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Xtrabrain:
Ok. Story get as e be. If e long, abeg... No vex... My girl, she did her project def today. Returned home, we talked about how it went, prepared a nice meal, we ate and switched to other things. Later this evening, one of her lecturers called and was like... I saw your status On WhatsApp yada yada yada. Congrats etc.

Lecturer: ...And i was gonna take you and your friends out OOO.. phone was on speaker. Can you meet me at place xxxx, I'll pick you up etc.

Most times, she tells me things about her past, school life etc. How that lecturers been asking her out. A few said plainly they wanted to k*ack and sorts.

Back to the lecturer that called. After she dropped the call, she asked if she could go. Person wey dey smile when lecturer talk say make she show, shey you wan com use "shey make i go" set me up?... Shaaa, i said ok. She dressed up and went. Before leaving, i shaa told her to drop the person's number as nah late evening we dey enter. In case of in casity. I think it was when she got to her destination she texted the man's number. Dr XXXX... She later texted she was gonna return by 9pm. I was like. Ok. Flex. She got home past 9pm and brought a grilled or fried chicken or so... Was like... "I ordered this for you". I think that was what got me offended.

Dunno... If it is jealousy or dunno... I started thinking etc. I felt it was disrespectful in a way i can't explain. Sent her a message on Whatsapp... Although, I've been stressed lately. Dunno.

Any yoo experienced anything like this? How did you respond etc...

Bottom line is ur gf doesn't respect u...and she knows u put her on a pedestal and you'll do anything to pls her that's why she asked if she can go out cos she knows u would eventually agree...no woman that loves her man will entertain other men ,that already is cheating....u need to break up with her bro while ur dignity is still intact.. whatever is left of it...

TheGidRedpiller:
I wasn't expecting anything resourceful thing from a vagiinaa person in the first place though

It's the reason why I try not to argue with a woman cos it's all emotions..

TheGidRedpiller:
This is something i'm currently working though, thanks.

Uwcm boss

Smartb0y:
i'll bet you,most just read to take advantage of the info REDPILL provides. If they truly understand women nature,they'll find it very difficult associating with them.

This right here is my problem now...I've become wary of the opp sex..It has made me more selfish..and when girls try to ask for favors I'm too blunt with my replies...I communicate well but when they try to bring in drama I'm too quick to react ...it's almost as if girls are scared of me now..even my guys feel I'm too brutal...how can I find a balance?...

TheGidRedpiller:
She fvvcked another guy at your back, came back to you with her sorry face and said "It Was A Mistake", your stupid SIMPlified self got all emotional and took her back with your ignorant and brainblocked heart.
Well i won't blame you though, i have been there and so has every redpiller you see out here today. :\

If you will accept this bitter truth, you will be fine i promise but you will have to go through great denial; Now before you accept back that d!ck rod cheating biittch of a girlfriend you have, understand that these 3 things happened between her and that other guy:

1.If the guy already knew you, they both made jokes laughed at you at your back, probably even while they were undressing to "Knack".

2.She was yelling his name at the top of her voice while he was busy grinding her from behind.

3.At some point, his d1ck came off and she quickly grabbed it and inserted it back!

My message: Be like that other guy she cheated on you with!

Anticipate 1st Of November!!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

You remind me of Myron Gaines of fresh&fit podcast...raw and direct about intersexual dynamics.....u can still make ur point without resorting to harsh words and speaking from a place a pain..that's why these broads will attack u with [/b]who hurt you?[/b] .... anything that goes against female logic is misogyny

Victerica:
Which ratio, are you talking about?

Did you do the study, yourself?

Men and women manipulate each other.

Human beings, should stop all these manipulations of each other.

There are better ways of solving our problems.

It's plain logic boss...take an average man and I guarantee u he's under the thumb of a woman..why?..cos he lacks an abundance mindset and he's invincible to most women...but take an avg broad..hundreds of guys are in her DM simping...of cos she'll take advantage of such situation...there aren't many guys that know how to manipulate women..but I guarantee there are lots of girls that can manipulate men

UndauntedYOCA:
Women don't do this, women don't do that, I am certain many men here on Nairaland were mostly raised by women who provided and sacrificed more than men.
Some of them are still being supported by their sisters, mothers etc.
The fact that some of you are products of bad mothers or dated ladies who used you doesn't mean others went through what you went through. In fact, the ego of some men here won't let them admit their gfs, wives, sugar mummies etc fend for them.
Let each man speak in an honest manner for himself.

