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PoliticsRe: President Buhari To Address Nigerians By 7am, January 1 2021 by Oceanfield: 9:14pm On Dec 31, 2020
Kriss216:
Imagine starting your new year listening to a failure. God forbid!

I rather watch Afrocandy on adult sites.
I tell u bro. We are done with bad news.
Christianity EtcRe: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Oceanfield: 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2020
tobechi74:
She should not mention money









I want to explore

My self imposed boundary

Fufil my fantasies

Over numerous eyes

Knowing I am being watched

Makes me receptive to the act

Put on revealing dress

And nothing underneath my mini skirt

To plant the desire

In the mind of strangers

Until I met a young man at the bar

Who seems willing to ride

Took bottles to summon courage

And deal with the awkwardness

I felt his hands on me

And his kiss on my neck

I fondled his shaft

And swallowed its contents

I could twist and turn

Over his strong hands that held me firm

I felt his sweat dripping down

Unsure whose name to moan

His experience intoxicated me

He satisfied my deepest longing

He left without words of love

No phone number , No email address

I feel used and dumped

I miss my husband


https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/
Well written.
PropertiesRe: Budget For A 3 Bedroom Bungalow by Oceanfield: 5:59pm On Dec 27, 2020
bayo2018:
Good day House
Please what’s the minimum amount one can budget on a 3 bedroom bungalow with a nice finishing

ion know much about building as this is my first time and my budget is around 12m for building. ion wanna spend much on building that’s why I’m tryna stay low.

3 bedroom
Laundry
Study room
With nice interior inclusive.
if there’s any other thing that’ll be added kindly lmk also.
The amount will be enough with change sef if you monitor the workers from beginning to end . Else they will steal all your materials.

Also do not take quotation from only one source ,make enquiries from multiple source for the best materials and prices.
Don't trust anyone on your site. .

Good luck.
Travel. by Oceanfield(op):
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FamilyRe: I Have Not Travelled Home For 10 Years? Help by Oceanfield: 8:20pm On Dec 23, 2020
Sebastine1994:
When half of my neighbors have travelled, I am now left alone in the compound. every year it is only me who remains back, I am ashamed. I can't go home. I offended my family so much.

I was deported from South Africa for drug trafficking, my father spent all his life saving to send me abroad, I went there to do drugs,

Now I have my freedom, but my heart remains in chain, seeing my family struggling financially because of me and the failed investment on me. I am depressed because of this.

I can't call them, I don't know what to do. I may take my life if the emotional torture becomes much.
Bro go and see your people, they will be happy to know you are alive. Do not commit suicide , it is not the best. Believe that the future is Bright.
CrimeRe: 10 People Arrested For Attacking Lagos Taskforce Officers, 96 Motorcycles Seized by Oceanfield: 1:54am On Dec 23, 2020
Its alright
PoliticsRe: Benjamin Kalu: Why We Increased 2021 Budget To ₦13.588 Trillion by Oceanfield: 1:48am On Dec 23, 2020
OK. So that you will have enough to loot.
FamilyRe: Should I Bring Her Over To The US? by Oceanfield: 12:39am On Dec 23, 2020
canttedra:
The recent topic on the home page motivated me to make this post, anonymously of course.

We were dating before I left Nigeria. We've been dating for about three years. Sometime last year I got a new job in the US (I schooled there so it was easy), and moved away from the country. Until a few weeks ago, we talked nearly every other day. It's always fun talking to her. But lately, things have started to get a little rough because of something that came up, and which I would like to believe is not my fault.

Prior to dating her, since I was a kid in university, I made myself a few promises relating to women:

1. I will never pay a woman's school fees
2. I will never rent a house or apartment for a woman, nor furnish an existing apartment
3. I will never sponsor a woman abroad.

Of course, this does not mean that I won't buy a woman gifts (I do that regularly), or take her on a nice trip. I just do not envisage myself pulling a woman up the social ladder. I prefer she makes her own growth moves as it relates to finances or relocation.

I made these promises based on the fact that I expected that whomever I make a partner should be able to make something of their own selves. I do not want to be anybody's savior or anyone's get-out-of-jail card. This resolution has made lose a few women in the past who thought the relationship should be based on what they can get out of it, and my girlfriend knows this.

