₦airaland Forum

Sophyrocks:
You have committed a very big offence that i aint sure anyone affected would be willing to continue a relationship with. There was a thread you opened earlier and someone pointed out the fact that you love to rub your wealth in ladies' faces. Thats the problem. Forget you insulting her, What was the motivation behind insulting her parents? what did her parents do to deserve that?

You are right. She is an amazing person.

Sophyrocks:
Love does not conquer all because love isnt selfish, it isnt puffed up with pride and it doesnt give way for abuse. Let this be a lesson to you. For the fact that you come from a wealthy home doesnt mean you should look down on others. You are not doing any lady any favor by dating her. Relationships are not by force but are by agreement. Get rid of the self entitlement spirit in you and learn to be humble. Stop rubbing your parents' wealth in the faces of ladies you meet. Serious minded ladies are not interested in that. Thats the only way your relationships would have genuine foundation. When you are stressed, learn to walk away. Always tell your lady when you aint in a good mood to discuss. Learn to avoid transfering agression. Do unto others what you would like them to do unto you. Always apply this in your relationships.

You have not apologised to her yet. You better swallow your pride and do it but dnt pressure her to date you. If she forgives you but chooses to end the relationship, just move on with your life. It is best she even breaks it off and find someone else.

Well said. I'm so sad right now.

SalC:
Guy shift joor....you are not serious at all, and your pride won't help you. You are busy asking pastors to pray for her to return when your pride won't let you do the simply act of walking up to her and apologise.

You are seeking for a miracle that won't happen simple! Be man enough and humble enough to go to her and ask for forgiveness,

You want her to miraculously come back so that tomorrow you will tell her how she can't do without you? Smh

Am not against you praying but if you are too proud to beg her, forget her and move on. She deserves someone better

Am not sure you are really going crazy else you will be calling, texting or visiting her instead of wasting your time here.

You are right. I will beg. I will apologize. Thank you.

Sophyrocks:
Will your love cover a woman who insults you and your family?

I don't know.

I've asked Pastors to pray.

I don't know what will happen.

Chiam55:
Lol I hope she doesn't come back. May she be free from a selfish troll #bye

I'm not a troll.

Sophyrocks:
What led to the argument?

Something silly... It's my fault.

I shouldn't have responded harshly. I was stressed out.

Chiam55:
But u haven't tried so how do you know?

No I haven't tried, I'm afraid.

Ribadu always gets bleeped.

LooooL

I don't want to do anything like giving to charity if she will not come back.

Right now, there's a hole in my heart.

Chiam55:
Her ego

Self worth/pride.

Sophyrocks:
Oh dear. If this is for real, then everything is clear now. SMH.

What is clear? Yes, my horrible mouth is why I'm still single.

Sometimes I forget people are human beings.

Sophyrocks:
Oh dear. If this is for real, then everything is clear now. SMH.

What is clear? Yes, my horrible mouth is why I'm still single.

Chiam55:
You need to show a huge gesture. I would say first because you flashed your wealth in her face,
Donate a large sum of money to a charity for abused women.

Then you go to her family and apologise to her family face to face admitting what you said and down to their daughter. At this point it's a selfless act so be ready to receive what you get without expecting anything in return.

Then finally you find her. Somehow turn up at where she'll be and apologise to her at this point show her the donation you made to a women's aid charity. Here you will admit to her that what you did to her was abuse. Tell her your intentions and accept what she says. This is for you to clear your karma and to do right where you went wrong. It's aim is to get forgiveness and if God blesses you with her love then it's a bonus.

I think you should give her at least a week before you see her.

I can't sleep. I can't eat.

I made a mistake. I'm not sure if her ego will allow me.

cococandy:
You called a lady you claim to love ashawo?
Dude forget it and move on.
She's not coming back.

Let's not even go into where you abused her family and rubbed your 'wealth' in her face.
The ashawo part alone is enough to make any self respecting girl not to want to marry you.

Learn your lesson from it and don't make that mistake again with your next woman.

It is well with you.

I thought love conquered all.

Okay~

espn:
did u say it to her parents face? If u did.. just move on.

No, her face.

Do you think they will forgive me if I apologize?

If she comes back, I will marry her.

My heart can't take this anymore.

any advice? Pls help. I'm not trolling.

Better title.

Challenges and Successes: Exploring Live Performances of Afro-Pop Artists.

But I'm curious to read the content of the paper.

Maybe I should go find a wife at CU.

Fine babes..

Tinubu who owns APC, now owns Nigeria.


I'm sorry for Nigerians.


Wale Tinubu will become petroleum minister
Oluremi Tinubu useless senator
Tinubu - Iyaoloja of Lagos

Which family member never collect position?

Foolish Nigerians

sleekp1:
Ekiti would burn if Fayose was impeached. APC would soon become the party of "forced change", change or we impeach you.

Haba PDP didn't even go this low.

Tinubu is worse than Obasanjo

Tinubu:

You now own Nigeria.

You want to own Lagos plus Ekiti,


Leave Ekiti alone.

As an investor in a few startup companies,

People don't have innovative ideas...they just like to copy what others are doing.

Copy, copy is not a good idea.

Choooii...

Nairalanders sha

You pipu can fight and abuse....

afynwa:
Never allow marital conflicts to reach to d extent of calling family meetings.Cos there's a saying dat says dat whenever a rope is cut into pieces no matter how u try to join dem d lenght wil never b d same again,dat applies to love.

Lesson rather:

1) never marry someone you can't communicate with.

2) never marry an unforgiving person.

No point.

Offend the person you plan to marry and see how they respond before you marry them..

Marriage is not beans.

Isn't this madame toussands in London?

Okorocha is a theif.

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
Arranged marriages are definitely better

God's will is the best option.

Sophyrocks:
Now inspite of the higher morals we had back amongst our forefathers, some of them still married wrongly. Some homes back then had all manners of abuse. Its not everyone that would be enlightened when it comes to marriage and morals. But divorce wasnt the culture, women were always advised to endure as long as their husbands still cared for the kids. Most women were just homemakers, housewives with nothing going for their lives. There are also some exceptional households with women as breadwinners. Yes, women being breadwinners didnt start from this modern age. There were men who did nthing but drink while their wives went to farm and sell their produce.

In this modern age, most people do not find arranged marriages desirable because it could involve forcing a person to accept someone they dnt like at all. Modern age must come with a lot of changes. Economic changes have changed everything. women now work and earn money. A lot of enlightenment and education is going on now. Things of old have passed away. The bad change is our morals have gone down. Nowadays, a lot of s.ex is going on before marriage which has introduced unwanted pregnancies, stds, abortions and single motherhood. Gross infidelity is everywhere because of our fallen morals. There are too many vices going on that would disrupt marriages. also many people now marry for flimsy reasons, to show off, to please society. women could tolerate then but not now. the vices are too prevalent to do any tolerating.

Truth be told, if marriages of now are to survive, they must revive their dying morals. High morals〓 better marriages. Since we all know what destroys marriages, we have to avoid all these vices to make marriages work. The same bible that talked about love also talked about adultery. we know all these but because of our fallen morals, we ignore them. Too bad.

You must live in a perfect world.

Look woman, life happens to many people.

ayobase:
this your moniker aligns not with your personality.

I have been seeing your comments on threads, mostly commendable I must say.

Thank you sir. I've matured.

I'm an old member and was out to have fun so I came up with the name. I don dey old but I like my moniker sha...

oluite:
Have you tried to think of what you can bring to a relationship if you don't have all this money?

Interesting question but NO!