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Positivechick:
hmmmm

Should I continue with the prophecy? He is tall and very intelligent.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

I know your boyfriend OP, he is from Delta State. And you currently work in Rivers State.

And your boyfriend schooled in the North.

Shoprite in Effurun and Shoprite Asaba will still sell same price

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Oga keep shut. I know u are same guy with different monikers.

Go and buy Bill Gates books. American make don chop belleful buy Bill Gates books, not average Naija that is looking for Palliatives from Governor.

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sajmark:
price is the major difference.

What's the original n fake price?

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Oga u are drunk and a religious extremists.


You are the fool. The woman is matured

EMEKUSBOY9:
HELLO GUYS,

Like i promised too update today......

Today i will be talking about what many people have not thought about.

And i will be talking about NIGERIA UNION in ABIDJAN.

My only pain is that i never got to know about this when i first got too ivory coast. But i later find out.

Listen guys, the fun in this Union is something i cannot explain and if not with the help of a Nigerian that is nicknamed as " coachy" we would not had found out and the way he was explaining it was unbelievable until me and my guys saw it.

We are talking about a place where all Nigerians in one state always meet up and discuss.... a place where the rich, richest, poor and poorer meets. ( trust Nigerians at any organization such as this)

A place, where you go by 8 pm and come back the next day, and remember all their gathery is been done at the "NIGHT CLUB" that is where u will find the big Nigerian guys that are really making it in ivory coast, my bother and sisters you start seeing all types of cars... Then u start to curse all those people that first told u too go back to Nigeria that is hard in ivory coast. And this guys are the ones doing " spare part and other businesses "

Is also a place where u can helped if u go about it genuinely, but u might get discourage because what u may be seeing may discourage you to come out to ask for help..... because u hardly notice does that are doing well or not. And this thing may make u fell inferior. But honestly that is one place to get helped because most of them have business and also employers of labour but dnt forget u must ask genuinely and they have a way to see if u are just not being lazy or u really need help ( trust Nigerians they want to make sure if u are truly honest with your demand)

Guys, not everything i will state here but to state the important ones..

the Nigeria union has so many advantage if u are truly registered member and apart from being helped, they can even assist you in your weddings ( some guys now don they happy) if u are bonifide member.

There wedding in ivory coast is always the biggest, Nigerians dnt joke with that award over there, even ivorian lady prayed to have a Nigerian man and those wedding.

Let me just ship in just one thing about the wedding before i stop for today.

Nigeria wedding is like their afternoon SAMEDI SUA and very colour full with cars everywhere

As a Nigerian, you dnt need invitation just get the news and the venue of the wedding and off you go " no stopping at entrance"

i had witness it once... My name sake in ivory coast invited for one his brother wedding, and i was shock to see what have not even saw in Nigeria infact i could not going inside i told my friend " bring the food and and drinks come out side" because i was really angry with what they told me about how things are hard for Nigerians over there.

And that moment i started cursing those guys i first met. And that moment is not all about going in and eat or drink but is all about been determined to be above them ( that is the hustler spirit

One really big advantage of NIGERIA UNION.

But pride, no go allow you join from the scratch, with what i saw their... it takes a humble man to join them at the stage when he has nothing and just entered the country ( if care is not taking na only u go look different but my brother na something carry u go there not to look for people wey u pass or no pass)

I will write more about this someday...

So guys, see you soon with another update hopefully....




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Wow bro, thanks for the update.

The Nigerian union has something like "Delta State Indigene Union or Anambra State Indigene Union" or just Nigeria Union?


If u arrive Abidjan what's the stipulated days to join the union and what's the fee?

EMEKUSBOY9:
HELLO GUYS,

Sorry for the delays on my updates .... i just have to do what i need to do to make this thrend keep going.

Anyways... i will be updating 8pm or 10 am tomorrow.

Am trying to bring my guys on this thrend, also am calculating with time if i should wait for my friends or go on with the updates... that is why i settled for this time i wrote, too give me time and my friends time again.