The situation right now is that there is a path for her to come to America through studying. We already talked about her applying for graduate studies and then transitioning here into a better job. However, she now feels that would be stressful and may not work. Instead, she thinks it's better if I return to Nigeria this December to marry her and then sponsor her eventually to the US. That's not going to happen. This has created a rift and we have not been talking for a while now.

Am I being unreasonable here? How can I make her realize she can be her own person and not have to depend on someone else to "sponsor" her? It just drives me nuts that she knows this about me but is now vehemently insisting that this is the only viable option.
There are so many sad stories of Nigerian Men who did this. So be careful.
FamilyRe: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Oceanfield: 8:35pm On Dec 22, 2020
[quote author=Raph3177 post=97323127][/quote]This is just the truth.
EducationRe: 48-Year-Old Sunday Dare Asefon Emerges NANS President by Oceanfield: 4:48pm On Dec 04, 2020
Romanoff:
The last picture, if you know, you know.
Don't worry I will help you out. "Cult things"
Na me talk am.
CelebritiesRe: Omotunde Adebowale-David Lolo1’s Mother Remarries At 56 (Photos, Video) by Oceanfield: 6:02pm On Dec 01, 2020
Beckysexy:
Happy married life. This shows you can still find love regardless of the age or background.
But how come her mum is 56 while she's 43 ? undecided
Both mother and child are using football age.
RomanceRe: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Oceanfield: 6:05pm On Nov 30, 2020
anonymous1759:
grin

I understand your frustration @op the truth is that you can't get a perfect Lady find the one you can cope with her flaws.
With all due respect to the southern ladies their eyes are too open and majorly of them are rude, impulsive , materialistic and stubborn.

I'm wondering how these Norhern men Manage more than one wife without billions or millions and still earn respect from their wives .The money you used to do sureness for one southern girl is enough to marry from the North and yet our ladies here don't appreciate it.

I'm changing route to the North . Whether Hausa or Fulani relegion don't matter . Northern brothers what's the secret of your ladies being submissive regardless of the financial status of the man.
Very true
TravelRe: General-german-student-visa-enquiries Part 8 by Oceanfield: 8:09pm On Nov 27, 2020
MrAAA2:
Hi fams.
I arrived Cologne, Germany yesterday morning from Dubai-Bahrain-Frankfurt using Gulf Air. The flight was nice and no time wasting from takeoff in Dubai DXB Terminal 3 to Frankfurt Terminal 1. The Germany border control police did not seemed to care about COVID-19 Negative result neither did the Gulf Air in Dubai.
I have been continuing my lectures in my self-quarantine. Inside is warm with the heater/oven while out there is cold between 4-7 degrees celcius.

For those who will be travelling from the Gulf Region, please use Gulf Air if you don't have much money as their prices to Germany and France are quite cheap about 45% cheaper than Fly Emirates and KLM.
When arriving at the airport, make the following handy:
1. Passport
2. Enrolment certificate
3. Required letter of presence (mine was never asked for)
4. Boarding pass slip
5. For Germany, Digital Entry Registration printout
6. Read about prohibited items in Schengen countries.


Thank you.
Thanks I wish you success in your endeavours.
Am still looking at this Germany study thing. Can I pm you?
TravelRe: See 5 Visa Free Countries Nigerian Passport Holder Can Visit by Oceanfield: 9:29pm On Nov 25, 2020
Post it here. Which one be all this link....
LA click, LA bend. According to the poster above me.
TravelRe: Nigeria Not Included In $15,000 Visa Bond Pilot – US Mission by Oceanfield: 7:34pm On Nov 24, 2020
Ok
TravelRe: New Trump Rule May Require Some African Tourists To Pay Up To $15,000 In Bonds by Oceanfield: 7:32pm On Nov 24, 2020
mansakhalifa:
Just go to Vietnam and become a multimillionaire. 15000 USD × 23000 Dongs.

Are you thinking what I am thinking? smiley
Do u live in Vietnam?
TravelRe: Please Is There A Way I Can I Get Visa Loan I Need Help by Oceanfield: 8:52pm On Nov 20, 2020
Fynestboi20:
Canda, Work permit visa (2years), 1 Million
I suspect U have fallen into the hands of fraudulent travel agents.
RomanceRe: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Oceanfield: 9:05pm On Nov 14, 2020
Raalsalghul:
You are smart!

