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Having attained such independent status, I can understand why most men would feel intimidated. Inferiority complex on the part of the men. . . who only feel established women are 'high-fliers'. I would not be loosing sleep on that account. She needs to concentrate on having her children. . .if she wants. No marriage necessary. A true companion as in a soul mate will be there down the road if it is meant to be.

I love her independence and would with more women would be like her.

AGREED! but not @ the bolded,it may happen elsewhere but not in Nigeria's content,any Nigerian's
lady that tells you that only taking it as her own fate after many trials. Remember that we are being influenced by society and families here!

@olaisrich,
you are taking us back to old age,surely.
Here we are working hard to relieve our parents the burden of taking care of grownups and then your talking about a 28 year old going back to her parent's house?? yet she earns her own money.She ought to be supporting them not being fed at her age!
when its marriage fine she's taken from the parents house then they(couple) decide wht to do with her house if it wasnt rented.
And who said she will get a hubby once she goes back??
Do you knw that some men prefer women that know how to take care of themselves and have proved it?
Women that take care of their own bills and stuff? Theres a big diffrence btwn a woman still living wth parents and that taking care of her bills.
On that note. Please NOT all women are untrustworthy just cz thy live on their own you know.You should meet some of them.

@ upendo
you got it all wrong here! we may be living in a modern world,whether we like or yes,the reflection of our moral and cultural backgrounds still shining bright on us,let be realistic here,we may be conservative in dating,but when it comes to marriage then it's necessary to cross every 't's and dot every 'i's. Though the condition might not applicable to every ladies,but even a lot of families see it honourable for there daughters to be married out from their domains than to be living alone.Also,a great lot of would be suitors can as well see it as door-opener for any dick and harry. It is ladies we are talking about here, the examples you gave above here is applicable to men,the fact she can comfortably pay her bills does not suggest that she should rent an apartment.

@ op, tell her to rent her apartment out and go back to her family house,
not all men will like unmarried lady to be living alone,it do create a wrong
impression at times!

You can kill urself on smbody that didn't love u! there was a girl that  was giving me sleepless
nights,i reached out to her and she was like hanging me on for about six months.I latter discovered
that she was considering an alternative who had not reached to her as an option therefore making
me an extra tyre,immediately i found out my love for her die a natural death.She later came around
which indicated that the one that she was waiting for never came,but it was more than too late for her. U know what? i loooooveeee my wife every second!

Rubishhhhhhhhhh! jobless poster!

Baba, why not take it in good faith the way the things are? in politics you can't win all the time,
or is this another strategy?

So, there is an estate called 'DUSTBIN', even if it were,why can't they give it a befitting name?

which one is super bite again? when did they start its production? it is Gala all the way, now
we used to buy it in Acrra once in a while i don't know how i came sha! whether smuggled or
not smhow we get it.

But if a christian NEVER speaks in tongues, does that make him less a christian? Does it mean he's not properly Born again?

i will answer your question buy this illustration!
if somebody buy a blackberry phone for his\her 90yrs old grandma,the woman will still
make use of the phone to call and receive call, but there are some other facilities such as browsing the internet,entertainment,digital tv name them, that she will not be able to utilised.

First, i will like to say  that speaking in tongues is a new testament gift that was packaged along with the salvation of all belivers,'this signs shall follow them that believe', that is why even after your salvation if you didn't believe it you won't receive it.God gave all believers for EDIFICATION to strenghten our spiritman,having an understanding of how weak and vunerable our cannal man can be.
Prepared and yeilded believers can receive this anytime the Holy Spirit came down either during personal prayers,worships and praises or congregational and it is called BAPTISM OF THE HOLY GHOST!
My advice to believers that had been baptized is to speak this tongues frequently as he\she receives the urges to speak it which is usually ushered in by worships,praise,praying,reading and meditation  of the word of God. And i will like to say that it will be a spiritual sucide to attend a church where they speak in tongues once in a while or where you are the only one that speaks it.Speaking in tongues is not preached to the unbelievers it is the salvation we are told to preach to them,anyone that want to know that mysery have to born again first.

secondly, there is another gift of tongues and interpretation which is a ministry gift of the Holy Spirit, God decorated the Corinthians church with divers ministry gifts to the extent that majority of them have the gift of speaking and interpretations of tongues,here comes the need for orderliness to eradicate confussions.
there is difference btw the first and second, but first is a prequisite for the second,not everybody can have the second,but first is common to all!

this is highly problematic, Messi won't show mercy oooooo
make we tactfully reject am abeg. we no need another huge lose o

If we are sure that we can beat them with there full squard,why must we be afraid
of meetin them again?

pls provide the link!