Thanks for ur time

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Bro it seems your guys in Ivory coast are too busy to share their opinions on this thread. I think you have convincrc them enough. Ride on with the story, we are solidly behind you.

Mindlog:
Newly registered username, another tale.

It seems like Nollywood, Igbowood, Yorubawood and Urhobowood script writers just stormed Nairaland with tales.

Girls and drama. Instead of this clown's to go on twitter to bash Bashir Ahmad for supprtisup Pedophilic guy.

They are here talking trash.

Mynd44:
This isn't about balls but legality. The NWC is also the body responsible for submitting names to INEC.

You need to ask Senator Amosun what happened to him and his candidate in Ogun state.

Governor Obaseki needs to prepare for the direct primaries because when the scripts flip, he will be on the strong side up

Oga this is Edo State. Watch this space, how Obaseki will be re-elected.

Modesthy:
Yes my uncle suffered sickness for some years before his death. May that was the reason. Whose fault it was I don't really know because I didn't discuss anything like that with any of them.

OP listen to Ohizman73 ( the guy is saying something easonabrea.)

yomislim:
get sense for once... Any good news na so this Amaka, so that Amaka... Amaka kooor, Igbo niii..

Mtcheeeeeeew

Oga I was just being sarcastic. I nor kill anybody.

This is serious. RIP to the dead

Trump Amaka

Trump till 2027

Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out

He gets worst by the day.

How old are you? Cos nobody has monopoly to bully anyone no matter what

Lukgaf:
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Praise be to Allah.

There is nothing wrong with giving gifts on Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha to family and relatives, because these are days of joy and happiness on which it is mustahabb to uphold ties, show kindness, and eat and drink plenty. This is not bid‘ah; rather it is something that is permissible and a good custom that is one of the symbols of Eid. Hence it is not allowed to give gifts and express joy and happiness on innovated occasions on which it is not prescribed to celebrate, such as New Year, the Mawlid (Prophet’s birthday) and the fifteenth of Sha‘baan (an-nusf min Sha‘baan), because this makes them like Eids.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said: On this Eid people also exchange gifts, i.e., they make food and invite one another to come and eat, and they get together and celebrate. There is nothing wrong with this custom because these are days of Eid. When Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) entered the house of the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and found with him two young girls who were singing on the days of Eid, he rebuked them, but the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Let them be.” And he did not say it because they were young girls. Rather he said: “Let them be, for these are the days of Eid.”

This indicates that Islam, with its tolerant and easy-going attitude, allows people to express joy and happiness on the days of Eid.

End quote from Majmoo‘ Fataawa Ibn Uthaymeen, 16/276

And he (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

It is well known that there are no festivals in Islam except those which are proven in sharee‘ah, namely Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Ahda, and Friday which is the weekly “Eid”. As for the fifteenth of Sha‘baan (an-nusf min Sha‘baan), there is no proof in Islam is that it is an Eid. If it is taken as an occasion on which charity is distributed or gifts are given to neighbors, then this is taking it as an Eid.

End quote from Fataawa Noor ‘ala ad-Darb

And he said concerning Mother’s Day: Once this is understood, it is not permissible, on the occasion mentioned in your question, which is called Mother’s Day, to introduce any of the symbols of Eid on this day, such as expressing joy and happiness, giving gifts, and so on.

End quote from Majmoo‘ Fataawa ash-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 2/301

And Allah knows best.

Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/130948

Something tells me this OP is related to Mynd44.

jesmond3945:
Op talk about the types of black people in Germany.

Hahahahhàhaa this is important tho

Babatunde40:
I tell people not to think all indian girls are pretty because of what you see on zee world and indian film. They have many many ugly girls. Infact, na the ugly ones plenty pass

HhahbahahaHahahaha clown.

