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Goog one there man!I thought i was reading David De Angelo here.You got it but its so difficulty for the so called nice guys to comprehend but its 100% fact

I will start by saying that REAL MEN do not cheat thier partners.Hey what are we talking about here.We need to ascertain the position of the poster for us to be able to know where he is coming from and where he is heading to.There is so much need for people to grow up love-wise.No one is sbove learning,add one or two things to your knowledge bank today regarding your lovelife

I have had sme personal issue with them at the past but what i am reading is simply shameful.Is this why we all here?Dont you guys know where to do effective propanganda?Its really not too polite and ethical to ask anyone to bank here or there,its a personal choice thing.Lets talk of how to helpp the less privilaged,lts talk of how to create more jobs for the younger ones who are coming out of school.
Lets not waste the time that we dont have

Cheers

Somebody here is saying they dont share anything in common.How true can that be?I beleive you had not really thought of it.You two must have something in common,atleast onething.You never know,the attraction may reside in that very 'little' commonness

Yes some people does not just understand what we mean here.We are talking of people that once had or still have some love between them.We aint talking of someone you just met or a one-night-sleep mate.

If he once loved you,why did he suddenly or gradually stopped loving you?

There is no way the woman can be blame at all times because her daughter's misbehaviors.Sodoes it mean then that the men will be blamed when the boys go wrong?

Hey Truphie,

That your ex is a self-servicer wouldnt make you admit that all men are wankers.Maybe you are yet to meet a real man.

Cheers

You are very right my brother but unfortunately many does not see it that way

Its party time! For Libras......get in touch...

I really wonder but it happen in some cases,whenever a duaghter does something wrong,the man in the house will be lookat the wife.A kind of aint-you-seeing-your -daughter?This is not acceptable at all.I have seen cases where Dad is daughter's best friend.Believe me,if she ijs your friend as such,there is every possibility that whatever advice you give her will be kept as a rule because,you may not know but she cheerish that closeness she has with you more than that of her mom and will not want her misbehavior to distance you too.Try it today,be her friend,help your family grow,its not just for the women,men have more work whem it comes to bringing up our little girls

To your family happiness, Cheers,

Have you taken time to really check the things you have in common with your lover.Do you watch films a lot while he or she doesn't?Think about it and tell us what and what you have in common with your lover and tell us how you adjust to the things you two don't share together but you just do for the relationship.



So talk plain,

@BENLEGACY,

I did not write this because my gf left me,ok?I hv completely passed that stage in life.i really want us to learn something new and try to practically grow,are you getting me my brother.Even while i was in the Varsity,i have people come to me withsome strange reasons why they are quiting their dates.You know something,its not just for unmarried people,whether someone is married too,they need to keep the fire glowing between them,they need stay every Green,are you getting me?Let me ask,who in here has eaten a rotteen vegetable before?Think about,you know you can keep it in the fridge to keep fresh and or cook it and serve how,then why must you let it rotten before you eat, We are trying to relate this to our relationship here,it requires preservation,ok?If there is LOVE between the two ,every effort must be made to keep it.
To your love lives and happiness,

Cheers and hv a nice weekend

This ia a kind of stock taking.The word regret may not be too appropriate because there is always room for

improvement.What are those things you did you felt could have been done differently?

It could be that you changed an idea that could have landed you in real financial freedom

It may be that you married the inappropriate person, I have an instance where i ran into a Lady we were in Varsity to gether

Me: hey this woman ,you finally got some flesh on you skin

Lady: My brother,person no be small pickin again,child birth and all that

Me: But you still look great,can still go for beauty contest if they allow married women,how is you husband anyway?

Lady: Leave that side,it was just that i really wanted to get married,its really a mix-match but i am working harder just

to make sure if anything happens,i will have enough resources to train my daughter to any level,

ME: Have you been talking to God about it?

and so on and on

My point here is that this lady may be regretting marrying this particular guy.

What things do you think you did earlier and you now want to do it differently,let talk of it here.FRANKLY

I would have been happier to be a medical Doctor,simply because i have passion for going the extra mile to save and

help,would have giving free treatment to thousands of poor Nigerians.

Now,being an Ind Mathematician and working hard,doing my best to mend relationships freely,i will be glad the day my

dream free medical treatment NGO will come to live,

What is yours,

LETS RE-BUILD,

Cheers,

@ ISI ATU,

Your question is quiet simple,if a woman wants to 'ask' for more romance from her man.Note what i said here:'her man', her lover,not somebody she just met.There are some little things she will do that will quickly wake up the man, got what i mean here?You atimes,the guy wont be in the mood or may have lots of things going his system,head,body,stress e.tc. He may be ready to go for just plain sex, got me?at that time,but his lover can make him go much more than just sex by doing some of these little things,

It may be just singing his favourite love song to his ear,

May just be reminding him how his face looked the last time you two had a great sex, hmmmnn, are u getting it?

May just start by being unusually caring, that is taking time to ask you of your general wellbeing,even if she did that

30minutes ago,she can be touching you gently while she asks [mothering you?], well if you call it that?

This subject can really take a full journal but i believe you got slight idea of what i mean here.

You may send me email here :mayor AT lovemayor.com, I have a yet to be released material,i can give you the preview.it will add something to your love briefcase

@Sistawoman,

U got it,u know what,it takes time for someone like to relate this kinda really romatic scenes without apearing so techy, got what i mean.i am happy you are saying it as it is, ladies LEARN, sit up, dont go saying he left you, try to keep him

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@Sistawoman,

You know what?You have the right mentality to keep wht is rightly yours.Some young woman in the guise of being religious or whatever dont know anything and will never learn even after marraige.Its a real pitty.
If one is not romantically free,how can one be able to know when to seek help or otherwise.
I have met a couple whose problem is that the lady says the hasnt been satisfying her BUT the big issue there was that she kept quiet untill things get out of hand.All she was saying wasy:"is it me that will teach you what you shuold know?"Can you imagine that?

