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There is no course that is a waste, it depends on your passion and your creativity, the problem with us in Nigeria is that when we graduate we all start looking for jobs, without finding your calling, the concept of making a living at times blinds us. And for the poster, computer science is one of the biggest courses in the united states at present, if you do it well and get the right knowledge you would be indispensable.


Botany has the ability to make you a millionaire in dollars, if you have a passion and can go into research. There are a lot of undiscovered herbs lying around in Nigeria and indeed africa, yet untapped.

If you are tired of guys hitting on you everytime for sex then there are some things you might want to look into. contrary to popular opinion, it is not necessarily the beautiful girls that get boy time, it goes way beyond that. Tope a 200 level unilorin student recently complained of how almost every guy comes around .From lecturers, class mates, juniors and even casual workers. Here are the ways in which you might be attracting the wrong kind of guy.

1.You are sexually attractive: A man may see your beauty and connect it to sex, but you can make him see you differently when he comes close to you, by shifting their focus from your body to your mind. When you develop your mind, you would be worth much more than a sexual attraction to men, you are sexually attractive i.e seen only as useful for sex if you are just beauty and no brains. A beautiful woman who takes the pains to develop and release her God-given potentials set herself apart from the stereotype. When guys become interested and get close and listen to her, she will win their respect by her intelligent and meaningful contribution, that would gradually reduce the constant chasing for sex.
2.You come across as weak willed: it is a natural law that people would gradually move more to the area of least resistance , if you are always laughing and giggling when sexual issues are raised or going out of your way to impose care on the opposite sex or expressing unnecessary admiration on the opposite sex . it is immediately tagged by men ( who are designed to be more sexually inclined by nature) that you are easy and so the pestering begins.

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http://elijahforce..in/2013/01/the-unconscious-men-sex-magnet_11.html

abhijith: i agree \m/

thsnks

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efosanice: is this really crap or you are described above?

thanks my brother. the truth is bitter

Most of the mistakes men make today are the ones they were never taught to avoid as boys. It is inevitable, man would grow and when he does it is usually beyond most people’s expectation, because humans are always in the habit of using a singular moment of one’s life in predicting every other period of the person’s life, talk about mistakes men make, forgetting the fact that seasons change and so does circumstances. Opportunity arises and status change. With hard work, time, chance, prayer and opportunity, boys become self-sufficient but time after time, they are ten crucial mistakes men make which is repeated generation after generation. Here we count them down.
10 . THEY GET FAT:

Fat man


Fat man
Boys after they begin to earn some money and generally leave school, begin to eat more, as they have more money to spend and most of the time their jobs deprives them of constant exercise which was normally done in school when reading, walking from one lecture theatre to the other, eating moderately and all was the order of the day. It is also pertinent to note that the African society also encourages this mistake men make, they see a man with bulging stomach as a well fed man. As a result our young handsome boys go out of shape and become heap loads of junk. This is a great mistake because the disadvantages far outweighs the advantages, apart from the fact that people may tend to respect you more because you look older than your age (fatter), you are causing great hazards to yourself and this would really begin to show when you hit 40. Apart from the general weakness ,laziness and constant sweating associated with fat, bad breath, arthritis , high blood pressure, hypertension, muscles cramps and all would definitely shorten the life of an obese ,unfit and lazy man .This is by far the commonest and deadliest one of all the mistakes men make . Ask yourself, have you ever seen a fat old lady or a fat old man? We are talking 70s and 80s. Only in literature books, what happened to the fat ones? They are dead. The typical black man associates eating with enjoyment, most people across the world eat to stay alive and give them nutrients, but over here most people just make their meal sections a knock out section. Eat moderately, lay off alcohol and exercise. Don’t make this mistake men make.
9. SPEND MONEY ON GIRLFRIENDS:

Flirt
When boys become young men, most of them refuse to get married or as it is sometimes called “settle down” but prefer to have string of girlfriends who would ask them for recharge cards, allowances ,vacation trips, house rents and all. They extend their bachelorhood, claiming they are trying to find the right person, or they are not ready to settle down yet. This mistake men make leads to the loss of valuable resources which would otherwise have helped build a family. Ladies always like flocking around young men for one benefit or the other and most young men, waste their time and money enjoying the attention.

8. REFUSING TO GROW UP:

The boy man
There is a bit of immaturity in every male child. It is common to see young men, do all the things they were not allowed to do as kids, continuing in their childhood behaviours because they are now on their own. It is not uncommon to see young men who hitherto have never kept late nights, always rose up earlier, dressed moderately, used clean language , drove cars carefully, change all because there is no longer a strong parental or mentor presence. They go ahead to counter that verse that says the child that is trained in a certain way would not depart from it. This mistake men make results in the young men finally learning for themselves why they were prevented from hitherto living their lives according to their juvenile thoughts and spontaneous behaviours and even though experience is said to be the best teacher, some things (circumstances) are better,” not experienced”. Don’t make this mistake men make.