I guess u are right about that.I will remember that for the rest of my life. My father always tells me that it is worth it to get married back in his days but its never worth it to marry in this centurry and one should just consider being single for the rest of their life and focus more on building the economy. I think he is most definitely right

which Father will give this kind of advice?
smbody cooked topic for whatever reasons and you are all falling for it with a much pity
and just within 5 days they re-united again,life is more technical than that,there are many
questions begging for an answer here,abegiiii!

i don sleep jor!

it never happened before! maybe you are imagining it. when you said both of you give yourselves
6 months to one years i already knew it wasn't a break up!

Iyalaje sorry for my comment! not mean to be rude, but judging by the erratic or rather epileptic situation of
electricity in Nigeria as a whole made me to say that, not knowing you 've provided an alternative.

Meanwhile there other Real Estate companies that are advertising for 1.8m in that Ogombo,and can you be a little more flexible
about your payment method?

what are you doing? there are three notable university that i know of!
1.University of Ghana- East Legon,Accra-Greater Accra Region

2.Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Tech. Kumasi-Ashanti Region

3.University of Cape Coast-Cape Coast -Central region

just google them one by one you will see a link that lead to there website,
then you see all there admission requirement.I will like to tell you categorically
that schooling in Ghana is not expensive more than the one we have in Nigeria,
it can only be influence by your accomodation in a situation where you don't
have any relation around that can accomondate you.

all this marketers wt there sweet mouth, even Aso Rock doesn't have 24hrs electricity!

Breaking forth in everysides! am proud to be part of this commission, i am in Ghana and i worship @ Tema

i was elated when i read that he will re-introduce inspectors in schools. I remenber when i was i pry school,whenever there was an information that inspectors were coming to our school all those lackadaisical teachers would start to adjust themselves to get serious in order not to get fired,i think it will instill discipline on the part of teachers.

i think the fine to be paid by defaultee is too small. just 100k?

That phenomenon is a common thing in Nigeria, what if somebody pitched premier league viewing center
close to your house? if it has to be in US or UK you can call on police to help you,but here in Nigeria you may
be the one to relocate. I think things were different during the regime of Tunde Idiagbon!

If this news is true,it came in a bad time! At this time of inauguration of new politcal
dispensation in our country, when the expectations of the populace is high to the 7th
cloud,having a premonition that the citizen of our dear nation may be denied justice
of this advanced lootery.It's a kind of demoralizing, you know?.

Offtopic
NB: Nairalanders If you know anyone who deals in or can supply me GOLD DUST that can be confirmed in Nigeria, pls let me know (send me a Nairaland PM in my inbox) . Serious Foreign Ready Buyer Available.

Thank you.

how can i reach you? no email, no phone numbers!

true,but if you check the dynamics,most of the transactions will probably be one off payment transactions besides people who deal in cash maybe the average mallam selling cows,rams e.t.c will re shedule and adjust their businesses to meet the demands of the contemporary business in nigeria.
lets not lose sight of what we are talking about here,your cheque ,money transfer e.t.c will still be operational besides you can always do a before and after cash withdrawal i.e withdraw before 12 am and then another withdrawal early next day.
besides the cash withdrawal limit will be based to a large extent on the volume of cash on a day to day basis so your account manager will be given a clear discrestion on increasing the limit,i am sure you will agree with me that a situation where an old man who just lodged his pension in his account and then checking 3 days later to find zero credit will be delighted with these sort of checks and balances.

see the way you rap up everything everything as if you are one of the CBN board of Directors,cool! implement it and see chaos,
most of the advanced country that we are emulating had started long ago! that is why we call them advanced, the level
of literacy here cannot be compare with there even as at today,what of ignorance and babarism?,do we even have the data base
of all the citizen of this country? even subsiquent election we have to line up and reregiser, all these are important for this cashless bruohaha that you are yarning for.

remember less than 10 years ago,a lot didnt even know how to open their emails,internet cafe operators collected 200naira or more to help register for a yahoo email these days virtually everyone has a basic knowledge.
the advantages far outweight the reservations you have stated

That is exactly my point! if you re-examing my post very well you will see that i mentioned
those vulnerable masses hiring smbody to do that for them,but my concern is the inherent
security risk that it posed!

32 yrs was not enough for MOBUTU SESEKO, 42 yrs was not enough for GADDAFI,
30 yrs was not enough for BEN AHLY,heheeeee! i dey laugh oooo!

my concerns go to the illiterate,which will also affect the elite
imaging you want to pay your mechanics,mason,capenters and all the likes who
were predominantly illiterate, how will you go about it? or do they going
to have  literate middlemen that will handle their transaction for them?
what about the security aspect when even banks nowadays are seriously warning
their online customers not to disclose their logging details? we  have a looooong
way to go,let test runs it see!

Someone should help me with this.

I want to buy bulk Gold from Mali/Ghana(I resell in Nigeria) but Mali/Ghana doesn't operate a cashless society,how do i get the much needed fund from Lagos,Nigeria to Mali/Ghana after the imposition of the N150k cash limit when i am buying a N1m worth of Gold?

then you will open a cooporate account that will allow you to withdraw up to a million Naira aday, shikena!