Things like this bother me. So many people who look like they are doing well - do we preach to AKA do we preach to Costa - no. But they also need Jesus Christ desperately. Sorry Costa. Sorry Sorry.
By God's grace no. And its not out of pride I say I am married to my OWN husband. So much happens that many things, even as an adult just dont make sense. For example - a number of these situations had come across and I was genuinely puzzled. Internet tends to answer well thats why I wanted to ask the people I have come to for many years for their wise opinions - Nairalanders. I have a few specific examples even of actual couples around us:
EXAMPLE ONE For example in one situation it ended up that the wife was the one now nursing the love sick husband - because the mistress had left. Wonders shall never cease. Imagine at home with my oga and his heart is somewhere else chai. With me having to be patient for him to come around. It is good in a way in this example that the mistress never came back. She even left to another continent so eventually the couple will find their ground - IF and only IF the man doesnt stick his stick in another place. Chai.
EXAMPLE TWO A married man was supporting another mistress throughout. When she found another guy the married man took her to the police chai! A whole police! So that he could get his goods back, specifically the furniture he had boughten for her chai. He went crazy demanding back his items. Forgive me, but this is confusing to me. I dont understand. He should let her be ahbeg. And come back home here to us.
EXAMPLE THREE A married man skipped town with a mistress. In fact they attempted to "start all over" lol! How do you start over with another woman's husband chai! - ehenh, they even had a new baby together. Wonders on this earth. Anyways, it so happened that this married man had big children, a big family in terms of age etc. Well known to the public. All was well until the married man's daughter (the real one) - accomplished a huggggge public achievement. Indeed she became known over night.
Chai, the man skipped and went back home oh. Dumping the mistress in their new country and going back to the fam. As majority men will do. The wife and family took him back with pleasure. Its as if nothing happened. So I am happy that daddy came back home here. I actually know this family. The husband was even publicly preaching about his daughter, how proud he is etc. Chai. I know the mistress actually but I only found out about her on Sunday what was really happening. Some of it prompted my post. Anyways I pray she picks herself up. She actually divorced her own husband fast. But married man did not. Now she has no man but he has a wife wow. The husband really really suffered. God help him please. Oh but Life.
EXAMPLE FOUR The married man was with his mistress for many years. I dont know how you can put yourself as second hand for everything, really not to judge but women must demand better "working conditions". Again I say this with humility Its my husband name I must carry. Its on his will I must be. I must sleep in his bed. I must be publicly be able to go all places, the children - etc all that but let me digress.
So anyways, this married man had been with his sidepiece for a long time. Chai but she moved on one day. She met a white man who gave her the world. Financially she was in a better place - do you know real money? Ah she thrived.
But the husband on the other side was not doing well. We received the pictures (I actually know these people). He drunk himself to a pulp its after he found out -its a miracle he survived. After that his life just went down. In fact, his wife ended up divorcing him. And he wanted the side chick back - but she had already married. A mess. A whole mess.
The wife also moved on and married a bishop. He lost both women but for me both women gained because looking at their lives they are much much in a better place. Mysteries I tell you.
EXAMPLE FIVE - KELLY KHUMALO This one is a public example. If you have been to SA you will know but google her also. If you like football you will know Senzo. I have been to SA and this story is one which for me was the most tantalising. The lady had been with this married man. Publicly. I dont know but I think they had a child together not sure. Anyways, on one night out in the township, guns fired, they say robbery but Senzo passed.
What was to follow was just tew much. Ladies, if you are with a married man, please it is no journey. You have to leave because its so wrong on so many levels (and let me not be the judge because how can I tell you to live your life? People make their own decisions and they decide what works for them so who am I to talk) I will just say one thing.
It is not a joke, that this married guy died in the hands of his mistress. Is there no fear galavanting with the married guy, that he dies there? - chai!!!
Anyways, Senzo died. At the funeral, public one at that, the wife was honoured and she grieved freely. She even designed a beautiful good bye for her husband. The mistress on the other hand if am not wrong - they regarded her as bad luck. She acquired national hate.
