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baby124:
Be patient and work on yourself. If she sees you have genuinely changed then she will probably give a last chance. Just communicate to her that you are working on changing and you need forgiveness. Hope you didn’t give her STD sha. Try run complete health check on yourself too.

emmanuelbrown26:
Eyaaaa, u are a remorseful man. But since u hv tried asking for forgiveness and it work, move on. I still repeat, na only cheating u do, u no kill anybody.

curiousmind11:
In many cultures, there are different adages or wise-sayings that interpret as "any marital conflict is settled on the bed". Many have taken this to means whenever couples who had any conflict have intimacy, that conflict is automatically erased.
What should the order of things be?
A. Seducing your partner into love making and forgetting the conflict or misunderstanding?
B. Talking things over, then rewarding yourself with a good lovemaking?

Why do I ask?
My partner believes that if I am upset about something, we just need to have sex. Once sex is involved then I cannot air my grievance. If I insist about talking things over, she will label me "unforgiving", "wicked" etc. She hardly demand for sex, except when she knows I am angry.

How do I deal with this lifestyle?

Truvelisback:
Bro, already, it's too late. U don already Shit for Church.

baby124:

Obviously this OP has been convincing himself that he’s too good for the woman he can sleep with unprotected. I now see the reason why he thinks he can give her 12 miserable years and demand she accept him back immediately.

He’s convinced he’s better than her. Lol. Most likely the outside girl used and dumped him terribly. Now his eyes have cleared and it’s looking like he has lost at both sides.

Ishilove:
What made you change your mind?

Mariangeles:
How unfortunate.

What about you?
What do you really want?
Are you willing to give up without trying to win her back?
Is she not worth fighting for or is it that you just don’t love her?
Are you going to just let 12years of marriage go down without a fight?

emmanuelbrown26:
op since u hv tries yourpossible best, to win her back and it didnt yield positive result, just move on, after all u no kill anybody na only cheat u do.
Op are u afraid of being alone or u are afraid of something we are yet to know

Blue86:
JESUS CAN HEAL THE HURTS.

RUN to The Lord Christ for help, not Run from.

Mariangeles:
Going by your previous threads, you’ve done so so much to deliberately hurt your wife, and in every possible way a man can.

If you sincerely want your wife back, you have to work to win her heart all over again. No be chyce o!
You have to woo her all over again.
You have to find a way to get through to her, though it might take time for her heart to trust you again, considering what you’ve put her through, but there might still be hope.
She’s your wife and she’s worth fighting for.
My Father told me it's all over after talking with her .my mum said same thing.i begged her best friend to beg on my behalf but all to no avail.I really hurt her and all I can do now is wish her the best and hope she finds better love in future

olabrinks:
How old is your wife and how many kids do you have

eyinjuege:
Please move on.
She deserves better and has had enough of the disrespect.
You'll be alright last last

Bolaji26:
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He may not have money on him.to buy his rank badge as at the time his promotion came out, maybe around middle of the month when money no dey person hand again.


But they don't use money to process promotion, it comes automatically when due.

JavaScript90:
lol, see scam format. I am sure he must have been dismissed in the first place due to his fraudulent nature

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Mhisnightbee:
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simultaneousboi:
Op, I am a Naval Personnel, I joined Navy with ND also, immediately after my NYSC. My sincere advice to you tonight is to join Navy if you have the privilege/opportunity, you will not regrate it at last. Moreover, your discipline during your ND program determines the field you will join in the Navy. You will enjoy the job most if your discipline is medically related. This is because all your posting(we call it drafting) will be from one hospital to another, you will hardly handle riffle(unless the need arises). You can still run your business while you are working(as far as you have somebody managing it for you). I myself is making a plan of opening a chemist shop for by babe to manage cos she has the knowledge. You will be given one rank ahead of your mate that joined with O-level, and those that joined with ND in another branch other than medical branch, engineering department and computer department. If you are eventually given a rank above your mate, that have automatically place your salary[which is roughly above 100k(basic salary and allowances)] almost 2x your mate with O-level. I may not be able to tell you everything you need to know here due to some reasons, but am asuring you that the advice am giving you now is the same advice that I will give to my blood brother if he is the one.
Note: You will not have a full time for yourself as soon as you join Nigerian Military. Your service owns you, they release you when they want(though you will have a benefit of annual leave).
Follow this advice and thank me later.

spiceadole:
Nigerian Police is useless.. if not, the husband should be thoroughly investigated.. he is a prime suspect.
This looks like a planned act.. The case of a man getting rid of his wife and children for whatever reasons.

Let the wife's family go underground to make findings... I won't be surprised to read "Man who lost wife and children in Jos fire incident marries late wife's best friend(with pregnancy sef)" in few months.