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FamilyRe: Ewedu Soup Kills Policeman, His Pregnant Wife, Entire Family, 2 Dogs In Kaduna by Ochinex(m): 6:10pm On Oct 23, 2017
DWJOBScom:
You know "minding your business" is not a tough one?

Try it , it won't hurt
Mtchew.. you've made sense right? oyah swerve
FamilyRe: Ewedu Soup Kills Policeman, His Pregnant Wife, Entire Family, 2 Dogs In Kaduna by Ochinex(m): 5:58pm On Oct 23, 2017
DWJOBScom:
I see some headlines and wonder what i have done to the MODs

They neglect alot of Educative topics listed by me and others and promote some headlines that i wonder if Nairaland is strictly an entertainment or horror story line.

Am really protesting here

cc Seun
The door is opened. You have the power to leave
CelebritiesRe: Davido Performs At 50,000 Capacity Stadium In Sierra Leone by Ochinex(m): 5:22pm On Oct 23, 2017
fash6:
If na pastor crusade now ,u no go c pple lik dis o
Deeper life crusade 2016 Abuja 60,491 in and out was filled up.We have to wait for those outside the building to go out of the gate before we all went out.. get your fact straight oh..

HealthPeople, Including My Wife, Have Abandoned Me –man Down With Swollen Stomach by Ochinex(op): 7:42am On Oct 21, 2017
The sight of Justice Uzondu would certainly elicit instant reaction of perhaps shock, fear, pity or amazement. People with such looks are only imagined and captured in the make-belief world but Uzondu is living, struck with a strange ailment that would even make the stone-hearted shrink or break down with emotions.

The 62-year-old has a height that is slightly intimidating. But his height is insignificant; what would jolt anybody who sights Uzondu is his extraordinarily protruding stomach. It is big!

Lying helpless in a mat at a corner of his thatched home in his village in Umuonyeka-Umueze Ihitteaforukwu in Ahiazu Mbaise Local Government Area of Imo State, the man looked helpless, hopeless and possibly, miserable. It was apparent Uzondu would be asking his God; why He allowed such condition to befall him.

He was once healthy, strong and even agile. His travails started eight years ago and since then, his state grew from hopeless to helpless.

While telling our correspondent the story of his life, Uzondu tried as much as he could to recount how he found himself in such a pathetic state.

According to him, his plight started eight years ago when he came home on holidays from Lagos where he was a driver.

He said, “I was a private driver for someone based in Lagos. I came home for holiday and I decided to climb my oil bean (ukwa) tree to harvest it.”

That was his undoing. If he had known, he probably wouldn’t have bothered the ukwa tree as just as he was about to harvest the oil bean, he fell from the tree.

“I broke my spinal cord. I couldn’t walk again. When I fell, I lost consciousness. I passed out but God revived me through the medical treatments I got. I had to be confined to a bed for two years.”

And as if that was not enough trouble, his stomach started getting big and bigger and bigger till it got to this unimaginable state.

But when it got to the stage where he couldn’t take it any longer, he sought medical attention in several hospitals where, according to him, he was diagnosed with having “accumulated fat” in his stomach.

“I have gone to so many hospitals, including National Hospital, Abuja where I was asked to do so many tests including a CT scan. It was the scan that revealed that I have accumulated fat. The doctors said it happened because I couldn’t walk and because I have been confined to a place for a long while. It was in Umuahia, Abia State that a group of Indian medical experts also carried out more tests.  They also said I was suffering from accumulated fats in my stomach which was brought about by the spinal cord injury that I sustained,” he said.

He even had to change his diet but it did not reduce the fat in his stomach.

“I had to stop eating fatty food. The doctors advised me to stop taking such food so as not to aggravate this condition. But nothing has changed. My stomach is this big. I am really disturbed,”  he said.

But even as the strange ailment was medically diagnosed, it didn’t stop friends and family from deserting Uzondu as people felt he must have committed one abomination or the other that eventually had him struck with this strange ailment.

Five years ago, Uzondu said his wife, Eucharia, who couldn’t stand the sight of him in that state, deserted him.

“My wife left me with our 10-year-old child. I couldn’t take care of our son because of my condition, so somebody had to take him to train him for me. My wife said she couldn’t continue living with me as she didn’t understand this kind of illness. She said she was tired of taking care of me. I have not seen her and I do not know where she is since she left me,” he said.

But for his niece, 24-year-old Blessing Uzondu, a student of Rufus Giwa, Polytechnic, Owo, Ondo State, Uzondu would have died of hunger.

