₦airaland Forum

highcollide:
go and pursue them na.... Omo ale

Doing that already, don't worry be patient

Adiwana:
Feeling like a king behind your phone.They are in your city,go and do something about it and stop unnecessary noise online

I'm doing something about it. When was the last time you had a commissioner slot?

Compulsory yoruba language nko at the assembly level?

You'll soon need a residency card, don't worry. Its stel by step. We are watching...

highcollide:
Same on the yorubas for stooping so low.


The igbos live and pay their taxes in lagos. Why are you stopping them from exercising their rights?


The yorubas is the highest level of pettiness a tribe can be.

Which tax does a 2 by 2 ft shop owner pay? Okay, we don't want your tax, please go back to your state!

holajeedayy:
See u dey crazy....IBO no b Nigerian... Useless thing

Ode omo. What these pigs are doing in your states, you cant do it in theirs. Stop this useless sophistication! Yorubas, wake up.

Adiwana:
Always talking shit behind your keyboard.Go tell am for igbo person face make you no see your see 6ft.idiot

Ode,I tell them when I see them. Them no born make omo ina touch me. The next four years will be too hot for you and your likes in lagos... we are watching...inyamuri banza

We would not allow outsiders decide our political destiny in the SW or and Yoruba states.

Omo pdp go hear am for this election o. Especially Kwara #OTOGE

I'm a PDP member

I'm a PDP member but I pray Buhari wins. Igbos are only supporting Atiku because of Peter Obi and not because of the good of the country. Yorubas, you better listen.

nwanyionitsha:
That is the problem. They Won't go back.

Did you or any of your family members go back? Awon werey. I still prefer these hausa guys to you inyamari

Ambode! Ambode!! Ambode!!!

How many times did I call you?! You are proud and arrogant. No one likes you and if you continue on this path, then I pity your end. Your end will surely come because you never deserved the post in the first place.
Be very careful o!

aishapmbtoto:
They no fit. We shall resist them. Kilode.

You and who?!

Remove the ode jor. No one in Lagos likes him apart from the fo. Olish ipod spare parts sellers, and they like him just because he is against Tinubu.

Ambode, f.u.c..k off

They do not have a choice. Although, their support is irrelevant

Oga Sanwo olu, you might lose this election if you mention Igbos. They are inconsequential to any election. Who gives a flying f@#k if there is tension or not? . Nobody cares about those losers and so should you.

They are irrelevant. Face your election and win in peace. Add them to your matter and lose.

Vdsc:
Imagine if igbo pharmaceutical or electronics importers decide to form a cartel to control and dictate prices in Nigeria and make profits beyond the reach of the common man.

You would know who really controls Nigeria or ensure Nigeria works.

Oga, importation is cheap. There is no patent technology to import items. You can dictate shit all. Alibaba dey there so go and sit down. Useless chest beaters

Hmmm...this thread....see you in 2023. Buhari 2019 is a done deal.

Atiku the thief! I pity Nigerians. In as much as I dislike Buhari and all he stands for, Atiku will finally kill Nigeria.

Like Lagos like Calabar. Trouble makers everywhere you go.

henritinecy:
So I started dating this girl about this time last year. Things were rosy because I just came back to the country and I was having much money with me. I tried my best to give her what she wants. As times goes on, earlier on this year, we had a little misunderstanding and I initiated a breakup. Of a truth, the issue was minor and didn’t warrant a breakup. She sent my friends to beg me. We kept on going. Along the line, things became rough for me and suddenly, her respect for me started reducing. She hardly create time for us. She is currently in school in another state while I am in Lagos. At this point, we usually breakup up and come back. They were minor things though but sometimes we don’t talk for a while. The last time it happened, she said if we ever break up again, we are never coming back together. And then, When things started going wrong with me financially, she advised to leave the country that it will better me as well as her. But I declined. Gradually , our seeing time reduced. Sometimes she will be in Lagos and we will see just once or twice and she usually tell me that she is busy that’s why it’s like this.

