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Help a sis out,

Something like Timaya's Bow Down


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMB5NxJJsN4

lilykach02:
will rather go for who's not so cute but has other qualities intact than a cutie who's selfish. its very stressful being with a self centered man.

thank you gurl. you know whats up.

the topic does not say don't date handsome men, it says dating men who are handsome AND self centred.

women know what I am talking about deep down inside.

Trust people to blow things out of proportion.



Read this:
http://elitedaily.com/women/hot-girls-date-less-attractive/728378/

A study reported in Daily News revealed that women who marry uglier men have happier marriages than ones who marry attractive men.

It’s an evolutionary thing. Men are more concerned with the appearance of their mate, ensuring they will have good genes to pass on to their children. Women, on the other hand, are less obsessed with the genetic makeup of their children and are looking for stability in a man, not just strong genes.

Having a hotter wife is also the reason husbands are more attentive and motivated to make their marriage work. Men who are hotter than their wives, however, are more likely to take them for granted.

In a similar study reported in the Journal of Family Psychology, 82 newlyweds were evaluated, and the couples with a wife more attractive than her husband were more content than those couples with equal attractiveness.

It makes sense; women want to be appreciated, and men want to show off their prize. A good marriage is based on compromise: A hot woman can make her man proud, and a proud man can make his wife happy.

People stop taking things so personally and see the wood for the trees,
as in see the question for what it is.

No one is ugly you say. But a woman needs to marry a guy who is lower than
her in looks cause then she shines bright like the delicate flower she should be.

Dear All,

Please forgive me in advance for this topic but try and understand my point.

Ok, what do women think of relationships where the guy is not that appealing physically but has all the other stable qualities?
Don't you think it is more reliable when you are the one that looks like a princess don't you find it better for your self esteem.

I have dated in both camps and I have to say, when the guy was just standard I felt like a princess. But when I was with
guys who were as hot as anything - it wasn't just the same. Do you feel you will have to put up with unwanted females
hitting on your man when he is hot? Is he as focused on you versus himself. Ok Victoria Beckham and huzzy are cute but he
has the upper hand. As in I am sure they fight for the moisturiser.

I think a dude should be a masculine manly dude. That means rollon, lotion and a cologne and aftershave is enough for you.

None of this hair braids or weird styles, earrings, top colourful fashion, over the top accessories etc.

Ladies hit this topic with your thoughts.

Take care.

Madam.


which couple do you think is more secure? Close in looks or where the woman shines?

He was married when she met him.
She paid now ex wife to let him alone.

That side of the story is not here.

Good for them.

Beautiful clean detailed finishings and lines.
South Africa or Southern Africa has fantastic architects.
Class.

It's not always about size or quantity

After 40 a woman must do other stuff, like philanthropic stuff and charities etc.

I bless God for educated women cause if you are a professional heavyweight like a medical doctor,
That respect at that age is what you need.

A caution that be careful what professions or lifestyles we as women engage in. At 40 you can't be showing skin everywhere,
Staying up late in drunken sprees withs pics all over Facebook. It's just wrong.

Do something respectable with your life cause a woman's virtue is an uncompromisable asset.

We have it tough oh, but when I reach 40 I want a lot of respect, I wanna look good but age appropriate,
Rich, godly, loving to my immediate and international community. I really want my respect and beauty.

Daddy God I know will also add my best friend and love of my life as my husband. And then our babies.

LORD,
LET ME LAND ON MY FEET WHEN I LAND ON 40
I BEGGG.

Very interesting topic.

Once upon a time Rita was in demand.

Maybe it's a lesson that after 40 a woman must change her game
Married, single, or not - after 40 you can't carry on the same, dressed in this and that.

Being married well is good (but on this forum I think even if you are married badly and beaten up daily that's better than unmarried at 40 right? Go figure). Also apparently, even a child out of wedlock is a better cover for a woman than nothing.

Yikes, the Nigerian and Indian societies are hectic.

Either way, my God I pray you. I pray today, DONT let me reach 40 alone. Please please please.

Then Victoria Beckham wouldn't have popped out 4 kids by now

Its his personal quarters

It cost in the region of 236 Million Rands of the tax payers money.

In British pounds this would be around GBP 16.85 Million.

Africa O Africa.

If you are defining a niche to your target market then thats fine.

SO say you are openning a hotel for only Married Couples - thats different.

If you are in business already, without having defined your group you will be in trouble.

And you will suffer losses - word of mouth will spread and then your customers will decrease.

In todays world, where open sexuality has taken open stage you will be regarded as the baddie
and they will all hate you trust me. You will be labeled as a hypocrite.

So your purpose is to make money, and it wasnt to isolate the married.