It was also a tough case, Senzo was a national treasure.
EXAMPLE SIX - JACOB ZUMA Jay Z to some extent I respect for real. Because all his women know about each other. But the trouble is as a woman, the first wife, you are just being brought all these women - even if it is "legally" it must somehow tear at the soul. I remember his first wife, the day he married I dont know if it was wife number 4 or 5 - that lady looked sooo sad. How do you even eat cake. Next we hear its this young 18 year old fat girl - who is also his wife now. Chai. As a wife I cant oh. I just cant and I wont. My husband will not even let the words second wife past his mouth.
EXAMPLE SEVEN - PRINCE WILLIAM AND KATE All of us women love this couple. If anyone could send me a book written by Princess Kate I will take my tea out it in our English garden. With biscuits and a deep earl grey reading till dusk. Chai. This one na be the epitome. Of course there were issues. But this man straighten himself up and come back to his ever patient beautiful wife. Anyways, they say the royal men are playas. Only Harry because Meghan got him by the ballz. Heavenly Father may I get to taste heaven here on earth. But also I know I am married to a human man I am not unrealistic as a wife. I have to forgive also - just not stupidly day and night like a idiot.
Anyways my rantings and writings are just that, all these, they are not for free. And the consequences are DEVESTATING! I am not an advisor I am also not unrealistic, in fact I wished I could just say one word and all this doesnt happen but we cant pretend away bad decisions.
May God give grace to make decisions that take our families forward.
Pastoshizzy: Read the scriptures well. JESUS needed no introduction when He met 'legion'. Demons are spirit beings that have been in existence before men. They are supernatural. Peaple atimes sell their souls for money/power to be living temple of demons today. Knowledge is not power if not properly discerned. There is the Holy Spirit of GOD (our guide in all sufficiency) & there is also a satanic adaptatn known as 'divination' (like the little girl that was exorcised through Paul and Silas).
Your experience was an attempt by demonic powers (using that man as a medium) to lure you into a demonic plot. People that are attentive to divination and so many types of (demonic) spiritual mediums are easy prey for the enemy, in order to lure them into ungodly rites and unscriptural activities that binds the spirit into a non-conditional spiritual generational abuse.
Never give attention to cheap demonic dramas, even if it's a demon in a white suit (and e aint telln you JESUS CHRIST He the way, the truth and life) IGNORE HIM.
Actually its just a random person who we were sharing once off transportation with. I would never meet him again as literally the only window of meeting him was literally a couple of minuits long.
I just thought it strange that a person I never met was talking that way. In a way I was ok about it. I had been doing back to back midnight praise for days and I had received visions of enemies snake eggs lair being found and then the same lair being burned and crashed into powder.
I shook their lair and thats where that guy came from. He was actually a manifestation of an exit of a serious demonic on my life.
It just was too accurate that I had to come and ask the children of God in the know - experience wise.
Looking back they manifested themselves after the consistent midnight praise. I at the time didnt understand.
To know more about it read this confession by a former pastor how they get the demonic spirit to know the secret in someone's heart. I believe this confession as the former pastor has gone into hiding and is looking for a way for God to set him free.
