Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,153,017 members, 7,818,011 topics. Date: Sunday, 05 May 2024 at 04:01 AM

ObinnaValentine's Posts

Nairaland Forum / ObinnaValentine's Profile / ObinnaValentine's Posts

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (of 8 pages)

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 3:25pm On Feb 15, 2023
Makavelli001:



The gisting I mean was not about others but about our feeling for each other.

recently when we bleep, I found it difficult to penetrate her because she was very dry. She refused to remove her bra. I didn't enjoy it, I just told her to put on her cloth.


Being dry is the clue I needed to stop fvcking this particular girl

I noticed she longer get wet for me, someone that literally drips no cap

Her attention has moved somewhere else

So for u it is what it is

P.S this particular girl na jes fwb she be o and I still left her talk more of someone u jes described

6 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 3:08pm On Feb 15, 2023
Faber:
it's only a mumu man that will get thrilled by a bitch giving him her phone to go thru to confirm that she is not a flirt. Many phones have double interface or double administrator...like my phone. If you ask me to give you my phone I will just dial 4 digists on the locked home screen and hand you over the visitor mode. I installed WhatsApp. Facebook like chrome, gallery etc on it. You will be going thru my WhatsApp business, my fake gallery, messages etc. You can even browse or search anything you like on google using Chrome. I will still collect the same phone from your hand once it is locked and dial my own 4 digits that will launch me my own admistrator...my real phone.


What phone is this please

3 Likes

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Help Me Decide On This Present Job Offer by ObinnaValentine: 9:07pm On Feb 04, 2023
OLDesign1:
Hello nairalander


Presently I'm working with a company as warehouse officer, we work Monday till Saturday including public holidays. I have worked for about 7months with this company...

While working for this company, I have been applying for jobs with high pays and luckily, I got an invite from a skin care production company as an inventory manager, which I went for the interview and I did very well.

The next day, they called me that im really qualify for the job and they will like me to resume with them quickly..


Mind you, im yet to resign from this said company I'm working it, and when you want to resign you must give them three weeks notice..


This new company pay is ok and it's more closer than this place I'm working and the working days is ok too... Working days is just only Tuesday- Saturday..


Now the problem I'm having with them is that, the lady that called me (don't know if she is the hr ) Said I will b on probation for 2months and I will b paid 70% of my salary that after probation, if I meet up with what the company want, that when I will be paid my full salary and given offer letter...

Which I didn't really buy that idea because where I'm working presently, I was given offer letter before I resumed and all this was stated ( probation period and salary)and I wasn't paid 70% of my salary.. but after my probation for Three months, 5k was added to my salary anyway

NB: ( this new place is just 15k higher than this place I'm working )

But I told the lady that I will only resume if I will been given an offer letter which we didn't concluded better on phone.. but I informed the lady I will resume on Tuesday next week... Because she said I should come and talk to the person in charge..


Now I HV made my decision which I'm yet to tell them.. my decision is that... Untill I received an offer letter, dat when I will resign here and resume with them properly and I won't accept the 70% of the salary either 90percent or I should be paid in full... Because this position I'm applying for I already have over 2yrs experience.


Now the question, is it better I tell them my decision when I resume there on Tuesday since I will be talking to the person in charge or I should just sent the lady my decision via email, so as to communicate with the management and let me know their decision...

Which do you think is best to do..

The lady sent me this as written in the company hard book...

Though the salary I will be paid is above 65k


Omo company with reputation won't be having this kind of cut and join recruitment policy

Which one "come and talk with the person in charge"

2 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 7:31am On Jan 19, 2023
Zarzah:


Easy with Your words Brother.

No one came to the world with Wisdom, we all learnt along the way, give him time.

I understand u but from how he sounds he def knows what's up, he's read the articles here, he's seen doings of females in the world as regards what he posted yet to yarn okoto sweet am

1 Like

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 4:24pm On Jan 18, 2023
Lakaka:
Lol. Any guy wey follow all these laws will never get a woman. You want to date a woman and you won't chase her, spend on her, pelt her and even beg if needs be? LoL, dey play. She'll just go to another guy that know her worth. I know friends that toast a woman for two years, eventually the girl later succumb. Imagine if the guy has leave her alone when she said she's not interested



I no dey respond to talks like this but this one is definitely a fuvked up shit

In other words YOU DON'T HAVE SENSE!!!!

12 Likes 1 Share

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Qi Group Of Companies by ObinnaValentine: 8:11pm On Jan 09, 2023
Chinedu!!!!!