When girls can't attack a logic with logic they resort to shaming tactics...the op made a logical point,though laden with emotions..that doesn't negate the fact...you on the other hand,instead of attacking his logic with a factual rebuttal u had to resort to the usual shaming tactics women use ..[/i]who hurt you? Ur mother didn't raise u right etc[i]

Victerica:
That means, men should learn to control their sex urge like women do theirs...

Sex should be for fun and not for manipulation.

"Sex should be for fun and not for manipulation" is a good theory on paper...the reality is that women rarely treat sex as an equal value exchange where she likes a man,a man likes her,they have consensual sex...nah ..women treat sex like a value loaded exchange where they stringe u along for ur time, resource,attention and commitment

What do u want? .... Support or truth?
People aren't downloading ur song cos it sounds cliche...average at best...the negative comments u received should give u an idea to work harder next tym instead of soliciting for support

A question for the House...
Would there be a need for the RED PILL paradigm if women didn't exude Machiavellian traits when dealing with men?

If a man reciprocates his woman's submission,femininity etc with chivalry,is it against the tenets of redpill?

cutecommend:
There is no offense that cannot be forgiven, and it is profitable to forgive. Though forgiveness sometimes may come with the forgiven denied certain privileges. E.g. You might forgive someone who always steals in your house, but may not allow such persons to stay with you anymore

Why do guys hardly forgive cheating? Sometimes ladies who cheated may come back sincerely begging for forgiveness, but may not be accepted back even if they are forgiven, why?

(1) Some guys hardly believe that a lady who has cheated can change without going back again to cheat with same partner or so.. The fear or concern of a lady going back to cheat again might make some guys not accept a lady back. Women are emotional beings, and they can attach emotions after sex... Can you see the way some ladies try to connect with their EX again even after having a good relationship?

(2) Another reason some guys may hardly accept or forgive their partner who cheated might be because of the imagination of how she might was having pleasure with the person she cheated... And you know, some guys that sleep with ladies who already have partners do it with recklessness and probably some level of disrespect. Many guys will not want a lady whom they have cherished so much or invested alot on to be sexually used recklessly by a careless guy who doesn't value them. Many guys won't want another guy to be bragging how he slept with their partner.

Loyalty is asymmetrical for both sexes...men show their loyalty by spending time,resource and protecting you...women show their loyalty by giving you sexual exclusivity...when men have sex with random women they just want to burst a nut..no emotions....but when women cheat...it's premeditated..women cheat when they are hurt or they lost feelings for you...
That's why it is hard for men to forgive women cos they know what has been fckd can't be unf kd

aluyapreston:
Bury Eminem. Bro Do you Know that MGK is no longer a rapper anymore and he is now into Rock music.

Eminem buried him in Killshot. Rap Devil was a surface rap while Killshot intelligently and scathingly attacked MGK, P Diddy, Iggy Azaela and everything related with MGK. Eminem told him that one call to interscope and he will make him swayze. Swayze actually is a movie in which the main character disappeared from existence as a ghost. You know what, Eminem went on to fulfill his promise. MGK rap career ended. He later stated that the diss was bad business for him. He is now into rock

Eminem is not who to pick and at 49 he is really still good
He buried Ja rule career, buried MGK, Buried Nick Cannon (was that guy even a rapper) and gave the world 5O cent, Kendrick Lamar, Jon Bellion and lots more.

however to be honest, Eminem is done for now. he should retire. at least he tried. it is because of him the word "Stan" is now in the English dictionary courtsey of his song Stan 2000.

He also hols the record for the fastest, second Fastest, and third fastest rap in history; Godzilla, Majesty and Rap God respectively.

Go down on all fours and pay homage to the greatest rapper alive!!!!!!!!!!!

started developing interest in rap after listening to the likes of Kool g rap, eminem,biggie etc....omo Eminem is a beast...him and his metaphors and double/triple meaning wordplays ...I prefer his old albums though cos he made a complex concept like Rap look simple

Sanchez01:
"Insult me on a line compliment me on the next?" How can MGK with his autotune and mumble rap body a lyricist as Em?

As long as I'm shady you'll continue to live in my shadow

Men lead...women follow

When women lead a relationship,they lead it to the end of the relationship

Since time immemorial,men are known to be Territorial with their women because they know how men like them think

GreatManBee:
Did you later sort this out? Or is it scam?

