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obembet:
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44

Know this and know peace!!!
The day u realise that men and women are different,ur life would be easier....men have no value when they're born unlike women that have value..our sexual market value,the things u women want in a man takes time for men to achieve..whereas for women,ur sexual market value is ur femininity,being fit,friendly,an asset not a liability....women don't date down, they're always after above average guys,6ft tall,more than 6figures,confident etc...how many Nigerian men do u think have this quality? Probably like 10%...if a man belongs to the 10% category,many women want him cos there are less of him and more of u beautiful women...at this stage a man has an abundance mindset...he may marry but he will smash other girls which is strictly man's nature...it means nothing to a man to just burst a nut..men have sex detached..but a woman can't..she has to have an emotional connection..if a woman can have sex detached then she's a HOE....

What all this means is that,u can't hold men to the same standard for loyalty,cos men had to create their value,but women have to preserve their value cos they were born with it....a man shows loyalty to a woman by providing security, comfort, stability being ready to defend and die for his wife...but a woman shows loyalty by simply being faithful

Stormtrooper11:
Well, am not used to this section. But something came up.
My girlfriend and i had been dating for a year. We are one of the weirdest couple you will ever meet. Alot of outsiders don't believe this except our close friends.
She is a Christian, a deeper life member and I'm Sunni Muslim.
We've been dating for a year. She is the most amazing creature i ever met apart from my Mum. She does not complain, she just show love, care, affection and always attentive. I used to think we will end up married. I'd made sure she is always comfortable. Always been there for her.
She's a Nurse. I am a Software engineer. So i just said let me check her Facebook account out. Damn. I was shocked at what i saw. She was always calm with me. I didn't know she was a "pro". She always acted innocent. It looks like a nightmare right now. I couldn't believe what she has been doing. We even knew each other families. I didn't know she could just lie.
Damn. I have lost interest in dating. I don't know what to do

Man up and handle ur shit!!......
As a man u should have an abundance mindset so as to not tolerate the bullshit that comes when dealing with women..one of which is kicking her to the curb when she exhibits HOE tendencies

Men should have an abundance mindset..when u have an abundance mindset,u don't tolerate the bullshit that comes when dealing with women....in this type of case,with an abundance mindset u kick her to the street cos she belongs there and move on....the only way a woman can possibly show her loyalty is by being faithful...a guy shows loyalty by providing security,comfort,stability,being ready to defend and die for his wife....loyalty is assymetrical

IceDune:
Whether you agree or disagree with stereotypes, they exist, guide and shape the way people think and how they relate with one another.

For example, there is the widespread belief that wives are better at managing family funds than men, it is also believed that women are terrible at apologizing for their mistakes and f--k ups in relationships and marriages.

And then there is the belief that if you sleep with a girl once and you do it properly, she somehow becomes too weak to say no to you from that moment onwards.

I've tried it out twice and it worked out for me. My question is; is Okafor's law really true or was I just lucky twice?

For something to be labelled a stereotype..it had to be true to a certain extent

hannah03:
I tried all my best to go back to school, no way no help nobody. There's no job to do so far now am now ready to Bleep for this money am suffering for. Plz don't judge me you don't know what am facing.
Before you judge know that I have skills but no capital.
I will no longer be that church girl anymore. I have dyed my hair, I have losed hope of going to school don't judge any runz girl you see.
I am ready to take evils way if that's what will make me survive am tired.

You can insult me whatever I alone know what am passing through.

It's your life..it's your choice..but know that choices we make come with consequences...when the consequences occur..will u take responsibility or shift blame?..

LamiHandsome:
Hi good afternoon BI,


So I caught my girlfriend cheating sometime last year and we talked about it, she promised never to cheat again, I forgave and moved on. Of course I’ve been unfaithful too, and on top of that she’s calm and virtuous. This is someone who I love and trusted dearly, someone I plan on settling down with. We’re both fresh graduates and we have our growing businesses.


