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Both are slavery, no take any

A scientist but it's on high cost, didn't get close.

Modupetemmy1:
I suggest you sit her down and have heart to heart talk with her, then the conclusion of the talk will determine if you will go for dna test, but think it very well oooo
Cos if after it and the baby is yours wallai if your wife get to find out I am sure she won't forgive you for ever and ever

Which kin advice be dis

He shouldn't do DNA bcoz his wife wouldn't forgive him.
Wifes who things like this are criminals

Kingkum:
I can't blame you cos you don't know what is happening. thanks for the advice anyway

Spiritual problems does not exist


It's either your faults or nothing

I bet you'll continue to fail until you decide to wake up and realize that your problems are only bcoz your not doing things right.
Your wife or past has nothing to do with your problems.
You your goods are not selling, make it attractive and people will rush it.
Those you're asking for help might be struggling too and you're thinking it's your spiritual problems.

Life is working smart, not just hard work else you go suffer tire.

Lies

Anything relationship is not worth my tears, like you came the door always open wherever you choses to go even though I may miss you but I won't hold you back one bit.

Filly3:
My husband earns #19750 monthly myself I earn #35k.
This is the breakdown of how we survive:
#200 transport for me (for 5working days)
#50transport for him only to cos he do follow a colleague after work, the colleague owns a bike.
Feeding
Sunday stew: 2k
Rice: #1800
This will last us till Tuesday morning.
Tuesday afternoon we will cook beans 5cups (#375) potatoes #200. I'll put 2pcs of Maggi seasoning (#30) salt #20 though I'll not finish it.
This will last till Wednesday morning.
Wednesday afternoon I'll cook soup depending on the soup sha but it doesn't exceed 2k.
Corn food I usually grind the one that will last us for two weeks (#1500).
This will last us till Saturday morning.
Saturday afternoon I'll cook beans and potatoes same way of Wednesday.
Miscellaneous:
House rent ( 100k) yearly.
Toothpaste: # 400 once in 2 months.
bathing soap: #400 twice a month.
Laundry soap: #350 this one I never notice when it usually finish.
Pad: #500 monthly.
Shaving blades: #100 monthly.
Gas: 3kg monthly.
Dstv sub: yanga # 3000.
Card: #500 for myself monthly my husband make sure of that. As for him he can use #200 once in a blue moon.
Barbing: #150 twice a month.
Plaiting : #100 weekly
Nah how we dey push am be that o.

You stand out among many women out there and you deserve a more better life.
You and your hubby should find a way to improve life Biko no let things get bad, there should be an emergency budget.
I cry for Nigeria.
My mom suffered, things are lot better now but still she finds it hard to spend and enjoy at least small for life, she only prefers to store money in the bank and that what makes her happy, probably compensating her old lifestyle of horror.

I was already thinking how could a 10yrs old be writing like this

Leading feminist character on nairaland

ekene247:
One recently proposed to me and I was just laughing in my mind. Alot of them now hovering around me. Thank GOD I was never a SIMP.

Looking to reap the fruit they did not labor for, that's one of the special ability, unfortunately they'll not only reap the fruit, dem go chop the seed

Mess it all up and jump ship if opportunity shows it self sounds familiar.

ekene247:
It happened to me after my NYSC

I used to borrow from friends to eat and pay back. I later started getting small small money and relocated, and at least, I now have my sanity.

Next thing bothering me is marriage. I fear marriage because women dey fear me

No be only you brother.

Things my eyes have seen chaii, this gender is terrible

No

Run oo, no say we no tell you.



A hoe is hoe, it'll never turn to machete or rake

You're just 19 boy

Find a way to better your future instead of carrying girls matter for head

Fact check with no fact

I've always respected facts check until now

NeckingNgulping:
Number 5 is worth noting, because after buying the pans, someone will approach you with the pins, and if you're not brave, you might pay three times the amount of the pans for the pins. Pins that should be #50 each.

Don't come to PH at night if your bus stop is at Eleme junction. It's better you wait until daytime.

Learn how to drive truck, you are going to get a truck driving job in PH in no time with a good pay if you come to the Eleme area.

Before moving to any area to stay, make sure you ask to know if there's a vigilantee group in that area.

Dem dey run pams scam too here for Enugu, bought one, from nowhere one dude say make he pin am say na 300, as he finish I drop 300 wan move, baba say na 300 per pin and e reach 6 pins, before I could finish commot your hands for my body, boys surround me.

I later pay 500 with calm and explanations couple with reason I no hold plenty money.

Fake story

QuinModah:
What are you doing with data if 5k?
Get a solar inverter

Solar inverter and I won't spend upto 200k

Data is life, I dey use run online stuff

D!tch that girl and forget her family

If you don't

She'll drain you and leave you with a dead broken heart you can never forget in fact you'll be gnashing teeth inside casket for your burial ground.



Most men don't live long in marriages, I've seen a lot of them, this is how it always starts. You'll think you're doing well for now until she completely settles with you.

[quote author=osazsky post=114801504][/quote]Baba MTN dey give me 1.5gb at 300 and e dey last me 3-4days

No light for the past 5months and as a single guy
Fuel for farm mini truck 2k( for two weeks)
Fuel for gen 2k(for 2weeks)
Data 5k( 1month)
Food 4k(2weeks)
Gen Oil 2.5k (1month)
Emergency unknown expenses 2k month


4+4+5+8+2.5+3=26.5 monthly

Daily expenses =883

Suffering dey sha but 2moro go better

meobizy:
She is twelve years old.

She's 22

TNORWAY:
You must be a foool... someone that you know is married

Kindly retrace your steps.

Calm down baba, this is too harsh for someone trying to do the right thing.
Encourage him to stop not insult.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Drop a like.

Never

UyaiIncomparabl:
Don't mind all these guys here who are advising you to pursue her out of your brother's house forcefully. They do and accept worse in their houses. Some of them, their wives cloth and feed them, so they have no say in the house. Redpillers online, simps at home begging for the tip. Look at Funke Akindele's husband today. If he was humble and had apologized to Funke for peace's sake, I am sure they would not have been divorced nor would she have sent him packing. But, pride and insubordination. Men don't want to be humble anymore. Such a pity.

Have you sat your brother down to ask him where the problem is coming from? You know, you can not just judge swiftly like that. Please, let the two duos settle their matter themselves. I hate intrusion. Not every man in this life will be an Alpha male, it's okay for some to be SIMPS. SIMPs rock. Don't listen to unpopular opinions from this caricatural, embittered and vindictive men here. They lack genuine love in their hearts.

That being said, sit your brother down. Advise him. Encourage him to watch war room, and tell him to pray hard. The devil is just out there looking for beautiful relationships to destroy, your brother's own being one of them. Let him go into dry fasting and beg the girl and God incessantly for a turn around. There's nothing God cannot do. The Chukwu Okike that I serve will touch her heart.

Is he clean? Encourage him to bathe more and use scents on his body. Let him focus on his sexual appeal. He may have gotten fat and that makes the lady repulsed by his sudden change. We, women, are visual. We are moved by what we see. Hope he's good in bed sha? Let him try to satisfy her better sexually. Give her money and spoil her with expensive gifts (lands, a car, a spa treat, a vacation etc). See ehn, just tell him to always do right by her every time regardless of the circumstances. They will be fine. Send me the invitation card on time when it's ready.

Wow
If this is not a troll then you're not well at all

She's 22, her whoring age


Most women started taking it at 17 while she's an adult.

Is this not mockery, you're mocking those you intended to motivate

Broken bone