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guys just out of interest.

if you had to go for one?

- the single mum
- or the single lady (but has abortion in her history)

this is controversial and quite sensitive i know and sorry not to hurt any one or anything
i just wanted to know how guys' mind operate.

some of them say the would never date a woman with kids and then
what if you give them a lady who doesnt have kids due to an abortion?

thanks all.

Christ must be the centre of our message, even more than us.

He cheated on her too

leilah

u r smart. aborting in marriage!

thanx for digging up that he cheated on her.

now he doesnt want your offspring too - does he plan to hook up with his mistress later?

i dont know about you but its weird committing an abortion when you have your marriage,
honour, supporting partner, money. i dont advocate it, but i can understand where a
stupid, clueless teenager is coming from rather.

ChrisCox

Listen well well.

To stay in naija you must be sharp sharp enh?

these people are a separate animal - and am telling you your innocence and humble love
is not gonna get you no where.

you must be shrewd and sleep with your eyes wide open.  

dont feel sorry, and "brotherly love" and yadi yadi yadi yada, they couldnt care less.

do whats in your best interest for you and your nucleus family - as the man.

i geuss that closes the argument, unfortunately.

The Onus or Burden is always on the parent to make contact.

Correction: Obama visited his son once, since the divorce.

it wasnt Obama who had the job to visit, phone, write letters,

why are african people so crap, always expecting to get get get
waiting for a baby to contact them?

iceblue,

thats from one of tyler perry's movies right? why did i get married?

about the punishment i was also referring to what was quoted, not necessarily you, although i still believe that cheating does not help at all.

am glad you have such an understanding lady.

dont take this step for granted though - it should make you respect her more.

Like i said earlier, i didnt believe that the baby was yours, hence my suggestion u do a DNA.

All the best mate.

You have been saved.

guys can't be trusted,i knw of a guy in my church who was in ur shoe,he was to marry some few months before he got a lady pregnant naclaiming he was sorry he hid this frm his wife to b and got married to her.after marriage he then told her nd since she had no choice she forgave him and make him promise he wont marry her but only collect the child,can believe that now the woman his carrying his third child and his legal wife has just two, life


now THAT is just out of order. give an inch and they take a mile hey!
i always say the only thing to make him change is to bring him close
to dying, that way he wont repeat his mistake.

sticking his wet fingers into a plug springs to mind.
NO CONSEQUENCES SIMPLY PROPEL THE DUDE INTO MORE MESS.

I have spoken.

i hope she refuses you for ever you crap,

ur game is to knock her down and then in the same breath call her easy,

boo hoo ya creep.

Hu bi dis one now?

"Eddie you have changed, "


Clue: its a Patience Ozokwor movie

just silly

non of ur examples illustrated a woman who cooks and makes love to his soul
non of those gurls would pass as a wife anyways,

looks fade, basing a relationship on them is just stupid
a woman who outgives a man can never make him feel like the provider

real guys who wanna settle down, think a little different

So Ok,

Like today, married men have girlfriends on the side anyways, difference between them and polygamy is
there is no deception involved.

in a polygamous home wife 1 knows there others - and she gets to see them, at least her conscience is
aware of them. In these so called monogamous homes, the wife does not even know who her rivals
are. its like she is warring against some unseen forces.

so its not right for most women to be second wives cause the nature of women just doesnt allow them
to share a kitchen or a bed or a man's body with another woman.

but the respect i have for polygamous homes is that it is done in the open and there is no breaking
of trust and deception of another partner.

finito.

I always say never go back to a spot you leave.

Once you have left that spot it rejects you,

so that when you go bac, things wont be the same again.

"excuse me sire the people are waiting, WELL LET THEM WAIT i am talking to my son"



coming to america

The Bestman

We are all connected.

And at the right time we ALWAYS hook up.

The Budhists call it Karma, the Christians "you reap what you sow"

Cheers Shaz.

ALL am tryna say Ola is this:


if deep was the one who the girlfriend cheated on him he wouldnt even be on this forum



as he would have dumped her so fast she would have her head spinning.


CULTURE/MEN dont condone females cheating but make room for a man;s cheating. excusing him because he is weak
and didnt mean it and all such lame excuses.

no you havent.

to paraphrase Ebony Silk you went into some long "jagbajantis" of temptation yadi yada.

i want to know would you forgive her if she jumped on you like this guy jumped on his wife 2 b?
SIMPLE QUESTION REALLY.


and no, since women are more emmotionally inclined than physically, looking at a man's chest hairs really wouldnt turn me on.
but then again i am different.

I find pleasure in looking at a chubby dude, even if bold. by pleasure i do not mean salivating, i just mean he makes me feel
comfortable, at home like.

IF DEEPLO was you and your fiance made albeit one mistake, would you TOLERATE?

Olanajim

assuming we reverse posters EXACT situation, except this time YOUR girl gets tempted.

what would you do?

olanajim

once a woman cheats on a man she is history.
but when its vice versa we are called to "TOLERATE"  as some so affectionately put it here.


for me i think cheating is a way to break a relationship, even if it continues under the guise of a marriage, engagement,


best way to deal with cheating is to inflict near death consequences.  this way they wont do it again.
sticking one's wet fingers through plugs in a wall comes to mind.

WHICH CONSEQUENCE WOULD YOU LIKE DEEP?

how funny,

when big growed men say

"my mummy"

oooohh poor babies.

thanx a bunch 4 d correc so hey eveybody its



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