Omo I jes get connect for this matter I jes google the matter e carry me straight to nairaland na em i jam this comments

Wawu!!!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 10:31pm On Dec 08, 2022
Pukkalolo:
Dating is an emotional process.

The person who's broken down emotionally loses the game.

There are two ways a woman breaks you down emotionally and get you to submit to her selfish desires:

1. She will attempt to make you look bad, heartless or selfish because you did not comply to her desires. Worse she might even tell her friends about it and they will join her in criticizing you. You can't withstand the pressure: so you immedately start trying to change the negative opinion she has about you. The woman wins.

2. She gives you the impression that she will start ignoring you or stop talking to you if you don’t do exactly what she wants. The man become scared: he immedately start trying to do what she wants him to do. The woman wins.


Exactly, so this older lady pulled both of them on me, I failed at first but not woefully though, at least Dem preachings be ringing Inna mi head, when I became grounded in Dem teachings mixed with my innate modus operandi of dealing with women I jes casually continued doing what she complains about without showing any element of "I don't want to get you angry"

She's sensed I no longer give a flying 747 Bleep about what she thinks or says

7 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 8:30pm On Nov 29, 2022
AlterEgo00:
You tell her straightaway, she'll get away from you even further. Conceal your intentions but make sure you create sexual tension. Give her tips but don't let her in on the whole idea....

Person wey dey ask u how to seduce virgin surely is a beginner in all ramifications as regards [/b] Every sphere of the masculine journey [b]

Tell him to focus on his self improvement, how to deal with women will come naturally and to start thus thread from page 1

6 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 9:41am On Oct 23, 2022
Someoneschild2:



Nature is fvcking amazing!



.....and amazing gave her a child.

wink

grin

If you the get the dark sarcasm in this post hit the like button grin

24 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 8:48am On Oct 13, 2022
ubunja:
which section tho

Sexuality

3 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 4:51pm On Oct 12, 2022
She bin wan dey form cos she felt i put her on pedestal

Ghosted four months the result is this

I no wan post the chat prior to this but like u guys said, remove shame bill these mofos, I honoured and here we are grin

But I sha dey on guard becos I know say her birthday na next month so her intentions isn't far fetched

#StayTaliban

10 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 7:48am On Oct 12, 2022
ubunja:
it won't work cause guys are afraid of talking about sex.

Omo cap something joor! Anybody dat doesn't want to hear shud skip

That's the problem with most of us..weda dey like it or not sex is part of masculinity

Ego won't let people bend down to listen and learn..like dey say no knowledge is a waste,not to me at least
So if u want to say Issh regarding that part say it, anybody wey no wan hear shud skip

7 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 7:16am On Oct 12, 2022
JESHAL:
WOMEN vs MATURITY

Your father married your mother when she was 18 - 24 years,

Your mother raised the family, supporting your father's purpose for you to become what you are today.

Your father never looked for maturity but he looked for a woman who will submit and be part of his purpose.

Men today have become a contraption when it comes to choosing a wife. You will hear them say things like

"I want a woman who is mature"

"I want a woman like my mother"

But here is the point:

Women never mature. If you are looking for a mature woman, you will live a desperate, regretful life forever.

You are looking for a mature woman because you are still immature and entrapped in your mother's bosom yet your mother was married when she was 18 - 24 years old.

The other point is that modern liberalisation and feminism has pushed women into the career path rather than the family path, due to this dysgenic conditioning, women find themselves on the wall at 30 years, without a family, without babies and without a feminine future, therefore they conflate statements like

" a real man dates a mature woman"

" a real man never fears a powerful and independent woman"

So, these statements are meant to entice a man's ego. While a man who ignores such derogatory seductions, is labelled 'weak, broke and a loser' - but which man wants to be called a loser? So he goes ahead to ignore the failures of such a woman and marries her then conforms or convinces himself with words like

"I married a strong, mature woman, - so, I am stronger than her and stronger than all other men..."

"See, I married a woman who is a CEO of a bank, so, I am stronger..."

No, you are not stronger, you are a weak man who was enticed and manipulated into a relationship that doesn't suit you.

You know very well the relationship is a mess but you put on a brave face to hoodwink the public that you are in the world's most stable marriage.

You are not.

You are a pet.

You are a marionette.

And i will not stop reminding you that, your first encounter with your woman is what sets the tone of that relationship.

I will never stop reminding you about this. - Defining your boundaries on the first date.