Fast forward to last month. Her elder sister has a wedding and we needed to travel together. So we used my car. Half way into the journey my car engine knocked. The car had to be towed to Lagos while we continued our journey. She even provided part of te money we used in towing the car back to Lagos as well as paying the rest of the fare till we got to our destination. Meanwhile, She was talking to different guys on the phone though the conversations were not related to us but I felt this jealousy in me. While on the journey I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. I asked her to give me her phone and she did without arguing and even opened it. Then I returned it back to her without going through it. Then I asked her what I can do at this point. Cuz now there is no finance from anywhere coming in. As a matter of fact, I was using that particular car for Taxify and now the engine is down. She said she had told me before but I didn’t listen and that I should leave the country and things will be better for me again. I said okay am going to do it this time. So my mind was to come back to Lagos after the wedding and I sell it off. She was even crying while telling me.

On the day of the marriage I took another car from home and helped with the things I could. Taking her and her friends to and fro with respect to the wedding. The day after the wedding, she called me to come pick her from the hotel her friends that came for the wedding were lodging. I got there and we started taking things to the car I brought from the rooms her friends lodged. On our way to the car, a man stopped her and she was having a conversation with the man. And the man was laughing with her and even exchanging contact. This is a man in the 40s. At this point I was furious but I kept quiet. When she was done she came to the car and we set off for her house. She saw in me that I was angry. She then asked me what was wrong and I told her my mood has changed. She asked me to go drop her at the hotel and that when my mood is back on, I should come pick her. I then tuned back, and she came down. Cuz of the love I have for her, I didn’t want this to degenerate to something else. I came down I told her the act was wrong. She then told me if it’s wrong for her to talk to people and meet people because she is dating me. I said it’s not wrong but me being there, it’s disrespectful and besides there are ways she can tell me to excuse her in order to show that she is concerned about me. She then replied and said am speaking English. I felt so back with that statement. I just dropped her stuffs and drove back home.

When I got home, I sent her a long message on Instagram telling her that I cannot continue in this relationship. That I need my respect back and making money is the only value that will bring my respect back. She replied with just thanks. 3 days later, I couldn’t continue a life without her. I called her in the morning. At this point , she has blocked me from communicating with her on Instagram. I asked her to forgive me for what I said and that I was just frustrated with the way things ain’t going well with me, coupled with my car and finances. She told me that she cannot date me again and has moved on. I thought it was a joke. I kept on begging but she has made up her mind.

Last week, I started talking to her with a random account on Instagram and posed like someone that is interested in her and has feelings for her. I also told her that I am not in the country at the moment and will be back next month. For 5 consecutive days we were talking. She even initiated a video call and I declined. Then I asked her about her relationship and she said it’s complicated. That she hasn’t heard from the guy in 2 weeks. And explained all that happened to him. She revealed so many things to me via that conversation. Then I now called her with my number. She then knew I was the one. I started pleading with her again , telling her that I am sorry. She said she has moved on. That the only language she understands now is money which I cannot offer her. That she is tired of this love thing. That if I beg from now till forever , she is not interested. That I should go and make money. That she needs someone that can pay her bills and that the only thing she can do for me is being friends with me. Of a truth she needs money to pay her school fees plus accommodation fee in school which is upward from N300,000 and I cannot provide that now. So she said she needs someone that can be giving her money and that she has suffered enough; But dating me, she can never do that again.

I love this girl and it’s hard to let go. Maybe with time, I will. But how do I let go of what I feel for her and how can I move ahead at this point? Yes she has motivated me to go make money and be a better person. But it hurts me so bad that after making this money, some other lady will be the one spending the rest of my life with me. Yes I bleeped up by not listening to her when she first asked me to leave the country. And I bleeped up by initiating a breakup due to my frustration. But my heart lies with her and hopefully with time, I will heal and make enough money that this experience will be a thing that will make me smile when I look back and think about it.

Please anyone that has gotten over someone you have been so much emotionally attached to, I need your help towards getting over her because right now, the whole experience is killing me.

