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you know deeplo"

it all depends if ur not the cheating type then it can be easy to forgive.

only thing is that your timing for an action of this magnitude was sooo "perfect"

these things happen in relationships but when you do it at the wrong time -

no that one is from PRIDE AND PREJUDICE. Jane Austin

hey, where is your mamas so old from?

Hey real-deep-low,


you keep postponing when u gon tell her. why so long man. all i hope is that the preggie one doesnt beat you to it.


and remembers what i say:

*i have suspicion about baby being yours so do DNA
*i have suspicion even just about her being preggie in the 1st place.

DID YOU CHECK SHE ACTUALLY PREG?

dont wait too long man.

"IT IS A UNIVERSALLY ACKNOWLEDGED FACT THAT A SINGLE MAN IN POSSESSION OF A GOOD FORTUNE MUST BE IN WANT OF A WIFE"

nutty professor 1

CAN SOMEONE PASTE THESE.

Colour purple!


ok how about,

"I WILL KILL YOU, AND I DONT MEAN THAT AS A EUPHEMISM, I WILL LITERALLY CHOKE THE AIR OUT OF YOU, "

No Spider Man 1.


how about

EVERYTHING YOU DO IN THIS LIFE WILL ECHO THROUGH ETERNITY

if its a commitment for life, really there should be no rush entering it.

THE BEST TRAP A WOMAN CAN USE FOR A MAN IS SEX.

IT IS NOT TO LET HIM TOUCH HER UNTIL HE PUTS A RING ON HER FINGER,

THIS IS USUALLY THE BEST INCENTIVE FOR A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN.



TODAY'S RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES ARE IN JEORPADY CAUSE PEOPLE HAVE EITHER HAD IT
BEFORE MARRIAGE OR TOO SOON IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

THEN AFTER THAT IT DISENTIGRATES INTO A GAME OF "TOLERATE ME" CAUSE UNDERSTANBLY
A MAN HAS TASTED YOU AND HAS NO USE FOR YOU NO MORE, HE NEEDS FRESH MEAT.

ITS AN ENTIRELY DIFFERENT MATTER WHEN HE "CATCHES" YOU IN MARRIAGE.


REAL LOVE PLAYS NO GAMES. BUSY YOU ARE NOW ASKING THIS WOMAN TO TOLERATE AND TOLERATE
WASTE HER EMMOTIONAL STRENGTH ON CRYING BECAUSE THIS IS THE FOURTH TIME SHE CAUGHT
YOU WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.

I SAY WHY?

Never listen to what a man says but what he does.

ENTER MARRIAGE WITH BOTH EYES OPEN,

AFTER THAT KEEP THEM HALF CLOSED.

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and no you don't divorce at the first infidelity (but then again thats also a choice you have a right to)
marriage is not easy and they are various factors to consider whether its worth saving or not,

thank God u know its a choice to make,sm women fought till d last to get their hubby back from d hands of some girls,and with prayers they did,i for one wouldnt do that,but i really give them hand,marriage is not a bed of roses,u must be prepared to meet difficulties,challenges and tough situations,running away is cowardice,but fighting it till there is no other hope or option,is virtuous,afterall it is for better for worse,u don't just run awaywhen d worse shows up

THESE ARE WOMEN AT A MARRIED LEVEL, NOT UNMARRIED. I ALWAYS THINK THAT IF YOUR UNMARRIED YOU SHOULD HAVE LOW CRAP TOLERANCE LEVELS CAUSE ONCE YOU GET IN MARRIAGE THERES NO TURNING BACK

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but cheating just before you marry on a very long term relationship, when you are supposed to be giving your heart soul and life to somebody,

is surely NO WAY TO GO.

now giving ur life and soul?if a married woman can still forgive her husband who cheated on her and swore before man and God to love her alone until death do them part that cheated on her,then who is a "girlfriend"

MAN WHY DO YOU KEEP CALLING ME SIR. ANYWAYS, A "GIRLFRIEND" WHO GETS CHEATED ON CAN BECOME A WIFE WHO SPENDS A LARGE PORTION OF HER MARRIAGE WAITING FOR HER MAN TO COME BACK HOME. NOW, IF THIS HAPPENS AAAFFFTTTER MARRIAGE, IT CAN BE ANALYSED CAUSE DYNAMICS IN MARRIAGE ARE DIFFERENT.

yes this relationship is not a marriage.

i was referring to the 70x70 thing.

even then, if you cheat before marriage what will actually stop you AFTER marriage. to forgive a person who cheats before is
probably even more precarious than after.

and no you dont divorce at the first infidelity (but then again thats also a choice you have a right to)
marriage is not easy and they are various factors to consider whether its worth saving or not,

but cheating just before you marry on a very long term relationship, when you are supposed to be giving your heart soul and life to somebody,

is surely NO WAY TO GO.

thankyou my daughter

ill go first.

WITH GREAT POWER COMES GREAT RESPONSIBILITY

, and,

he could be human, but a heart he has broken is just that - broken.

No No JJYOU dont understand, she cant preach it.

The same Bible that says forgive your bro 70*70 times is the same one
that says adultery/cheating is grounds for divorce.

ya feel? only way out of marriage is via a divorce or death.

so please.

i didnt want to reveal my ID or Identity.

who i am.

i have only one alias on this Nairaland ok?

I actually wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. But i found myself dating her



it wont work.

ehenh now.

am not nigerian.

i cant say my nationality all my nigerian friends will IMMEDIATELY know my ID
and for that i would hate to happen.

Ability to withstand "drama" or berra put, challenges is what Naija women has over women of other nationalitiesit is believed that Nigeria women are brought up in such a way to withstand and fix relationship and marriage challenges unlike othersbut if Nigeria women starts to think like foreigners by opting out of every relationship or marriage because of challengesthen, there aint no difference anymore.

this has gotta be true.

Ebony and Tbag translate
Berra kun le fun iya oko eeee

JJYOU you mean the Other Woman,
my post focuses more on the men as they are the ones who bring a 3rd person in their bed and also are the ones who made
the vow, i want to focus on the one who jumps fences if that helps.

its not even as if women have a choice, men cheat anyways.

@Tbag
must also point out that Men are very much different from dogs. . . .so pardon me, your saying about the biting dog is not acknowledged in this cas.
Seems you have grown overnight. wasnt sayin men are like dogs.



@Ebony-Silk
I think it's best he leaves his fiance and try to deal with the pregant one. You know what they say, a broken r/ship is better than a broken marraige.
he should just let them both go. with the preggaz one will just have a rollercoaster relationship. man just clear your head and start afresh, with more seriousness this time. sorry.

never had no previous user ID since i been here.

always OGAMADAM

past behaviour is a predictor of future behaviour.



OFTEN GURLS GET MARRIED AND THEN THEY SAY STUFF LIKE, "he keeps cheating, or beating me" or whatever.


i say to you Duuuuhhhhh. like, he did it before you was even married why should he change in marriage.


YOU ARE STILL TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOUNG I THINK lil girl, get your groove on and take a break before you jump into these things.