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I am a great supporter of the lady-folks BUT there is one thing i really do not support.When a young woman is unmarried ,she does anything to keep her shape[not all of them though but majority] but will throw cution to the wind soon as she marries and become another big 'screen' in the house.Does it mean they dont wana be attractive to thier husbands again?We aint talking of the health implecation of growing too fat yet,
We want ladies to help us here,

@Secretz,
you are absolutely right honey
she should just pray and if what they have is too real,let her spirit not be dterred

Dreams are just dreams,not too good to eat in the dreams[we are told] but seeing a loved one therein may not be a bad idea at all especially since the two of you are still very much together.

So many people cant stay to see thier partners have a 'good' look at others in thier presence.It is not too healthy though,i am thinking it says something like, "there is no trust in this relationship", what do you think?

@Poster,
what made you beleive or think that this sais-soonn--to-be-mother-in-law of yours may not approve you as a DAUGHTER? Has she said asmuch to her son or to you on the phone?I will tell you something here,EVERY of her actions and reaction will be based on how much strong or weak your lover is, did you get me?you can read it again.If your lover loves you enough and believes you are the Angel that will colour his life,i can tell you from experience that he can 'convince' anybody,whoever the person is,to take you the way the person takes him, very simple.So just 'work' on your man but do not let himknow that you are scared of his people,just let him know that you will be happy to be accepted fully by every member of his family and you two can cooly talk it over and move-in, ok? BEST OF LUCK

@Poster,
whci of the Savanna Banks are you talking of?Most banks now are staying awake allnight to be afloot and you are mentioning one that had been forgotten.Anyway,good luck to you.

If nairaland will crash,why hasnt facebook crashed?No files in nairaland and you are tlking of crashing.It Seun is reading this and will just look up for more upgrades, SIMPLE

The simplest thing is to be careful if you must patronise these thieves.As for me,they will never see me again!Beating them or setting them up is a BIG waste of unavailable time.They aint worth the energy

After loosing =N=100,000 to them there last year,whenever, i drive past that place i still see how hungry they look despite their dubiousness

Everybody knows that Air Port Hotel is no go area as far as changing money is concerned.But its good this is brought up here so that many who does not know yet will talk correction.There are so many other places you can change your money and walk out in perfect peace.My question is:DO PEOPLE STILL CHANGE MONEY THERE? As for me,i see those people standing along that Aworowo Rd/AirPort Hotel ,in guise of changing money as mere thieves.
Look for other location to do your transaction.If you cant find,get to the nearest bank.Its better you 'loose' so tiny sum as bank rate than getting high blood pressure from those cursed beings.

What he did isnt good.It is not just a question of talking for the sake of it.Do i ask who drinks and drives here and whose life is endangered.As much as we wouldnt want them over they to victimize our dear Mikel,we should take note that looking at from sane angle,the people that made that law wants every driver to drive and stay alive period.My only issue here is that this is just one of those things that so many does but we shouldnt single Mikel out here as if he had done what hasnt been done in history.
We all love and are proud of him but we want him to be alive too.
I believe this must corrected himself.

NO CIVILIZED,SANE MAN,WILL BEAT HIS WIFE OR ANYBODY FOR THE MATTER!
Regardless of your religion,dont you have conscience?

Yea, On the wedding night,you discover she isnt a virgin and not just that.She has been far spent

You can absolutely have 'pocket-size',small wedding here in Nigeria.Now look at it this way,if you set your priority well and know the limit of your purse,will it be better you wedd and go abegging the next morning.Even if you aint going hungry next morning but will have to over-adjust becuase you wedded,wont it be good you wedd small and help your lives positively with the finances you have.
FACT IS THAT WEDDING DOESNT COST MONEY ,WHAT COST MONEY IS THE PARTY AFTER THE WEDDING.SO WHY DONT YOU PARTY TO YOUR SIZE?

How will you react if the sweet heart of your who for almost two years told you that because she has never done ,you two will have to wait till after wedding.Then at the very night with all expectations to go ahead and be the very first guy in there,you discover that she has done it over and over and over and she even confesses that she decieved you.This is serious and i know that he is reading this now.Your frank opinion will go a long way.He is shatered.

