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Ipledge:
supersonic wind...I went 31st street today,I know Jesus is truly lord

Loool

Divorce him and move on with your life.


Isn't divorce better than murder?,

5minsmadness:
Yes Sir. One of my intimate girlfriends was calabar. I used to have bouts of asthma after sex with her.

And I'm not asthmatic.

I have the feeling that if she pulls her pants lower, we might catch a glimpse of her dickk

AceVentura.

Congrats but pls, do DNA to make sure he's really your baby.

Reason why my dad married my mom.

Lesbians be like "that's my bae."

Politics in Nigeria is do and die.

Looks like she was already pregnant for the lover before they got together.

[quote author=AllBusiness post=30728464][/quote]Why not suck those small balls between your legs.

makeitsoon:
So what do we really have to do here?

I have been thinking...

Is Nairaland worth it? Are we just here to talk about how yemi is fvcking phyno, tonto's new breasttts implant, looking at pictures, viewing gory images, read about how politicians are misusing us and telling us lies, reading every fake twitter post on front page? etc?

And coming to think of it, that we have alot of teenagers and kids on this forum, so are you developing them or still in the process of dumbing down the young ones? i really dont know what nairaland stands for?

Why not start your own intellectual forum if Nairaland doesn't suit your needs.

drnairalov:
but somehow, I think this woman is trying to play the perfect couple too much in the eye of the public!!!, like she is competing with some one or something,, I really don't know, anyways whatever rocks her boat. Congrats dear.

Well said. I get that sense too.

Hurting secretly but praising him publicly simply to boost his ego.

Politics in Nigeria is do and die.

Dahjhi:

coughs.. English version of your moniker pls

Na the coco between the female thighs.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Marry the wrong woman and you are done for.

Pray before you marry.

Marry wrongly and it will cost you your health.

tit:
you no send ooo

Man has only one life to live.

Shouldn't include the burden of another human, am I her parents?

5minsmadness:
Hypertension and diabetes are also hereditary. Nothing special about it.
The issue here is that he has married the woman already. And he needs to know the steps to take to help her.

Leave her at the psychiatric center and move on with his life.

slimyem:
you are always running.When will you arrive your destination?

Long time, my wife.

I've missed you.

5minsmadness:
@kulikulitapa.

It is not easy living with a mentally unstable partner. It requires a lot of patience and watchfulness on your part. Having said that, mental illness is like any chronic illness e.g diabetes and hypertension. Treatment is for life but as long as the person takes her medications regularly the mental illness will not appear.
Imagine she was able to hide it from him while they were courting. It means she was being careful for it not to show and taking her medications regularly. What probably happened was that after marriage she would have found it difficult to keep hiding her drugs from him, hence she would probably have not been taking her drugs regularly. Also, the first year of marriage is stressful on most couples as they are trying to adjust living up close with each others behaviours. Tempers and irritation are bound to arise once in a while. This extra stress can trigger the mental illness and make it come more frequently.

What to do
The man should forgive the lady. Mental illness has a serious social stigma as seen by some of the replies here. She lied and that was terrible but if he truly loves her enough to marry her he should try and forgive this one imperfection. She too should apologise wholeheartedly to him cos he'll be feeling hurt and decieved.

2. Reassure both couples. If she was able to hide it from him during courtship then it means it can be controlled.

3. She should take her meds regularly, not only when she is feeling down but regularly. Also he should be her support partner by reminding her to take her drugs or even setting an alarm for her. Doing this will let her feel reassured that he is supporting and reduce her stress and worry. It also ensures she doesn't forget her meds as well. As long as she takes her meds she wont misbehave.

4. They should have a regular psychiatrist who they can visit once a month or once every two or three months to know how far she is coping and so on. Going to all these govt hospitals they will just give her sedating medicines which treat the symptoms but does not cure it.

Mental illness is just that, an illness. It won't stop her from enjoying her life or having kids or anything like that as long as she keeps the illness in check by taking her drugs regularly.

Peace.

Mental illness is not just an illness.

It's hereditary in some cases.

I once dated someone who had a family history of bipolar and schizophrenia.
The way I left ehn, my leg didn't touch the floor. I ran. If you want your kids and family line to be exposed to the possibility of having a disease then go for it.

hahahahaaha..... hilarious.

The woman wey marry this man don enter one chance.

mutter:
Obowunmi how observant of you!

So I need to Management you up with more details so you can broadcast them a bit more.
I was in an abusive marriage. I left my husband finally on the 2nd of June 1995.
Came to Germany and started a new life with my kid`s. Got married again three years later.

I am a survive and I am so proud of myself.
Also so grateful to God.

God has showered me with so many blessings.
A saint of a husband that loves me and the kid`s.
Lovely kid`s even though they can be challenging too!
Happiness and peace of mind...

When you and some others make such comments you remind me that I once was married to someone as inhuman as the comments you make and it gives me every reason to be grateful to God.

So please next time you see some stupid thing I wrote feel free to leave your comments.
You see, I have no bitterness in my heart for anything or anyone because there is not enough time for the good things in life.

and because

Hating is like drinking a poison and waiting for the other person to die

and because I know that people only turn to insults and violence when they lack reason or are frustrated.

Have a nice day

Not abusing you dear.

Here you are bragging about a husband who doesn't talk to you. Not abusing you, just saying it's not normal.

You appear to be confident about accepting abusive behavior and it shows in your responses.

fuzzywuzzy:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!! What a bunch of wierdos!

Mutter is an abused woman. Shouldn't surprise you. Can't believe any human being with a brain would take her advice.

Why do Nigerian think that the woman who accommodates their cheating behavior is the right woman for them?

you attract who you are.

He married 2 women within 6 months?

Mo comments?

She's not fine.

She's not ugly

.very average

This man is very depressed, he should see a therapist.

The video doesn't make any sense to me. Where is the African version of the Maury show when you need one.

Okosun, nice animation.

Touching someone against their will is a form of sexual harrassment.

There are some men with sick fantasies. They probably suffer impotency issues. They only time they can cum or have an errrection is in public places. This is usually considered a form of mental illness.

Excuse: you're sick - food poisoning

Excuse: someone died - it is imperative that you attend the funeral.

I've heard menstrual pain as an excuse

I've heard I locked myself out side my apt/house and I'm waiting for a locksmith