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No.. except they want men to go on wet dreams leave too

dearpreye:
Hmmmm.....

Yeah calling yr attention to emekamigo's post

Timbuktou:
The women of nairaland are as predictable as the seasons. It's interesting to see the mental gymnastics going on in this thread and Mencade's that inspired this. Had both threads been opened by women we'd have seen solidarity and unison in countenancing Nigerian men as brutes and barbarians just as their ancestors were/are.

I am surprised, or not, that these very same women offer such wise counsel as handling these mentally unstable women properly. Where is the place of this proper handling when it's a man being violent. Some have even brazenly cited love as the reason to manage the situation. Even Blade21 who says she avoids and flees from angry men has explicitly told OP to hang in there. Hypocrisy at its finest.

The only admonishment left unespoused thus far is the one branding men who value their lives and choose to leave such relationships as immature. That's about the last batch and I'm sure its proponents will arrive shortly.

true observations.... it must always favor them.
I keep saying it anything that doesn't favor them, they shy away from it..

I'm sure if the op is female narrating how her Bf scolds at her and nearly beat her, many would come up with thousand reasons she should flee...
Now what do we get lol

spacyzuma:
+1000

I feel you, OP. I had a similar situation sometime last year. At a point, she held a bottle to my head and threatened to break my head with it. I couldn't believe this was someone I once considered marrying.

I broke up with her and cut off all ties. She's been apologizing and begging for forgiveness since. I've told her I;ve forgiven her, but I just cannot bring myself to be close to her anymore, so I avoid communicating with her.

Life goes on.

lol.. a broken relationship is better than a broken head /home

emekamigo:
Good one and true-had same experience,ignored and I live everyday wishing I can turn back the hands of time.Guys BEWARE!

dearpreye

dearpreye:
Thanks very much brother. Wisdom is more vital here. It shows you who you can't possibly put up with.

True this.. I'm happy u came up with this topic

Jesu oo

Ndukings92:
guys saying what they can never do from time immemorial, I have experienced such relationship and I pray no one to experience. pet her,love her,tease her,this her or that her.even when her response to such gestures are awkward?

Then you free to leave if you can't tolerate it

Blade21:
very correct post, I have never liked guys with anger issues becuase I know how annoying i can be before the guy will use slap and reset my face lol, anything you.can't take in courtship you can't take in marriage, I wonder y a lady will hold your shirt and destroy it she would have sulked instead frowned or even use silent treatment not hold your shirt that was bad but please you can forgive and help her manage her anger better am sure she got too comfortable that's y she acted like that. wish you a very good morning

nice

agarawu23:
[size=15pt]Anger[/size] and [size=15pt]impatient[/size] in a lady is a No go area for guys even if their papa na bill gate or dangote.

very true... Anger can make one do things he/she will later regret

dearpreye:
That's the issue. I'm sure the woman saw those red lags during courtship but she ignored them. Love isn't all that's needed to sustain a home. I'm very sure of that.

Love isn't enough at all Bros.. Atimes I just laugh any serious issue that needs to be addressed people will say love will conquer all, if u love him or her do this e.t.c
Love alone cannot sustain a relationship or marriage


I doubt anyone will take someone who's always angry too serious.

skylowlow:
who go come marry the angry women

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An angry man... lol.

Joke apart, nobody want to spend their entire life with someone who will cause trouble and give their family a bad name outside.
Angry people should work on their anger management and also pray about it.. The partner too can do alot in helping them by also talking to them and see if there will be improvement.

If they don't change then the other person has the right to walk away

whirlwind7:
People Don't Change!

That's the truth about relationships and marriage.
If anything, any flaw you noticed in your partner is bound to get worse after marriage. This is because people tend to be at their best initially when a relationship or courtship begins. After marriage, you can then let your guards down; there's no compelling need to be at your best behaviour all the time. You have achieved your goal!

So, if you get married with the hope and belief that a certain behavioural flaw in your partner will get corrected, your woes had just begun

True this... one mistake people make everytime.. ignoring the little attitude and signs during dating/courtship hoping the other person will change..

Something happened recently where I stay.. was asking a woman a question outside and the family and myself are close.. Guess Wat happened that night..You won't believe the husband went hard on the woman giving her beatings of her life and blows saying the woman and myself are dating each other bringing all sort of false accusations which everyone in the compound knows this is untrue.
The point I'm trying to make Here Is if the woman had observed the husband is not only jealous but a woman beater, she wouldn't have gone ahead with the marriage..Trust people to tell you love is all that matters..

we de watch

enieme:
So what if they inherited it? And they arent even aware of its dangers
who would help them up?
I don't see this as a Good enough reason; it's valid though

Then they should work on their anger management... You don't see it as good enough until they do something bad to others.

Anybody having anger issues should work On that, like the op rightly stated, he just couldn't Live with a woman who has anger issues..

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sisisioge:
Wetin dey happen? The threat already died a natural death...

lol.. nothing dey happen... no shaking

Gals here go just kill demself over those guys

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dupsil if you feeling depressed there are people around you can talk to or simply take note of what other posters have said..

What I will tell you is try as much as possible to move on with yr life..honestly it's never easy for some people to get over a break up easily but I kn with time you will be fine.
Focus on urself and try build a rapport with family members, mingle with people and go out and we know ladies atimes rush into relationship after break up. Don't rush into a relationship for now and importantly make sure you are happy.

Start by asking questions or doing something for any of ur sibling, you can go out with them once a while, eat from same plate with them, watch movies at home together etc

Hmmmm

Salihumainasara:
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lol.. I sight u brother

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