Exposing Pastors Using marine Powers: Mermaid spirit. (Real Life Testimony) Video Transcript 0:00 a true life story why you should be very 0:03 careful what church you attend and 0:05 so-called men of God you follow a 0:08 must-read my name is Chi Reuben oku I am 0:14 a pastor but I have disappointed God and 0:16 I really don't know where to begin to 0:18 tell my story I must tell you the truth 0:21 I can't really say if I have a call or 0:24 not I was a Sunday school teacher in my 0:28 church for nine years at Kaduna in 1999 0:32 I was led to start a church but from the 0:35 experiences I have gathered now I cannot 0:38 say that I was actually led by the Holy 0:40 Spirit to start that church as at 2008 I 0:44 was not making any progress both 0:47 spiritually and materially I saw many 0:50 churches which began several years after 0:52 mine and they were making waves and are 0:55 still making progress at a point I did 0:59 not know what to do again and after 1:02 discussing with my wife I decided to 1:04 approach the general overseer of a 1:07 church that began seven years after I 1:09 started my ministry and explained to him 1:12 that personally I was not making any 1:14 headway and same with my ministry my 1:18 ministry would grow up to 200 people and 1:21 after a short period it would shrink to 1:24 50 people and at times it will grow to 1:26 150 and shrink to 40 people I approached 1:31 him because the growth in his church was 1:33 fast 1:34 he began his church in 2006 and by 2012 1:38 he was recording 11 thousand people on a 1:41 Sunday service and he was also making 1:44 good money and writing in big cars 1:46 including the latest Jeeps after 1:49 listening to me he promised to help me 1:51 solve my problem he said I needed to be 1:55 empowered and that it was going to cost 1:57 me some money besides I need to have a 2:00 big and strong heart then he asked me if 2:03 I have got a strong heart and I told him 2:06 that I have as long as it is not going 2:09 to involve killing a fellow human being 2:12 he asked me thrice if I have a strong 2:14 heart and I consistently gave him the 2:17 same answer again he asked me if I want 2:20 a single empowerment or double 2:22 empowerment and I asked him which one is 2:24 better 2:25 and he said double empowerment was 2:27 better but it will cost me a lot of 2:28 money and had after the empowerment I 2:31 was going to be told how to maintain and 2:33 renew the power this time I became 2:37 afraid and I asked him if the 2:39 maintenance and renewal involved any 2:40 ritual he said know that whatever the 2:43 renewal and maintenance will involve are 2:45 just normal things that I was already 2:47 doing so I should not be afraid he said 2:51 I should go and raise three hundred and 2:53 fifty thousand naira 2:54 which I had to borrow from my wife the 2:58 next day I handed over the money and he 3:01 asked me to go and get ready that we 3:03 shall be going to Lagos and Port 3:06 Harcourt I got ready and we took flight 3:09 from Abuja to Lagos that same day in 3:12 Lagos we Lodge at the guesthouse of a 3:15 big ministry and at 11:30 p.m. we were 3:19 now in a private car to the bar Beach at 3:21 the bar beach we were at the bank when 3:24 he spoke some unknown language and told 3:27 me that a woman was going to come out of 3:29 the water and that I should do whatever 3:30 she says as soon as he said that there 3:34 was rumbling on the surface of the water 3:36 and a mermaid came out of it the general 3:39 overseer told me not to be afraid that 3:42 the mermaid would not harm me so I 3:45 picked courage when I saw her when she 3:48 came to the surface of the water the 3:50 lower part of her body was like that of 3:52 a fish my eyes were transfixed to the 3:56 lower part and as she was getting closer 3:58 to me it became human then she came to 4:02 me and asked me to have sex with her 4:04 which I did in the presence of the 4:06 general overseer after having sex with 4:09 her she put her hand in her vagina and 4:12 made a sign of the Cross on my forehead 4:15 and my palm and told me that she had 4:18 empowered me and that I would see the 4:20 difference the mermaid left me went to 4:24 the general overseer 4:25 and brought out a golden cross and chain 4:27 from her stomach and wore it on the neck 4:30 of the general overseer who gave her 4:32 some money the mermaid thanked him and 4:35 went back to the sea all the time she 4:38 spoke in English language that afternoon 4:42 as I was sleeping 4:43 that same mermaid I had sex with at the 4:46 bar beach came to me in my dream and 4:48 told me that to maintain and also 4:50 constantly renew the power