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[b]Reclaiming your lost love

Do you have the ability to accept the things you can change and the things you cannot change? Do you have the ability to
accept that other people are opt to change them, rather than you changing them? Do you accept that you are who you are,

regardless of what others think? Can you accept the many changes that take place in your life?

Talking of change,love is one of the issues in life that can change and rechanged severally.There are some factors that affect the way we love and the we take those we love

If you answered yes to one or all of these questions then you are off to the start of improving your love life. If you are willing to accept, you have the ability to laugh, even when love seemslost. For instance, if someone you really love start behaving in some unpreditable manners, you could stand back and practically turns things around positively. The push is only a threat to your emotion, which you will see, accept and find a way to gain control of the situation.

When you can accept things in life, including you and others you find a way to take control. When you are in control of your love life, it helps you to see how you can improve your love life. When you learn to accept you will learn to discover the new you.Individuality is personal, which philosophers over generalize this subject. Many people in the world believe that when we act the same way at all times, we have established our identity.This is prectically not so true, We have emotions, thoughts, behaviors, actions, and have been plagued by a world of influences both good and bad. Each day we will feel something new, which causes our personality to reflect on these changes. Therefore, when you see someone laughing one minute and crying the next, you are seeing a shift in emotions, which is a normal pattern of identity for this person. Unless the persons eyes change, behaviors change dramatically,and love too, friends change regularly, etc, and you are seeing common behaviors in real life living. We live in a world that desensitizes us.We continually interact with the good and not so good companies.Sometimes,things or people we believe in so deeply may dissapoint us.It the behoves us to master ways being in control of how our partners,in this instance view us.It is an act in its self to have absolute control of your love life.Some really donot have any clue how to go about this. We are surrounding by billions of influences on television, in the media, on radio, in house-holds, government, schools and so forth. Each to their own, but everyone is judging someone at some time, which is something we have to accept. We cannot change these peoples behaviors and way of thinking, but we can change the sequence and the after react to benefit us if only we know how. This is a part of learning and mastering act. The best way around the world is become your own influence and allow other influences to make someone else’s life miserable. Only rely on sources that prove truthful with their actions, behaviors and words. Positive reflections are the key to living happier and love healthier.Even when that love of yours goes astray.

Once you learn to positively be in control of your love life,you will be in perfect position to amend even the worst cases of love-gone-wrong. For instance, if someone makes you mad you will see the humor in his or her actions. You may see the humor in your actions if you make a mistake and feed into their stupidity.
Once you start to see the humor in life,living and loving, you will feel better inside and you will then be sychologically ready to be in control,effortlessly. We are involved in a unruly world filled with greedy people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and so on. We have to learn how to work around these people, accept us and move on. Once you learn to change to better you, other people may follow. Good conduct has proven far more effective than words to encourage others to change.When it comes to your love life,there some delicate ways to handle unfavorable situations.Its a kind of mastery and takes effort to perfect it

As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and that hunger will guide you to discover new ways to better you. In time as you start to feel better, you will see a need to exercise, eat right, and hang out with positive influences,want to do away with that special person that had hurt you earlier,even when you know right inside of you that that you truly still feel some great unresolved binding for the preson and so on. Once you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to labor to achieve your goals.And of you goals may br recaliaming that love that went wrong.You still can call back the time.You still can bring him or her back to where you two were and you two can still carry on all the beautiful dreams you shared.Dont rock the boat yet.All hope is not lost,all you need to do now is to learn how to be completely in control of your live and your love life especially[/b]

You may be wondering what a male is doing at costimetic area.TRUTH is that i have lot of women both old and young as clients and friends and this issue of may Kay was a hot topic not long ago.

Let me repeat what i told them here.First thing is to determine if it is good for you, not because some recommended it or because you got free from a friend who just came back from the states.If its good for your skin, go ahead and use it.If its not ,look for alternative.I am into production of some eatables right now but i think a costimetics line will be great,especially now that China products are getting less and lesser quality by day.Time we have an indigenous cos manufacturer that will be reckoned with.There are a couple of them now though but i really feel they aren't doing enough.

I dint know how to start this.I got a call this morning from a very good friend of mine to advise her.We were in school together,were still friends and added her husband to us.I have a lot of things with the husband,i can even say we two became closer than i am with the wife.I am saying to serve as an intro so that you will understand the shook i have for this wonderful couple and what i heard this morning.
She called me to get some advise from,knowing that it come natural to me to fix those kinda personal issues for people.
To cut it very short,this lovely friend[ a lawyer] whose husband[a business man] appears to be madly in love with, said her husband went ahead and married another wife,rented an apartment for her.And she is heavily pregnant.

