₦airaland Forum

UyaiIncomparabl:
Never. That's a suicide attempt. Even if I earn all the money in the world, I will never settle for less. I used to believe in starting small, but as it is now, I've re-strategized. Some men are just too complacent to step out of their comfort zone. We have to be very comfortable to get married. Marriage isn't a child's play.

Are you married? Are you very young? As in, below 25?

Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

Be realistic, my brother. Life is not always perfect. We all have to play with the cards we have even though we can't always choose the kind of cards we get. With 60k and a good woman, life can start and, with God, life and good health, the 'big' things are sure to come.

Mcy56:
Depending on the type of man he is. If he's the honest, straight-forward and frugal one, why not?
With good planning, understanding and focus, higher level is achievable..... not to forget that the woman too should not be idle.

You have wisdom. I wish most marriageable women can reason like this. But that's not possible; because wisdom isn't for everybody.

dollytino4real:
Not the salary dat matas, does he give happily? He can earn one billion and can not give

Give to who? Are you making a case for 'beggars'?

obi58:
How foolish can people get?

Someone called you a lazy Nigerian youth and you are still shamelessly supporting him.

Before your very eyes, herdsmen are slaughtering communities and nothing is being done and you are praying for continuity.

No wahala that change you are canvassing for will soon reach you.

Lol... The youths are lost. They're on a codeine diet.

papoudaupolos:
The most important lesson to learn is don't let Ipob miscreants support you. Failure will befall your course.

They did it To GEJ
They done it Kanu
And now they do it to Fayose and eleke.

They are fake like their products.

So true.
They're 'fake' because they produce 'fake' things.
You're nothing because you produce nothing.
Actually, China as we hear, started with 'fake' products too.

tashashiel:
Anytime this man speaks My Pvc will just be vibrating...

Jesu! Una no go kill me o

Olalan:
I really don't know why our uniformed men in Nigeria behave like animals especially when relating with civilians, sometimes when they get killed by bandits they don't deserve any iota of pity cause some of them have dehumanize civilians before.
BTW even if his name was known and reported to the military authorities nothing might be done to discipline him.

Only solution na to hand gun license to every Nigerian adult. I swear, everybody go humble, including sars, military, armed robbers, even politicians.

zombieHUNTER:
There is scarcity of dick in the land

Jesu! This joke too expensive o. So wetin u want women to do now?

grayht:
Legalize guns!



Enoff of this

You dey think like me, bro. Legalising firearms for sane adult citizens will kickstart the self-sanitisation of our dear country.

janejive:
Go and sleep jor

ah.... wetin I do na? I ask because I wan know. I no wan assume.

1stNumeroUno:
Op, this stage of your marriage life is crucial to both of you. And a lot lies on you. I suspect this is your first pregnancy but I won't forgive you still because you should have read-up/research about differs reactions of pregnant women.
Your experience above is one, sometimes it's being picky at food. Many will question you if they look ugly, and you have to reassure her of her beauty with words and actions. Someone above their mentioned helping her with chores (even when she says she's strong enough). And remember to be 'topping' up, demand for it normally.

Please decrypt. What does "topping up" mean?

Lizilicious:
At this rate, fear go gree me marry at all?

You no need to fear as long as u can bridle ur tongue. Fact is, most girls/women have very loose mouths. They talk before they think. If dem just vex small, na to start to talk anyhow be next. There's actually a particular part of the country where their women are champions in this habit.

[quote author= post=68017079]Which kind sparing be this ?.. why put the child into suffering?[/quote]Just my thoughts. They just set the poor child up for hard life. Nigerians are extremely depraved and wicked people, but always parading around as very religious people.

[quote author= post=67771631]I used to think being a yahoo boy was just a fraudster with a laptop, until I realized that it means more than laptop. It means being fetish.

In summary now, there are many of our girls out there that's being used already even without then knowing.

Especially the one you bath with a soap and cum inside the lady and she won't give birth again or would be having miscarriage. What a waste of life. And one innocent guy will see the lady and propose only to inherit a barren woman and since they won't open up about their past, everything remains like that.

Making the innocent man to suffer, going from Church to Church. Our girls needs to be very careful. Especially this new generation of girls that doesn't want to help you select beans, they only want to come and eat when the beans is all cooked.[/quote]looks like it's safer to have your prospective wife get pregnant for you before you finally marry her o. Make man no come mistake ordinary 'sex doll' for wife.

mekaboy:
Such suggestions is only given in shithole countries. Dragging case is an evidence of failure and incompetence. What happened to finding him guilty and let him face the sentence of the law?