I must be 4:53 having sex with the virgin once every 4:55 month so this jolted me out of sleep I 4:58 went to the general overseers room to 5:01 explain what I saw and heard in my dream 5:03 and he said that there was no problem 5:06 when I asked him how I was going to be 5:08 getting there virgins he was going to 5:10 assist me get them but I needed to pay 5:13 for his service 5:14 honestly apostille after this I wanted 5:18 to back out but I had no courage to say 5:20 or do so while at the bar beach I saw 5:24 many pastors who came there with other 5:26 senior pastors it is like a tradition 5:29 there must be a senior pastor bringing 5:32 in younger pastors and I believe each 5:34 senior pastor had a particular mermaid 5:37 they relate with because I saw up to ten 5:39 mermaids attending to some younger 5:41 pastors in the evening we were at a 5:45 local airport in Lagos and took flight 5:47 to Port Harcourt at Port Harcourt we 5:51 lodged in the guest house of another 5:52 ministry and at midnight we got out 5:55 eventually arriving in a very big 5:58 compound of a woman called as a Rani 6:03 inside the compound were many houses we 6:07 met many pastors there including 6:08 first-generation church pastors when it 6:12 was my turn the general overseer paid 6:15 some money and itemized what should be 6:17 done for me when I went into the room I 6:20 was surprised it was a woman again and 6:23 as I was thinking woman again I found 6:27 myself on top of this woman on a bed in 6:30 an adjacent room honestly I have not 6:33 been able to recall how I found myself 6:35 on that bed 6:37 I had sex with her and also sucked her 6:40 breasts after the sexual session she 6:44 made some animal cry and administered 6:46 some stuff into my eyes and I began 6:49 immediately to see into the spirit world 6:51 and also discuss with some spirit beings 6:54 after that she gave me a bottle of olive 6:58 oil which she called do as I say she 7:01 said with this the members all do 7:03 whatever I asked him to do she also gave 7:06 me another bottle of olive oil which she 7:08 called all Singh oil she said with the 7:12 oil I could see deep into people's 7:14 secrets and a bottle of olive oil which 7:17 she called sling oil for slaying people 7:20 under so-called anointing during prayer 7:23 she finally gave me two more bottles of 7:26 olive oil 7:27 the first one is crowd pooling oil and 7:31 the second is touch and follow which I 7:35 will be using to hypnotize women 7:37 especially virgins because I will be 7:39 having sex with them and married women 7:42 to renew the empowerment she said I 7:45 could have sex and immediately after 7:47 that I could go straight into 7:49 administration without having my bath 7:52 she bound me with the oath of secrecy we 7:56 left the same midnight and went back to 7:58 the lodge and the general overseer told 8:01 me to rub the touch and follow oil then 8:04 we went to the visor of the church in 8:06 which we were lodging in their guest 8:09 house I was allowed to minister and I 8:12 burst in to prophesy to my own 8:14 astonishment in the morning two virgins 8:18 were sent to the general overseer and he 8:21 gave me one so we took them to the guest 8:23 house and had sex with them what really 8:25 surprised me was that the young girls 8:28 never asked where we were taking them to 8:30 and why we were taking them there which 8:34 is unusual for virgin girls when the 8:37 girls left the general overseer told me 8:39 that from then onwards I had to 8:42 concentrate my sermons around prosperity 8:44 and stop preaching salvation and 8:47 righteousness messages 8:49 he said I should be sending types to him 8:52 and that he knew part of the tights 8:54 would get to the woman at Port Harcourt 8:58 eventually we left port hark Abuja and 9:01 him back to Kaduna when I began service 9:04 after my return things began to change 9:07 money began to come the crowd also began 9:11 to come and within one week miracles 9:13 deliverance followed by prosperity began 9:16 to happen in the church the spirit of 9:19 prophecy came in like I had never seen 9:21 it in my life I have been having sex 9:25 with virgin girls and married women and 9:27 things have been working out fine for me 9:29 and my family and the church for the 9:32 past six years but I have gotten to a 9:35 stage in which I am no longer feeling 9:37 comfortable with the whole thing I have 9:40 had dreams in which I saw myself burning 9:43 in hell I have had this dream of Hell 9:46 seven times and at one of the dreams I 9:49 awoke only for the same dream to 9:51 continue when I went back to bed I have 9:55 been having sleepless