She said a friend of her call her and asked if her husband is at home,she answered that her husband travelled to Abuja.

Being someone who has so much trust on her husband, she can not argue when her hubby says he is going Abuja ANY WHERE TOO FREQUENTLY.Knowing that her hubby is a clearing agent too.

Now, this people has three kids together,two boys and one girls.The wife doesn't worry him about anything.

I was forced to ask her what she thought of their sex life and she said GREAT.
She may be reading this,though i had advised here and still promised to see her hubby this evening.But can you say something to this beautiful and wonderful lady.Her life seems shattered but ,like i toldher,SHE NEEDS TO BE CALM AND NOT TAKE RASH DECISION.Your frank opinion will go a long way in helping this lady.Will text her right away to log in from her office

Sisitwoman,are u reading this?you appear real to me.read sme topcs you dropped.Iput you up for the BEST FEMALE MATURED POSTER

I HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT YOUR SITUATION IS STILL VERY REDEEMABLE, YES, THE ONLY THING THAT HASN'T GOT SOLUTION IS DEATH.IF YOU ARE BRAVE ENOUGH TO WRITE THIS HERE, I BELIEVE SOMEHOW THAT YOU STILL LOVE HERE, THEN HERE IS WHAT I WILL ADVICE NOW, ASK YOURSELF WHAT CAUSED HER UNFAITHFULNESS.FROM MY EXPERIENCES IN REPAIRING RELATIONSHIP, MOST GIRLS CONFIDE IN ME WHEN CONSULTING THAT THE REASON THEY GO OUTSITE EVEN THOUGH THEY REALLY LOVE THEIR PARTNER IS JUST TO MAKE MEET UP WITH SOME PERSONAL OBLIGATION, GIRLS DON'T GET OFFENDED BUT I AM AN AUTHORITY IN LOVE ISSUES AND HAD TALKED WITH LOTS OF LOVERS WHO ARE IN CONFLICT, PLEASE TRY AND GET THIS BOOK BELOW[NOT WRITTEN BY ME], BUT BELIEVE ME, YOU WILL GET ALL THE ADVISE YOU MAY EVER NEED NOW AND IN THE FUTURE, ITS LOVE AND LIFE CHANGING.LETS KNOW WHAT BECOMES OF YOU TWO, DON'T QUIT, PLEASE TRY TO PICK UP SOME LESSONS FROM WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU, ONE MORE QUESTION BEFORE I GO, IS SHE REMORSEFUL?

The reason is still very far but i think i completely agree that those men who do that are SHAMELESS and has no respect for thier spouse.
Hey, hey, someone said its cheaper, is it as cheap as bringing shame to your lovely wife and entire household?Is it as cheap as being so socially irresponsible?

BIG BIG CONGRATS MY SIS.MAY YOU HAVE A BLISSFUL MARRIAGE.

Cowboys owner Jerry Jones did not deny the team is discussing the possible release of Owens in late February.

“There are several decisions on our roster we have to look at,” Jones said at the time. “This is the time of year we do that. I’m not trying to be trite, but as you all know we’re evaluating players in college, we’re evaluating free agents and we’re evaluating our own roster. This is an ongoing thing, not any different than this time last year.”

The Cowboys paid Owens a $12 million signing bonus just last year, included as part of a new four-year, $34 million deal.

There has been talk since the end of the Cowboys’ 9-7 season, in which they missed the playoffs, that they would consider cutting Owens to improve locker room morale.

Wow. There possibility of the ‘Boys cutting Owens has always been there since the season ended, but just a couple months ago it appeared that Jerry Jones would hold onto the toxic wideout and roll the dice that he wouldn’t be a distraction next season.

Maybe Jones has finally realized that talent can only take a team so far and that chemistry plays a major role into whether or not it’s successful. T.O. has always been a fantastic player, but despite his competitive nature, he’s selfish and can be incredibly disruptive. Now that he’s gone, maybe some guys like Tony Romo will play with an air of freshness next season, even though there’s no doubt Dallas is losing one of its best players.

As for possible destinations for T.O., the Raiders certainly come to mind, although he’ll likely want to go to a competitor. Would anyone be surprised if Daniel Synder made a play and Owens goes to Washington in an effort to try to stick it up the Cowboys’ asses next season?

Cowboys owner Jerry Jones did not deny the team is discussing the possible release of Owens in late February.

