₦airaland Forum

How To Get Rid Of Homosexuality: The Best Way
Does the person have to go about seeking prayers or just control his body through God’s word?” Now, it depends on the
seriousness of the condition. There are
three levels of homosexuality and, in fact, many other practices that people are
involved in.
The first one is:
1.) The level of fascination:
Now, at the level of fascination, you can, through your meditation on God’s word [you know], get rid of it yourself; you can! You meditate on God’s word and by changing your mind, you would [you can] effect changes in your way of life, and that’ll be the end of homosexuality; but you’ve got to make up your mind for that.
.
2.) The second level isthelevel of habit:
Now, at the level of habit, you are more
or less under the control of your own mind, but a way of life that has now…
because, in the beginning, we control
[we create] our habits, but in the end, our habits produce a character for us. So, once
it has come to the second level of a habit,
you would need to break it through
another habit; which means, you have to
develop a new habit of consciousness of
the word of God. That’s a little more difficult for younger Christians. But it is
possible, and necessary, if you are
already at the level of habit, which is the
second level. It does mean that you
would need to produce or create a new
habit – the habit of not doing it – the habit of replacing your thoughts with
certain thoughts of God and being in
certain places instead of what would
normally attract your attention or your
interest to homosexuality. So, you
develop a new kind of habit. Like I said, it requires a lot more discipline than the
first level.
.
3.) Now, the third level is where you
would require someone to help you:
Your Pastor will be able to help you. Of course, any other more mature Christian can do that for you, but, always better when you talk with your Pastor. That third level is the demonic level. Now, the demonic level is where a demon has now taken advantage of what you were fascinated with that became a habit, and began to control your mind to this level where this demon, having observed you and observed your interest, has taken a hold of you in this area of your life. And so, [it] can make you subject to his dictates—anytime. You are now in bondage. See, it’s come to a demonic level; you are now in bondage to that devil. You have yielded to that devil and that devil must be cast out. It must be cast out of your mind, out of your system, before you will be free.
Now, can you do that yourself? Oh, yes! It is possible also; but, it does require more knowledge of the word, more….a better understanding of the scriptures and definiteness of purpose.
.
You make up your mind [that] this is
what you want and you’re going to have to have it this way. And then, you ask
that devil to go and you’ll have to trust, in
faith, that that devil heard you. But if you
go to someone who’s more mature than
you, it’ll be far better because he’ll cast
that devil out of you and you’ll keep the devil out. So, that’s why I said it depends
on which of these levels the homosexual
is: fascination level, habit level or the
demonic level.
Now, you say, “how can one know?”
Okay. How can you know what level you’re in? That’s why I said you better go
to your Pastor and say, “look, this is what
I’ve been doing” and, through the Spirit
of God and by ministering to you, he can
tell how far-gone you are. And, if you’ve
been trying to get out of it yourself, you would know because of the difficulty
you’ve experienced in trying to come out
of it; you can tell at what level you might
have found yourself.
.
Source:
https://0./142269946964?view=permalink&id=10153308287661965&refid=18&_ft_=qid.6257133933118411338%3Amf_story_key.10153308287661965%3Atl_objid.10153308287661965&__tn__=%2As

If true,
She is yet to be your Wife, and you are very proud about it to the extent that you went as far as publishing on Nairaland, posting the A - Z of your seemingly shameful s¤xual excapade with your girlfriend/s¤xfriend.
Wise up and decist from this immature behaviour of yours.
#Woman wrapper!

Nice research work you've done.
Please OP, try and modify the post by seperating those points with paragraphs to make it more interesting to read... You know Nairalanders especially the 'Ladies' love reading interesting piece/articles well written, orderly, sensible and insightful as this one.

Am just thankfut that Jehovah gifted me with those traits and many more... #Thank you Lord!

If what is written up there is TRUE, i would advice you reset your thoughts about her to Default. I wonder how people don't think about the seemingly negative consequencies that will inevitably befall them before taking odd and evil steps...
#Wisdom is profitable. Evil is destructable!

My Dad told me this on several occassions that ''the worst thing you can do to a woman is to reject her food. And it's very true, mostly if the woman truly loves you.
#Though no one like rejection in the first place

...It's so painful seeing the way 'some people,' treat other peoples children as animals, tools and the likes.
The worst is the insults these children receive from those they live with. This is the main reason why some parents do not allow their child/children live with anybody for fear of Molestation, Deprivity, Abuse etc.

