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We are not in the position to say it is right or wrong to visit your prophets. But when clients visited for advice or guide, we don't hold back our professional views and prowess. Here, in this article, we shall discuss why you might be disappointed even though you've only visited your pastor for his blessings and to seek for guides on your relationship. 1. IF YOU ARE LAZY AND CAN'T SEEK GOD'S FACE ON YOUR OWN The first reason why you might likely regret asking your pastor to pray over your relationship is your laziness. Most often than not, people who have sought their pastors' decision on their relationships come with disappointment, this we gathered in the experience of our work. When you visit the man of God premeditated, what you'd get is likely going to be different form what you actually expected. That's disappointment. A situation that's avoidable, if only you've been able to go down on your kneels and make your findings by yourself from your creator. Being lazy in determining the right person isn't restricted to prayer alone. Simple act of attending relationship seminars, reading of relationship books and articles like this are part of what many fail to invest in, therefore, ending at the mercy of whoever is suggested to them by their family or friends as experts in choosing the right partner. We can't begin to give the statistical data of how many have been given positive responses to their prayers' requests on their relationships and just few years down the lane in marriage, they came back crying of being misled by their men of God. 2. IF HE'S CONFUSED Oh, we can't wait to let this out. This happens most of the time and our clients only told us the truth, when they realised they couldn't hide the truth again. This is a situation where someone visits his her prophet or pastor with 4, 5 or 6 partners' name. To the extent of giving the man of God the list of a mixture of names that didn't exist. Some people are mean! Remember, we are talking about men of God here. We aren't talking about God. God isn't confused but men can be. You have already set the man up for failure or confused replies, if you do this. This is one of the reasons we also recommend that all the Church of God have marriage counselling team set up in their church to help people. This would have been very helpful before capping it with prayers. 3. IF YOU ARE ALREADY HAVING SEX This is a bit spiritual and psychological. We found out that people actually go out to pray about some of their partners after they've been engaging in sex together. Many do come back disappointed because the man of God couldn't profer an answer to their requests. And atimes, the man God couldn't give a direct answer to the obvious and the seeker would be let down. Quoting one of our clients, "The prophet said if we have been having sex he wouldn't be able to give me an accurate answer. I just wondered what it had to do with it." This is a prophet this client trusted with his life. The man is "tested and trusted" according to our client. In another incident, a lady chose to go for the only man she had had sex with and she was backed by her pastor. They were wrong and the marriage was ended in short time. We have many stories to support our views on this. 4. IF YOUR PARENTS DON'T WANT IT TO HAPPEN If your parents aren't in support of your relationship, don't go too far, it's not likely you would be favoured by your pastor or prophets. Parents are a great influence on their children relationship final decision in this part of the world. It's not as if men of God were instruments to putting asunder to what the Lord has put together. But men of God know the place of parents as the ones their children must respect so much. Especially when the aftermath of whatever their children decisions are will eventually fall on the parents in quest. While speaking in the counsel room, we usually count the number of times people mention their parents, especially, mothers, in their explanation. The attachment is so real that the men of God don't find it easy to go against the parents in their final submissions to the seekers. 5. SEEKING DIFFERENT OPINIONS Some people are good in going from one place to another to finding solution to an already solved matter. If you talk to Prophet A and later in the day move to Pastor B and Alfa C in the night, looking for answers, you are already confused and you would do more harm to yourself than good. Just like someone said, there is no better way to get confused in your relationships than going around hearing contradictory messages. In all this, we advised, praying on your path of life, reading relationship books, articles, attending seminars and talking to professionals, if you must do well and have a healthy relationship. |
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Sex is a tool and mustn't be used wrongly. That's why it must not be found in wrong hands. If someone handles tools he or she isn't trained or qualified to handle, the result is better imagined than experienced. Here are some things you need to know if you are new to sex. And if you are already a guru, this is what you need to always keep in mind. 1. SEX IS FOR THE MARRIED Wether you are married or single as long as you are having access to this information, it is my joy to tell or remind you that sex is strictly for the married. Singles should stay off sex. It doesn't matter what age you are, as long as you are not married, having sex should be the least thing you should be worried about. We can't continue to encourage baby mamas and baby daddies and continue to settle fight among teens on different homes, families or social media. Let's not encourage child bearing out of wedlock. It's not the best for our society. 2. SEX IS A BOND Sex is used to seal marriage union between husband and wife. This is another reason why singles are discouraged from engaging in sex. Engaging in sex with someone you are not married to can only make you become bonded when you are not supposed to be. Little wonder, suicide between your girls and guys are on the rise. How do you continue to live your life when someone you are bonded with break up with you and you are not mature enough to handle such incident in this stage of your life? Until you can handle marriage and all that comes with it, you should stay clear of sex. And you can't boast of being able to handle marriage until you are married. 