He informed Saturday Punch that it has just been Blessing who comes around to take him to the hospitals and cook for him since his wife abandoned him.

“Blessing is in Year Two. She shuttles between home and Owo every other weekend to cook for me. She is just the only relative who comes close to me. I don’t know how she does it but she returns home from Owo just for me. I don’t know how to pay back and I don’t know why she loves me like this.

“When she comes home, she cooks plenty food that would last until she comes back next time. She makes sure that everything is in order, including my drugs before she leaves for school.”

And since Blessing comes home once a week, Uzondu said he is just able have a bath once a week, at least when his niece helps him to clean his body.

“There is no other person to help. I just manage to have my bath once a week, when Blessing is around. If she goes, that means I will not bathe until she comes back,” he said.

Aside from the emotional and psychological pains he has had in the last eight years, Uzondu said the physical pain is more excruciating and exasperating.

“I have endured excruciating pains and trauma for years. I experience loneliness. I have been stigmatised by everybody. People have abandoned me. My world has crumbled at my feet. I lost my job, I can’t even get another job and I don’t know when my condition will improve for the better.  I had spent my little savings on my medical expenses. To even eat now is problem because there is no money. I know I am hard working. If not for this condition, I would have been working. I only urge well meaning Nigerians to come to my aid and help me get out of this situation by contributing to my surgery,” he said.

Uzondu said so many people look at him with contempt and disdain.

“Nobody wants me to sit beside them in the vehicle anytime I have to board public transport for medication. They would accuse me of being the source of their troubles. It has been so painful. I remember during one of my trips to Lagos where I had also gone to seek medical attention, a man accused me of sleeping with another man’s wife. He said I brought curse upon myself because of the abomination and that’s why my stomach is this big.”

But Uzondu denied all the allegation and superstitions that have been attached to his condition, while claiming he is a staunch Christian.

“I haven’t done anything abominable. I have never slept with anybody’s wife. My case is a medical condition and it is nothing spiritual. I know I will get out of this one day,” he said.

Uzondu said he stays weeks without seeing any other soul. His companions are only the chickens and the lizards in the compound. Nobody comes to ask how he is faring or managing. He is just left alone to die.

“But I don’t want to die. The Indian doctors said for me to be cured, I would need around N6m for the operation in India. I don’t know how I can raise this. I don’t know what to do again.”

Uzondu said the doctors told him that he urgently needs to be operated upon otherwise he would lose his life.

“The medical experts told me that the N6m is for a medical surgery abroad, especially in India. The amount included the medical bills, my flight ticket and accommodation,” he said.

However, when Saturday Punch reached out to Dr. Ugochi Onuh of University of Nigeria Teaching Hosiptal, she advised that Uzondu should repeat the abdominal CT scan.

“There is no way I can make diagnosis based on mere photograph that you sent to me. However, his saying that CT scan said this is accumulation of fat is very questionable and none of the radiologists I showed the picture agreed to its possibility. I also think it is unlikely that the stomach issue is related to the fall he had. The fall should affect the back and not his stomach. If he had a fracture for his age,  no matter the height he fell from, then we could look out for malignancis that could make the spine to be fragile. even in children, recovering from spinal cord injury is very  slim, let alone an adult.

“For a man his age, having what is medically called Egg on Stick appearance is top on the list of differential diagnosis. He could also be suffering from Abdominal Lymphomia or endomyocardial fibrosis or decompensated liver cirrhosis with or without malignant transformation. It is essential he repeats the abdominal CT scan. Otherwise, I would also advise he should go and do an ultrasound so that he would have something more concrete.”  she said.

Nigerians who wish to help could send their donations to Account number 3084321816, First Bank, Ohanaga Chidera Prince.

Source: http://punchng.com/people-including-my-wife-have-abandoned-me-man-down-with-swollen-stomach/?

Lalasticlala , Mynd44 , Seun

HealthMy Wife & Others Have Abandoned Me – Man With Swollen Stomach by Ochinex(op): 7:14am On Oct 21, 2017
The sight of Justice Uzondu would certainly elicit instant reaction of perhaps shock, fear, pity or amazement. People with such looks are only imagined and captured in the make-belief world but Uzondu is living, struck with a strange ailment that would even make the stone-hearted shrink or break down with emotions.

The 62-year-old has a height that is slightly intimidating. But his height is insignificant; what would jolt anybody who sights Uzondu is his extraordinarily protruding stomach. It is big!