Thank You

Hello Henritinecy

I just finished reading your story and I felt deep compassion. I totally understand how you feel because I have been there and I can relate to your story. I also went through what you went through. Hmmm, those days were like hell on earth. Here are the things you need to understand and do because right now, no matter how you try, it's difficult to think straight.

1) You need to understand that she might have loved you but she's more interested in the money than you. Once you get money, she'll be back.

2) God made you dodge a bullet. That lady is NOT your wife. She was in your life to teach you a lesson about life itself.

3) Now is the time to work on yourself. Learn a trade, start a business, return abroad or get a job. What ever you do now must fuel your improvement and growth. Do not, I repeat, do not remain stagnant or wallow in self pity. You are a man and men are created when things are tough!

4) Sad truth is she has moved on

5) Do not call her again but you can pick her calls. On no circumstance should you accept her back into your life. You do not hate her but you do not love her. You'll lose more respect if you accept her back into your life.

6) Know that you'll get a better woman in your life. The new lady would be way better than this your ex.

So sorry bro...

Lastly, do not be isolated. Go to a friend's house, chat and socialise. It is well.

Anambralstson:
Lagos is former colony it's home for all both North, East, Central, Europeans, Philipinos, Indians, Asians and other foreigners, Lagos will remain cosmopolitan state till the world end, except your tribe men are ready to face those people I listed before you tribe can take control of the properties, so stop dreaming, you will rant Lagos belong us year to year nothing will happen.

You go go with Abuja too?

Anambralstson:
Lagos is former colony it's home for all both North, East, Central, Europeans, Philipinos, Indians, Asians and other foreigners, Lagos will remain cosmopolitan state till the world end, except your tribe men are ready to face those people I listed before you tribe can take control of the properties, so stop dreaming, you will rant Lagos belong us year to year nothing will happen.

I hear you. London and new york belong to us all. Make Nigeria split first oga na then you go know.

Anambralstson:
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Poor man mentality

She's right if Nigeria splits ....

Why do you people show-off ? Many Hausas, Yorubas and Niger-Deltans have bigger and better looking houses, yet, you'll not see this unnecessary call for attention. Why can't you just be humble for crying out loud ? Chest-beaters...

Lol

Favor99:
Yes Nnamdi Kanu Was saying a lot of good things about Edo people in a video last year. Even saying that Edo should be in Biafra. (Although he didn’t originally draw us in the map) He’s not like his followers that seem to hate us.
Yea but I like all ethnic groups.
Its wrong that we lost parts of our land like that.
Thanks for this write-up, I didn’t know about this

Who be this one?!

These Igbo people are just funny!!!

I'm yet to see a benin man say all these trash. Even *comfirmed* benins on this forum know what's up. Keep cumming on yourselves. It's allowed

Lol...

jumpandpas:
Shut up and stop posting rubbish online.

I'm sorry sir...

Jokes apart.

You can renew your lease agreement with the government but you do not own the property

jumpandpas:
Continue consoling yourself don't goan look for work or business to do thinking that after 99 years you'll inherit property Ndi Igbo.

There are Igbos that bought land here in Lagos 50yrs ago and some bought 10yrs ago while other will buy in the years to come, so how are you going to stop Ndi Igbo from buying your land when poverty and laziness hv not stopped in Afonja region?


Cc Immhotep Lzza onyeoga velocity25

Ask those Igbos to check how many years they have left. You'll be surprised...

mrskillz:
Your destiny to be back in the country was caused by you. You allowed to be led by an unstrategic, selfish, and a betraying commander whose father even forewarn. ( facts are not fictions).

You attempted to evade the the neutral west ( through your frontline warlord and a western -Banjo) when it seems you are winning the war. Dude, u lot actually deserve a quarter of a $.

Your success is so dependent on your host, and that will continue to be your misery.

You will be so sorry when Episode 2 commences

Hahaha! They don't know what's about to hit them...

Obi1kenobi:
See comedians, sha. Oya come to my house in Festac and come and claim it, nah. Do you want my address?

Pls send your address...

So you think this animosity your people the Igbos have been generating in Lagos wouldn't climax one day abi? Do other nationalities contest ownership with indigenes?

Issokay...continue