3. SEX IS PLEASURE Sex should be enjoyed. It is pleasure. But it is a taboo and poison for those that are not qualified. Poison kills and taboo is forbidden. Who are those not qualified? The singles aren't qualified if they don't want to play with poison. Married people that are still engaging in sex only for procreation are missing a lot. Sex is not meant to engage in only when you want to make the next baby. Sex is fun and it must be enjoyed. Gone were the days, when our fathers only go to their wives when it is time to make babies. Now, we've seen it that apart from having such plan as making babies, married people can enjoy sex. 4. SEX IS AN EXERCISE Sex, we've been told is a form of exercise. It is said to be capable of helping to burn some calories in the system. It aids and supports good sleeping pattern as well. Also, it clears headaches. In as much as exercise is good and should be engaged in at a regular basis, one can still engage in sex even though one hasn't relaxed on bodily exercises. It is worthy of note that sex as a form of exercise can't be substituted for the real exercise in any way. They both have their places. So, always remember, when you engage in sex, you are indirectly doing exercise of your bodies, which is good for man kind. 5. SEX IS FOR PROCREATION We must say this again, especially for the unmarried. Engaging in sex will make you a Daddy, even when you are not ready, capable or settle down to be responsible. The same goes for ladies that aren't married but dance around sex. Sex can make you pregnant and if you are pregnant, you would carry the pregnancy for 9 months. If you are not prepared to be taken off the scene for 9 months and it happens it could be a very bad period for you. The fear of the baby not being accepted by the boy who's responsible for it, the thought of missing out in your education, the thought of being thrown out by your family, the thought of being stigmatized as a baby mama could be too much for you to start a life with. 6. SEX COULD GET YOU INFECTED This is what having unprotected sex could cost you. Married people aren't exempted from this. Engaging in indiscriminate sex by any party is always costly; either you are married or single. STD's like gonorrhea, Hiv/Aids etc are not respecters if anybody, if you don't respect yourself. If you are too big to protect yourself, you won't be too big to be infected. If you are too big to head this advice, you won't be too big to bear the pain and the shame. 7. SEX IS SPIRITUAL Sex is spiritual and that's why God frowns at it if found in wrong hands. Sex is not to be toyed or joked with. Sex is sacred and therefore, must be kept as such. Sex makes two hearts tie together without physically tying it together. Sex, because it is spiritual, it is a covenant between two married people. I hope we can now see why it is best practiced by the married. Sex is God ordained. It is God approved. It is God's plan. These are 7 very important thing you must know before you engage in sexual act. |
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Masturbation according to Dictionary, is a manual exotic stimulation of the genitals or other erotic regions, often to orgasm, either by oneself or a partner. Considering a lot of negative effects masturbation has on person's health, personality, mental fairness, sexuality and affairs, it is believed to be a bad influence on anybody engaging in this activity also known or called self servicing. The unfortunate thing about this vain activity is that married people also do it. While some people erroneously believe that masturbation is only engaged in by singles. Not even the availability of a man's wife or a woman's husband has been able to stop the married people that engage in this activity from doing it. This is surprising, but it is true. Which simply means, masturbation isn't only caused by a lack of sex or being unmarried. While we can't categorically say is if singles go into masturbation than the married, but there are views that both single girls and boys do self servicing too. Some people masturbate for fun, pleasure, for reasons unknown to them, some for sexual satisfaction and some for relieve etc What Are The Signs You Are Slipping Into Masturbation 1. Are you always in solitary? If you are always by yourself, you don't mix up or go out to catch fresh air with friends, family or visit recreational centers, the possibility of being tempted to play with your genital is high. While this does not necessarily mean being by oneself all the time can cause one to go into masturbation, it is believed it has high tendency of leading one into this act of self servicing if it's becoming too much. Too much of everything is bad, as they say, we therefore advise that no one should put himself or herself in solitary for too long of a time, no matter what the reasons for this decision might be. Try going out, learn new thing, do new thing, meet new people. It makes life more meaningful. 2. Are you always idle? People say idle hand is a devil's workshop. Some people say it's idle mind that's devil's workshop. Looking closely at the two explanations about being idle one can say that, it is true that devil and his thought can over shadow anyone who is idle. If you aren't actively busy or intentionally productive, what are you going to be doing? If whatever you are doing is not tasking enough to involve using your brain and mental alertness that will eventually lead to productivity we can say you are idle. And being idle can lead you into masturbation. You can now sense it yourself if you would be going into masturbation soon, when you notice your idleness. The fact that you are playing video games with friends or even alone doesn't amount to not being idle. You can be gossiping with friends because you are idle. Can you now see what it means to be idle? You must be productive in your activities before you can be qualified for being gainfully engaged. Otherwise, you are idle. 3. Are you exposed to pornography? This is one other thing that drags people into masturbation and in turn destroy many married men sexual life. Being exposed to pornography will drag you into self servicing unless you trash the pictures right away. One time or the other one or two of us have seen pornography pictures or even kept the videos on our computer or phones before, the research has shown. But that still doesn't make pornography a good thing. It has a lot of negative effects, one of it is masturbation. You can get out of masturbation, you can bring yourself back from going deeper into it or even stop yourself from slipping into it all if you observe to do the suggestions here in this write-up. The more reason why it is bad to go into masturbation is that it's always difficult to stop once you start. |