Listen,

Women will never mature in marriage. She is the same girl that was 18 years of age. Her thinking is the same.

A 20-year-old woman reasons alike like a 49-year-old PhD professor of nutrition.

Their jealousy is the same.

Their demons are the same.

What differentiates them is how her father raised her.

Look at you mother,

Your father sees her the same way she saw her 30 years ago. To him, your mother is still the girl he met in the village paths.

Try and eavesdrop on them when they are alone, you will see how your father pets her and tickles her as she melts in her girlish mannerism.

Men, don't look for maturity in women. It doesn't exist. Date a woman who will plug into your purpose while obeying your command.

You must raise your masculine frame so that she can sink into it.

The more she sinks into your frame, the more she becomes girlish and feminine and this is where many men fail. They expect their women to behave like their mothers to them.

Your woman will never be your mother. She will only be like your daughter but never like your mother.

You, the man, must first be her leader before she becomes your disciple.

If you expect her to be like your mother, you are simply signalling to her that you are an immature boy who still wants to suckle.

Once she learns that you are clinging on her with your neediness, she first pampers you, feeds you like a pig then tethers you on her leash.

After tethering you, she cunningly baits you, after which she chokes and smothers you into smithereens destroying you completely then monkey branches to a better higher value man.

That's feminine nature.

Finally, there is nothing like compatibility. It doesn't exist.

There is no compatibility in relationships. Just raise your frame and she will naturally fall into it. Failure to do this will lead to resentment from her.

Change or perish.

#ManDay
#Copied


Nah bro!! I'm bookmarking this shit here

Rugged you ✌

8 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 3:54pm On Sep 26, 2022
machote:

Stop spewing trash tonnyray. I thought we were way past this.

Let me share something interesting:
I do attend a Sunday meeting every now and then were we youths gather. After some weeks of attending this meeting, I remember leaving the meeting when a fair woman walked up to me and asked me what was my name. I told her. For some reason, she was just interested in me and we started talking, before I knew it, one thing led to another and we started holding hands, not a big deal I know but this is where things actually gets interesting.

Her close friend literally came right to us and separated us from holding hands.....TWICE lol).
WTF. Maybe her friend wasn't comfortable with us holding hands in a church setting or something. I didn't care and I didn't give a fvck.

But guess what, this particular woman persisted when we got downstairs and found my hands once again. How about that for a greenlight?

Now this is what solidified things for me:

While coming back from a similar meeting this Monday, She ambushed me in front of the church gate and asked for my name again and I told her. I gave her my phone number and asked her what does she want to save it as, She inputed my name and asked me if I should put "boyfriend" or "husband" right next to it.....WTF. I said boyfriend was ok lol. She then told me that she had her birthday coming up and that we should still speak later. I told her whatever.

We met later and spoke a bit then I called her yesterday to specifically ask if she had plans with her friends to celebrate and she told me not really, but that she really wants to spend it with me and spend more time with me too for some reason. I told her I will think about it and get back to her.

Why am I saying all this?, I did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO GET THIS GIRL'S ATTENTION. Contrary to what you proposed tonnyray,I
didn't cold approach, I didn't appear bold, spontaneous or even carry any confident air or whatever.
. She just liked me. Please Guys, not matter how tempted you are to go for a woman you want, just wait for a woman that wants you, it makes things a million times easy.

Remember to stay chosen.

Don't do that bro.. Weda u cold warm or hot approach, your masculinity shouldn't be shredded by lust of whatever you are chasing

U see wetin u like u approach, she give any sign of disinterest u bounce

Or should I say many of us jes lack what and how to say what we want to say hence waiting for who go show sign first

Masculinity no hard na jes our various conceptions dey make seem that way

Cheers

3 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 11:15am On Aug 26, 2022
heartofcity12:
Smh


Dwayne Wade is the worst father on earth as far as I'm concerned

2 Likes 1 Share

Family / Re: Unusual Behavior Between My Step Brother And My Wife by ObinnaValentine: 1:36pm On Aug 12, 2022
grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.

So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.

He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?

There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that

Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing
? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.

While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.

5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.

Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.

So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.

The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, [/b]she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.[b]

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.

Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

Women are mostly attracted to toxicity.. He's nature has seduced her, she's attracted to him, judging from what she said above, you have being to soft and thus too weak for her liken

Jes don't be surprised if you find out he's slept with her already.. It is a fore-warning
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 10:37pm On Aug 03, 2022
aomine:
AOMINE IN DAAAA HOUSE, WHATS HAPPENING IN DAAA HOUSE,by the way i saw this on one girls status ,thanks to simps


The goat of a husband go dey smile o say him wife Don post better o

7 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 2:11pm On Jul 09, 2022
heartofcity12:
Lol

normally sef the actor no get doings, judging from his movies grin
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 11:00am On Jun 25, 2022
Cheasystickylov:
Dear martinez, please kindly send me a mail request. I need your strong advice please.
This is my story
Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle.
I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future.
I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time.
Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes.
My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person.
During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable.
We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years.
My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me.
We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely.
I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused.
We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away.
She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.

The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter
1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms.
2.Her mum- her mum dare not !
3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them
4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them

She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.

Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.

I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.


sorry nigga, I feel ur pain from my screen but ur troubles started from ur courtship, u was a pussy, u bent to her every whim and caprices, I guess u ignored advice from friends as well, and even in marriage u still acting like a child, she wants u to be a "man" for once, give an order and stand by it even though it might be difficult given ur past attitude but you have to save yourself b4 u do something drastic wey u go regret..

She can't be under ur roof, with all the security u provide and detect the tone of the marriage

Send her packing without your kids, except maybe u ain't in naija but if not nigga send that woman home before she kills u and runs away with ur sweat and blood

16 Likes 3 Shares

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 10:39am On Jun 24, 2022
Kipaji:


I get the message, but let's be realistic guys. I think that we tend to exaggerate things sometimes. How many girls have had such experiences? 1 in 100 000? You're making it seem more common than it actually is.


The whole essence of these warnings is to keep u readily aware that it is a possibility, that is why it is a rule that redpill isn't about hating women

Just be conscious!!!

16 Likes 1 Share

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 10:30am On Jun 24, 2022
Princeadebayo11:
So last Ramadan festival I asked my girlfriend what she will give me as Sallah gift, she said NOTHING without even thinking about it. I said no problem, Last week I was just going through her Facebook messenger and I discovered a chat of my girlfriend and this guy her course mate. This guy asked my girlfriend for Sallah gift and my girlfriend got him a pack of chocolate and chicken despite the fact he said she has nothing for me o. When I confronted her today about the chat she told me the boy was just a student that I am even richer than the boy. That me o I am bigger than chocolate and chicken. That it's nothing I should please forget about it that she is going to get me something this coming Sallah.
She has been calling me since and I won't even bother myself to pick the call. The thing shock me o.
Imagine

sorry o but u was a simp prior to this revelation, I suppose u are one of those people that castigated warnings of "money don't keep women"

But we are glad u now see the light, just focus On yourself bro, that is if you go gree OO grin grin

6 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 10:58am On Jun 23, 2022
Carcholce:



Majority of Nigerian women are like this. I had an ex that only feels comfortable whenever I was broke and looking a shadow of myself. When I start picking up and looking good, She starts feeling insecure and not even hide it.


That experience you had should make you understand why many men remain struggling with little to no drive. Because the woman they foolishly love is ignorantly and selfishly contented with the way they are. Those kind of women, either wife or girlfriend can never pray for your success. They worry about your success and what happens after. They feel threatened with what you’ll do when the chip goes way up. It takes a really strong man to not let these set of women’ hold him back from conquering spaces.

Take for example a man that is lucky to get a travel opportunity abroad. Did you know some will turn down the opportunity because they do not want to leave their woman behind or their woman expressed displeasure about it.

There are some women you’ll be with, the only time they’d wish you well is when they need something from you. Trust me, it works. Not completely their prayers that works but the thought of providing for her is where the drive comes from, immediately you are able to provide her with what She needs, your needs does not matter to you or even her because She has inflicted your subconscious mind to think She loves you just the way you are and you are able to provide the basics and her needs. This keeps a lot of stupid men in poverty line. Woe betide any man that raises a family with such women. There will be no going forward because he’s blind to these and only feels good when he can provide the basics and what the woman needs. This where it gets worse, if the woman is from a poor home, and also poor in heart, sorry man!!!


If you understand the mechanics of how the mind works, you’ll understand me better.