Naturally, it's not Wrong, but our immediate society see it so.
Mind you, if at all you want to say to a Nigerian Boo with her Nigerian Bae, you have to use Common Sense because if you do it other ways, you may be overdoing it thereby doing the Right thing the Wrong way which will inturn make the guy angry and eventually get jealouse.
And lastly, you have to know the everyone has a hidden trait of jealousy in them and some can't stand it.

thelish:
Shebi, if the sister dies from d abuse of the marriage, the said outsider will be d one to bear d grief n sorrow. Can u watch ur sister or brother suffer without interfering? Na so marriage don hold water reach?
U r talking of her praying n fasting, The question is, is d man ready to change? Abi person go just dey abandon food cos of one yeye man?
Abeg help us fast n pray make Buhari bring d change wey he promise ooo. Since ur own prayer n fasting dey cause wonders.

I got your point dear. But try and understand what i said. ''Helping and Supporting your ELDER sister to pack out of her matrimonial home'' is never a solution.
And last i checked, talking about if the man is willing to change'' you have to note that 'You cannot change anybody, only if you LET God intervene...'

Two wrongs never make a right.
If what you said is TRUE, i would advice you to talk to your wife calmly about the length she's going about this issue. I can say she is doing BUSYBODY in another couple affairs no matter how close or pained she is about her sister's plight. She is married and should understand that issues of the marriage can be restored rather than helping her sister to PACK-OUT.
Has she ever PRAY for her sister's marriage?
Has she ever FASTED for/with her sister concerning the marriage?
Has she ever contributed to the betterment of her sister's marriage in anyway?
Yet, she want to help her sister PACK-OUT of her husbands house/marriage.
It's unheard of.
Truth is, she is contibuting to her sister's Destruction of marriage with other folks involved. She should be ashame of this.
Am not supporting any part on this, but there should be a kind of responsibleness and responsibility from both couple's families/relatives in resolving their issues.
Can't they solve the problem?
Can't they call both party to order?
Can't both families settle the couples marriage issues amicably as elders?
.
Talk to your wife to withdraw from where she is dipping her legs. She should understand how marriage works. You don't interfer to some extent in other peoples' marriage to some extent.
#I just hope she wont put you in trouble.
Talk to your wife! Talk to your wife!!

We have always been living under the influence of the Society, where society dictates everything for us, forgeting the seemingly consequencies.
Last i checked, it was not written anywhere in the Scripture ''the Ripe age for marriage.''
It has always been two people, who have made up their mind to become Husband & Wife in all ramification, ready to do what it all entails as couples, two people that have Dreams, Focus and Purpose, two people coming together, (not trying to change each other), but striving to make each other better than they met them. Most importantly two people coming together to be Help-Meet to each other without 'Selfishness, Self-centeredness,' but Selfless...

Hehehe... My Surname means: Wealth

doingood:
What should I do. This time i've reported the case to d parent and the parent even flog her and treating to disown her. What should I do as she had 2 kids for me. My daughter is 7 and the boy is 1yr.

I know you are waiting to hear ''Divorce Her'' but it won't come from me...
What she did was wrong and painful though, I imploy you to Forgive her, even Seven Hundred and Seven Times... And both of you should make effort and make your marriage work out.
#Love is free, it's the maintenance that is expensive!!!

Very insightful.
No wonder whenever you ask/interview a Footballer for instance and ask him/her what made him/her become a good football, all their answers stay-put to ''I have always dreamt of becoming a footballer like so, so and soo.
#Dream Big and Let you Dream Motivate you towards taking actions step-by-step...

Instead of those Eastern, Western and Southern applicants to Apply in schools in Zamfara and Adamawa, they won't. All they know is BH and their Bomblast! Bomblast!! Bomblast!!!
They reason as if there are no more humans living anymore in the Northern States.
#Exclusive Team Northern School Student from the West...

The Subject/Title should Simply be ''Ex-Minister's son beat up wife, not the way you put it up there OP. That name fellowand (GEJ) and his name should be respected please...

