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You left your own country to another man's country, and the country gave you the resources you need to become better something your own country could not give you, the next thing you do is turn around to bite the finger that fed you. if you believe england is supporting evil to Yoruba nation then why stay in England why not return to yourba nation and join forces with Ighoho..


Such a coward.

One thing we know about her is that she likes Cassava,.


If you don't gerrit, forget about it

Defender of the universe

His father is from Osun

Truvelisback:
This post isn't abt redpill or not. It's abt handling relationship with these set of ladies or women. Let me used dating a older lady as an example. Some guys who dates older ladies or women can be very timid, have low self-esteem and shy of expressing themselves or their feelings with them in the right way etc.

Nopes you're wrong, people aren't black or white, there are shades to this spectrum, and when I see people make statements like you did, it just shows they haven't experienced life a lot. There are many women who seek out shy men, some confident men are dumb as Bleep and can be a big turnoff, did you consider other items in their personalities, a good looking shy guy can be a turn on to some women, a dumb confident guy can be a turn off to others, some guys are timid but intelligent ,they may be more athletic, better in bed, from rich homes etc. When you create post like this, it's only in your head and bias, it's not reality, maybe it makes you feel better but it's 100% wrong, and it shows you haven't experienced life

The most "SIMPING" thing to do is try to proof you're redpill by continuously yapping like a woman. The master redpills don't have to create post to proof it. They live it, and what better way to do so than chase important things asides continuously bashing women and your fellow men. What makes most self acclaimed redpills idiots is that they take pride in calling other men " simps" instead of educating them, the SIMPING of men makes them feel alive, it's what keeps them happy, not because they are doing any better but because it makes them feel there are people worse than them, this isn't redpilling ,it's just immaturity and SIMPING (at an advanced level).
If you want to know what redpill is, look at the lives of men achievers who pursue real goals in areas of business, sports, finance , health etc. and have been able to manage their relationships with many women or one woman without jeopardizing their reputation, the proof of redpilling is not masking noise on every nairaland post, it's about your lifestyle.

He only brought the dooms day forward, we all live in denial, the truth is one day we'd all die and also we'd see people we love die.

Even if it's sad, it's the truth ,and the truth is bitter. Life is a disease, the food,drugs and cosmetics only help manage the symptoms, death is the only cure.

I'm not trying to scare you or make you depressed, if you are wise, you'd realize it's a call to not take things of life too seriously, to not wait to enjoy the things you love or be with the person you care about or chase the dream life you desire. The moment you figure that for most of us reading this, in 50 years from now, we may be no more or too old to pursue life, take a deep breath and wonder what goes on in the mind of a 70 yr old man and above, it's already midnight for them, everyday is a constant reminder of things they didn't do , don't let that be you. Wake up, get to work, do what you need to do to live life, we are all sick and soon the cure will find us,when it does be sure to have really lived

Don't get ahead of yourself, you may just be lucky, or they are running out of time. you could try to cross the road tomorrow and a bicycle could knock you down and kill you. You're not special.

All I see in this post is the air of narcissism, you feel special, of all the christians ,God chose to protect me alone, I must be special.

This is the problem I have with religion, when they share miracles, they lean on the side of having grace, imagine someone will come to tell a testimony of how all passengers died in the bus except them, so those that died don't have a God to protect them, if all survived the accident it won't be a miracle except some people become unfortunate while they are saved.

What people are struggling to overcome ,they often give advice about it.

You see a woman talk so much about moving on from an ex, it's because she's struggling to move on, and truth is, it's not often about the sex game as most "simp" guys in early.comments think, it's often a make up of many things, especially moments together, they can't bear another woman enjoying those same privileges , ex are very powerful people, if your bf/gf is still in communication with her ex , y'all got be very observant. As human we compare previous with past, so when you begin to date someone new, you'd compare their temperament, style, sex game, finances,, family with the past.

Lol, She made the right choice, now you also make the right choice for your life

Is there a male dog in that your neighbor place, cause b*itches love D*cks.

Kanye continues to upset his black community daily, turning into a flipflop, look at the nonsense he's wearing. This woman will be his ruin for sure.

Stupid school.

Rife with cultism, that's all they do there.

90% of the boys na cultist, 98% of the girls are cheap .

sofiscatedmoron:
Bore hole don finish?

It's on the hill, drilling is often a very difficult tasks and expensive,

Yea it's often an Enugu issue, water problems all the time

A post just to catch cruise with the redpillers but we ain't falling for it or for the admin that pushed this garbage to front page

SIMP, if takes a snapshot of the chat and inform the police, the guy will be cooling off in police cell for a long time, some guys think with their dicks. She can deny transactions with you, but you can't really deny a threat or exposing her nudes. Mumu dey form sharp guy

A single mother isn't a bad thing, a lot of reasons could make a woman be a single mum, many reasons asides immorality.
Find a good woman ,the world is beyond sex ,and sex is the least of bad traits , there are worse things people indulge in asides sex

Better Tinubu than another Fulani

Cult related killings for sure , unlike the head mining happening down west

Friend.