Fast forward to January this year, I found out yet again she’s seeing not only the same guy I caught her with last year, but also confessed she’s been with two other guys.


She further revealed that she was cheating because of money, reiterating on the fact that she didn’t want to keep asking for financial support from me so as not to be a burden. Heaven knows I always do my possible best to support her whenever the need rises. Her family hasn’t been financially stable lately.


This second time, I had to involve her mom. She (her mom) expressed disappointment and disgust. We thereafter talked about it and I’ve forgiven her. We’ve been staying together for a while now to ensure we work things out.



Here’s where the problem lies; despite the fact that I’ve forgiven her, I’m having a hard time healing. I pay attention to every little thing she does now. I’m insecure and sometimes I feel like I may be doing too much, and I feel like I hurt her.

Even though I try as possible not to, I see fault in every little mistake she makes now �. It’s like I see unfaithfulness in her footsteps every time she walks now.

Please guys, what can I do to make this really work. How do I completely heal from this?

When a woman cheats on you...she belongs to the streets....loyalty yardstick for women and men is different....men show loyalty and commitment to a woman by sharing his resources with her,protecting her etc ..women show commitment
to a man by not being a HOE...not being promiscuous...

It is not a man's duty to retain a woman...a man's duty is to attain a woman...a woman's duty is to retain the man post-sex...and how do u do this?...STAND OUT..how do u stand out from other women?...add value in his life...be an asset not a liability...when u do this,a man's interest amplifies....women control access to sex..men control access to commitment and marriage...men have done their part to get the sex...it's the woman's turn to gain a man's commitment and ring

Mstick:
You're literally on a thread of a man that has fallen in love with his mistress and you still made this comment!? Am guessing you copied this comment from and couldn't wait to use it.

My post wasn't centered on him falling in love..rather it's on why men have an abundance mindset and why loyalty is relative for both men and women

zoedew:
Men are largely insecure!

Territorial..not insecure

cococandy:
You clowns don’t get tired of regurgitating senseless words you heard from struggling and hurting MRA on the internet? You don’t even change it up a bit. You just open mount and vomit it waah word for word. No evidence of reasoning or working logic.

Rest lady

Yxwqq:
Yes, men are more promiscuous and more likely to commit adultery than women. Thanks for the reminder.

Let me reiterate . ...men can have sex detached and still love the wife at home....women on the other hand have to be emotionally invested to have sex..a woman that can have sex detached is labelled a HOE...she belongs to the street
Men are as faithful as their options...as a man progresses financially his pool of women also increase..cos women are hypergamous in nature and they chase the top 10% of men...now how do u expect a man to be faithful when the things that gives a man value takes years to achieve..while for a woman,she is born with value??

Yxwqq:
Most of the time, zero attraction before marriage = zero attraction during marriage.

It's not quantum physics.


That you're not attracted to your wife is no excuse to sleep around /commit adultery.
If this thread had been opened by a woman she would be called all sorts of names.

Promiscuity in men and women differ explicitly

Rn8

Y'all should check out fresh&fit podcast on youtube

I like 'em greedy black like edi eyes beady willing to give to the needy --dmx it's all hood
I put hoes in NY onto DKNY (uh-huh) Miami, D.C. prefer Versace (that's right) All Philly hoes know it's Moschino (c'mon) Every cutie wit a booty bought a Coogi (ha) Now who's the real dookie? Meanin', who's really the shit? Them niggas ride dicks, Frank White push the six Or the Lexus, LX, four and a half Bulletproof glass, tints if I want some ass Gon' blast, squeeze first, ask questions last (haha) That's how most of these so-called gangsters pass (bye-bye) At last, a nigga rappin' bout blunts and broads Tits and bras, ménage à trois, sex in expensive cars I still leave you on the pavement Condo paid for (uh-huh), no car payment (uh-uh) At my arraignment, note for the plaintiff Your daughter's tied up in a Brooklyn basement Face it, not guilty (shh) That's how I stay filthy (not guilty) Richer than Richie, 'til you niggas come and get me --Notorious B.I.G hypnotize

whitewizardry:
Still available.. serious buyers only.

