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RaDaZaBaNa:
The innocent girl fit dey reason u as side Bf now..Real bf go come scroll thru thread ...see her picture ..

That's y I uploaded her cz I can't come and fight only God knows that I don't have strength

Been bored since morning so I decided to chill out with this thread, yabbing is allowed...

yemsai:
The money

Lol

RennyX:
Good day Nairalanders. A very depressed soul needs your advise to make an important decision. This is going to be a long post, i apologize for the stress. Bear with me.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now. Everything was good at the beginning as usual with our little fights here and there. I have my own fault as i tend to flare up easily and she does has hers too. She's usually very rude and she shouts a lot even when we are having a little misunderstanding in public. We both agreed we were going to work on these flaws to make everything go smooth and i tell you I've always tried my best in that aspect.

But recently my girlfriend has been acting funny. She doesn't call frequently and she prefers to chat most times. Although this is an issue that i encountered at the early stages of our relationship because she said that's how she is so i tried my best to cope with it even though i wasn't sitting well with it. However, things have changed drastically to the extent that she doesn't even call at all or check up on me on social media.

There was a time i called her like five times(I usually call only twice and if you're not picking i chill and wait for a call back), because i wanted her to pick up but she didn't. Instead she sent me a "hi" message on whatsapp without an explanation for why she didn't pick my call.

Also, she doesn't pay attention to me when we are in a conversation. She fixes her interest on other things like her phone, the television or just staring at the ceiling like I'm a bore to her.

So all these made me to think deep and ask what may have been wrong. I wanted to conclude that she was getting tired of the relationship but I said let me ask her first maybe it was my fault. I know that sometimes I can be controlling and authoritative but it's not my fault sometimes because she does anyhow when left to do her things alone. It's like she wants me to always tell her what to do. But when i do, it's a problem.

So when I asked her she told me everything that she was not tired but I was putting pressure on her. I promised to stop pressurising her and I also asked her to change from her behaviour and become who she once was and we agreed.

Last week, on a Wednesday morning I woke up to her message on whatsapp and I replied without getting any reply till like 12 so I decided to call her. She told me that she was eating and she would call me when she was done. After an hour she hadn't called and i called again and she told me that she was sorry that she was watching a movie.

I got angry and complained to her, but instead she was rude (as she usually is) and started raising her voice. She said what had happened is in the past and she cannot do anything about it then she hung up.

I'm fed up. I don't know if there's any other guy although I've noticed some shady behaviors of hers but they aren't concrete enough. This is not the kind of relationship i want because it's obvious that we are on a different perspective. I don't bug my girl or attach myself to her, but I also feel that the right things should be done in the right measure.

It's been a week now and she hasn't called or sent a message even on Christmas Day. I want to call her now and break up, but I'm confused cos I still lover her. She has her good side which is rare in most girls.

Sorry for the long post once again. Please help with your contributions.

At times we get it all wrong when making decisions, what you need to do is be doing normal things you have been doing before till you figure out what you need to do long last

ikombe:
I will make it #500,000 if he can answer just 1 of the questions

Am making it 1 million if you can get any one

yemsai:
Lol

IPhone 6 or iPhone 7?

yemsai:
Lol..if u wish

I wish you have to wish too

yemsai:
Hahaha.. dats nt possible

Can I come up

sweettease:

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OK, we have heard you

I have nothing to say, maybe the guy below me can say something about it

Ask God not us

Then delete both her and the picture

Y the emergency meeting

Bills

Teespice:
valid points.

With your dp truly your comments is valid

This me

maureensylvia:
don't tell me u are a g*y

Any problems with it

Ginaz:
I asked and he said you're lying

Video evidence else adonbilivit

Mujaheeeden:
just shut up

What if I don't

April 2

yemsai:
April 7

Can you come down stairs to April 2

Mujaheeeden:
Everything negative thing he prophesied against anyone by this false prophet will befall him in thousand folds Amen

No matter what touch not the anointed and do my prophet no harm

MrOreo:
Not really, but u can't just drop something like that without evidence to back it up. If I made that claim, won't u demand for proof?

You shall see it soon

pseudonomer:
Was there any problem with checking of ones Mavro before? I've been checking mine with no prob.

Yes of but now I can see it

adonbilivit:
call me when u actually get paid. growing macros is actually worthless right now, given the situation at hand.

Drop the digits

MrOreo:
Pinshur or ADONBILIVIT

Are you related to Thomas

I woke up at about 12 am today only to see a movie, just decided to check my MMM and the rest was a good news when I was able to view my balance!!!

hysteriabox:
Exactly. People say Trump speaks the truth, he says it as it is. But politics doesnt thrive on that. Diplomacy is the bedrock of democracy. I take queue from the actions of PMB. When he went to the international community and "said it as it is" that naija is broke, citizens re corrupt, he drove away investors.
If speaking the truth is all we need in a leader, then we would have had heaven on earth long ago. The few debates I watched and heard, it was so conspicuous that Trump had little knowledge about political dealings, foreign policy and diplomacy, plus the man just didnt act presidential at all- talking at high pitch like an average tout, interrupting anchors, and making threats. I think he is better as a boss over a few than as a leader over a nation, not to even mention America

you might not be far from the truth but mind you his an economist not a politician and as such he should learn more about politics cz politics prediate economics