Drinks, guns, knives, sex don't kill people, people kill people

Women remain the ultimate manipulator, and as a man it doesn't really matter if you see through the manipulation or not, for sake of peace you'd need to pick which of the manipulation you'd turn a blind eye to and fall into.

90% of men who proposed to their girls felt they did it on their own volution, but deep down they know the women planted all the ideas , the time, place ,how they want it etc. The power of being a woman is not being in leadership but subtle act of making the man feel he's in control while they control his decisions, he takes the risk of action, they take the result of it, this is why a woman will do nothing and still claim that he made a man who he's become, now before you think it's just brag, she's actually right. Sex, weakness, guilt ,seduction are few of the tools in their arsenal.

In your case sir, you fell into her trap, she's ochestrated everything, and if she's not giving you sex there's already a reason for this, maybe she's no longer down with the marriage, seeing someone else or have issues with you not yet sorted. you forcefully raping her gave her the ammunition she needs to play the victim and puts her in full position of control while you remain in guilt. She control the odds, you fell into her hands because you allowed your dick do the thinking.
I hate to say this, but you made the matter worse by begging.

Ebymyk:
you have said it all bro... You just said my mind... This is exactly what guys need.... Thank you for this piece...you have answered the question I have been asking myself for many years... Thanks again...

I'm glad to help, may I ask what question that is?

Men, this guy don suffer. All that bravado and all his backers couldn't get him a good job and livelihood, he was meant to be the face of protest but in the end reality dictates, and when the chips are down, humans are only and firstly dedicated to their own selfish desires , for even when they help you, they do so in other to seek public affirmation or showcase their benevolence

It's hard to change people, marriage is hard because we often mingle with people whom we know nothing about their childhood and sometimes we don't have enough time to understand who they really are until it's too late. Love is not enough , it's often safer to marry your best match than marry for love.
Love alone won't sustain you, because it's often superficial in that you love something maybe the looks, body shape, demeanor, voice and it all makes up into love, when those features fade, we begin to lose attraction,but character hardly changes . If you value health cleanliness then marry a woman who values her health ,weight and cleanliness, we often get muddled up with opposite attracts , it's mustn't always be a complete match but seek for closely matched attributes, superficial things like looks are important but not absolute and sustainable.

Certain fundamentals traits like honesty, sympathy, zeal, empathy, thought process etc are very important.

TheGidRedpiller:
Then you absolutely nothing of what you are talking about!

Life is all shades of grey and nothing is absolute, the more of life you know, the less conclusive statement you make. No one would live long enough to understand life, but if you seek knowledge you'd appreciate everyone's opinion, (not accept ), I do not accept your opinion, but I understand it must have been formed by whatever experience of life you have, no one is right, no one is wrong, we know nothing more than what we have experienced, heard or learned.

If you're hoping to draw me into a baseless, childish or futile arguememt on redpilling or who's more manly, I'd have to disappoint you because that is the most manly thing to do, and only vain woman argue over nonsense.

Whatever opinion you have, I appreciate it, but I don't accept it, it's your opinion and view of life. It's not wrong, but it's not right for me.

I hope you have a lovely day

TheGidRedpiller:
Nice perspective of life, pls are you married?

Nope, why?

Lol, this won't change anything, we think about life and sex too seriously.

Ours is not to question why, but to do and die

Correct Gee, you only live once, enjoy it while it last.

Hassanmaye:
I will take this advice serious although alot of stupid men in this forum will not understand until they are closer to the grave yard

Thanks, pls pass this on to your sons too.

Truth is, the world isn't fair to men,but that's how the world works, growing up as kids we see more of our mum, they provide the care and all, but we hardly see the real side of our fathers because our mums portray our dad's as the enforcer who only disciplines, meanwhile the man toils from dawn to dusk to make the money ,it's the money that our mum's translate into the good things like food, school bags,fees, clothes, parties etc .
This places the mothers in position of care and weakness, a position that uncannily makes we want to care and protect them, we grow up with that mindset such that when parents are aged we send money to our mums in hope that they'd transform it into something good. Now, this is where we are wrong, women aren't good with power especially over their husbands, should you take this approach, the women will try to subjugate her husband and soon you'd find your father becoming more naive and have less voice in home affairs.

As a son, who understands , when you send money , send to your mum for the house items with your dad knowing, but also send to your Dad privately for his pocket (even if it's a quarter of what you gave your mum for the house items) , because a man needs it for his confidence.

The world has no sympathy for men, even in their old age, they have no where to run to, no shoulder to lean on, even their own kids abandon them. No one remembers their struggle, have you heard of any musician singing about how his father prayed for him or advices him?.. it's always the mums.

If you're a man and reading this, You can break this circle, be there for your father,

Tell this to your sons also.

Sense no dey your head,