Is Another Photo That Proves WOMEN DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOU!! (Photo) by obinna58(m): 7:57pm On Aug 08, 2022
TheGidRedpiller:
Two Words; DUMP HER!!!
Brutality!! grin
RomanceRe: What Is Your Weight,mine Is 63kg(photos ) by obinna58(m): 7:11pm On Aug 08, 2022
85kg
RomanceRe: Never mind by obinna58(m): 7:09pm On Aug 08, 2022
Is your girlfriend bothering you, tell her to fvk off you must give her the money
PoliticsRe: Will You Vote In Next Year's General Elections Or Not? by obinna58(m): 7:05pm On Aug 08, 2022
I'm not voting, it's not worth it, Nigerian citizens are entirely corrupt.

A good gov can not work without good citizens then here comes Nigerian, the most evil government and bad citizens.
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Neighbor Who Is A Professional In This by obinna58(m): 1:10pm On Aug 08, 2022
Your wife you mean
FamilyRe: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by obinna58(m):
OriOko88:
I no jus know why I dont like putting mouth in marriage palava. Naso my neighbor was punching and beating his nursing wife tbis morning..asin heaving pounding that thier door was trembling.. I just kept ma calm feeling un bothered until my other female flat neighbor came shouting at my door calling ma name to come.. I still no answer.. I just dont HV interest. It was later tonight that d guy's family came to scold him,he even received heavy slap from his mother before the wife was taken away..with a heavy face. I just mind my business..even tho the wife is nice to me sad
Letting nature balance itself isn't a bad thing, you made an intelligent decision and now they separated for good, had it been you went to help it wouldn't have been that bad to cause separation, he'll still be using her as punching bag.
RomanceRe: Having A Baby Mama Could Be The Worst Thing You Will Ever Do To Yourself by obinna58(m): 5:56pm On Aug 07, 2022
No where is safe but still you survive life by how smart you are.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Brighton (1 - 2) On 7th August 2022 by obinna58(m): 2:31pm On Aug 07, 2022
Ohawakwa
Christianity EtcRe: Be Sure Of Your Afterlife Before You Depart by obinna58(m): 12:12pm On Aug 07, 2022
Greedy people creating afterlife to comfort themselves


You're not different from a mosquito when you're dead
FamilyRe: Celebrating 40 Days Without Gambling After Losing Over N10million -hardmirror by obinna58(m): 10:07pm On Aug 06, 2022
I'm addicted to betting too but seems am allergic to failure



Easy money lol
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 9:07pm On Aug 05, 2022
Nomorelove:
Lol. Hope say you dey watch the match sha.
E be like dem go survive am
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 8:01pm On Aug 05, 2022
lansile:
I'm a Palace fan tonight and I have bet 10,000 on Palace to win the game. Celebration of my jackpot slated for tomorrow. Arsenal fans too you are all invited. At least you will have donought and a bottle of Miranda to console your impending heart break. Don't bother say thanks
Na draw soup
PoliticsRe: CBN Illegally Printing Money For Buhari Government - Moghalu by obinna58(m): 6:54pm On Aug 05, 2022
This man don do pass abacha abeg
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 6:50pm On Aug 05, 2022
Nomorelove:
Watch Arsenal preseason matches. Their attack is crazy.
Watin concern preseason and fpl



E go shock you
PhonesRe: The Last Person You Blocked, What Did They Do ? by obinna58(m): 6:42pm On Aug 05, 2022
I’ve never blocked anyone except once


He’s my brother, he frustrated my life cos of narcissistic nature and disregard for people’s feelings, I told him I’m feeling depressed and he said I should give him money for gas, I told him I don’t have that I’ll provide it later, he threatened me that he’ll call boys for me if I don’t get out of his house, I left his house and blocked him forever
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 6:32pm On Aug 05, 2022
Nomorelove:
You sabi ball at all? Arsenal will win oga. Arsenal alone will score 3 goals. Quote me after the match
Crystal are monsters in their home ground
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 6:30pm On Aug 05, 2022
Lifeless2018:
Thanks.
Bayern can afford to lose 10 games and still lift the trophy. They just won a cup so I want a more hungry team. Lyon are desperate to return to Europe and will take it very serious
They have their fans to impress, with lewan out and mane in, they’ll have no option than to prove they’re still the giant