The boy man

7. BID FAREWELL TO SPIRITUALITY: “ boys would always be boys”, this statement seem to accept the shortcomings of the male and even give room for the mistakes men make by the concluding nature of it. Boys would not always be boys, there would be a time when they would become men, and in the bible which we always reference, we read the phrase “ and I sought for a man” not a boy. Most young men make the mistake of abandoning the things of God and relieving themselves of the devotion to his word and all forms of spirituality. It is a fact that boys don’t go to places of worship as much as their female counterparts, but it becomes even worse when there is a job or a commitment somewhere else, these men would give their best in their respective jobs but become visiting Christians in church . The problem with this is that they lose the cover and power enjoyed from continuous fellowship with God and they unconsciously expose their lives and families to danger and also let their spirit man die leading to grievous results. This is also one of the deadliest mistakes men make, forgetting the fact that man is a spirit being and we need to nurture our spirituality as much as our body.

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http://www.elijahforce..in/2013/01/when-boys-become-men-10-mistakes-men.html

Eze Promoe: [color=olive]Then cheap publicity stunt, if I must say! [/color]

yes, i took lessons from kim kardashian

Goldieluks: I was actually reading and enjoying your thread, until I got to the 'click on the blog' crap. Are you for reAl OP?

sorry about that, but if you are really enjoying it then why dont you click to continue.

Eze Promoe: [color=olive]OP, you were to give us 8 reasons but you gave us 4. In other word, Thanks for the crap! [/color]

the other four are after the click.

It’s every girl’s dream to one day get married to that man that would make her happy and make her life better. Believe it or not, marriage is a big issue when it comes to a girl's life, no matter how successful she is or how indifferent she seems to a marriage, she wants it bad. The society, the church and even families have actually not made it any better. So ladies of a certain age begin to worry and become anxious about wearing a ring and walking the aisle in a white dress but in the process due to poor judgement and not hearing from God, some ladies have jumped into marriages that has brought about their downfall. For the single ladies, here is a list of men though you met them in church or at a charity event or at the hospital waiting on sick and deformed children or that glorious place where only good guys go to , albeit well spoken and wealthy that you should never say I DO to.

1.SMOOTH OPERATOR/PLAYER:

The smooth operator.
This brother thinks he is God’s gift to women, he is calculating, well spoken and tactical. He goes about proposing to ladies and convincing them, it is a special mystical attraction, something beautiful , beyond you and I, and for the very spiritual ladies ,it is the will of God, only to go back on his word when he sees another lady he believes is better than the last one. He has a sugar coated tongue and can talk himself out of any situation. "It is you not me," " i just need sometime along to get myself together", " i don't think, i am good enough for you", Most times he even extorts money from the ladies , promising to give it back because his check has been delayed, his clients has not paid, his dog died or in the name of God’s will. From such, run.

2.THE PERVERT:

Pervert.

2 Timothy 3:6
New International Version (NIV)
6 They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires,



To the carnal and wayward lady he may appear fun to be with, he is always talking about sexually
related topics and cracking dirty jokes, he indulges in pornographic materials, he believes women are meant to cook and be slept with only. He believes sex is a recreation, and so pays no mind to how many partners he has had, would ask for sex before marriage and has no plans to buy a ring but prefers a live in lover and would simply claim it is a test of compatibility. Most of his friends are just like him, they would gather after work and talk about their many victorious conquests and if he eventually decides to marry , getting married to this brother would lead you down the path of heartbreak, misery, sin and disease.

3. MUMMY’S BOY:

Mama's boy
This brother is in most cases a carbon copy of his mother and is tied to her wrapper. All decisions have to be made by his mother, mummy said this, mummy said that, he would constantly compare you to his mother. You would soon discover that you are married to his mother. why you should also never get married to a man who has no regard for his mother, don’t put yourself in the bondage of having a mother in law influenced marriage.



4.WORKAHOLIC:



The workaholic Man
This brother is always chasing money at the expense of having good relationship with even his family members, in some cases he may be a nice man, but his priority is first any thing that brings money even at the expense of having a good relationship with anyone even God, you would constantly feel alone in that marriage and you would have the sole responsibility of raising your kids. He would give you money but money we know is not everything.

