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taylor89:
Nothing has changed

Lol

Ndi developers

stanluiz:
Which Boko Haram and bandits are fading away ?

You mean the ones in Nigeria or the one in Jupiter ?

If you like believe it or not but they're fading away and this isn't even a gradual typa fading

Arkadrob:
When you as a man gives your woman more than he receives, she will bear it in mind that she can get everything from you for little effort.

It's like she literally does nothing and for that you give her everything.

Don't be that man.

Aswear no be lie.

ednut1:
there is no kia or hyundia that is 3-4 m that was in 2014. Why you dey lie bro

Don't be a dummy. goan check the Toks price and stop being emotional

Innoson is too expensive and fortunately, this Hyundai Accent of 4-5m will do the exact job Innoson vehicle of 8,9m would do (Same reason Oyo state government ditched them for Kia.) So Kudos to Enugu state governor for being economical esp for a state without money

#430/kg here in Umuoji

1972xy:
I have had the opportunity to have served as military officer in the East.
Here, then the entire East was so safe to move round at any time . From Onitsha to Ohafia - Arochukwu ,the roads were so safe to drive.
There was peace and love among the people, and there was contentment .
But now,things has fallen apart. Peace is missing. Love is missing . Contentment is gone.
These pillars are the result of what the East is facing today.
Kanu is just an excuse for all these criminalities but let him be released today these gun men will still remain in the bush asking for ransome from people .
The ibos should come together and repair their land as there is no other place like home . Don't be deceived.

Just leave them alone. Lagos, SW and the Yorubas seem to be their problem at the moment

Snowx:
I can bet my balls....these miscreants are saboteurs been paid off to to destroy Nnamdi kanu's dream and make him stay in prison for a very long time..those guys are not Igbos even if they are Igbos they are sabotaging the effort of a genuine self determination

If they are not Igbos. who are they?

madridguy:
From the OP write up he's willing to abide the condition of his baby mama. Check his previous post concerning this issue. He can't let his daughter go and the condition for having his daughter is bringing additional five people.

Bro with a court order he can have custody of the child if he's ready to take her to custody or partial custody. And a proof is rendering evidences she doesn't have resources enough to cater for the child and most importantly the child's mental health especially staying amongst a family that's Nuclear but yet Extended

Pierohandsome:
Your baby mama is selfish towards you, she only cares about her siblings even at your own expense. I detest women like that. She wants to sacrifice you for her siblings, that is wickedness

Very selfish, lackadaisical and inconsiderate and I hate women like that with passion. If the siblings were to come from the guy's side, I'm very sure she'd refuse in the strongest language

They'd probably be eating 1 Congo of rice ,1 Congo of beans or 5kg of semo at a go anytime they want to eat, then calculate twice or 3x daily, that's 80k or more every month. ehhh Oloun o

Ab025:
How can you agree to two of your wife's sisters living with you after wedding, together with your wife....?

This is marriage and not family meeting or reunion o..

By the way, Don't they have where they are presently staying...can't they remain there after the wedding?

For your wife-to-be to even utter that statement sef.....I doubt if she really likes you or your ability to "provide".

#My own thoughts sha...

Do you know the most annoying thing, I don't want to know how Angelic the girl might look or seem, she'll never agree to it if the siblings were to be from the Husband's side

But I doff my hat to any guy dating a girl with so many siblings sha. If your siblings pass 2 and ur family ain't rich enough, I ain't doing no Poverty Alleviating Relationship. I'm not marrying

madridguy:
Sincerely, my heart is troubled reading your message. Life is just full of sorrows.

Bro, if you have the resources please allow her to come in with her siblings, as the first born, she's just like mother to them.
There's lot of reward helping orphan.

How bout the lot of stress helping the Orphan will give him??. He said he can only afford to cater for two isn't you an advocate for the girl not satisfied?? Do you know the current cost of taking care of 4 people at the moment?? Then I'm sure she'll expect him to also buy them clothes. lets not even talk bout the disrespect that'd follow on the longer run

Tob456 A wise old man use to say "It is very easy to invite a mad man to your house with just a finger but pushing him away with 10fingers will be very difficult"

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids disorders that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec

I'm not a prophet but I can see some refugees from somewhere muddy bringing in their fake ear piece and other fake phone accessories and the other hawker's wing to usher in their Gala and lacasera to sell to every trader there and in the next 5years claim to Develop the Lekki trade zone and that the Chinese came to learn from them

Sweetrosie:
Stop deceiving yourself

no one is deceiving themselves here and this should have been uploaded to give a counter claim.