Lying helpless in a mat at a corner of his thatched home in his village in Umuonyeka-Umueze Ihitteaforukwu in Ahiazu Mbaise Local Government Area of Imo State, the man looked helpless, hopeless and possibly, miserable. It was apparent Uzondu would be asking his God; why He allowed such condition to befall him.

He was once healthy, strong and even agile. His travails started eight years ago and since then, his state grew from hopeless to helpless.

While telling our correspondent the story of his life, Uzondu tried as much as he could to recount how he found himself in such a pathetic state.

According to him, his plight started eight years ago when he came home on holidays from Lagos where he was a driver.

He said, “I was a private driver for someone based in Lagos. I came home for holiday and I decided to climb my oil bean (ukwa) tree to harvest it.”

That was his undoing. If he had known, he probably wouldn’t have bothered the ukwa tree as just as he was about to harvest the oil bean, he fell from the tree.

“I broke my spinal cord. I couldn’t walk again. When I fell, I lost consciousness. I passed out but God revived me through the medical treatments I got. I had to be confined to a bed for two years.”

And as if that was not enough trouble, his stomach started getting big and bigger and bigger till it got to this unimaginable state.

But when it got to the stage where he couldn’t take it any longer, he sought medical attention in several hospitals where, according to him, he was diagnosed with having “accumulated fat” in his stomach.

“I have gone to so many hospitals, including National Hospital, Abuja where I was asked to do so many tests including a CT scan. It was the scan that revealed that I have accumulated fat. The doctors said it happened because I couldn’t walk and because I have been confined to a place for a long while. It was in Umuahia, Abia State that a group of Indian medical experts also carried out more tests.  They also said I was suffering from accumulated fats in my stomach which was brought about by the spinal cord injury that I sustained,” he said.

He even had to change his diet but it did not reduce the fat in his stomach.

“I had to stop eating fatty food. The doctors advised me to stop taking such food so as not to aggravate this condition. But nothing has changed. My stomach is this big. I am really disturbed,”  he said.

But even as the strange ailment was medically diagnosed, it didn’t stop friends and family from deserting Uzondu as people felt he must have committed one abomination or the other that eventually had him struck with this strange ailment.

Five years ago, Uzondu said his wife, Eucharia, who couldn’t stand the sight of him in that state, deserted him.

“My wife left me with our 10-year-old child. I couldn’t take care of our son because of my condition, so somebody had to take him to train him for me. My wife said she couldn’t continue living with me as she didn’t understand this kind of illness. She said she was tired of taking care of me. I have not seen her and I do not know where she is since she left me,” he said.

But for his niece, 24-year-old Blessing Uzondu, a student of Rufus Giwa, Polytechnic, Owo, Ondo State, Uzondu would have died of hunger.

He informed Saturday Punch that it has just been Blessing who comes around to take him to the hospitals and cook for him since his wife abandoned him.

“Blessing is in Year Two. She shuttles between home and Owo every other weekend to cook for me. She is just the only relative who comes close to me. I don’t know how she does it but she returns home from Owo just for me. I don’t know how to pay back and I don’t know why she loves me like this.

“When she comes home, she cooks plenty food that would last until she comes back next time. She makes sure that everything is in order, including my drugs before she leaves for school.”

And since Blessing comes home once a week, Uzondu said he is just able have a bath once a week, at least when his niece helps him to clean his body.

“There is no other person to help. I just manage to have my bath once a week, when Blessing is around. If she goes, that means I will not bathe until she comes back,” he said.

Aside from the emotional and psychological pains he has had in the last eight years, Uzondu said the physical pain is more excruciating and exasperating.

“I have endured excruciating pains and trauma for years. I experience loneliness. I have been stigmatised by everybody. People have abandoned me. My world has crumbled at my feet. I lost my job, I can’t even get another job and I don’t know when my condition will improve for the better.  I had spent my little savings on my medical expenses. To even eat now is problem because there is no money. I know I am hard working. If not for this condition, I would have been working. I only urge well meaning Nigerians to come to my aid and help me get out of this situation by contributing to my surgery,” he said.

Uzondu said so many people look at him with contempt and disdain.

“Nobody wants me to sit beside them in the vehicle anytime I have to board public transport for medication. They would accuse me of being the source of their troubles. It has been so painful. I remember during one of my trips to Lagos where I had also gone to seek medical attention, a man accused me of sleeping with another man’s wife. He said I brought curse upon myself because of the abomination and that’s why my stomach is this big.”

But Uzondu denied all the allegation and superstitions that have been attached to his condition, while claiming he is a staunch Christian.