Nah!! That ur ex na witchcraft grin grin

3 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 9:23pm On Jun 03, 2022
chairmanawe:
I can give you for free

chairman I go really appreciate am abeg, thank you

1 Like

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 4:41pm On May 25, 2022
Omo I told one Shema for area straight up that I want to Bleep her with no strings attached (my own way of saying I want a friends with benefit kinda relationship) at first mama was like why do I want to Bleep her, sounding receptive and all, all of a sudden Omo 2 secs everywhere burst o..maybe e ring for her head say I def saw her as a cheap slut but that wasn't my motive, though she is way behind me but e shock me

8 Likes 2 Shares

Romance / Re: I Would Have Lost My Girl Friend If Followed An Advice I Got Here. by ObinnaValentine: 6:56am On May 23, 2022
Alaigbopress:
Some days ago, I posted here about how my girl friend posted her ex pictures twice and I got a handful of advice, insults and very derogatory statements. Also at the same time I also got very few matured and helpful comment.
I wanted to apply the advice I was given here because I was furious and that could have been disastrous.

The next day after posting here, I confronted my girl, I told her it is over between us(all was a ploy to know how much she loves me). Since that day, my Girl's mood changed, she doesn't talk to people, she doesn't laugh and even started skipping her meal. She came to my house and was crying heavily that she was sorry. That has it been she know that it will provoke me that she wouldn't have done it.

I still pretended that I will never forgive her. Just yesterday she called my female bestie and narrated to her what happened and she called me yesterday evening and pleaded with me to forgive her. Which I did and You need to see how happy this girl has been. I will send screen shot of her recent Whatsapp status.


My Advice to anyone seeking for a relationship advice is not to follow the popular comment here.


grin grin grin Nigga u haven't seen the last of this..jes wait you will come back to this page and lament again, jes wait grin grin
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 3:07pm On May 19, 2022
heartofcity12:
You can’t make this sh* up

Aswear that shit hurts like mad

2 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 3:04pm On May 19, 2022
sajmark:
Watch the movie below and see how a girl was literally willing to die to be with the boy she loves, there's nothing like mixed signals... She just ain't interested.

Because she met someone who gave her attention she's been lacking all her life

But I agree with the last statement though

2 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 11:04pm On May 16, 2022
fattprince:

Like the young girl that was playing me games 2 years ago. She wouldn't allow me fvck then ask me if I'm angry. I fvcked up then. I couldn't do anything even though I know the game she was playing (thank you redpill) but I didn't want to play it with her because of her innocent and young look. To cut long story short, I've seen her like 2-3 times I just greet her and we move. So I saw her yesterday evening and after greetings she asked if I still have her number. So I said "Yeah, no wait do I still have your number" I actually asked sincerely and she was like how is she supposed to know. I Sha check and she checked with me to make sure it was there. I saw it and we moved. I don't know what to call that if it's not bootycall. I will call her tomorrow Sha.

Nigga u Hot man.. Not saying u shouldn't Bleep but not on condition that isn't your terms

What makes u think she doesn't know u wud call her.. That was shit testing right in front of you and you failed woefully

That question was deliberate..call her tomorrow and see if she doesn't ask "who am I speaking with"

24 Likes 5 Shares

Family / Re: My Dad Is Is Luring Me Into The Age Grade Cult! by ObinnaValentine: 5:59pm On Apr 29, 2022
bigpicture001:
... if you are Igbo , you would havve. Been accustomed. To the age grade system inso many local community...

I have all my life. In the city and have never been accustomed to group gatherings in the village locality.. I love my culture don't get me wrong.. but recently my dad called and told me I have. Come of age and have already missed being enlisted in the local village age group settings.. He insisted I should. Be enlisted lest I am not a full son of the soil..

I have been reluctant about this for no good reason .. I don't even know the benefit of being enlisted in a far away village age grade group.. he has change hiss counternace towards me and now refers to me as "efulefu"..

I strongly believe my Dad is stuck in the 60's can't can't see that this group have no use in the modern society... A small inquiry I made about being enlisted also discouraged me as I was told to pay 70k for late enlistment..

Plz room do you guyz think it is worth it..?

Nigga go run that shit except u want ur rights withheld..what u father said is true, u won't be recognized as a "son of the soil" when the need arises..did mines last year

It is jes being inducted into masquerade that's all, nothing to worry about
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 3:48pm On Apr 01, 2022
Herbworks:
On Going on A Date With A “high class” Girl

Some years ago while living in Lagos, I decided to start attending Sam Adeyemi’s Daystar Church. During their leadership class, we were required to write a test. All through the lecture I didn’t take note of the lady seated by me not until we were asked to exchange answer sheets for marking that was when I noticed her cos I exchanged my script with her.

