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Mr..Cork:
Nigerian womens are normaly ugly anyways..i never date them..Its all about white womens..4real!

if you think nigerian women are ugly, try congolese women or south african women. Nigerian woman are the most beautiful blacks, second to african americans.

i would also want to add that not every job you eventually get is worth taking, you have to ask yourself some critical questions when taking jobs, Read this post on questions to ask yourself , when you eventually get a job offer.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/job-offer-questions-to-ask-yourself.html

A lot of people would make the following mistakes
1. Start some business mentioned here without getting to know the pros and the cons
2. Go ahead and dive into the business with the intention of making millions the first day
3. Not aligh their ability and passion to what they should do
4. have no business plan at all.

I think you should read this post to find your bearing.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/rules-of-life-in-youth-development.html

please ask the igbos?

SMH ,if you think a medication is going to quench the thirst for alcohol,
1, is it going to be free or would a drunkard prefer to use his money to go and buy a drug instead
2, would this not be addictive, and just replace the alcohol addiction
3,what are the side effects?


I personally don't think a medication can cure a bad habit if the individual doesn't make effort to curb it. read suggestions for getting over bad habits, here



http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/getting-over-bad-habits.html

i understand the point of view of the poster, however, i think any one can get married, as long as you know the rules of marriage, which has been mostly adopted into christianity, even though it doesn't mean people are really following them in the christian fold or have exceptional marriages, however, here are 8 ladies you should never marry.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/8-ladies-to-never-marry.html

This is pathetic,
read this post on why mother in laws are different from their daughters.
http://elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-common-differences-between-wives.html

comments are welcome

Read the signs that you are in an abusive relationship.
http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

The only sad thing about this situation is that you called him your fiance, even if you are not a virgin, he should respect your decision to not have sex, if he really has a plan for you then he would put a ring on it quickly.


You need to read this

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

^^^
Well said

A clearer uncompressed picture of the step by step illustration is here
http://nationalpostnews.files./2013/02/fo0221_pistoriushowididit1200.jpg

Check out the signs that you might be in an abusive relationship here

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

@op
These are obvious signs that your partner might become abusive , check this out

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

Here are tips for husbands of pregnant women.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-pregnant-woman-and-her-husband.html

I have no future ambition. Here is why

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/short-story.html

gboss4sure: Heard that wizkid gets only 20% of his money, If that's true the guy is good to move on jawe. Anything below 50% is unacceptable.

anything below 80% is wrong, even in america, artiste are paid 90% for their own work, except they didn;t write the songs themselves, rihanna sued her touring company for LOUD tour when they paid themselves 22% commission on revenue. If this is true then he needs to sue EME as a whole if he has publishing rights to all his songs.

The first woman a man "knows" is his mother.The first breasts he suckles, the first kiss, the first companion. The bond between a man and his mother during his cradle years determines how he expects his wife to love him. Here are certain ways in which your Wife might be different from your mother


1.Your mother may be submissive to her life partner and your wife may not.

if your mother is from the conventional exceptional ole days where the men worked and the ladies raised the kids, and kept the bedroom warm. She would be used to home hierarchy of husband and wife. Your wife furthermore may not . She might respect you for the reason that she loves you and occassionally when you earn it yet there might be times where she may find it acceptable to give you a chance to know, you have overwhelmingly lost your mind and at times she could very well be correct.


2.Your mother may be a dependant. This may have put her in a programmed backseat in money related matters yet these days with gender equality everywhere ,your wife could possibly be the provider and you the associate, manage it! So in cases on budgetary choices, she might not be acting like you mother, stating " your choice is acceptable with me", NO! she might let you know the loopholes in your plans., She may even have a private account stashed away from you.


3. Your wife may not be as spiritual as your mother. you presumably had/have a mother that strives for spiritual activities, night vigils, , your wife may be wavering. She is spiritual in certain things, logical in some, and apathetic yet in certain regions as against your mother who is spiritual at all times.


4. YOur mother may be named after her environment,because the people know her and like her, she makes every other individual's business her business, companions, family, neighbours and all.Your wife may have strict boundaries,she sees individuals for who they actually her and not what they might be. Keeps the ones that appear to be no good far from herself.