Sweetrosie:
You no dey shame?? Show me where Anambra fire service is written on it?

Obi commissioned fire trucks no be mouth

If this came in place of a fire truck. don't you think that translates to the state not having a fire truck??

seetomorrow:
If you show too much good and care for a woman, she will definitely use it against you. They value you when they see you as a careless and unserious person, tje start impressing you.
Treat them any how and you will testify how many of them flock around you. Try it and see.
Foolish gender.

Sadly this is nothing but the truth bro. I've tried this trick on bout 3 different babes and it all worked. One among them did POP two weeks ago, saw the status and din tell her congratulations, din call and acted IDC. after two weeks she finally called today and was I'm wicked, heartless bla bla I din care to call and wish her happy pop nor did I care to ask how her journey went.

tbh the moment you start treating em like egg, you've lost it as a guy

iInjureHerYansh:
Learn game. The other guy actually got game that was why he snatched away from you.
Let's just say that's your portion for now till you learn game. See how troway over 30k street hoe. Hope say you Deh flex your guys once once sha.
If not she really did a good job by milking and dumping you and I commend her

Lol

Gaspardd:
The last date i had with a babe, her beauty is breath taking. Told her there is a serene river around and would show her.
Bought some drinks and well garnished pork meat. Everything was just 2,500 naira. The date ended with a kiss.
The diff btw our my situation and urs is that we (me and this beautiful lady) both have sense. We both understand that money is hard earned and shld not to be thrown around foolishly.

Meanwhile in ur own case, u re a 23yo with no focus begging for validation. Don't put the cart b4 d horse bro. Stay focused, leave all this women stuff for now, seek thyself, know thyself and be thyself.
By that time, the ones that have sense will be attracted to you while the shitbrains ones will be attracted to their likes.....

This is the best I seem to have read so far. it's obvious to know the guy's still a child. like who atm spends bout 40k on a date with a girl you barely know??

If he foolishly keeps spending like this, it'd not be long before he goes bankrupt

LordviccoDaGuru:
I Have received my monthly stipend today as usual, Man is nothing without Vawlence

Lmao

Fujiyama:
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What does this even mean?



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So what are civilians supposed to do about this? After all, civilians have always been told to stay out of military matters. This is the result.

Nigerians just want the military to do their jobs and end the insecurity - they don't want any more excuses!



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You are being economical with the truth.

The man's problems started with the video/audio recording on the front where he was reporting to his superiors and affirming that his men were not "running away". The video leaked and the man was done after that.



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I remember Ali's story - he had a reputation as a competent tank commander. But the blame for his and others deaths should be placed where it belongs. Where was military intelligence when the point men in the war effort - men crucial to the military's success - were being tracked and eliminated?



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I don't know what this means. What I do know is that if a soldier is hurt or killed anywhere in this country by criminals (who invariably disappear after the deed), innocent people end up paying a very heavy price. It happens time and time again.

If the military can level a village and kill aged men and women in blanket retribution for the killing of their personnel by unknown persons - then they should be able to completely finish bandits that have taken over Nigerian villages, towns and highways. Instead, all we keep hearing are excuses. Nobody has any time for that.

lol tbh I don't even know where to start from with you. Yeah I agree with you the military are incompetent. Happy now?

DOptical:
He's also a thief and incompetent! The economy was Moribund under him. How do one even use 58billion to print 2b notes? The audacity!

Read what I wrote, you obviously din read it

DOptical:
Emefiele was a problem. Using 44billion dollars to print 2 b naira notes? What about the forex misuse?

That's the exact thing I'm still saying. they used him to loot to and now he's getting all the blame, that is the game plan. He was foolish to not have resigned bfr all these things started. If he starts talking now that will be the end of him

Fujiyama:
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'They' can't fight.
'They' are a ragtag bunch of drug addicts.
'They' are low life idiots with guns
And so on.

Yet 'they' decide everything about road travel in Nigeria. 'They' decide when Nigerians travel, where they travel to, or if Nigerians even travel at all.

When Nigerians simply ask why all this is going on in a country that has a standing army, all they get in return are excuses and buck passing. Yet not a day goes by in this country without some friction between service personnel and civilians over 'respect' that the military claim they are not getting.

Nigerians are tired of excuses. They just want the military to do their jobs, full stop.