location??

demmy66:
good day. I also have the value coin worth $59k when I registered with the value coin contract address 2 weeks ago. But I haven't withdrawn it because of the transaction fee that worth $40. I do not want to give it a try and loose money too because it is too good to be true...so I.judt left it in the wallet until I am.sure the money can be withdrawn

same here

Ibime:
I am skeptical because I don't see any eth in your wallet to oil the swap and $40 miner fee to get $72k is harding you. How do we know this is not a scam to ask guys here for miner fees?

Should I give you my address to transfer $1 so I can confirm it for you?

I don't remember begging anyone here for a $40 miner fee...only posted this to see if Anyone else has experienced it

pragmatistm:
Try to swap small portion first for confirmation.

ok

Ibime:
This story is getting somehow. Why would you be sceptical about paying $40 miner fee for $72k worth of coin? Miner fee is not a scam. Can you show us the screenshot on UniSwap when you try to swap the coin to ETH?

it is what it is bro...why won't I be scared?..money I didn't work for

Ibime:
Swap to Eth on UniSwap, then send to Binance or whatever solid platform

If it's true, come and share testimony here. It's always good when one of us wins

I intend doing that but there's a network fee to be paid in case I wanna transfer to Uniswap to swap..still skeptical abt it though

Ibime:
Check whether the contract address matches the one below when you go to sell. Instead of selecting the coin, type in the contract address and if reflects the value in your wallet, then you really own that coin.

0x49e833337ece7afe375e44f4e3e8481029218e5c


You can validate against the address on Coingecko

https://www.coingecko.com/en/coins/value-defi


If you really own it, sell it fast cos these shïtcoins could be here today, gone tomorrow

hmm..ok...I think I already did this...there are 2 VALUE on trust wallet and also on atomic...one has a price already,the other hasn't been listed...but mine is showing the price for VALUE LIQUIDITY coin..i also doubt the CA is that of the listed coin..but if it isn't,why then was k given a coin that has already been listed?..still can't answer that

Ibime:
Exchange it in wallet to B.T.C before you transfer. I doubt any reasonable exchange is trading that coin

option to exchange it for other coins isn't there...but value is paired with usdt on OKeX exchange,can be swapped on UNSWAP to eth or usdt

DenreleDave:
share me the address too na

u won't be given,my friends tried already

DenreleDave:
How did u get it

like I said earlier,o added d contract address on atomic wallet months ago..checked my wallet last week and found it

Ibime:
You're saying someone gave you $72k just like that. Do you know the person or someone mistakenly sent to the wrong address?

If that's the case, $40 miner fee is correct (even low). There is no scam in paying miner fee assuming you are using UniSwap. Miner fee goes to those who validate the transaction, not to scammers.

it baffles me how I got it...I'm even scared of attempting to transfer it to an exchange then swap cos it seems too good the true

Ibime:
Is it the Value coin or the Ignis coin, and which platform is this?

the VALUE coin....this is atomic wallet

pragmatistm:
How did you get that coin? Was it from airdrop?

was given a contract address some months ago to add on atomic wallet..

hi guys..was given this coin..seems too good to be true..tried withdrawing it but gas fee was around $40(seems it's under eth network)..has anyone come across this??

96ACE:
Sure, I even listen to Big L

u be OG...recently listened to pun's CAPITAL PUNISHMENT album..omo

96ACE:
Rest in Peace Rap Legend.
You were there for us when needed 2pac the most.

Ahh I remember the days of ruff riders and how people (most especially we Nigerians) were arguing about you and ja rule being the next 2pac.

Oh DMX we're surely going to miss you. Please holla 2pac, Biggie, Big Pun and Dagrin for me.

u listen to big pun??..damn!!