5. Your wife may be to a greater degree a WebMD follower, when she has a headache she googles it. Your mother may rather be a home cure expert, telling the old wives tales of how a specific green leaf cures back pain and diminishes menstrual spasms.



6.Your mother may be a super woman, juggling domestic errands and all , your wife on the flip side might moreover be a super woman too in her own way in any event at work, where she runs a corporation or conveys her company's funds on her shoulder. She may require a maid for the home front.


7.You can never do wrong when your mother is concerned, your wife may not think that way. she may think , time after time that you need your head checked. She loves you however she is not ignorant concerning your faults , exactly as you are not to hers.

8.If every bit of the above distinctions fit your mother and your wife, then you might be rest assured that your wife might in any case attempt to be fit as a fiddle when she is 60, and she might still have the fire at 45 provided that you keep your tummy flat. It's the world we live in now, so deal with it,.If the reverse is the case you are living in heaven.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-common-differences-between-wives.html

@ op

i understand why you say so, wives are totally different from mothers, just read this

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-common-differences-between-wives.html

@ op

I think you should read this post about men you should never marry.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

here are way in which your wife/girlfriend would be different from your mother

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-common-differences-between-wives.html

[quote author=Yoruba_Omoge]Showing emotion in courtroom. Appears emotionally distraught, doesn't "look" like a guilty man.[/quote
Oh please, you have never been in a court room. The liars sob the more. It all for show.

why would his girlfriend have locked the bathroom door when only the two of them are in the house, and is there no bathroom in his bedroom? i don't want to believe that someone who stays in pistorius bedroom who have to walk 7 metres to ease themselves. it is obvious she was getting away from him.

coogar: cool!



where's the time to alert his woman? he felt vulnerable instantly...he's without his prostheses which makes him prone to be beaten up. his gun is the only defence and we don't know if the gun was in the living room or anywhere else apart from the bedroom.



you cannot argue the case this way. none of us can accurately state what we would do in that situation until we are in the situation and people react differently to emergency crisis.



that there was no urine in her bladder at 3am suggests pistorious' story was correct that she was in the bathroom. humans would normally have urine in their bladder at 3am - the only puzzle is if he pulled the trigger intentionally or accidentally....

humans who are about to have sex would not have urine in their bladder. No one goes to shoot an intruder without alerting your occupant, no one shoots an intruder 4 times, the gun was unlicensed, his ex girlfriend also confirmed that he had issues.

coogar: the neighbours gave different accounts of the number of shots they had. one said 10, the other said 8. in fact, only 4 shots were fired......africans and their uncanny ability to lie without shame. it's worrying!

4 shots were fired through the bathroom door,shells were also found in the bedroom according to the police, so it may have been more than 4

freecocoa: As far as I'm concerned, his excuse doesn't make enough sense.

Correct me if I'm wrong though.

-You got up to close window or whatever.

-Closed the window and was going back to bed then heard some noise.

-Went back to the room to get your gun.

-Went straight to the bathroom and fired 4 shots.

Now how can someone go to get his gun from the bed and not notice his girl wasn't there?

When he shot, didn't she shout or something?

I have too many questions but I don taya joor.

As a man if you hear the sound of an intruder, the first thing you do is gather everyone in the house with you around and behind you, then you go towards the intruder, you don't assume your girlfriend is sleeping then fire 4 shots at the intruder, and your girlfriend didn;t wake up after the first shot that even the neighbours heard. This guy should be punished for lying even after someone is dead, no remorse, still trying to cover up , it shows he is long gone.

Here is how to handle infidelity


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/how-to-handle-infidelity-and-adultery.html

olajide_07: How funny, can life be! this is a man that told vien tetsola that Tuface was not good enough for her he wasn't educated and didn't have money, now that 50m tuface can dash him without a blink now he running away because of 50m RMD, you big pass this O! See the legacy u are leaving

where would tuface get 50 million to dash someone, you must have the same brain as anne macaulay.

Here are a list of 8 men you should never marry, whether he is your boyfriend or not.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

i don't know what session to put this , well maybe mods can help ,if they feel it is not in the right session.