Lyon plays poorly, you can’t give what you don’t have
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 6:20pm On Aug 05, 2022
Lifeless2018:
My 10k on Arsenal and Lyon win. Almost 3 odds. Not greedy right?
Bayern Munich sure pass Lyon
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Crystal Palace Vs Arsenal (0 - 2) - Full Time by obinna58(m): 6:00pm On Aug 05, 2022
Draw soup loading, crystal go show them pepper
RomanceRe: How Can I Start A Business And End Up Like Dangote by obinna58(m): 10:27pm On Aug 03, 2022
Seriousness
RomanceRe: Come In Here And Drop A Comment Of Your Best Moments Of Love. by obinna58(m): 10:26pm On Aug 03, 2022
The only best moment a Nigerian girl can give is unintentionally, that is when you're banging her


Apart from sex nothing go hold you again
RomanceRe: Am I A Bad Friend? I Slept With My Friend’s Ex (PART 2) by obinna58(m): 10:22pm On Aug 03, 2022
Your story does not exist
Jobs/VacanciesRe: How Much Do You Have? by obinna58(m): 11:40am On Aug 02, 2022
2,300naira
PoliticsRe: Tinubu's 5m Rejected By Nollywood Actor(Osuofia) by obinna58(m): 8:45pm On Aug 01, 2022
AbaganaMiracle:
You don't know Zack Orji. I know him personally and he has confessed to me that he collected the N5Million from Tinubu camp because of dire family financial stress. He told me to my face that he will chop the agbado and cassava fool's N5Million and clean mouth and still vote for Peter Obi his brother. Tinubu and his afonja urchins are in for a longer thing. grin
You think they paid him for his vote? It's about influence
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Employees Go Through In The Hands Of Some Employers In Nigeria by obinna58(m): 9:59am On Jul 31, 2022
With all this complains you'll think they'll make changes if eventually they become bosses
Ask your boss he'll tell you past experiences with his superiors too
Power corrupts primitive people