“There are several decisions on our roster we have to look at,” Jones said at the time. “This is the time of year we do that. I’m not trying to be trite, but as you all know we’re evaluating players in college, we’re evaluating free agents and we’re evaluating our own roster. This is an ongoing thing, not any different than this time last year.”

The Cowboys paid Owens a $12 million signing bonus just last year, included as part of a new four-year, $34 million deal.

There has been talk since the end of the Cowboys’ 9-7 season, in which they missed the playoffs, that they would consider cutting Owens to improve locker room morale.

Wow. There possibility of the ‘Boys cutting Owens has always been there since the season ended, but just a couple months ago it appeared that Jerry Jones would hold onto the toxic wideout and roll the dice that he wouldn’t be a distraction next season.

Maybe Jones has finally realized that talent can only take a team so far and that chemistry plays a major role into whether or not it’s successful. T.O. has always been a fantastic player, but despite his competitive nature, he’s selfish and can be incredibly disruptive. Now that he’s gone, maybe some guys like Tony Romo will play with an air of freshness next season, even though there’s no doubt Dallas is losing one of its best players.

As for possible destinations for T.O., the Raiders certainly come to mind, although he’ll likely want to go to a competitor. Would anyone be surprised if Daniel Synder made a play and Owens goes to Washington in an effort to try to stick it up the Cowboys’ asses next season?

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I wonder why it happens.Just today,i was talking with someone ,he looked me at my face and told me it can happen tome.REALLY?It doesn't happen to anybody,the people who involve in it go for it,Abbi?Is it that your partner doesn't satisfy you or that you dint have an iota of regard for your relationship?
Come to think of it,if you must have extra sex,wont look else where apart from your very household?

I heard that one man who people have great regard for in the church was caught red handed having great sex with his 'dirty' house help.What do you have to say to such person.?
Lets treat sex and marriage with some respect

Hey what is going on here?I think we will grow and move faster in development if we consider everybody and anybody as just humans without thinking of where they come from,as long as they are upright in character.
Haven't we learnt some lessons from America?An African descendant being the President is enough to treat every Nigerian as one.Because we are all same and the same.
Anyway,i believe little talks like goes a long way in reducing the growing global recession heat.

Anybody with SWEET IDEAS of how to make easy money?

Recession is not for me and my family.It wont be yours too.GOD FORBID.But there are some certain things regarding money that we all need to inculcate.
Try to make sure that you earn more than you spend daily.I have some ideas of how you too can be the envy of your neighbors.

Being romantic can go a long way in keeping relationship 'tight'.It may not necessarily be
the everyday stroking of hairs and holding hands but rather being romantic even when
you don't feel like it.If i ask this question:"who is a romantic lover?".Everybody
will jump up in affirmation.But the truth is that there are so many little romantic ideas
we al ignore.Your partner may not necessarily be happy,even though he or she doesn't
complain.Let me ask you:"when was the last time you took time to satisfy your lover in
bed,even if you weren't in the mood?"
Yes,there are times you just don't want to be 'touched'
by if you really are the considerate lover,and you know that at that very moment your
partner needs you,did you give him or her the attention he or she sought?You may not end
up in bed but your gesture will go a long way in reassuring him or here that that you
really are down at that moment.Reason along with your partner and more importantly,
COMMUNICATE.Saving a relationship takes determination and i always advise you shouldn't
wait till so many things go wrong before you wake up.Give that required attention,talk to
each other continually,spend time together,date again

And speaking of memorable…

Handmade gifts always work well on Valentine's: they shout out "quality" and thoughtfulness, and they have the added benefit of letting your loved one know you've given them something absolutely unique. Luckily, you don't always have to hand-make them yourself, though: this beautiful glass heart necklace is handmade by professionals, so you don't have to spoil your gift with the "Blue Peter effect!"!
Think up something unique and knowning your lover,you will be able to know how best to add a little 'surprisy' personalised gift.Be creative, it doesnt hhave to be expensive.
I am really buys now but i hope i will have more time before the val day to hit this page and get us more good val gift tips, love ya all

There are issue that relate to love and relationship that we all or do i say some try to endure ,yet it puts the person who endures off romatically towards his or her partner.
I want to start with SNORING.Has anyone here have a lover who snores while sleeping and how do you feel when you try to correct but always meet a brick wall.
I went into researching this very habit and many more.Lets be frank with our opinion please.We all will learn.I have some revealing tips that will benefit us all

When i see or hear people say that Nigerians cant kiss or love ,i feel it is a disservice to us,guys,that your man cant doesnt mean that majority can not,ok?Anyway,i love the way everyone is talking now. .This is jus the begining of good things.FREEDOM