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Out of many reasons why people make the kind of choice of partner they make in relationships, height considerations can't be undermined. There is no doubt there are other factors that men, in this case, consider before deciding on going for a particular woman, yet each person's decisions defer based on the quality of importance they place on each factors of consideration Factors like genotype, blood group, family background, tribes, nationality, stature and complexion are some of the heard of among people's options. Height, as it sounds is a measurement of how tall a person or thing is. It's the distance from the base of something to the top of it. Height is a condition, especially in human being. It's either one is tall or short, it's the condition of the person and it's a determinant in some life choices like professions or marital. In this situation, we are looking at height's relevance in the choice of person's life partner, men's choice especially. 5 REASONS WHY TALL LADIES ARE THE MOST SOUGHT AFTER 1. Because of his height A man can decide he prefers a tall lady base on his own height condition. If a guy is tall he may want a tall lady as well to match up with in height. And if a man is short, he might still prefer a tall lady to complement for his height condition. Observations have shown that very tall men are somehow difficult for short women to deal with. Having had to raise up their heads while talking to the men or during kiss, which some of them said is like a big task, might be something these set of women don't want to put up with for the rest of their life. Some women, who aren't so much favoured in heights also said the height of tall men are scary at some time. They claimed it made them looked like they were inferior to such men and it could affect the man's attitude towards them. If this is a situation of a man, he might not have choice than to opt in for a tall woman even if he didn't want to discriminate initially. So a man's height can form a part of the choice of his partner's height. 2. Because of their offsprings Unlike some women's thought, men are also concerned about their children's look. Men don't mind even if their female children look after them, especially their boys. This is to show that some men are also conscious of the height condition of their children. That's why they decide they don't want anything short of their expectations. I don't have have any scientific back up to why marrying a tall lady could translate to having tall children but experiences have shown that this is one of the reasons why men make this decision another factor to consider in their choice of their woman. 3. For beauty purpose Among men, tall women are normally addressed as being "straight" When you hear "That girl is straight", they mean the girl is tall and beautiful. Tall girls long legs make them stand upright like horse. Honestly speaking, tall girls' beauty is the main reason some men go for the tall ones among women. If you think it's not worth it to marry a lady for her physical beauty, when it's your turn to choose you can do otherwise. The choice is yours. I know everybody wants a good thing. It's just that those things are vary. Some want good house, some good car, some good job and so on. But those who want good and tall women, am sure won't leave a stone unturned until they have them. Tall women are beautiful. Short women too are beautiful and they are some men's special preference. After all, as they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 4. Professional reasons Some men prefer tall women for their chances in some professions. Tall women have higher chances in professions like force, modeling, swimming, basket ball and volley ball game. These reasons aren't selfish in its entirety, especially if the man has some influence in any of the above professions and he wants his woman to belong there. Life will be a lot easier when you don't have to be looking for where your woman fits in after marriage. While some men purposely visit centers for sports in the area of some of the Sports mentioned here. Some visit fashion outfits, where models are always available. The men come around for their choice of women. It is what it is. What is worth doing at all is worth doing well. There is no reason that's not enough to do what you want to do when you want to do it. 5. Lack of special preference Anyway, some men opt in for tall women for lack of special preference. Some men don't care about all that we've been taking about here. Whether tall or short whoever is available is okay for some men, they don't have preference. We are all not wired alike. Some men are just indifferent to some things that some people attach importance to. The same way some men can't understand why there are men who don't enjoy watching football match, is the same way some women don't understand women who keeps low cut hair style. Different strokes for different folks. This is to say not every man that's married to a tall woman does so for any of the reasons listed here. But despite this, you would agree with me that the number of men that prefer tall women out numbered those who do otherwise. Disclaimer: This post is not to slam ladies who are not so much favoured with height. This is supposed to an educative article and that's all. DON'T FORGET TO PARTICIPATE TODAY IN OUR MONTHLY RECHARGE CARDS GIVEAWAY on www.olulinks.com |
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