Don't be surprised when op finally becomes a boss and it's time to make the ultimate changes/sacrifice for good, he'll become exactly like the bosses he complained about, it always starts like a joke but I've seen it happen many times. Op carry your trashy complains and put to the trash cos it all same blood.
Doomed Africans
FamilyRe: God Failed Me by obinna58(m): 10:19pm On Jul 30, 2022
Advice21:
Hello nairalanders. Sorry that this is going to be a long read but I need to be detailed enough for you all to understand.
I married a man less than a year ago after about a year and half of long distance relationship. From the inception of the relationship, I knew he was poor but I accepted him for certain reasons I thought were genuine. I never knew he was a liar, and a pretender and so good at it that I am sure he can fool even the devil. I do not understand how a person can live such double lives without anyone finding out.
I wasn't naive when I met him. I was in my early twenties, a virgin, and what would be generally termed as a homely girl.
There was so much camouflage in our relationship. I can categorically say he was too good to be true. Everybody loved him and sang his praises and when my parents got to know him, he was all they talked about. When I met him, he told me he was a livestock farmer and I believed him. He didn't have much, infact our traditional marriage was a palour affair. No white wedding, we just proceeded to court wedding because there was no money. When I got to his house, there was no chair, no TV, just a bed in a self contain. I felt bad about this things but I encouraged myself with the fact that I married the best man on earth based on the pretentious lies and the double life he was leading, until I saw truth for myself. Nothing under the sun can be hidden forever.
First of all, he wasn't the caring man I thought he was. Just after a few weeks of being together he slapped me and from there it degenerated to full blown physical abuse, but they beating is not what killed me.
By chance, I discovered that the man I thought I knew was into yahoo things and drug pedalling and infact I suspect he takes drugs too. I got to know this things by plain accident after having lived with him for a few months. I still cannot understand how he cleverly hid this part of himself from me for so long. On the outside, he seems like a gentle man, always dresses in native wears so how come? The only thing I can say that I found odd was that there were always young boys coming around the house. I asked him about it and he said he was guiding them through life based on his own experiences. The knowledge I discovered shattered me. I nearly ran mad. I think it killed my spirit in the end. I couldn't accept it, I couldn't wrap my head around it. This was a man I told about how much I detested yahoo boys while we were dating and he would join me to openly condemn them. I met a lot of them while I was in school, but I outrightly rejected them. I never believed that I would end up with not just a yahoo man, but a drug peddlar, a person who destroys the life of Young adults with drugs. Sometimes I wonder why God allowed such a calamity to befall me and my family. I married as a virgin, I never dated any married man even in times when I was so broke in school and the devil came with many temptations. I was brought up in church, my family has always lacked money but we never put our hands in any wrong thing, I was in the choir, I always prayed to God asking him never to let me marry the wrong person, I have never intentionally hurt anyone, I always seek good for other people, so why did God allow this calamity befall me.
Just yesterday, I discovered the man I call my husband is a serial cheat. He sleeps with anything, even young girls. I am pregnant now and God didn't show me any of this things about this man till I got pregnant. Why did God allow me to get pregnant when there are several women out there who are in stable marriages praying earnestly for a child.
I want to leave this marriage because the pain, the pain is too much. I am dying emotionally. I am a corper and would be passing out in two weeks time.
My parents cannot help me. Everybody says I should pray, I shouldn't leave. One of his numerous side chick, the one who opened up to me is begging me to stay because she says he is threatening her life if I should leave. He has a cult like following of young boys who are loyal to him and I fear for the poor girls life.
Please what do I do, where do I go. I didn't even tell half of the hell I have seen because I can't type everything. I have no money because I basically take care of myself with my allawees because he has no money despite selling drugs and all the evil he does. I didn't write this for money sake because a lot of people would think that's my reason. I am just pained. My heart is heavy, I feel God has failed me. How do I even begin to piece my life together with a pregnancy of seven months. Where do I go when I leave here, how do I manage. How did such evil befall me. I am all alone, saddled with a child, helpless but most importantly pained. The emotional pain is the greatest of all my woes, not even the physical pains comes close. I just wanted to let it out because I have no one else to talk to.
It's never too late to make changes, don't continue with poor decisions.
Follow my lead
1, Accept your mistakes. Make up your mind it's over with the marriage with peace in your heart(the mind is powerful)
2. Stay calm and focus on your self.
3. Give birth.
4. Destroy any emotional connections with him but don't hate him, limit communications to the lowest level.
5.Get off the marriage but let him always get to be with his child if he wants.
6.Find something new, change location, start something no matter how little with an intent of improvement.

Sooner or later a better person will come.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 10 Best States To Find Jobs In Nigeria by obinna58(m): 5:48pm On Jul 29, 2022
Just mention all the states in Nigeria
Jobs/VacanciesRe: A Security Guard Needed by obinna58(m): 5:36pm On Jul 29, 2022
30k in a country that a plate of food that cannot bellefull you is 400

Let's say you chop 2 plate morning and night which is a must, how will you pay house rent? If you squat with someone, what of NEPA bill, wouldn't you buy soap, toothpaste, cream. If you think of buying clothes or shoes your ancestors will slap you back to the village.
CrimeRe: Bishop Felix Okpara And The 16-Year-Old Girl He Defiled (Audio Chat) by obinna58(m): 4:39pm On Jul 29, 2022
wenogodie2:
Even sense you no get. Read my post again or go to school.
Exactly
What do you expect from a blind and dumb person.
CrimeRe: Bishop Felix Okpara And The 16-Year-Old Girl He Defiled (Audio Chat) by obinna58(m): 1:48pm On Jul 29, 2022
wenogodie2:
I don't like Pastor Suleman at all. But how come despite all the claims that he slept with hundreds of Nollywood actresses there is no single solid evidence that can implicate him. A picture, a recording, a video, a hotel cctv etc.
I'm sure even a video of him having raw sx with one wouldn't prove anything to you.
SportsRe: Thomas Tuchel Holidays With Natalie Max, His New Girlfriend by obinna58(m): 10:56am On Jul 29, 2022
Better than his evil wife

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