“I haven’t done anything abominable. I have never slept with anybody’s wife. My case is a medical condition and it is nothing spiritual. I know I will get out of this one day,” he said.

Uzondu said he stays weeks without seeing any other soul. His companions are only the chickens and the lizards in the compound. Nobody comes to ask how he is faring or managing. He is just left alone to die.

“But I don’t want to die. The Indian doctors said for me to be cured, I would need around N6m for the operation in India. I don’t know how I can raise this. I don’t know what to do again.”

Uzondu said the doctors told him that he urgently needs to be operated upon otherwise he would lose his life.

“The medical experts told me that the N6m is for a medical surgery abroad, especially in India. The amount included the medical bills, my flight ticket and accommodation,” he said.

However, when Saturday Punch reached out to Dr. Ugochi Onuh of University of Nigeria Teaching Hosiptal, she advised that Uzondu should repeat the abdominal CT scan.

“There is no way I can make diagnosis based on mere photograph that you sent to me. However, his saying that CT scan said this is accumulation of fat is very questionable and none of the radiologists I showed the picture agreed to its possibility. I also think it is unlikely that the stomach issue is related to the fall he had. The fall should affect the back and not his stomach. If he had a fracture for his age,  no matter the height he fell from, then we could look out for malignancis that could make the spine to be fragile. even in children, recovering from spinal cord injury is very  slim, let alone an adult.

“For a man his age, having what is medically called Egg on Stick appearance is top on the list of differential diagnosis. He could also be suffering from Abdominal Lymphomia or endomyocardial fibrosis or decompensated liver cirrhosis with or without malignant transformation. It is essential he repeats the abdominal CT scan. Otherwise, I would also advise he should go and do an ultrasound so that he would have something more concrete.”  she said.

Nigerians who wish to help could send their donations to Account number 3084321816, First Bank, Ohanaga Chidera Prince.
Source: http://punchng.com/people-including-my-wife-have-abandoned-me-man-down-with-swollen-stomach/?

PoliticsWhen Will Government Release Money For Pensioners? by Ochinex(op): 6:28am On Oct 21, 2017
I thought maybe before this year runs out, Government would have released Pension money? this is October2017 and we are still waiting for 2016 Pension? What is happening?. Government isn't even saying anything about Pension.. hmm



Lalasticlala , Seun , Mynd44 please help a brother

SportsRe: Francisca Ordega Signs For Athletico Madrid. by Ochinex(m): 6:02am On Oct 21, 2017
Badgers14:
I thought it was Francis Odega grin grin
Even me grin
EducationRe: Inside Afe Babalola University Teaching Hospital (Photos) by Ochinex(m): 5:51am On Oct 21, 2017
ukandi:
Please can anyone be of help on how to write those essays on chevening scholarship application? call me on 07054943535
Have done mine. it remains to submit... it's very stressful. it took my time gan
Nairaland GeneralRe: Throwback Thursday: Post Your Throwback Pictures Here by Ochinex(m): 1:45pm On Oct 20, 2017
1) 2011

2) 2014

3 )2017

FamilyRe: Photo Of Handsome 4th Generation (Men) by Ochinex(m): 5:44pm On Oct 19, 2017
Amen
Christianity EtcRe: Woman Gives Birth To Miracle Twins, After Doctor Said She Was Carrying Fibroid by Ochinex(m): 2:20pm On Oct 18, 2017
EzeEbira:
Atheist will say 'It was change of blood reaction'.
We Christians and Muslims know it was the work of God.
Man proposes God disposes.
God is great. Allahu Akbar.
Dont mention Muslim here abeg
RomanceRe: I Take God Beg Una, No Open This Thread. by Ochinex(m): 4:59pm On Oct 17, 2017
God for bid in Jesus Name
TravelRe: Secondary School Girl In Anambra Crushed By A Bus On Her Way To School (Graphic) by Ochinex(m): 4:43pm On Oct 17, 2017
Rip dear... So sad
PoliticsRe: Buhari Belongs To Northerners, South-west Regrets Voting For Him - Adebanjo by Ochinex(m): 11:31am On Oct 17, 2017
Paperwhite:
shocked grin grin grin cheesy GEJ God is still vindicating you.You see them sophiscated illiterates them? Since GEJ was a necessary evil that never meant well for the SW you guys must have met your match in a no nonsense Buhari.A known devil was better than an unknown angel- you were warned but Tinubu misled you all that Buhari is now "a born again" democrat and pronto in hatred you all swallowed it.Pls live with your choice with no regret.As you make your bed so shall you lie on it.
Gen was a Great Man... what I didn't like with him was the money he and those working with him looted in his regime.. eg. The Pension money was stolen in broad daylight and no body spoke a word.. But he is still the best so far...
PoliticsRe: Breakdown Of September 2017 Allocation To The 36 States by Ochinex(m): 10:53am On Oct 17, 2017
eodavids:
Cross Riverhuhhuhhuhhuhhuh?