Id say go with what you started with. If you wanna change, open another chain geared to the married.

More appropriately,

Something doesnt have to be happening for him to be doing anything.

He doesnt have to be doing anything to be doing something.

Thought provoking. Do you believe that mainstream Christian music is pure - or also tainted?

http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Evils%20in%20America/CCM/industry.htm






The CCM INDUSTRY is Corrupt and Evil


“Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord's table, and of the
table of devils.” —1st Corinthians 10:21

What's Wrong with Contemporary Christian Music (CCM)?


Photo to Right: The demonic album cover of a so-called CCM group. Click on the photo to learn more about the New World Order's (NWO) infiltration of the CCM
industry. Sadly, many Christians oppose my stand against the NWO, not knowing enough to even make a qualified statement to argue.

Professed Christians who don't believe in fighting against the NWO are the very one who ignorantly support it, unknowingly pulling on the same rope as the Devil.
God forgive America's backslidden Christians.

Some people misunderstand my Biblical stand against Contemporary Christian Music (CCM). There's nothing wrong with modern electric instruments, such as a bass and
guitar. Nor are drums wrong to have in a church if used in a Christ-honoring manner. Using drums in church are a matter of preference and ethics, not sin. There
are many forms of music which are appropriate besides the old hymns of the faith.



~By David J. Stewart

“It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools.” —Ecclesiastes 7:5

What do you think of people's profiles on facebook that just show off
their rich and lavish lifestyle or marriage or business or whatever.

Its ok for you and your kids to do well, but i think things along the line of:


"just asked the maid to clean 10 of our guests bedrooms in our Los Angeles Mansion
before our executive chefs come to host the dinner on our 25th annivesary - before
jetting off to our private island in Malibu. Yay to us!"


So corny hey.

Do you show off on FB. Just saying cause how do you know what people really think
about you and if your truely safe?

http://www.thenervousbreakdown.com/ecollins/2010/10/adults-have-ruined-facebook-with-juvenile-showing-off/#comment-251212

how do you do that?

Guys, what do you think about FB. Is it true:

*Timeline can track your location
*Liking pages can be used to get your information
*You can never delete an account (everything will be saved and you can always come back)
*CIA or governments can override FB at anytime and get into your business
*Biological imaging






i could go on and on but heres an example:

http://news.cnet.com/8301-1009_3-20004511-83.html

http://www.consumerreports.org/cro/facebookprivacy.htm

their pre-nups are funny.

she says somewhere in there that he must allow her a couple of years of wedded bliss
before he cheats on her.

(and if he cheats he will pay 500 k in usd or something like that)

apparently he has cheated a couple of times through their dating and it is structured to protect her lol

how so lovely!

i like his type. so nerdy but nice guys who treat women well.

Sean Connery
Pierce Brosnan
Daniel Craig
Roger Moore
Timothy Dalton

In order of my priority.

please add if you know more

bless you gurl.

i like your style so much.

may your marriage last.

Advice!

Please tell me cause have seen some pages across the net

[quote author=ondo_boi]. Don't worry baby, even if its too wash your undies, am more than capable[/quote]how am i supposed to eat gari?

i need to taste new delicacies.
I need to feel like a person, when my people come i must just say - heres a cheque go and buy yourself a new wardrobe.

you better come up with something better

[quote author=ondo_boi]my money bawo! no wahala! how about a private chat. my email padeolu1@gmail.com[/quote]my dear. i am destined to be a Madam. Well taken care off with moni flying left right and centre.

I want to have breakfast in Munich,
Lunch in Johburg
and Dinner in Hong Kong.

Now can you or can you not make this dream come true?

I have emailed you.

[quote author=ondo_boi]OUR money ofcourse! *waiting for the dm*[/quote]Ondo its supposed to be YOUR moni

[quote author=ondo_boi]took mine because it speaks more of who i really am. plus, been an ondo guy, i dont take garriiiiiii, i also fancy taking care of rich women, do you mind "dm"ing me your contact[/quote]wait a minute, who's money are you going to use to take care of me?

mine its because i always fancied being a rich well taken care of woman.

stillwater: If you've resigned yourself to believe men are polygamous by nature, I don't see any reason why you should feel hurt. Or are you hurt because he doesn't tell his women he's married and has kids more than his intent to cheat?

Anyway I think this is the time to be practical. You should have a thorough discussion with your husband, drop the sentiments aside for now and ask your husband what marriage entails to him. Tell him to forget all the begging. The aim here is to know where you stand and have your peace of mind. Knowing where I stand gives me an idea on what actions to take. It is then left for you to decide to live with this situation or not. I hope while he's been running around, you've been saving and storing money somewhere.

this is a very mature answer.

save money but also your health