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I'm Yoruba but op na fool
Thunder fire u

maasoap:
Aregbe boys my yansh. The same way thugs sponsored by government are attacking prisons, police stations and causing other mayhem, right?
Is rave now an authority in investigation of who tried to kill a governor? And

apart from sycophants like u..everybody knew that state boys were behind d attack

maasoap:
I didn't make case for Buhari's handling of the situation, and I won't start now because I'm not in his cabinet and it's not my job.

But all these people started attacking because I expressed my fear and my non support for this unending protests. The governor of my state was nearly killed about 3 days ago. He escaped narrowly. Is that what I would be supporting? Never.

I'm from osun state..the governor(as confirmed by rave) was attacked by aregbe state boys..
Say anoda tin abeg.

maasoap:
Everyone has where he belongs to. But this is not about Buhari or APC.
Thousands of prisoners were set free in Edo state, that's enough to cause sleepless night for all neighbouring States.



Is this still about APC, PDP or Buhari?

What stop buhari sparing 10 minutes out of 24 hours to talk to the youths even if its a prepared speech.
He is talking try proxies and third parties and VP dey issue statement on Twitter.
Were they campaigning on Twitter and proxies when they were looking for votes?
If buhari has done the right thing,things will not have escalated to this stage but party men like u are blinded by the failure of the people they support.

maasoap:
Wrong mindset. Typical blackmail. Who told you it's about APC or Buhari? Must I support breakdown of law and order?

U always support anything APC or buhari.. Its evident in ur past posts.

maasoap:
Did I start that? May be you should go back and ask the right person, that's is if you are unbiased or still having a functional brain

Oya epeleee..
But u need to stop posting like a paid troll on nairaland.
Are u an APC official?
D way u carry buhari and APC put for head

maasoap:
Boring! The last time I checked, you were the one who was being given free food and drinks to remain a nuisance. Aye e maa baje ni. Oloriburuku mase anfaani

Lol Ogbeni ewo ni teepee gan?

maasoap:
Are you afraid of what you asked for? Brace up, it will happen once since that's the way you want it.

E kooribu daanu joo
Agbalagba tin see langbalangba
Amukumeko
Paid APC bot

mrNelsonT:
The life of one kid is just as important as those of the other 4 kids.

Am a father. I've of a 7-yr daughter and 5 yr old son. I can't imagine my kids losing their mother, then me remarrying only for my daughter to be maltreated. Won't be under my watch.

Should this woman leave, the 4 kids will still have a living mother n father. U can't say the same for the 10year old girl who no longer has a


mother. The other four kids are too witnessing
the chaos in the home. You cannot remove the kid, she's not the problem. The woman n her daughter picking on a little kid, are.

You can read op's post n tell he's a good father,
has been a good stepfather to the abusive 17-year old. Money no be problem for him, he go
still perform his duties for the other 4 kids he has with the woman.

U are well entitled to ur opinion though..but I never condone what the woman did,its terrible..
I'm not a fan of divorce either( where the situation can still be handled)

Nuelvee:
Everyone in that house needs to be enlightened including you
You beat your stepdaughter she beats your daughter, it's a very simple circle
Coming from a 17 years old and currently living with children btw the ages of 7-12 I can tell you that these children say things that hurt me and pretend to be all good when their parents arrive. Yes she's wrong for beating her to that point but you are the elder and you messed up from the top


Simply call both girls, tell them how much you love them, tell them to be nice to each other, monitor them, tell the older sister to get gifts for the younger, be nice to them, tell them to apologize to each other and teach the older one to laugh whenever they start misbehaving or
simply walk away from the environment. Apologize to your wife, teach her to love your children as well.
They stay with them longer than you do and you have no idea the shit they hear everyday trust me.


Do this and you will have your peace.
Sending either of the daughter's away is the first seed to destroy your marriage and Peace of mind.

Exactly what I'm trying to say but can't put together.

Boldz:
So you are trying to tell me because my wife doesn’t want my daughter so I have to abandon her on the street of Lagos for the sake of my other 4 children and to make my wife happy right ? No I can’t do that because I am all my first daughter have now she is not going anywhere and my wife chooses to take the 4 children with her I know they will not suffer because she is their biological mother she will never maltreat them since she want to leave with them it’s fine with me that won’t stop me from being their father , I will support them for
afar and if she want to stay with me and my daughter that’s also fine with me all I want is peace to reign in our house since she doesn’t want peace leaving is the best option

Don't misquote me pls,I never said what your wife did was right. Its very wrong..any form of verbal and physical assault and abuse is abhorrent..
My point is that you should also think of the 4 other kids in your decision, its not going to be that easy as u think...
Perhaps u can call back the stepdaughter to come back? And try to have a heart to heart talk with her alongside your daughter and wife...
I honestly believe the situation can still be handled better..(although only you know how where it pinches)

NoToPile:
I believe there's a better way to solve this

Would you really be okay if she goes with the kids, what if you expect she comes begging later on and she calls your bluff? Do you think the court will grant you custody of the children? Even if the court does, can you take care of 5 children yourself. Wouldn't it be better if you worked towards all of you living together happily

Think about the ripple effect of your actions, if your wife was on this thread I would tell her same but since she's not here it you we will address .

Take note of the bolded below.



Wish you the best.