Isn't this state an oil producing state?
The Niger Delta is the delta of the
Niger River sitting directly on the Gulf of Guinea on the Atlantic Ocean in
Nigeria .[1] It is typically considered to be located within nine coastal southern Nigerian states, which include: all six states from the South South geopolitical zone, one state (Ondo ) from South West geopolitical zone and two states (Abia and Imo ) from South East geopolitical zone. Of all the states that the region covers, only Cross River is not an oil-producing state.
FamilyRe: Benue Flood Victim Delivered Of Triplets (Photos) by Ochinex(m): 10:45am On Oct 17, 2017
NwaChibuzor12:
pls how can I reach out to this woman?
No be say you go do anything self. keep playing yeye stunt.. Mtchew
PoliticsRe: Plateau Villagers Seeking Refuge Attacked And Killed by Ochinex(m): 4:48pm On Oct 16, 2017
Afterall so many of them celebrated the killings in the East and even wanted attacking the Igbos in Plateau.. Na their Wahala.. they should deal with it...
PoliticsRe: Afenifere Is Selling Yoruba Nation To Igbo Through Christian Religion! by Ochinex(m): 3:34pm On Oct 11, 2017
I didn't even understand a single write-up from this vigorous illiterate. Op, this is just a Lil advice, Go back to school
RomanceRe: Physical Challenged Woman With Crutches Weds In Anambra (Photos) by Ochinex(m): 4:00pm On Oct 10, 2017
SweetBoyFriend:

But your parents still loves and provides for you even though they know you're mentally unstable and will never achieve anything in life
Jezzz..
Savage you are..
Christianity EtcRe: African Woman Preaching With Microphone On London Streets (Photos) by Ochinex(m): 3:57pm On Oct 10, 2017
God bless her.. He will surely do
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson Celebrates Regina Daniels 17th Birthday by Ochinex(m): 3:54pm On Oct 10, 2017
Pascalberry:
16 since last 2yrs grin cheesy
Since last 4 years
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari: Nnamdi Kanu, 40-Year-Old Man Still Living In His Father's House by Ochinex(m): 5:49am On Oct 10, 2017
HealthRe: Monkey Pox Hits Lagos, 2 Suspected Cases Recorded by Ochinex(m): 5:47am On Oct 10, 2017
jdstunt:
There is fire on the mountain
No! Mountain on the fire
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy: "I Dislike Pastors And Preachers, I Might Beat One Of Them Up" by Ochinex(m): 7:41pm On Oct 09, 2017
May God not allow me to be there because you'll just have to receive the greatest beating of your life.
RomanceRe: Curvy Ugandan Female Musician Goes Topless In Body Paint On IG, by Ochinex(m): 5:06pm On Oct 09, 2017
Op you mumu is mumu oh undecided
CelebritiesRe: DJ Olu And Chime Found Dead In Their Car (Davido's Friends) by Ochinex(m): 7:07am On Oct 08, 2017
Maybe Davido has mine skulled him... Yes, that is what they are good at. The police won't swing into action now oh because he is not a poor Yoruba skull miner.

Yoruba and mining eh. God for bid..
Christianity EtcRe: God Saved Oyedepo From Plane Crash by Ochinex(m): 5:42pm On Oct 07, 2017
taylor88:
Bling Bling men of God









Pastor Lil Wayne
Those whom the gods wish to destroy, they first make mad
PoliticsRe: Any Political Party Massively Supported By Igbo In 2019 Will Still Lost Election by Ochinex(m): 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2017
What is this boy writing self? I didn't even understand a single write up your English teacher should be ashamed
PoliticsRe: May God Give Nigerians Patience To Tolerate My Government – Buhari by Ochinex(m):
Buhari clowned him self to Jubril from Sudan who is 15year younger. The north ain't ready to release power to the South again, all thanks to the South west. They think buhari will die and osibanjo takes the mantle to lead just like the case of Yaradua, but the North played a wise game over them. Shame to the west
PoliticsRe: Who Will Be Nigeria's Next President Come 2019? (Pictured) by Ochinex(m): 8:20am On Oct 04, 2017
Fayose for me..

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