Forgotten abt it self..still in my atomic wallet

saphiere:
Men lack self-control. Men are sex addicts. Those are the reasons

Open misandry

Beebah2000:
We are still wondering ooo.
After them don enter, na only God go know if them go still settle down.
If you no give them, them go say u dey give another guy.
Men, fear men.

Very simple..
A guys game is attaining a woman .. a woman's game is retaining the guy post-sex .. how do u retain? By adding value to his life and standing out from other girls .. y'all are scared to have sex on first dates or too quickly cos u think he'll run ..he will run if u have nothing to offer except sex... If u like hoard what's btw ur legs In a relationship for 5yrs,once he enters he's out ..
By the way ..why should a man pay full price(marry you and wait till wedding day) when other guys have had their way with you for free??

DriftOff:
Just wondering, because now every guy, I mean, every guy would want to have sex with you the moment they started dating you.

Why is it so hard for them to wait for the right time, I mean - your wedding night. Guys doesnt want to wait again, they want to 'eat' the thing first before saying "I do."

Guys, what do u think?

Very simple..
A guys game is attaining a woman .. a woman's game is retaining the guy post-sex .. how do u retain? By adding value to his life and standing out from other girls .. y'all are scared to have sex on first dates or too quickly cos u think he'll run ..he will run if u have nothing to offer except sex... If u like hoard what's btw ur legs In a relationship for 5yrs,once he enters he's out ..
By the way ..why should a man pay full price(marry you and wait till wedding day) when other guys have had their way with you for free??

jesusjnr2020:
Sexism Or Feminism? Which Is Worse?

For me, it's clearly sexism, because it's discriminatory and has led to the abuse of most women and also much domestic violence against them.

Even before a woman is born into the world, and still in the womb, she already faces discrimination and rejection from men and also some of her fellow women, like her inlaws, when they get to know find out that she's a girl not a boy as most of them desired her to be.

A girl child is more or less being treated as a second class citizen, with no rights or real value just for being female, while a male child is usually treated as a king and being accorded with much respect just because of his sex.

What a woman goes through in this world just because she's not male is better imagined than experienced.

Men still crucify and blame the woman for all their woes just as Adam did, because of mistake she made in the beginning, as if Adam was a nursing baby that was forced to eat the forbidden fruit. But even nursing babies are able to reject food they don't want.

She was punished for her sins, and that has resulted in a lot of suffering and bondage on her part, but the coming and death of Jesus was meant to also change that and redeem the woman from her sin and its consequences. However that seems not enough for men who want to still keep her in perpetual bondage forever, as they seem to still hold that grudge against her and haven't forgiven her yet.

This include many so-called Christians and church leaders who claim to be of God, yet were still doing everything possible to keep the woman under the bondage and curse of her sins, such as that which was broken by Jesus. But the church ought to be different from the world, and reflect the changes Jesus had made with respect to the redemption of the woman through His death, however they're not much different in the respect of the mistreatment of women, thereby making the efforts of Christ to redeem her to be of none effect in the church.

It baffles me the extent to which many so-called Christian men have no regard for the woman.

They still blame her for every mistake they make, as though, regardless of what she tempts them with, they cannot reject her temptations, and say "NO", as some men have proven to be possible in the Bible which they claim to be the Word of God, like Joseph the son of Jacob in the respect of Portiphar's wife.

They behave like the sexist' Pharisees, who brought only a woman to Jesus and said she was caught in the act of adultery, but couldn't see the blunder in that, as a woman cannot be caught in the act of adultery alone and without a man. John 8:3-5

Hence their sexism and hypocrisy was already clear to Jesus, prompting Him to ask anyone of them who had no sin to cast the first stone, because only leaving out the supposed man caught in act of adultery with her and bringing her alone was a sin in itself, since the Law they tried to use to justify their actions actually commanded that both the man and woman caught in the act to be stoned to death, not just the woman. John 8:6-7

That's the same way most Christian men, including church leaders, behave. For instance, you'd hear them speak constantly and consistently against feminism, but hardly mention anything about sexism which is much more evil and has done more damage to the church and Christian marriages as a whole, than anything feminism ever could.

Women are being mistreated and beaten by many of their Christian husbands among other things, but because of the sexist' mindset and manners of most churches, the men yet feel justified and encouraged to continue with such evils, as they're given the impression that they have all the right to do whatever they liked, while the woman has none and ought not to question them, because as the saying goes, "women ought to submit to their husbands!"

Such oppression is what actually leads to fights for freedom, just it is with racism, so I wouldn't be surprised that feminism in the church is actually a product of sexism in it, as it's one way women are trying to stand up for their rights and saying "enough is enough' for the mistreatment and abuses they've suffered as a result of sexism in the church.

