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ABACHA STOVE

I no fit even talk my own…but my sincere advise is that ..men ‘’ don’t get married to a woman just because she got pregnant for you’’ .

Orlu13:
see how many fellow man is writing a long story cos of woman...

bfr the emergence of simp like dis op, women are usually d ones writing sob stories

These days see able bodied men writing Lamentations on top of a woman wen women plenty everywhere

indeed real men have died during slave trade nd during wars...we are now left with SIMPs....

ur mates are there controlling 3-4 women, u are here crying.. God

Op if u were my brother, I would have disowned u

laugh wan finish me

blahc007:
Your relationship was gone since 2023....that's just the realest fact bro

Walking away from someone you are emotionally attached to is very difficult, but bro you got to walk away.

It will hurt, but you will be fine....take it from a bro who have seen it all.

When a lady is in love with another guy aside her man, the relationship is gone and gone forever.....

The remedy to this is just to try your best to let her be....

Guess what..... HER EYE GO CLEAR SOON....I know this one like I know the size of my blokos..

You see women, they trully need serious prayers.....they are always a victim of there own emotion.....imagine sacrificing a 7 year relationship on the alter of her own lust....it's surely going to end in serious weeping..e go do am voom for eye.....I have seen this before, I have been there,....so believe me.

Count your loses and move on....please don't cry inside oo...don't bottle up emotions...

Talk to real Gees..., but when your are alone, make sure you cry well....I mean, cry like a baby....wipe your tears and come out....

That's how to heal fast....like I said, take it from a nigga who have seen and experienced shit...

Nothing fit shock me again for this life

same here man, same here.

Bintasukai:
Bro don’t listen to all these red pillers of nairaland. Na dem go ruin your relationship pata pata. Relationship of 7 years? Haba. You need to die dia. Show her that she is important, show her that you know you are not worthy of her love, that you know she is just managing you, she will pity you. Na mind games bro. She is just testing you, so that she can know that you will love her regardless of her missteps. Bro, go harder. Spend money on her. If she no gree, tell her you don’t mind being the second guy. If she doesn’t take you serious, tell her that you are willing to prove that you are ready to take the back seat, tell her you are willing to watch whenever they are having segs. That she will see you won’t get angry, and if you get angry, she has the permission to leave you finally. You will get her back with all this game I have taught you, don’t worry. Being a simp is not a bad thing, okay. These other guys are just incapable of loving.

Wetin be this?

koyeni:
I dont seem to understand young men these days.
When a woman knows you don't give a damn abt losing her... you've just won her.
You can imagine a man saying he doesn't feel loved. You no well sir

walahitallahi

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

she will end up giving you another man’s child if you force her to love or Marry you. The reality is that she is done with you. Move on bro…if u like no hear.. U go later regret am

You ll complicate issues by monitoring your wife here and there, it's not easy living in a new environment. Don't let her have any cause to do what is wrong. Give her the freedom to explore and settle down......please

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oluwaseunamos33:
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how I fit join bro?

Oga, hurt her so badly but be careful of what anger can do..don't because of one yeye girl end up ur life for prison. If u know u can't cope with her..let her go. Ladies plenty for inside life wey go even offer u better things. My small pieces of advice.

Goya ameno...your face no show, your shoe no shine, you blow? Who Sabi you?..your father, i go school pass you, I get money pass ur father. Dey Sabi u for trenches? - zazu voice

I got this pretty pretty lady wey no like no stress. Big wiz

Smith414:
always half picture, I bet saw people dey below hold him legs make e nor fall

u get bad mouth

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#agbado

This one na real agbado.

ufotunang:
So you do not know that when you sleep with a girl that there is 99% chance of her getting pregnant...condom you people will not want to use ..you both the girl and the boy will say i like it raw ..I enjoy it without condom..then you can see the result of liking raw sex..you have to take the responsibility ....

op is NIGGA RAW relative...na why

ccjoe:
bro I'm not always like DAT..I'm a very god fearing person..it was jxt an accident...so I'm not in that class atall..thank u

God fear wetin I hear u talk

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fowl pit I see

5iine:
Yorubas will sell Nigeria to the Fulanis.


Nigeria will get worst the more.


More calls for separation


These I have seen!

you are not false prophet ogbeni.

My brother leave that lady now...if you can summon your courage and do so now at the end you will be really really glad. Let me tell you something bro...the truth is bitter but I ll say my own. If you go ahead and marry this lady. 1. She will be the one to cut your life short, I can see u love her more than she do.

2. Be expecting more children that are bastards when u marry her.

3. Be expecting more regret and reproach when you finally marry her. Pls leave her....I have said my own. Ire o

Oshokhai69:
All fake

in wike voice

You better be grateful that God took that yeye job from u....most times blessings are always in disguise...

E dun cast...last last na everybody go chop breakfast.......

Total disaster

Father we bless you for the life of your son..

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RapistOnBail:

Just like me.

I fit finish 900k within 5 days max.

Na food Dey chop my money sha

i can spend that for 1 year bro...

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