nights and many 9:57 nights I get raped by the same mermaid I 10:00 have lost two of my children 10:02 mysteriously but through the same 10:05 pattern for the past three months I have 10:08 not been able to get virgin girls and 10:11 this has affected the power acid is 10:13 going down I want to get out of this 10:16 whole issue even if it means closing the 10:19 church I have gone to the general 10:21 overseer and he said it was too late for 10:24 me to get out he threatened me with 10:27 mysterious death he said it is not 10:30 possible for me to turn against the 10:32 mermaid and as an Hwanhee 10:34 because they were already part of my 10:36 life I told him I would do everything 10:38 positively possible to get myself out of 10:41 this three days later two men approached 10:45 me and told me that if I love my life I 10:47 should vanish from Kaduna because they 10:50 have been paid by the general overseer 10:52 to eliminate me so I had to close the 10:55 church and left the town finally after 10:57 two days as I am writing to you now 11:01 nothing to hold on but only God Almighty 11:04 the problem is that God seems to be very 11:08 far from me no matter how much and 11:10 fervently I have been calling on him and 11:13 asking for his mercies I know I have 11:16 offended him but I know he is a God of 11:19 second chance I have read your books 11:23 overcoming the queen of the coast series 11:25 and I strongly believe you are the only 11:28 one that God can use to help me out of 11:31 this physical hell I have put myself I 11:33 am really afraid of going to meet any 11:36 other person man of God because those 11:40 who are using devilish powers are more 11:42 than those who use the power of God for 11:45 some time now I have not been sleeping 11:48 at night and I also at times hallucinate 11:52 sir I urgently need your help because I 11:55 believe time is running out for me as 11:57 the attack from the marine kingdom 12:00 increases no other pastor has exposed 12:03 them like you I know I have transferred 12:07 many spirits into so many people and I 12:10 want to know what I can do so that those 12:12 people can be free from these wicked and 12:15 evil spirits apostle is really 12:19 unfortunate that the Church of our Lord 12:21 Jesus Christ has been taken over by 12:23 mermaids the number of pastors using 12:26 marine spirits is alarming and more of 12:29 them are getting initiated daily into 12:32 this wicked Kingdom so these pastors are 12:35 also initiating their spiritually 12:37 illiterate members before I messed up 12:40 myself spiritually I had always wondered 12:43 why members of the church follow their 12:45 pastors sheepishly but now I know better 12:48 the marine kingdom is working day and 12:51 night to overtake the church and 12:53 unfortunately the church is sleeping in 12:56 the last two months I have had four car 12:59 crashes and I know they want to 13:02 eliminate me but God has been my helper 13:05 and my only hope they have killed my two 13:08 children and now they want me dead I am 13:12 becoming afraid of staying alone because 13:14 of 13:15 bizarre spiritual appearances I see and 13:18 things have started to move in my brain 13:21 and body 13:22 anytime I start praying the movement 13:24 would start and sometimes I feel the 13:26 movement in my marrow the greatest need 13:30 I have now is to be forgiven by God if I 13:34 can get his forgiveness I don't mind 13:36 dying after that because I really don't 13:39 want to go to hell I have been misled by 13:42 the general overseer just as so many 13:45 young pastors have been misled by their 13:47 general overseers and senior pastors sir 13:51 I know you are a very busy person I will 13:55 appreciate it if you find time to pray 13:57 over this my problems and seek the face 14:01 of the Lord on how to use you to help me 14:03 out I know that if I am forgiven my 14:06 deliverance will be easy 14:07 I regret selling my soul to marine 14:10 spirits 14:11 the SI money is also a very strong agent 14:15 of their mermaid I look forward to 14:17 hearing from you your Co servant and the 14:20 Lord Pastor cherubim aqua aqua
They too have laws they have to abide by. It's like saying why don't the government print enough money and give it to everyone to have enough money, when the government has the machine to print money.
Not really. The spirit world does not operate the same way a one trick pony or vending machine operates. It operates on certain laws. Its a question of which laws were legalised or put into effect that must be reversed.
guysbewise: Some people like that do exist they have a demonic spirit of divination.