@Pepeye,
u are absolutely right.There is a kinda inner peace and fulness one have when he or she gets the real person, not those that mayyr because others are marrying.But being in it with reason and investing in it just like any other thing and be ready to reap the rewards.You will even live longer[study proves] if you are happily married for a long time.Moreso you get more value from being married whne you are compactible with your partner

Some talks like this aint for the fun of it.How do i understand a young lady who says when her hubby touches her phones,he would as well leave her alone.Same thing with guy.Dont we all think it is better ,safer,happier to live cool and plain life?If one doenst live plain even at home,how do we expect his behaviors towards others?

If EFCC are really sincere as they would like us to believe,why do we still have some many politician both past and present still going around and even with extra security details?I weep for Nigeria.

@Poater,
Be truthful to urself.If u wana date here why make it a public discourse?

This is rather a kind of scenerio many couples are in,today.One stops the other from touching his or her phone.What could be the possible reason for that?Is it that there is kinda hidden things you dont want your partner to know?Though i know quite well that it can just be for plain privacy but my question is :is she or he not matured enough to know that you relationships are just plain and business-like or is it becuase you cheat?I am wondering becuase i see lots of couples going out of thier way to maltreat the other just because he or she touched a mere moblie phone.Hey!,lets be frank to ourselves,if you dont have anything to hide and you know that your spouse isnt a kid,why stop him or her from touching that 'little' GMS

This is a difficult one here but they are things that comes up ones in a while in life especially in some relationships.What will you do if you 'catch' your sweet pumping off with some one else?
Someone asked me this question today and her love life seemed to be falling apart after she caught her man doing it with another lady.What will be your reaction if it were you?

Was once caught while i ws trying pick up a chick while she was buying things for dinner lol!, This was way back in Uni[8 rs ago] She out earlier than i expected from the small market and caught me RED handed spinning the hell of a chick,

@Truphie,

I like it when people correct themselves but may i ask you something here?Did you try to fix 'spark' in your relationship or you didnt just love the guy in the first place.I hv heard somebody tell me she was 'managing' to date her guy.Is it not funny?You hv one life to live and if you can add some little spice to make it worthwhile,why not?If the guy has one or two other qualities you liked in the first place,you could have 'blessed' his life by 'bringing' the 'spark' in him.I can bet he was just ignornt.How about.Not asking you to go back anyway.
Cheers babe

It all depends on what you call mental gym, fuuny one there anyway.But atimes cant one just be friends with someone without that 'pestering' or 'needy'attitude?

@CECE84,
Happy u are experiencing married life in its fullness.The issue is that there are several misconceptions about marriage and happiness therein.So many unmarried people ironically beleive that in marriage there will never be disagreement, NO,NO,NO.The thing is making every effort to make things work out between two persons involved

How will you react if somebody your brother is sleeping with wants to sleep with you too by all means?I was asked this question today.I treid my best to offer him advise as i could but if you have something more to say to him, feel free, let it roll

@SISTERWOMAN,

u kniow something?Any serious minded man CAN NOT WASTE his time trying to follow wemen up and down just because he sees her in any forum.How many are tey followinglike that?Dont they hv something they do?Hey i am looking for workeres.I need some obless guys that will work in my factory,BUT they hv tobe serious minded.I am serois.Instead sitting infront of a Pc all day trying to make some women loose thier peace.

@SISITAWAN,can you read thru something?I am writing something and will like a plain minded woman to look at it from a woman's angle. U CAN BUZZ ME.
God bless

The issue SISTAWOMAN raised here is very disturbing,.Hey if you are one those that want to go to American by any means,i will tell u point blank that if you coulnt make good living and earn enough money right here,i dont see any possibility of you earning that in America.NOTE the word EARNINGunless you are going over ther for some other reason.I must also tell you,i should know.,the best place in the whole world for you to enjoy whatever 'little' money you have is NAIJA

People should smarten up,acquire some skill,try to be good for themselves.One more question before i go.do you have any good reason for wanting to go to AMERICA?

The little problem i hv wt people [both here and in real life] is that they do not value useful tips,especially when its free.We will keep writing anyway,soem will get the values they are meant to deliver.
Cheers

@IKEMEFA,
Hit me here:.......,lets talk,i am 29 too.will be happy to invite u to my boggy