I really wish some of our younger people here will be able to grab one or two learns, some little things do matter really
Cheers

Passion is an emotional fire that burns brightly and seductively, but can be impermanent and lead to suffering.

When passion has a cause it turns into lust. Passion leads to grasping with the outcome being fear.

Love, on the other hand, is a necessary condition for compassion. Love is the essence of virtue.

One of the odd things about love is that whatever you do will be correct if you love without attatachment.

Love can be only when the thought of self is absent. Love is a state of being, and in that state, the 'me' with its

identifications, anxieties, and possessions, is absent. Love cannot be, as long as the activities of the self, of the 'me',

whether conscious or unconscious, continue to exist. Love is freedom, Do you agree with me?

Have you ever asked yourself why your 'sweet' partner or lover in this instance suddenly lost every interest in you?If there is any love between you two before,it wont just fade but there are some tips you need to know to keep the relationship ever Green.Its very important you try and have it mind from now[even if you are still single] that for you to always have that passion between the two of you,it requires work from the two of you.You need to know that .

Sometimes one of the two people in love may get bored for no-just reason,he or she may just start slowing down, but that is the time you will pull him or her up and believe me,he or she will appreciate it later and you will notice re-invigorated passion.Lets kick the ball rolling

Have you ever had reason to pull your partner up romantically?We will be happy to know and many nailanders will learn from your story.Be real here please

There

Reading all these is really great But i have some thing here to say.Does it mean that all these reasons given here are more important than the professed initial love?I want somebody here to really think and see if he or she had made a mistake in the first place by being in that relationship.

If this is your situation,very good but if not and you still feel somehow that you may have something to do with your ex,all hope isnt lost anyway and there are definite ways to go about regaining that first flash.

It all depends on your purposes anyway.Does he or she make you happy?Or is it that your goals aint the same anymore?But inside your mind,do you still yearn for him or her?The decision to recall a lost love depends on the peculiar situation surrounding your relationship but i will always mentain that if you can keep steady, that if you really see something good in him or her.If all goes well and the important fact i will remind you quickly here is to be sure that what you have is LOVE before considering any recall,

Cheers, OFALA

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I know where you guys can discover so mauny mad people.I am not saying it is As, O

Hill or oval or Stone.

And the so called politcos

Ask me why?

How many of you guys had ever wondered why they will not be happy to see things work fine here in our counrty.

I was among the people who were shouting with our 'little' strenght that one day we will wake up and oil, will decline,,

These chicke, ns arent concerned about this naija but thire concerns now that i legitamately gathered is that thier travelling allowances hv bn reduced drastically.

Are u getting my picture now?

Nobody should look very far for mad people, Just look in the dirction i ealier mentioned,

With cool and happy people like you guys here,there is hope for naija

@xxcarolxx,

you got is.i think you are in better position to talk to bridget, Good one there.Life doesnt stop after cheating and love woulndt stop either,

@Mrsb,

.thumbs up for saying some simple truth,

We are making some progresss.

I strongly say tat you strive to make amend if need be in your relationship.dont rush to rock the boats.Even after the most disappointing situation, it may just be the much desired turning poing in your relationship

So many things do happen in the name of love but there are some issues that are so wired and scary,even as a professional counsellor,you may be unable to properly advice.But i really think in this issue,there is every need for the guy to get to the root of what actually caused his supposed sweet heart to want to kill him!!, Know why i say this?If for any reason he caused or at least contributed in 'pushing' the lady to that extreme[i still condenm the act of wanting to kill anybody],there is every possibility that he still 'push' another person, yes, yes, yes.i am talking fromsome real life experiences i had been privileged to handle.

The big running ways is for him to look inside himself, if he is clean enough[i mean,if he isnt an extremem person too].then what or how to handle the lady,even if they may come back again will not be much problem

Everyone who is above 35 and is qualified to be the one number citizen and ofcours the person must have atleast passed Yoruba,Igbo or Efik,Hausa e.t.c in S.S.C.E, Very good
Here are other qualification guidelines:

The next aspiring presido must not be called Ibra, not ta talk of HIM
He may be called anything but now Ol, you add u for Uyo
He will be a bit learned[i doubt this] but musnt sit at Ao Rock all day and night and only go out for work when he is going for rutine check up

We must be able to inspire N,Ass enough to get our budget passed by atmost 30th of every January.
Must love a woman not women
Must not think of sleeping with his daughter in-law,

Hey may phone is already ringing, I will be right back,
You can complete the Qualifications

Hey,you like him or hate him but he is still the most revered pop star every.This man in his middle 50S hasn't stopped baffling me.How many people do you think will survive the amount of wrong s, x ordeals he had and still be reckoned with.Something made me write of him here today.He will be in London this month on 10 different performances and the Britons are scrambling all over themselves to get the tickets, or is it sold out?I am yet to verify.
My point is this,i personally DO NOT LIKE his character.1.For not being proud of his black race, 2.For being in love with , pri, ks [no body is sure though] but the heat those his runs had generated is enough to humble any sane man.Is wacko sane?
BUT i love his music,i cannot deny this.I think i have all the music he had ever released right now on my laptop and believe me,his originality is AMAZING.

NOW, who among our Nigerian singers do we think can have an effect as lasting as Wako.I am not even talking of international dominance,i mean just in naija here.Who do you think can be able to have his name still revered 10 years after he released his last song?WHO?
I WILL BE HAPPY IF WE CAN LOOK INTO THIS, AND TALK FRANKLY.WE MAY MAKE SOME DISCOVERIES