Perhaps you fail to understand the military is not an Independent body that can just act on their own without daring consequences. Look I've heard of a Wing comdr who have not been promoted till date cuz he bombed Boko haram after being told to stand down and he couldn't cuz they were much and there was no better time to kill them in large numbers. Go and read about Maj. General OG Adeniyi who killed boko haram so much that Army had to court Marshall and withdrew him from the theatre of operation/command and many of his soldiers imprisoned. How bout Colonel Samaila, Lt Colonel Abu Ali, Lt Colonel Sakaba that were all killed cux of their Patriotic resilience and dedication to ending Insurgency in Nigeria

The truth is, what you don't know about insecurity in Nigeria is more than you

9jaRealist:
The acting CBN Gov seems like a banking IT specialist…
If that’s the case, he most likely won’t be there for 4 years… But is rather a placeholder until a substantive CBN Gov is appointed. >

Tinubu would make him the Gov

DOptical:
If he's in collude with the thieving Emefiele, a better technocrat had better been brought in.

Actually the truth is, Emefiele wasn't the problem. Buhari was and other cabal that Buhari gave power. You can't tell me all what Emefiele was doing was his policy. He was just a pawn in the hands of the powers that be and that was why the Presidential guards brigade thr the CDs was the one protecting him. So we should not blame him

DOptical:
Tinubu is an economist. He knows what to do. I think We need more Forex savings. We already got some of our debt relieved by the removal of fuel subsidy.

Meanwhile, I hope all the CBN officials are removed, including the promoted Shonubi guy. They're in affiliation with Emefiele. When corruption is already deep neck in an establishment, it would be difficult for them to stop, best way is to remove all of them and replace them.. Heck, Emefiele knew why he handed over to the Shonubi guy. All of them are in collude.

The problem of Nigeria is corruption at its peak. I hope immunity is removed from all government officials and anyone found looting is jailed!

i just checked, the Acting CBN governor Shonubi happen to come from SW and fortunately na our person mai we pity am allow am do this 4years with Tinubu abeg

twilliamx:
The people that gave room to reasoning the removal ended up not removing it. At times do the right thing first and face the consequences.

But Sir this removal without functional refinery in place/working or the increment in salary for the masses to meet up with the current hardship is at all unconsidering on the path of the FG which is not good that's why we're criticising. Independent folks like me who work from home is really not feeling it but how bout the numerous folks who the news now report are taking to trekking massively??

We've just gotta feel for em

VeryWickedPrick:
That 7k is equivalent to 1.5k in that 2021 so go back and ask for your balance.

In the year 2009 A class mate once helped me with food cuz I was hungry, sad, life was flashing outta me and was even crying sef cuz I was still young at secondary school, She saw me and asked me why I was crying, I explained it to her and she was like oh sorry and she left, 5 minutes later she brought to me some puff puff and bons that quickly restored life back to me

After that, Adeola has done many good to me but you see that single act of kindness and humanity in 2009 put Adeola a place in my heart that as long as I've got and she ask me, even if that's all my worth, I'm dividing it into two and I'm giving her half. We attended same University and probably she felt she had my mumu button cuz anything she said she want, I was always buying it for her (she din know that 2009 kindness was what was speaking for her)

I can swear with anything rn that just like OP, she can never remember if I should tell her todat this is why I use to do anything for her. She's forgotten but that seed then has now become a tree inside me. THAT'S LIFE

hashtagged:
Well I have had this issue for a couple of years back and I thought to myself no matter how I prayed or tried I would always lose.

One of the greatest tools of the devil is making you feel you can never be free, but the irony of it is that we were given freedom right from the moment Jesus died for us on the cross and we just have to accept it

Other tragedies followed suit, I became depresses, sucidial and very very sick and I started to hate God, until I entered one evening service in church and the topic was Don't give the devil any open door into your life.

I began to ponder when God revealed to me I had been giving the flesh open spaces into my life by the kind of music and movies I watch, things I do and ways I lived my life.

I stopped the movies, music, sinful lifestyle and replaced them with the reading the Bible and listening to teachings from men and women of God with God's help. You see God wants what's best for us, throw away all pre conceived ideas that God is cruel he is not, he loves us and we are his children too. And the sexual urge died, the depression left and I was healed of what the doctors couldn't treat.


If this message could bring just one person to God, I would be glad.
I pray God would delivers everyone reading this as you seek his face and his words in Jesus name amen.

How long have your abstinence been now?