U funny die. My belle

eben123:
This 7a battery issa beast,I'm currently enjoying mine..which miui version do u currently have on yours ? Still using the miui 10 on mine

Bro what's the current price of Redmi 7A ?

chubby98:
When are we going to perish this thought of ethnic and religious sentiments. It kills faster than ebola and coronavirus

Ethnic Religious sentiment kill u dia.

Danielhouston:
Guys I think I’ll drop the hat here. The information I’ve shared will remain here and you can see them any time you want. I hope I have been helpful in some way.

I know how vile the internet can be and I try to stay away from negative energy and protect my peace at all cost. I refuse to let the internet be the reason I’m having a bad day in real life. I’d rather focus my energy on something else.

I hope other people can continue from where I stopped and this knowledge we have all gained, will not be in vain. Thank you for participating, thank you for reading, thank you for showing love. Never stop learning, never stop believing and always know that you are enough. If everyone else fails, you can succeed.

To the bullies and attackers, you have not won. The knowledge here is beyond your control. You cannot suppress it and you cannot discredit it. Those who find it relevant will learn from it and dreams will be achieved. Whether you like it or not.

Thank you all,

Daniel

Bros abeg come n talk about " DifreDiff types of Black people in Germany"

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

OP you are an incognito and dementia innuendos.



Anger problem? If u can't tame her now. If Una Don marry. U go die early death.

Matters arising

Bro, plz update more.


Happy Sunday.

bakescos01:
You are a bitter soul with a very low self esteem. You never believed in yourself or believe anything good can come out of you and that’s why you think a black man can’t produce a cure.

It started with the way you think about yourself, the way you limit yourself. My advice is you start believing in yourself because that’s the only thing that can make you believe in other Africans. My prayer is someday we will all be more enlightened because whatever it is that’s wrong with you is caused by IGNORANT. I pray God deliver you from IGNORANT because that’s the most dangerous weapon to a society.

Enough of this bullcrap.


Channel your energy to another person. I ain't related to you.

Danielhouston:
Yeah the question was a bit out of nowhere and not the best choice of words but it is VERY important. That was why I answered it. White people usually look older than their age and consent is a huge thing here. Messing with the wrong person can land someone in jail. You’ll find these youngins in clubs trying to act grown and doing grown people things. You’ll also find them on dating apps. Some of them lie about their age but be careful. The police won’t hear that.

A LOT of people including black people are in prison for sex crimes. 2 years ago, a Nigerian boy got in trouble for messing with a teenage German boy. I don’t know the particular details about that story. Such things happen a lot here.

These are things we don’t take seriously in Nigeria. That’s why you’ll see 13 year old girls serving as house maids and getting raped by their boss. Even those teenage street hawkers who get touched by irresponsible adults. If only these discussions came up more, people would be aware of what age limit the boundaries are set.

This information is part of German law and foreigners coming into the country should know it. Consent age is 16. In rare circumstances, 14.

Bros plz remember to talk about Football and how immigrants from Africa can get into the football league or lower league.

bakescos01:
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You just said nothing. Even Trump donated money to the Madagascar government, Trump halt wasting money on the same WHO. WHO DG is a fraud that killed people in his own country by covering cholera outbreak twice and many died. WHO DG only declare the virus that it can transfer from human to human on the 30th January after meeting with the Chinese President on the 28th.

Bring your international politics game on. By the way am not even in Nigeria presently. Come and explain your international politics here. Mugun .

U be fool.

bakescos01:
Why are you people always spreading the wrong narratives, this same President just removed English from there national language because of the part they play in all this mess. You come here to deceive people that he worship Europeans.

If he worship Europeans he won’t even produce the herbs in the first place , your own Buhari that doesn’t worship Europeans did he give Prof Maurice Iwu a chance to show case his cure ? You people just talk like slavery is the best thing ever happened to you. An African man is pushing African herb and this is all you can say to him . It’s shame

Oga channel your frustration to your state government. I did not vote Buhari.

And if you don't know much about International politics, plz don't quote me again.