A niece of mine Pinged me last night with the following words, i was really touched when i peruse though, unfortunately i was shorts of words to advice her with and i told her i will get back to her to.
.
Please Nairalanders, help me out on this one with advice that you know can help someone like her, because I don't want to 'just' say words to her unprofessional
This was her ping:

1. How can an Undergraduate who can read and write very well, but discovered that he/she don't 'feel like' reading anymore.
2. He/she starts to loose the passion to read and his reading level depreciate drastically to the lowest level.
3. He/she starts failing his courses as an Undergraduate.
Questions:
How can he/she pick up?
How can he/she start to develop his/her passion to read and not just to read, but to read and understand what he/she has/his read(ing) and
How can he/she eventually increase in his academics performance as an undergraduate student?

...since i was born and now am a youth, I have always seen Data Bundles reducing and reducing from back to back to back ranging from AIRTEL - ETISALAT - GLO - MTN. So, the CHANGE has always been there, but it's now very Visbible to the Blinds and Profound to the deaf.
#Team Cheap Data Bundles...

Yello! To know the Next Planet our President will travel to, Text 'PLANET' to 34040.

There are Four (4) sides to this story;
1. The Woman's side,
2. The Husband's side,
3. Her Mother-in-law side and,
4. What really happened.
Though what is happening to her is very painful.
At this point in her life, any advice that comes her way and favours her, is GOOD to her, not minding the advicer and the consequencies...
.
michymeg, i think you can play a good part in her life at this point. Talk to her, let her understand that she has Dignity, Worth and Value.
(This may sound foolish), let her go to her husband with an open mind, kneeling before him and plead her case, telling the husband to forgive her all her wrongs and flaws... This as it seems, can change her marriage life forever, instead of it to be a forever shame/ridicule...
(These wont make the woman cheap or lower her status because he's her husband and she is in control of her home and marriage only if she knows).
.
These will melt the husband's heart, dissarm his ego and wildness. Above all, his conscience will tell him the truth even if he tries to act i-don't-care physically. From there, the man may decide to make amend and come to the reality that He chosed to marry his wife, not his mother or at his mother's will.
#My-opinion.

bigheart2013:
...all of which is not part of her natural attributes, how can you tell she is a beautiful woman at first sight? Thanks

I don't know if am disgressing a bit from your original question, ... The truth is that true beauty is not about looks or physical appearance, but it's about Attitude and Character. Mind you, beauty can never keep you in any relationship/marriage. After everything about the Physical has faded away, it's the real thing that will count, Her Attitude/Character/Behaviour which are/is her real personality.
#Don't go for looks, but Attitude/Character.

If you are only interested in making cheaper calls, i will personally suggest MTN Zone for you.
I actually discovered that
MTN Zone charges 12kobo per seconds around (7 Naira per minute) from 9pm to around 5:45pm the following day TO ALL NETWORK, and 28kobo per seconds (15 Naira per minute) TO ALL NETWORK from 5:45pm to around 8:59pm same day.
NOTE
MTN Zone do not give 10MB on recharge and they don't give bonuses too...
I hope this help a little.

Thank God for them. Finally, their lives will have a new meaning to them and the Society at large.
#Say No To Cultism/Evil.

This is an awesone research. This alone can make reasonable 'drunker(s)' stop the act or rethink because it's reality.

I got the OP's message. It's never a wrong thing to ask for help from the male folks. Though, all men are not the same, but what she is trying to say is that Some of the men doing this should be matured and upright. What's the Big deal in rendering assistance (mostly ladies) without any wrong motive, selfishness or self-centeredness.
#Think before you act.

orisa37:
Congratulations to Deji and Keji for making Humans proud of your achievements. "vox populi vox dei". The Lord will continue to uphold the best in the two of you.

Please what's the meaning of the bolded words in English?

Though for not coming to appreciate your mum for once atleast is wrong of her. But Two wrong they say cannot make a right. You know she is wrong, but you shouldn't allow her immature attitude affect you because it doesn't change your high status in anyway.
The truth is, her Conscience is fighting her, she is just pretending to be unconcerned. And you know what it means when your conscience is fighting you.
Be that matured guy you've always been, and don't let this her act make you think below your original status.
#Ignore her because the Law-of-Karma is real and it will definitely work on her.

It doesn't matter the language they speak or understand, once you mention MONEY, understanding will come by force from nowhere.
#Money is a good assets.
#God has PICKED my call.

Mr. sanyakola, please can you elucidate for me please, so i can understand how it works?