₦airaland Forum

Daniwes:
Met two sisters a while ago in church, for some reason, the older one got my no and has been calling me almost every day. Meanwhile, I ve always wanted the younger one-she is my full spec for a serious relationship, I just did not get a chance to bond and get her contact.

Recently, the older one tried a few more advances which I turned down. I ve planned to clear her straight that I am not interested, but I am not sure how to go about it as of course these are siblings. I really like younger sis, but I feel I am not sure how to proceed with this.

I feel the recent move older sis pulled will sabotage any meaningful relationship I want to have with the younger sis in future

Tell her simply you're interested in her younger sister, like how difficult is that. You can even ask her to help you out.

Ihatemen:
I hate Men

You're beautiful please don't hate men.

OnlyDeCapPlease:
I doesn't mean you cannot be holding something while you're working towards your goal. Bodi nobi wood

Bodi no bi wood, there are options to hold oneself.


It's better to avoid unnecessary complications.

OnlyDeCapPlease:
Everything is not about money, my man.

Economic and commercial considerations will be relegated to the background with the right woman.

There's nothing like the sweet companionship of a lover to ameliorate the effects of harsh economic realities.

Don't subject yourself to poverty in the name of love. I want my have everything she needs and I'm working towards everyday of my life.

I really want to get into relationship but due to Nigeria's current economy I dare not.

Loneliness sucks especially when you see people loving up but you can't.

Seeing that phone made me had nostalgic feelings. Chai those days.

What's her name again?

Use am build mansion for yourself

Fucking in a mosque

YahooSon:
Please I'm new here and I will like to know the popular nairalanders here please
I beg you guys to please introduce yourselves please
I might be sharing a few update with you guys before I deactivate

Baba how e dey go.
I'm Obinna58

He was probably being lesser evil, had a bit of conscience, instead of being a tyrant chose only wickedness but that wasn't enough. You'll have to be a complete devil before coming close to the top in Nigeria.

All connected
Nigeria has the power to finish up Bokoharm within days but it's shame the leaders are part of the game.

OkoNDOoBo:
there is no justification for fraud , you are not aware of thousands of Nigerians that can't apply for jobs online in international communities because of the yahoo boys. Politicians have bleeped nigerians up in the country. Should we allow yahoo-boys to also destroy our image in foreign scene so that people will not be able to seek greener pasture elsewhere.

See them, I'm sure you had it easy on your side, shelter, food, people who sponsored and pushed you where you are. Now you only have to worry about online international community jobs.


Have you been to the street?
Don't you see the North, by the time hunger wire you one week straight you go be one of those Boko boys.

You can't comfortably stare at people especially beautiful ladies before you look they're already looking at you.


It'll look like drama

abbatoir:
Calm down..he emphasized highly deceptive and not just deceptive
A very powerful personality could be highly deceptive too else he won't be like by all Hence the essence of his topic (charming and cunning tactic)

Art of deception is part of being highly intelligent too



He is right.. if you know you know

More like people hate the true side of life that's when deception plays it role


Damn!

TheUndercover:
If you ever meet a person that is liked by all, Realise that you have met a person who is highly skilled at deception.

Lies

Rather you met a very powerful personality, someone who does it right.

TheUndercover:
If a guy can control his sexual drives and can avoid distraction from women.

It is impossible to not to be successful.

Sounds funny but true

All I see in this thread are men fighting modernization with emotions.


Redpill is never the way.
Accept the realities of life and be at peace with your self.

The more civilized you are the less likely you'll act on emotions.

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

You better realize God can't do shit and use medication. Don't let it get worse. Miracle might seem the easiest way for you but believe me it doesn't happen.

It's you help them or not.

dave4rella:


Dated one while in school

She was from a very wealthy family

But down to earth, she never collected transport money from me, she will always buy food stuffs for me with her money while visiting..
One day she came to my house with a 2008 model of Honda accord, her family car and asked me to sell it so that we can run away with the Money,i refused and talked sense into her and she returned the car, she loved me the more and we got closer to the extent of knowing her family house, sisters etc
I would have married her, but I had no job or business or anything to introduce myself as..
And I couldn't maintain her.. So I had to slow down.. She's married and we are still friends..
God bless you where ever you are.. I promised to name my first daughter after you.

I feel the pain, one of the reason I remained single and keep on chasing the money.

I got in love once, I had to struggling out to keep my head straight even though it's not my wish.


I feel the only reason I should fall in love is because I made money.

Pierocash:
who should be called lazy, a ritualist or a legit worker?

And where did I state I'm a Yahoo guy?

Pierocash:
one of the ritualist spotted

Lazy Nigerian youth

Godoverevery:
Not surprise.....I was expecting this from yahoo guys.

Don't write on emotions bro

Godoverevery:
This from my personal view and people are free to disagree.
Anyone who still think a yahoo guy can make good money without being festish is a slowpoke.....yahoo game have really change the US govt and European govt are making it difficult to make money online through dating or any illegal means.
Most of this white aiin't that stupid to be sending money to someone you haven't seen but most are under serious spell.(they lock them)
The one you seeing buying big cars and building houses are the one using potent charms......the charms they use vary depending on there conscience....They use herbalist , white garment, Alfa.(discussion for another).

Back to why you must never date there ex.....You see this guys are spiritually expose so they try alot of charms and mostly ladies are there target.

Here are the reasons why you should stay away from there ex.
1: Most of this ladies have bad luck hovering over them due to the fact most of this yahoo guys tap there good luck spiritually and dump them when is exhausted.

2: Most of this ladies are also very diabolical themselves.... some even get charms for this guys to use.

3: Most of them have no future and are very lazy.....they just want to enjoy without doing anything.

4: Only a useless lady will date a diabolical person,a chain smoker and a cultist.

5: Most of this Ladies are greedy and only in for the good times.....when things go bad they move to the next available yahoo guy.

6. Yahoo guys Bleep this girl like prostitute....everything they watch in porn they try it out on them....anal sex ,cum swallowing etc.

7: Most due to there rough life abort alot and suffer abuse from this guys.....they are very wayward and mannerless.

Ladies that date yahoo guys are decent prostitute.....This guys hardly trust them hence they pass them around.

Yahoo guys are spiritually conscious....they just don't marry anyhow....... they only marry one who will help there hustle both physically and spiritually.

If a lady can date a yahoo guy then her conscience is dead and she belong to the street.

If you don't want to unfortunate in life away from these ladies especially the one that attend white garment.

Thrash
If you know you know

seanwilliam:
pls keep shut for Christ sake. An adult wey Dey behold like kid is a kid .

Wait till she burns down your property, nonsense!

She'll burn it down only because of that same thing op is complaining about, anger issues. Two wrongs doesn't make right.
Compassion, kindness, affection doesn't signify weakness

seanwilliam:
Sure . Make person Kon end am with hot set

She's not a kid, no one is perfect but the aim is to attempt to be.