₦airaland Forum

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Isaacpromise1:
Recently a friend of mine in his early thirties who has been thinking of getting married within first four month of next year broke up with his girl …… both had a good relationship at least that I know of and they seems cool with each other …… when i asked him the reason for their break up, he said they had a discussion and he asked this lady who they’ve been together for seven months her body counts and her response was fourteen! This my friend is actually an introvert, a reserved guy and a bit religious; my concern was when I asked him why body counts really matters to him and his response was he has only been with just two ladies and can never trust a lady who has been with such number of guys because she will definitely cheat in marriage!

*Does body count really matters?
*Should you even discuss such in a relationship?
*Is it likely that those who have a high figure body count will definitely cheat in marriage?

Dat2jo:
I got appointed as an aide to my Governor (one of the Northern states), so we are always in and out of Abuja. Lately, I just have the urge to get a homely 18-22 year old girl (not a wild runs babe), to be taking care of her financially, then get her to keep me company in Abuja anytime I'm there. I just want to find her in my hotel room anytime we are back from our numerous meetings.

I have a lovely family, 2 kids and a beautiful wife. Wife is everything you can think of in a woman and the sex is great. But I just find myself chatting random girls with a fake account on Facebook, trying to find one that can fit into the side chick profile. Wouldn't mind an 18yr old I can groom.

Is anything wrong with me/that?

Datboredberry:
Everyone hears the word relationship and immediately thinking of sex... especially Nigerians

What else do you do with your partner?

Pumpumking:
Obotoro...bro ok so u sayin u feel better after mans giv u tight hug before u collapse....correct? ...bro u definitely 1000% gay & we strongly sugest u do h i v test sir.Gay people hav aids!!(true story

siofra:
I think the photo below is self explanatory


A Dating Coach shared this:


"Date multiple men and allow them to EARN your exclusivity.
A guy likes you? Cool. He wants to get to know you more? Great!
Let him PROVE he's worth closing the door on your OTHER options before you actually do—because you do have options, Sis. #datewithcents."

TheControversy:
I agree with the title of the post but disagree with every point mentioned by the OP.
You can't compare a human being to a car, that's objectification. Yes, body count matters but not because it "devalues" a person. It only reveals their traits.

In my opinion, anyone, male or female, with high body count is a sign such person lacks self control over their sexual urges, has no fear of God and no belief in the sanctity of marriage. That doesn't make the person worthless. It does however in my estimation make the person less trustworthy especially in an institution like marriage that depends on trust and fidelity.

Being a virgin doesn't automatically make you a good wife or husband but it does inspire trust. If I had to pick a spouse between a virgin and non-virgin who both have good qualities, I would always pick the virgin.

stanliwise:
There is no Machiavelli articles about boys on redpill. show me
send me the link or just get lost for good.

stanliwise:
How many articles have been written about men/boys?
What guys need is how to know themselves so that no one would have to teach them who they are.
instead na to talk women matter from morning till night.

stanliwise:
Half of the psychology vocabulary you guys use. You use it out of context.
When did Machiavellianism become gender base and attributed to women?

Una(redpill) just too dull Abeg

doggedfighter:
Red pill is meant to be analysed not swallowed



but nairaland chewing gum boys are too daft to understand.

proxillin:
While as a man I struggle to make money to date a girl. The same girl is going on date with many men because its does not cost her 1 naira. The date and sex is free.

I pay blood and sweat to have sex with a woman. Women won't even see you if you don't have money. So some of us resolve to masturbation to cure kongi.
Men of high value don't cheat...they exercise options...why should a woman that had sexual abundance in her prime all cos she has something btw her legs call u a dog when exercising ur options after you laboured to get to the top?


But when money come, one woman with uncoutable body count in the name of wife should not call me dog...

im going to cheat...yes i am a proud dog

Pussywar:
Human beings are not cars.

Not everyone believes in the concept of virginity

Morality is subjective

You cannot be insulting, reducing and objectifying people for having sex while speaking on morality. It’s goes beyond sex and dressing.


Not everyone is religious

You can choose not to be with someone who has had multiple partners, but it’s only basic human decency not to shame them from your own moral perspective. Why is this even an argument?

BadRadio:
Bro U've got nothing to prove.... most ladies are used to calling guys "stingy" especially when they want the guy to spend more on them... some simp will fall for it just to make a point, while the real redpillers and alpha males knows it's just a trick to make them spend more




#BadRadio on the beat

TheGidRedpiller:
Stop wasting your time on ignorant biittches, you are better than that pls!

UndauntedYOCA:
You see nothing wrong in his words but you see everything wrong in mine.
SMH

UndauntedYOCA:
If you knew me you wouldn't think or write this way. I am not a partial person and that's the truth. He and some other guys here create degrading threads about women but your also blinded to that, you choose to ignore that.
He wrote with emotions you say but did you remember to correct him and say generalisation is a wrong thing? Don't even pull that card on me to try to make me feel guilty.
I didn't insult him neither did I shame him.
Maybe you should learn to read, ponder on statements so you can understand people better rather than misconstrue words and actions.
This thread is full of hate, did you address that? No! You're a guy and you probably think this is good.
Women aren't all the same neither are men and that's the truth!

PS: I HAVE NEVER SHAMED HIM NOR ANY MAN HERE, HE HAS CREATED SEVERAL THREADS ABOUT HIS MUM, DOES THAT MAKE ALL MUMS THE SAME?
I DISLIKE GENERALISATION AND THAT'S WHAT I WROTE AGAINST BUT YOU NO SEE THAT ONE,NA SOMETHING WEY NO DEY THERE YOU SEE.
HE HIMSELF ADMITTED IN A COMMENT HERE THAT HE IS HURT, IF HE IS THEN THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS SEE A THERAPIST, BEING HURT DOESNT SUFFICE TO HATING OTHERS. I HAVE TOLD HIM TO SEE A THERAPIST, THAT'S THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
DDO