Correct. This guy said things I have never told a soul.
Thats why its interesting when someone says a complete stranger doesnt only know you but knows deep things about you. It taught me one thing, that life is spiritual and residing in spiritual high places with the LORD, by thus getting a vantage point is probably the only way to survive. Getting spiritual intelligence through knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ was the only way.
Klass99: Lol, I have a few suspicions why this happens but like you OP I am curious to hear the candid thoughts of the opposite sex.
My thoughts;
1. He became emotionally attached and possibly fell in love with the mistress. The constant narrative that men are logical and not emotional is a false and inaccurate one, as far as I know, all humans are emotional beings irrespective of gender.
2. Side chic got married to a man who is far better than him, in looks, class, charisma, decorum and wealth. A group of Nigerian men were surveyed and one of the top things that really hurts them and they dislike/hate, is for an ex or a woman they like, to end up with a man who is wealthier and better looking than them - e dey pain . This survey was on that new reality TV show (family fued) that Bisola hosts.
3. The sex was fantastic and mind blowing, he is possibly moaning the loss of it.
Very interesting thoughts. Imagine now as a wife having to baby your husband because he is so busy grieving a mistress who has moved on with her life. Why cant he just let go and come back home 100%
I need help to decode especially from the masculine side why a man who is married and comfortably cheating on his wife would then almost die when finding out that his mistress also tied the knot.
A mistress who has created options for herself, rightfully moving on with life and getting out of the way so that the married man and his real wife can resume a healthy normal family life - now the married married man wants to die.
Do men really think they can comfortably own both wife and mistress? It cant work oh. Mistress must go and solve her issues and allow the man to continue with his life.
1. Stay out of debt 2. Take your health seriously 3. People will only change if they want to 4. No matter how little you earn, save/invest 5. There’s never a “good” time for a new relationship, breakup, or career switch 6. You can always start all over
Rozross: I like myself ehn, God knows i can't stress myself in this life, me that goes to bed 7pm sometimes will now enter husband house to be doing masculine responsibilities, lai lai.
I was minding my own business going somewhere in a cab one day. When out of the blue a demon possessed guy (the way he was confessing about engaging in rituals and killing people and all that made me believe there was something not right. He also said things that no man could have known).
The worst part about this situation is that he said my worst fears. So detailed to a point no man could have known. And he kept threatening me with these fears but he never touched me.
In fact, he was begging the driver of the cab to drop him off first. He even forced driver to make a u turn.
Kobojunkie: 1. That one na story since you yourself no witness any of the rituals yourself, right?
2. So, this person violently threatened you, telling you your birthdate, your mother's, and your father's names?
3. Did you see this "entity" or did the fact that you were likely hyped on adrenaline due to the threat you felt contribute to your seeing things that aren't there about this particular fellow?
I have experienced individuals with some sort of clairvoyance to them, and even some violent ones as well, but I wouldn't go as far as to conclude demon-possession since we humans come in all shapes and sizes of crazy, to begin with.
People must be careful engaging with some trades. They do bring demon possession
Kobojunkie: 1. That one na story since you yourself no witness any of the rituals yourself, right?
2. So, this person violently threatened you, telling you your birthdate, your mother's, and your father's names?
3. Did you see this "entity" or did the fact that you were likely hyped on adrenaline due to the threat you felt contribute to your seeing things that aren't there about this particular fellow?
I have experienced individuals with some sort of clairvoyance to them, and even some violent ones as well, but I wouldn't go as far as to conclude demon-possession since we humans come in all shapes and sizes of crazy, to begin with.
Ok if it wasnt for the history of the guy that the other 2 occupants started to tell me then I could have been alone on this.
Anyways calling all people with spiritual knowledge. Why do demons recognise certain Christians?
If you dont know its ok please. Joshua Selman would answer this perfectly.
Religion / Re: In Appreciation of God by OgaMadam(f): 2:41pm On Mar 31, 2023 
. This survey was on that new reality TV show (family fued) that Bisola hosts.