You're a reasonable individual. I guess you can see that many of our fellow countrymen are mentally unsound?

Newboss:
Welcome to the zoo of animals called Nigeria!

Just read the comments on this post to see how the average Nigerian thinks!

Thanks for ur observation, man. I was just frustrated reading the insane comments of my fellow countrymen. They love/enjoy the sight/news of evil and indecency. Their brains have been irreversible damaged, mind is warped beyond redemption, conscience is stone-dead. Ironically, they're very religious in majority. Nothing good can come out of such a people, at least in the forseeable future.

SalamRushdie:
And 100 percent of Nigerians youths are more intelligent than Buhari.

Really? But he successfully conned most of them in 2015! Nigerians fell cheaply for his 2015 gimmick, hence this guy will never see them as intelligent people.

I don't think this man is a dullard, because the truth is those who believed this guy back in 2015 are even more dull than him.

Lol. Very funny.

denkyw:
All this RCCG pastors are always scam, may the school take disciplinary actions against him.
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See a clearer picture of the idiott below

Lol.... every passing day, this hypothesis sounds more and more valid.

GenbIoodykiller:
i laugh at you guys that thinks of Osibanjo as Christian let alone a pastor.
Osibanjo is far from being a Christian not talk of pastor.
RCCG knows this but they can't just discard him judging the fact that he is a number 2 person in Nigeria
that's enough influence for them to ride on infact no pentecostal church with dare loose such an influence person.
let me tell you why Osibanjo is far from being a Christian judging from the political atmosphere in Nigeria that made it almost impossible for a clean innocent person to be a high politician. there must be a commitment that involves selling your soul
or do you think that it's easy for a mere commissioner to climb to the ladder of VP at once.
do you know how many swearing he did before that...
long story short it's practically impossible to practice true Christianity and be an active powerful politician in Nigeria

One of the major reasons I stopped taking RCCG seriously. One of the largest concentration of sycophant Christians in Nigeria, in my opinion. A church like deeperlife would have dissociated themselves from this guy from the first day he aligned with Judas. Anyway, deeperlife won't lend dia pulpit to anyone for political campaign.

Man2utd:
Unilag should build power plants and nuclear energy, enough of refinaries.

Just what I wanted to say. Are we cursed with this petroleum thing? So we no fit think of another thing apart from petroleum? Is building refinery the most pressing thing for Nigeria? Unless the refinery go dey produce common sense and truth, else we no need am. BTW, y na places wey no get the raw material dey keen on setting up a refinery? And when Bill Gate and Trump give them bitter truth, them go dey vex.

BeeBeeOoh:
Can you imagine?



But, how come Buhari forgot all these laid down rules and deployed soldiers to kill unarmed protester's in the Eastern part of the country?

Nigeria and Nigerians made their choice in 2015. God knows how to reprove the wicked soul. No amount of prayers will help the wicked escape drinking from his own cup.

AshiwajuFoward:
Smh. But streets, roads, and monuments have been named after prominent igbos in other regions so what is the big deal? Why are they being so petty about it? *hiss*

But you are not from imo na.... This doesn't affect you in any way.... So why lend your unsolicited opinion? Stop obsessing

delishpot:
Did he do it for Allah?

Most likely, yes. As always

Swisscoinng:
Let's say we even consider nairaland a public forum of note...

...what have you said that made sense?

Well, 'sense' is relative. And I'm under no obligation to show you the sense in whatever I've said.

OfficialAwol:
The money has been stolen with full legal backing.

All we can do is react like reactants.

But I refuse to be a reactant.

Simple question is can those who voted for Buhari still beat their chest and say... "I'm proud of the choice I made"?

Shame no dey allow the sane ones among them talk for public forums. Some wey get guts, don openly renounce. Other zombiefied ones, still dey believe on dia messiah

djpriopry:
Oga carry that 66k and give it to a beggar because it is better than buying phone for a thief

Make God bless you plenty this Christmas, bro

greyce:
yh,I've been admitted n I used ijmb

Congratz.... What department?

Alariiwo:
No level playing ground for other tribes.. It must always be igbo.

Yet they are all over SW in private and public schools with equal privileges as the aborigines. Even ABU, Jos. etc. they are there.

Govt. should kuku turn the school to State uni.for them.
Nonsense!

Tribalism is everywhere in Nigeria. Look at FG appointments if you want proof..... All in all, 4.9 upon 5 in a field like pharmacy no be beans, u can't beat that.

Be selective in terms of your association. Not just on campus, but everywhere. Discriminate if you have to, for your safety.