I was surprised that as beautiful as she looked that babe was dull. She scored 3/10 while I scored 9/10. It was while marking that I saw her name and phone number cos we were required to write them on our answer sheets. I codedly copied her number and I never spoke a word to her. When I got home I sent her a message on WhatsApp and was shocked and laughed when she discovered I crammed her phone number.

While chatting I discovered she was working with one of the telecom companies in banana island but was living with her parents on the mainland. We chatted for some time before we decided to meet cos I was trying to raise funds for the date grin The first day we were supposed to meet she didn’t show up after I was already waiting for her at ikeja shopping mall. So we rescheduled.

The next date, I had just 7k on me and was praying not to be embarrassed. She actually got there before me and was calling. When I got there, she came out and said she wants to eat pizza so I paid for pizza and drinks N4,500. After eating pizza she said she wanted to lick ice cream but I couldn’t take her to cold stone cos I knew it will be expensive so we went to another ice cream shop and bought ice for 2k.

After licking Ice cream she said we should check out the Chinese shop that sells baby wears that her little niece birthday was coming up and she wanted to buy her a gift. So before we got to the shop we saw a guy selling baby toys inside the mall and the guy told us 12k for one small toy like that shocked sad
I had to ask her the age of her niece and to my surprise she said 7months cool cool cool shocked shocked

We later left there and went to the Chinese shop. She did something that day that made me laugh. She will walk around the shelfs and she will call me to come see a particular toy and how beautiful it is (So that I will ask to pay) cheesy grin grin When she noticed I didn’t fall for the trick she said she wanted to get some things from shoprite inside the mall. So we entered shoprite and she started picking body spray, Body cream, soaps etc. I was just escorting her until we got to the counter and she was waiting for me to pay ( I turned my eyes and was pretending to be pressing my phone grin grin)

She later brought out her atm card and paid. While we were leaving she told me that there’s a new eatery she saw inside the mall that she wanted us to use for our date at first but she didn’t know my budget. So she decided we just enter inside and check out their menu. When we entered there, to my surprise, a glass of drink alone was 4k shocked shocked We later left the mall while she took a cab, I had to trek home grin grin

After our date she stopped replying like she used to. She later told me we can hangout anytime but can’t date. So after spending 7k she ended up not dating me or giving me pussy. So since that day I made up my mind not to go on a restaurant/mall date with any girl.


I’m going to share how a girl refused to carry a friend in her car after he spent almost 30k on a date grin grin

God no go shame us o.. I have this already scheduled date next week, bin almost 2 decades I saw her last, so I opted for genesis cos it is a muster point for her especially and me but given our previous chat that babe wan spoil, being the church kinda girl I am turned on already grin..that is if she never sabi bad thing finish grin

On a second thought I might jes have to take her to where "proper" music will be played jes to give her a clue of what is to come, at least the environment will tell her that

As I see this ur post na em my eye clear o grin

Note: She rolls with a popular gospel artist here in port Harcourt grin grin

6 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 2:34pm On Mar 17, 2022
iamphenomenal:
Today's Redpill doses are too hot. In fact, I think I overdosed today

Thanks to our masters Ubunja and CaveAdullam, seriously you guys should consider some of your students by dressing your nuggets in some cosmetics (joking)

It got to a time as I was reading the Rational Male when I had to angrily close the book. The contents are way too bitter to survive. In fact, I almost angrily deleted the book (well, Rollo warns in the foreword that we should brace for the impact). Right now, I'm still scared to open that book

Seriously, like I've always told my friends: the men that existed in the past generations were very lucky. Our fathers were very lucky to have picked wives in that era. Even those that got married 10 years ago can't imagine how lucky they were

It is well
Let's stay redpilled

Today is not fun at all

Baba send me abeg ��

2 Likes

Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ObinnaValentine: 11:02pm On Feb 01, 2022
Tonnyray:
Like seriously? Cold approaching ladies is more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not.. and this is coming from a sex addict of sorts. Once you hit the 80% success mark you become unstoppable.. and I hit and surpassed that over 7 years ago. It becomes so bad it literally begins to control you just like any other addiction. The success comes not just by your personality and confidence garnered over years of experience but also by knowing intuitively if, when, where and how to approach a lady. How else do people get pvssy to fvck if I may ask? Neighbors? Churchmates? Workmates? Classmates? Naah! For me, I see what I like, I go for it. Never compromised on specs.
Believe me when I say this, cold approaching chicks is way more addictive than sex.


What's cold and hot approach

1 Like

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (of 8 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 124
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.