Best advise so far...everyone else just commenting with their emotion.
People forget 4 other innocent kids are involved.

mrNelsonT:
Noting progressive abt sending away the child. I've two small kids. God forbid anything happens to my Queen, i no go remarry, but if I do i can't imagine sending my child out of my home. The child belongs in her father's house. Removing the child from the home could be part of the women's game plan all along, she may prevent the child from returning or brainwash op into refusing her return. So OP shouldn't give in to sending her away in the first place. Imagine her daughter punching the child, giving
her a black eye and telling OP her daughter had
the right to such. The mother may have joined in to beat the kid sef. OP himself isn't safe living the woman. In saner climate the abusers gets removed from the home n charged, while the child remains with the saner adult.

Ur emotion is just running high bro...do you also consider the emotional impact of leaving the house with their mother or their mother leaving them behind will also have on the other innocent 4 kids?
Should we save one kid to sacrifice 4?
I hate verbal and physical maltreatment like shi
But I believed the op can still handle things better.

Boldz:
Thanks you everyone for the great advice . she has insisted that my daughter must leave or she will leave with all 4 children , have told her my daughter will not go anywhere she will leave alone but she refused and keep fighting me I am tired of her madness I have made up my mind and told her to leave with all 4 children and we will meet in court. She made her choice and I am not going to stop her

Listen to sapore and notopile advise
I don't honestly think u should have sent the
stepdaughter away,...do you also think letting your wife walk away with 4 kids is not too hasty?
With all due respect, the life of your daughter is as crucial as those 4 other kids..
Tempers are still flaring...but I believe if u can retrospect maybe u can find ways of handling things in a better way so nobody will loose...
Pls settle this matter amicably and peacefully(maybe u have tried that though)at least for the sake of those 4 innocent kids.
God bless.

maasoap:
Lori iwo o, Awon obi re ti sowo se.

werey...mo pity obinrin to fee asinwin bi tiee shaa ewure

maasoap:
Violent death awaits stubborn egoat like u. Aja ti yoo sonu, kii gbo fere olode. I only pity your parents. Hope you are not the only child.

e keyin ofoo loo
oloribu eyaan
afofungbemu oshi

TecM0:
Someone that seats behind a phone to call a stranger mad already shows who his parents are and how he was raised

So no further talks


.

odee
afi techm0 noo
arindin

maasoap:
If you haven't figured out what will end these protests if it continues like this, it means that either you don't want to see reality or you're slow mentally. It's very clear that some people are now sponsoring the protests to keep it going despite the disbandment of SARS. We all know that the hidden agenda is to cause unrest and until many are sacrificed on the streets, the backers will not back down.

egbenu soun joo
apooda oshi
if u want to preach,go to a church to demonstrate your idiocy.
stupidd APC supporter always that will die with APC keep saying shii
mo pity iyawo e sha

seunmsg:
Are the protesters willing to negotiate with government?

The protest is seriously uncoordinated without any well articulated demands. When Segalink and Davido attempted to engage the IGP on behalf of the movement, they were insulted and shouted down. Basically, the protesters don’t know what they want.

Sadly, People with silly agenda are already raising millions to keep the protesters in the street forever. If they refuse to stop the protest by weekend and engage government on how to meet their demands, I will support the use of the military to disrupt the protest.

apooda..who knows u beyond nairaland..dis asinwin always feeling important
.werey Tinubu supporter

helinues:
We are yet to see the outcome of the dissolution of SARS.

Can't we at least give the government some time before staging another protest? First time officially that the government will listen to the masses not the political elites.

The #ENDSARS protest was about not wanting the miscreants called SARS to be harrasing us on our streets, with this constant protest, FG would have no choice than to send army which might more be brutal than the SARS.

We all want the best for the country but pls one step after the other.

oponu,didinrin akidanidani..helenu sonsoo

Cashsteady:
Have been to osogbo ibadan and akure.. I think abeokuta is a bit better than osogbo and akure only ibadan and ikeja i know are better than abk abeokuta roads are not that bad to

if u say so..
I think otherwise though.

Cashsteady:
Tbh abeokuta roads are one the best in Nigeria very wide and we'll paved just few feeder roads are bad and my brother reach ijebu ode u go no wetin Dem call bad roads even the major roads in ijebu ode are bad

Abeokuta roads aren't really that special...
TBH..Abk is actually one of SW worst capital cities..

yoruba1914:
Even the abeokuta sef,he has abandoned most of it. The worst is sango and ifo

no single tarred road in ifoo..a big town faa in this 2020..

Cashsteady:
Dear governor dapo abiodun come and fix our road no single good road in ijebu ode! This is my second time of posting this now.. laycon is not our problem come and fix our road the whole of ogun state is not abeokuta.. abeokuta is not the only place in ogun state come to ijebu ode and fix our roads are roads are getting bad everyday they are no longer motorable we need you here in ijebu ode come and fix our road!

Mr legendhero thinks otherwise..

NGpatriot:
Wetin concern Yoruba people with village ipobs.

Your own leaders don turn your dirty and stinking abia into Dubai?

Is the SE not the poorest region in Nigeria?

Are your leaders still not lining you up on the side of the road for 1 gallon of kerosene?

Are you are your people still not abandoning your jobless and unproductive towns and villages to seek your daily bread in the SW from Yoruba people?

I still don't know why you hateful and bitter people always forget to tell us what you've benefited from your useless village governors instead of killing yourselves over Tinubu and Yoruba people.

ajaa mi
my lovely Wuskyy