So whatever it is about, it's wouldn't be intended to discriminate against the men or oppress them as sexism is, but to defend themselves and curtail the prejudices they suffer as a result of just being female.

The woman however is not absolved of all blame for her sufferings, because she's also responsible for some of them, and she would be punished for it as the woman, Eve, was in the beginning. But that doesn't mean that any woman who decides to do what's right, should still be punished and kept in perpetual bondage for the sins of another woman, even though she's been set free from it, just because she is a woman.

Jesus said that only one thing is needful, and that the woman who had chosen not to follow Eve's example, but to do things right instead, and place the Word of God above everything else, including men, had chosen that right part, which no one could take away from her. John 10:42

So if the church likes, they should continue being sexist towards the women, but according to this Jesus' saying, once a woman has chosen that right part of God's Word and placed it above everything else in her life, including men, there's nothing they can do to take away that part from her, because that's all a woman needs.

God bless.

Life is sexist .. privilege is invisible to those that have it..both men and women have benefitted from sexism .. the only tym men or women complain about sexism is when it doesn't favor them

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A friend of mine recently bought a redmi 9t..
He swtiched it off but it refused to come back on

Probable cause pls

Ardar:
I am emotionally detached myself, so it will be a disaster if I date one of those Nigerian made red pilling mails.

The idea of mails serving as knights in shiny armor for women is no longer as ideal as it used to be, at least for me anyway.
If you think that acting tough and bad is the way to go simply because you think all women were wired to like such mails then you're as guilty as those that call all mails rapists.

When a woman says she is emotionally detached.....[b][/b]SHE BELONGS TO THE STREET

Mewhizzp:
Congratulations to them.
It's never too late, You just need to take the first step, There's still real love out there.

Where are the evening news paper crew.
Calling All the Ladies above thirty who are yet unmarried Evening news paper, Thinking that Nothing Good can come their ways.

Still doesn't negate the fact that the older a woman gets, the riskier it is to give birth or the smaller the chance to reproduce...as men we can't afford to be delusional..we deal in probabilities not possibilities...isn't it better to have kids when u are young and fertile? Instead of having when older and hoping on miracles and depending on statistical anomalies such as this old woman's case

pweetychyka:
It's not about being emotional..... What I feel is dis, a man that wants to stay committed, will stay if d woman he slept with is d kinda one whom he desires to spend d rest of his life with.

I feel I feel..facts don't care abt ur feelings...u keep looking at things through ur feminine lens laden with emotions ..a man is telling u how men reason..u keep rebelling...men and women think differently.. I've told u things men won't tell u on a regular..will u listen or not?..it's ur decision lady...
Intersexual dynamics is unfair...life is unfair...will u learn how things work? Or keep bitching about why things don't fit into ur fairytale imagination of how men and women shd think or behave?

pweetychyka:
Why can't men also do well to stay committed if they truly love the man they slept with?

Ok lady..stop being emotional...forget what ur male besties tell u..men want sex..women know this,so they leverage what's btw their legs to more attention,material things etc from a man b4 giving up the box...men being sex driven will play along until u give up the box..we eat as much as u give up..when we done..we move on..u begin to wonder why...well.. we've done our part..now do urs in securing that commitment and ring

TWLifestyle:
lol , men don't need to be faithful So why b angered when a woman does the same thing ? Isn't that hypocritical ?

the only way a woman can possibly show her loyalty is by being faithful...a guy shows loyalty by providing security,comfort,stability,being ready to defend and die for his wife....loyalty is asymmetrical

TWLifestyle:
lol , men don't need to be faithful So why b angered when a woman does the same thing ? Isn't that hypocritical ?

Blame that on evolutionary biology.

Loyalty for men and women is asymmetrical..know this...know peace

UncleJudax:
you certainly doing FnF

Learnt alot from that podcast and also from rollo tomassi

[quote author=AutoChick4U post=103100977]Would it have been a problem if she collected d money from a girl?[/quote
For once,stop seeing things through ur feminine lens that's laden with emotions.to understand intersexual dynamics u have to see things from the man's side.when u do, you'll understand that men and women are placed on different pedestal... it's not fair...I know..
Reality is sexist...life is sexist and not fair.... intersexual dynamics btw men and women is sexist not fair.....know this and know peace
..

AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational

Rest lady....It's a lot to take in...it's normal for women to react with emotions when facts like this hit 'em.