Marriage has a way of tying someone down.
Bienvenue mon frère
RomanceRe: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Oceanfield: 1:20pm On Nov 14, 2020
Liposure:
i see you are not under pressure
I don't give room for that.
RomanceRe: Why Are So Many Decent People Single Nowadays? by Oceanfield: 11:28am On Nov 14, 2020
Getting married now will spoil my travel plans. So I choose to be single as it is easier to jet out alone. No worries.
RomanceRe: 3 Signs That He Is After Your Body by Oceanfield: 11:06am On Nov 14, 2020
Palema007:
Lol.... grin


Another one is Deep intense stares... grin sometimes I wonder what goes on in their minds.
They are thinking of how to devour you. angry
RomanceRe: 3 Signs That He Is After Your Body by Oceanfield: 10:56am On Nov 14, 2020
Macrofrancis:
Are you confused about if what you are getting is true love or is he just after your body?

Women are beautiful and trust me, their physical appearance is the first feature that attracts an admirer. But what if this admirer is just interested in this outer look and doesn't care about other features, read to find out.

1. His best topic when talking with you is 'your body'
To a large extent, this is the most noticeable sign that he is only interested in your body, but people ignore this. When all he talks about is your enticing shape, how big your boobs and booty are, watch out, he is after your body.

2. He touches you inordinately
If you man is the kind of man that touches your private parts carelessly for fun, sometimes even in public, it is a sign of no respect for those parts (your body) and it sure shows he is after your body.

3. He never talks of marriage.
Has he ever spoken of marriage to you or does wave off any topic relating to marriage?
A guy who desires more than your sexual gifts show a mild intention of making your relationship lead to somewhere lasting. It doesn't matter what number marriage is on his to-do list.
He will always chip in talks of marriage if he wants the relationship to lead somewhere.
What about signs that she is after your pocket?
PoliticsRe: National Grid Collapses, Plunges Lagos, Others Into Darkness by Oceanfield: 8:51am On Nov 14, 2020
teamsynergy:
Nigeria is too big to be managed this way.
Each state should sought it's own electricity problem.. a centralised system cannot work.
This is just the truth.
Foreign AffairsRe: Photos Of Late Jerry Rawlings & 12 Things You Don't Know About Him by Oceanfield: 9:54pm On Nov 12, 2020
7. Flight Lieutenant Rawlings ruled for 115 days and oversaw the execution of military officers, former Ghanaian heads of state and others.

Who got the balls to do this for Nigeria?[i][/i]
TravelRe: Romania by Oceanfield: 7:35pm On Nov 12, 2020
ZIINI:
Romania too na Nigeria second version grin
Bro, don't you think its a stepping Stone .
Music/RadioRe: #EndSARS: Falz Releases ‘Johnny’ Video In Honour Of Victims Of Police Brutality by Oceanfield: 3:29pm On Nov 11, 2020
Pavore9:
NBC officials are probably now thinking whether to ban or not!
You already read their minds . Because these organizations are AS$lickers .
CareerRe: We’re Hungry – Police Officers Cry Out Over Unpaid Six Months’ Salaries by Oceanfield: 5:12pm On Nov 08, 2020
helinues:
Your salaries have been placed on investment scheme with Nigeria banks
You are so on point.
AutosRe: Don't Buy This Car, It Was snatched By Armed Robbers by Oceanfield: 4:52pm On Nov 08, 2020
UDbester:
Trackers can be jammed easily using portable electronic devices
So its not safe too,Which safety measure do we now adapt?
AutosRe: Don't Buy This Car, It Was snatched By Armed Robbers by Oceanfield: 4:45pm On Nov 08, 2020
queenfav:
The owner didn't install a tracker? That would have saved him a lot of stress.
So true. Tracker is so important this days.
PoliticsRe: Update: Joe Bidden Announced As Official Prident Of The United States Of America by Oceanfield: 5:36pm On Nov 07, 2020
Congratulations to him.
TravelRe: Help! Country To Study At Postgraduate Level? by Oceanfield: 12:52pm On Nov 07, 2020
I am not an expert but I suggest Canada, if the fund is there. U can also go to Canada study thread here to get more information. Am looking towards that direction .

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