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http://elijahforce..in/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

ekundayomi: He was murdered.... And pushed from the building to make it look like suicide... His landlord sent pple to him... I have proof .... He happens to be my girl friends cousin.

hi, i am presently in india, if you really have substantial proof then forward it to me here, we can send it to the indian police and the nigerian embassy.

Abrantie: +1

Even the photography part doesn't make sense. Weykind Naijaman go huzzle go India go study photo-fvkin-graphy?

now you are completely off point, i am in india and i know 2 guys presently studying photography, i am also going on a photograhy workshop soon.

Bokoharam: Could jumping off a 2nd floor (2 storey building) prove this this fatal? The only issue here is that he was pushed down. I don't believe the suicide theory. There is obviously more to it.

i dont think he should have died jumping from a 2nd floor, except he landed on his head or he fell backwards which would be an accident.

THis picture was taken from his facebook page , for someone who wouldnt give up to now complete sucide is completely distasteful

eriegua83: MUST the women always look shabby WHY the men look trendy. Its only in DEEPER u will see majority of their single ladies are 45yrs nd above and still waiting on the lord for a life partner. Anyway they are the most WICKED christians in Nigeria.

Actually you have a point here.

my mum has a tattoo!.

this picture right here shows that nigerians are so gullible , they would believe anything. someone who had a plane crash has a face like this, no stitches nothing , in a suit and with that kind of office chair in a canteen. OMG! Nigerians deserve all these kind of leaders.

Everything is wrong with Nigeria, we are too greedy and we are basically hypocrites, i was in a church in delhi when a Nigerian man was invited on stage to speak, he started talking like he was a better christian and had more knowledge and all he said was just smack and considering that i know the church he came from made me laugh. We need to go back to GOd and stop religion and hypocrisy.

dridowu: Well, use d little money u were able together to start a business of ur own, it might be small now but it will be bigger in da nearest future.

truth is 90% have no little business capital money, and what they would be paid would only feed them for a couple of months. Most low cadre bankers dont have stacks stored anyway, most are servicing loans for the tokunbo cars they bought and so many other things .

ejifranks: mtcheww to the Glorified Prison-yard .....Never Relent , Look inside of you and you may find Hidden Potentials and talents that would put food on your table and big dough to your pockets... nothing spoil...(i have being there before, had to resign from DB and i have no regrets whatsoever)

Resignation should never be compared to sack, when i was sacked i was planning on resigning within the next 9 months but the sack still hit me like a bag of concrete. it is never the same.

i remember when i was sacked in 2009, i was processing to go to fidelity bank until someone advised me to leave the banking sector completely and focus on making myself a better person. Maybe i would have been sacked again now, and this time would definately be worse because, now family would be involved.


May God help the sacked.

CLIQBOY: afta thd man don enjoy for 22yrs

let me tell , this is the worst time for it to happen to him, the fall from the top pains more than from the middle or low cadre.

For those who dont know.

Ifo in yoruba slang means f.u.c.kin.g
Ladies in that small community live up to that name. I stayed 6 months in that area and i know what i mean, by 15 years, most girls already have a child.


P.S. the principal is an asshole.

for all those talking rubbish on this site, i assume you are saying all this for the following reasons
1. you dont look like any actor, you are just your ugly self
2. You are ignorant about the benefits of actor resemblance, in terms of stunt doubles,casting and visual effects.
3. You are Nigerians
4. You reason like Nigerians
5. You voted for goodluck jonathan.( Yes we have to drag him into this too)

Yahaya85: why we wont be happy when u are also happy when our dear yar,adua died?.

you are a fool

Chris†Kid:
Southern Christians no celebrate when Yaradua died and Gej took over?

You are truly an idi.ot, when did that happen, who celebrated, where and when?

at times i dont want to believe that these people are muslims but when the so called muslims speak, you see clearly that those people up north are just putting to practice what the so called muslims (non violent) have in their hearts.

Warri _Pikin: While other countries like South Africa have proper medical facilities to treat their citizens and even Mandela within their border, Nigerians are forced to seek quality medical care abroad. Especially with sometimes half baked Indian doctors. It's so sad. Nigeria's ineptitude has claimed another illustrious son.

thank you my brother, i am so surprised everybody is now going to india. the percentage of half baked and quack doctors in india is more than the whole of doctors in Nigeria as a whole and if you read the times of india, you would know that they have so many issues with their health sector which is not well regulated. GOd help us.

Asari dokubo is a hypocrite, let him return the billions he is being paid monthly and see if the east west road would not be completed, or better still, he should handle fund it himself. bunch of lunatics running Nigeria.

and the mad man , mentioned ibb and abacha who looted the country the most.
what nonsense, are they not all birds of the same feather.