₦airaland Forum

blazingblender:
Make Dem kwanu rest na

Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids.

I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.

I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.

I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.

I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.

If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves.

The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.

But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.

Please advise.

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saapphiere:
God punish all men

kenzysmith:
Nothing like betraying Igbo here it simply Logic the chances of Igbo man winning with ipob aggregation is slim. Uzor know this that y he decided not to waste is money. Even obi know say the ticket no sure for am.

Uzor is playing smart here support a nothern candidate and position is self for vp slot.
2023 vp slot is likely going to be Igbo if a notherner cling the ticket

Foodstuffstore:
Thanks for reading

Pierocash:
Power is not given, it is taken. Politically,South East doesn't have the required voting strength to take power, hence the marginalization

Malory:
Buhari has rendered the seat of the president useless. Even the position of NURTW is more revered than presidency now. It remains MC Oluomo and Kunle Poly to declare

Reflect7:
USE YOUR HEAD FOR ONCE.

Orji Kalu has a record of corruption. So his wearing barbariga would have limited effect on the electorate. Obi has a record of achievement, so wearing Babariga would add to his appeal and aura in the north, among deeply religious and ethnocentric voters. In politics every vote counts.

Tufia. Mumu people. See how we're schooling you like toddlers in politics.

Corporate2020:
Yes, we can. Presidency must come to the South. It doesn't matter whether is Igbo, Ijaw, Itshekiri or Yoruba. Presidency must come to the South in 2023

muhyeenisce:
IGBO need mental revolution to play politics
If you start hating tinubu for no reason when he’s yet to become the president, I wonder how miserable your lives will be when he emerged….

Reflect7:
Use your brain. George W Bush speaks awful Spanish. But when he campaigned in territories with large Hispanic populations, he spoke in Spanish to his audiences, to squeals of delight. He won the presidency by capturing many of those votes, that could have otherwise gone to the Democrats.

Obama did something similar, as did Al Gore.

All over the world, politicians play the game of inclusiveness.

Except in South East Nigeria where you all apparently know more than us lesser beings.

Keep being dumb.

Parachoko:
People been kidnap in train can't be blame on Amechi.

Amechi is the Minister Of Transportation, not the Minister Of Interior, neither is he the Minister Of Police Affairs.

Buhari, NSA, Minister of Police Affairs and Minister Of Interior should be blame for the attack on our train.

frozen70:
Are we talking about infidelity here or we are talking about an irresponsible man like you, who doesn't have a better plan for his family but to use the family financial plans for his own pleasure just like you

AjiBussu:
Give her 20k monthly and manage 13k.

Dandal:
Now that the dynamics has changed, this gonna complicate matter for Kanu, and IPOB cheerleaders home and abroad. Some are already deleting their tweets. Many would delete and disable their Nairaland account.

EdoBoy90:
Working as a Utility/HVAC Engineer.

Planning to get my Membership with the American Society of Heating, Refrigerating and Air-Conditioning Engineers (ASHRAE). Adding Data Analysis to it by doing online courses and read soft copy materials.

This will provide great opportunities for me with international organisations like Saudi Aramco, UN, WTO, World Bank etc.


Never regretted studying Mechanical Engineering. Last year alone, I got 4 jobs. This year, two HRs approached me on LinkedIn for jobs offer.

Tell us yours.

Waywardchild:
The people are in obedience to IPOB the one biggest family.

Buhari and any APC agent is not welcomed in Igbo land.

Lordave:
Yesterday a thread made front page on Nairaland with a video evidence showing people hailing UGM at Ariaria Market in Aba.

Ariaria market that I know very well has an Army Checkpoint at the Junction, an Army Base 5 mins away at Uratta Junction, Police Stations at Umuojima, MCC, Umuode etc and non these stations are more than 10 mins drive to Ariaria where UGM held a public parade.

The same UGM that Special Taskfore claim to be combatting in forests in Imo and Anambra state made a public appearance in Ariaria, arguably the biggest open market in West Africa and the whole Unit of the Nigeria Armed Force act like nothing happened.

Which group of about 15 boys armed with a few AK-47 and machetes will summon enough courage to hold a parade in a location literally surrounded by law enforcement units if they don't enjoy the backing of the government?


Abia State should brace up, it's obvious the evil souls at Aso Rock is about to dish them their own portion of lethal propaganda.

Legendforte:
Na so. We must redeem and reinvogorate our precious home state.

Nairalandnigga:
That's a good development. I warn them never to take that their nonsense to Abia State, because they will be gun down and their bodies thrown in the river.
Abia State is a no nonsense State, they are business minded people.
Any unknown gunmen that steps his foot into Abia State will never go back alive

adadike:
it's okay my love. We must all come together to secure south east. It is now or never. It's time to form south east bakassi

Smoke55:
Was there still any unknown gun men and sit at home in ananbra after soludos prayer session and gra gra??


Soludo will be chasing unknown gun men till he completes his tenure as the governor of the state,seems he will be more useless than hope uzodimma..

Igbos need infrastructural development and employment not soludos and unknown gun men hide and seek play..

Northernblood5:
What are the faith of our Young ones taking Jamb on Friday and Saturday?

Mokason288:
You can’t win even ordinary chairmanship election

In this kinda party in Nigeria

EmekaA125:
Tell Buhari to re-roof Ibadan, Ikorodu and Abeokuta for you guys na. Charity begins at home

RoyalBlu:
Their hair shaved by Forest and Hunters Guard

What a misplaced priority.

So shameful how these so called security operatives flex their muscles on harmless citizens.